Date Yourself Instead

You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.

How to heal from a heartbreak (you deserve better and so do I)

It's time to end the toxic cycles. In this episode, I cover everything I know about going through heartbreak - and what I've learned over the years on how to recover quickly and how to move on. As I reflect back over the last two weeks, I feel like the rug had been ripped out from under me and at first I couldn't understand why...but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason - and the universe always remove someone or something in order to REPLACE IT with something better. Although I spoke highly of this person out of respect, after recording this episode and taking a step back, I recognize that I was mostly definitely love bombed, and no one should have to go through that. JOIN DARE TO DETACH - DOORS CLOSE SOON FOR THE FALL SEASON.

09-02
48:15

Your reminder to stop settling in your dating life and to love yourself first.

In full transparency, I recorded this episode back in July when I was still dating someone who I thought could be someone significant in my life. Although that relationship has recently ended, I still wanted to share this episode because everything I'm saying still holds the same truth to it - which is your reminder to never settle for basic behaviors in relationships. To experience someone who makes a genuine effort to see you, to spend time with you, and to focus on you - is what everyone deserves. I LOVE YOU ALL and I'm so so grateful for this community. JOIN DARE TO DETACH HERE. USE discount code detach at checkout for 30% off :) This is the last week to access the masterclass as new programs will be coming out in later this fall.

08-25
31:23

Work on yourself until they're not your type [REVISIT] - how to level up 100x and own your power

[REVISIT] WORK ON YOURSELF SO much until they're not your type anymore. This week I'm resharing an episode from last summer as it's one of the greatest reminders to really own your power and remember your worth when it comes to dating someone. We often tend to lose ourselves in the thick of emotions when we really like or love someone, and this episode covers how to truly work on yourself in order to level up past a relationship that isn't right for you.

08-18
25:06

How to shift into a brand NEW REALITY. You deserve true love, abundance, and miracles.

Open your heart and your mind to a brand new reality. You deserve unconditional love and abundance. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH DOORS ARE OPEN FOR AUGUST. I love you all so much x

08-12
37:48

How to DATE YOURSELF, love yourself, value yourself, and KNOW YOUR WORTH.

Dating yourself is the VIBE. It's the mood. It's everything. Dating yourself means knowing your worth. Dating yourself means YOU get to decide what and who makes you feel good. You get to choose what works for YOU. Feel free to dm me if you loved this episode, @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Doors open August 11th!

08-05
49:10

My worst dating story times EVER in New York City - part 2

New York City dating is WILD. In today's episode, I'm giving you alllll the tea on my past dating stories and the crazy experiences I've had. If you loved this episode, dm me @dateyourselfinstead or @lyss. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS OPEN AUGUST 19TH FOR THE FALL.

07-29
38:54

How to become MAGNETIC and HARNESS YOUR POWER (become unstoppable)

Shifting your energy and focusing on YOU instead of on external factors, you become so magnetic and powerful. Stop telling everyone your dreams and goals, keep it to yourself and HARNESS YOUR POWER AND ENERGY. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS - DARE TO DETACH Join the waitlist - doors open in August. Super excited to have you! x If you're loving the podcast, always dm me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead @lyss. Love you.

07-22
52:19

This is YOUR life - NO ONE ELSE'S. YOU make the rules. LIVE YOUR TRUTH.

Who is stopping you from living your best life? This episode is your wake up call to live your life FOR YOU, and no one else. YOU get to create your reality. You make the rules. Step into your power. Live and speak your truth. Move forward in confidence. If you loved this episode, dm me @dateyourselfinstead or @lyss. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Doors open in August.

07-14
45:54

How to stop placing them on a pedestal

Stop giving someone else so much power and putting them on a grand pedestal. You're fucking great, act like it.

07-07
31:35

Why solo travel will change your life forever

Solo travel is such a life changing experience, and one of the most popular questions I get asked is, WHY do you travel alone and how? So, on today's episode, I wanted to dive into this topic of traveling on my own, what it means to me, the value in traveling independently and the lessons I've learned along the way. If you loved this episode, always feel free to message me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead and share it with a friend.

06-30
33:22

Love yourself enough to leave - stop abandoning yourself pls

Love yourself enough to leave. If it's not right for you and you know it, it's time to walk away. If this title resonates, I know this episode was made for you. I made this for the people who are scared to let go. If you continue to grasp at potential and it's taking away from your self love, YOU ARE ABANDONING YOURSELF. You deserve more out of love and life xx. If you loved this episode, be sure to dm me @lyss @dateyourselfinstead and share with a friend. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS ARE STILL OPEN FOR THE MONTH OF JUNE

06-24
36:20

10 things I'm letting go of this summer (AND FOREVER)

Summer is the perfect season to DETACH, LET GO AND CLEAN UP your life. It's a total reset for me, personally. Some things I'm letting go of include... Self doubt Negative self talk in my head Anyone who makes me feel afraid to be myself The fear of embarrassing myself (whoops) Procrastination Worrying about other people's opinions AND MORE. JOIN THE MASTERCLASS - DARE TO DETACH Doors are still open for the month of June! Use code "FREEDOM30" for a special 30% off discount when you join.

06-17
41:24

GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT (Taking a leap of faith into the unknown)

This episode is all about going after your purpose and your passion and not being afraid to take a leap of faith when it comes to your future. If you know you’re meant for something greater, why not go after it? If you loved this episode, always dm me @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS ARE OPEN NOW AND WILL CLOSE SOON - USE CODE "FREEDOM30" for a special discount 30% off.

06-10
29:30

HOW TO HAVE A MAJOR GLOWUP POST BREAKUP

IT'S TIME TO SHINE BABY. It's time to heal and GLOW from the inside out. JOIN DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS OPEN JUNE 5, 2024. Can't wait to see you there.

06-03
42:42

IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER (Protect your peace and energy)

I'M BACK IN NYC! IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER. In this episode, I cover a variety of questions around dating and relationships. Most of the questions are focused around self-love and learning how to protect your peace and energy while navigating the dating world. As always, if you loved this episode, rate on Apple and Spotify and send me a message @lyss. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH DOORS OPEN JUNE 5TH!

05-27
32:30

THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE (Step by step tutorial)

In this episode - I cover a WILD Bali dating story time that ultimately made me realize how much healing I have left to do and how I need to take this trip as a true opportunity to focus on myself! I also talk about all the steps I take to help my manifestations come to fruition, and I explain why manifesting your dream life is never too late. Keep in mind l'm 31 years old and I feel like my life is just beginning! So no matter what age you're at - you are capable of creating your dream reality through the power of your mind. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Doors open IN JUNE, be sure to sign up for the waitlist to reserve your spot in the class for SUMMER.

05-20
39:45

IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE, LET THEM GO (Why love is freedom + The POWER of divine timing) - lessons from Bali

Hello from Bali! In this episode, I cover why trusting your intuition and trust in your higher self is always the best way to go when exploring a relationship that keeps you feeling stuck. I also dive into this concept of what true love really means to me and why excepting someone for who they are is the definition of love to me. I also explore the concept of freedom and how freedom ties into true, authentic love. I love you, as always, if you feel called to send me a message on Instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead, I'm always here. x JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH Use code "selflove" for a discount, I'd love to have you. We have an amazing community focused on self love, empowerment and detaching from toxic relationships.

05-12
42:16

How to detach and let go of the outcome in relationships

The only episode on detachment you'll ever need to understand HOW and what it really means to let go. In this episode I dive into this concept of truly detaching from any situation in order to heal and evolve into your higher self. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS USE CODE "MANIFEST" FOR A SPECIAL DISCOUNT. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead or @lyss.

05-05
26:51

How to manifest 100x faster - LIVING IN THE END

JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH DOORS OPEN MAY 1, 2024. TAP HERE TO JOIN. The Dare to Detach masterclass is all about letting go of the outcome, detaching, and stepping into this version of you that you KNOW you're supposed to be. It's time to manifest anything you want as well as let go of the bullshit in your life holding you back. Let's do this. You can use code "manifest" for 20% off the course.

04-29
32:51

What to do when they act distant, pull away or breakup with you

If you are in a situation right now where you feel like someone is acting distant, avoidant, or they are breaking up with you...or have broken up with you...this episode is for you. <3 Ready to uplevel, detach and change your entire life? If you're ready to fully let go and step into your power and reclaim your life, my masterclass is meant for you. It's designed to rewire your mind in just 4 DAYS. See all of the testimonials at the link below. DOORS OPEN MAY 1, 2024. JOIN MY MASTERCLASS DARE TO DETACH

04-22
38:10

Mona Peterson

I absolutely love the perspective shared on 'Date Yourself Instead'! The emphasis on self-love and personal growth before seeking relationships is refreshing and empowering. https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/d89b3430-786b-49d8-b67b-07626a2f0a71/episodes/112dd24e-21ca-43e8-9887-f741e761d050/medical-billing-solutions-the-ultimate-guide-to-medical-billing-services

08-03 Reply

조안Joan

Thank you :)

06-29 Reply

Chemical Bull

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06-04 Reply

Daniel Clark

I have a better solution. Surrender your lives to Jesus Christ and he will change your lives. You will love what he loves and hate what he hates. All of these self love approaches will seem silly. Love Jesus first and he will provide the answers.

04-22 Reply

so so

i had a 6 month long distance relationship. 2 different countries. he said let's meet each other in between, which is turkey, but i wasn't in a good situation to travel there & asked him to come to my country. to make the story short, he refused & I was thinking if he wanted, he would travel. but at the same time, he can say the same shit about me. if I wanted, i would do it, but no one paid attention that I wanted but couldn't...

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