Send us a textDo you feel stuck in your dating life, like nothing is going the way you hoped? In this episode, I talk about how your mindset shapes your dating experience and why shifting your thoughts can make a huge difference.We’ll cover the common mindset mistakes women make and I’ll show you how changing the way you think about dating can help you attract better men, enjoy the process, and feel more confident along the way.If you want to stop feeling frustrated and start having fun ...
Send us a textAs the new year gets closer, it’s time to look back on your dating life in 2024 and think about what you want in 2025. In this episode, I’ll help you reflect on your wins, lessons, and the vision you want to create for your love life.We’ll talk about how to define what “dating deliciously” means for you, what skills can make dating feel easier, and how to get the support you need to enjoy the process. This episode will guide you toward making dating more fun, aligned, ...
Send us a textI want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires. Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating.These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces. Sounds unrealistic?Think again. It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of life and be loved in this kind of way. All you have to do is Teach Men How to Win with You I...
Send us a textDoes dating feel like one more thing on your already packed to-do list? As a high-achieving woman, you have enough responsibilities without adding the stress of doing all the work in your relationships. But what if dating could feel fun and easy again?In this episode, I share how to shift the dynamic so men step up and support you. You’ll hear about five key areas where you can ask for help, making your life lighter while building deeper connections. I’ll also exp...
Send us a textDo you feel like you’re always settling in your love life? Maybe the men you date seem great at first, but they never step up in the way you need them to. You might even wonder if you’re asking for too much…or if the kind of relationship you want is even possible.In this episode, I break down exactly how to stop settling and start getting what you want in dating. We’ll talk about why it’s hard to figure out what you really desire, how to align your actions with your standar...
Send us a textYou got questions, I have answers. Tune into this week’s episode to dive into some Q&A where I cover insightful topics like how to get over your ex, knowing how to build a rotation of men, how to stop being afraid to get back out in the dating world , and how to attract men who cater to you. We also talk about how to post the best pics for your dating profile….and more!In 1:1 Coaching, I help you attract quality men who serve and support you. Work with me to d...
Send us a textIf weight gain has left you feeling self-conscious about dating, this episode is for you. Whether you've gained a few pounds over the years or have struggled with body image your whole life, I’m sharing a way to feel confident and attract quality men just as you are—while also helping you reach those weight goals.In this episode, you’ll discover why waiting to lose weight hurts you and how practicing Full-Body Visibility can change how you feel about yourself—and how others...
Send us a textMost women feel like they’ve found “the one” as soon as a man starts treating them well.But what if just being supportive and loving isn’t enough? In this episode, I share why being well-loved is just the starting point—and why it takes so much more to qualify for a serious relationship with me.I’ll walk you through my personal vetting process, from spotting core values to seeing how a man handles stress. This isn’t about making men jump through hoops; it’s about makin...
Send us a textMost dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved. But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached.In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about. Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both passionate and se...
Send us a textDo you feel invisible in public, like men never notice you? Or maybe you do get approached, but it’s never by the men you’re actually interested in?In this episode, I dive into why that happens and how to change it by using Pleasure Presence—a practice that helps you become magnetic to men without having to compete for attention.I explain why high-achieving women of faith often stay in their heads, always thinking and planning, but rarely dropping into their bodies. If you ...
Send us a textDo your conversations with men often start strong but fizzle out over time? Do you experience ghosting, men telling you you’re "wifey material" but never making you their wife, or men pulling away fast after pursuing you intensely? If any of these sound familiar, this episode is for you.In this episode, I break down why mastering emotional connection is essential if you want to move into a healthy relationship with a man who’s crazy about you.I’ll walk you through why ...
Send us a textI love auditing my love life because it always leads me to uncover systems or patterns in my behavior that give me dating success —patterns that I can teach.In this episode, I’m sharing how my Feminine Positioning Process added an incredible man to my rotation (and others).This process wasn’t something I initially realized I was doing, but once I started noticing it, I saw how it was helping me meet high-quality men I’ll share exactly how this process led me to connect with...
Send us a textIf you’re a High-Achieving Woman of Faith balancing a career, personal commitments, and maybe even kids, you deserve to date men who add to your life, not drain it.Right now, dating might feel like just one more thing on your already full plate—leaving you feeling pressured instead of supported. But it doesn’t have to be that way.You need to set the standard early on by clearly asking for the support you deserve.In this episode, I’m breaking down a simple 3-step process to help ...
Send us a textTired of going on great dates and never hearing from the men again?He compliments you, tells you how much fun he’s having, and it feels like everything is clicking.Then, just like that—nothing. No text, no follow-up call, nothing. So you reach out…and there’s no responseIf this keeps happening to you, you can break the cycle. Listen in as I share with you exactly how to vet men so that you can avoid constant ghosting, before you ever go on a date with them. I...
Send us a textIf you are a High-achieving, Woman of Faith who is financially successful, you have every right to date a man who is also successful with money. Society and mainstream religion often pushes the idea that love should be about more than money, and you might hear things like: “It’s shallow to focus on money. You should care more about how a man treats you.” Or “Focus on finding a godly man who makes you happy, not just someone with money”But here's the tru...
Send us a textI’m an introvert who runs a multiple six-figure coaching business, takes 4-6 pole dance classes per week, and I still had the capacity to go on 10 dates last month.It’s not because I’m special—it’s because I have systems in my love life that support me and make dating easy, fun, and manageable.Tune into this episode as I take you behind the scenes of my love life to show you how I balance a busy schedule, prioritize myself, and still find time to meet quality men.I’ll share the ...
Send us a text“Good girl” conditioning is a big reason why Women of Faith struggle to attract quality men.Our need to be nice, perfect, and always please others makes us ignore our own needs, stay quiet, and settle for less. This often attracts men who don’t respect us or take advantage of our kindness, instead of men who value and appreciate us.But when we become the S.U.N of our love life solar system…all that changes. Join me for the 4th and last episode in the “Good Girl Gone Ro...
Send us a textWhen I got married, I stopped trusting myself.Because of the “good girl” culture that society and religion promote, I was conditioned to trust my husband’s thoughts and opinions over my own, all in the name of submission.It wasn’t until I decided to start trusting myself again and put my needs first that I realized how much damage losing my voice had caused to my health, my business, and my marriage.Join me for the third episode in the “Good Girl Gone Rouge” series where I share...
Send us a textLast week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones……and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.If you’re a Woman ...
Send us a text“Good girls” finish last. And here’s the truth: all that effort it takes to be a “good girl” as a Woman of Faith tends to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones……and it ends up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.If you’re a Woman of Faith who’s tired of feeling like you have to be “good” just to be loved—and you’re still getting passed...
Tinika Colclough
Love this episode! ❤️
Erica Williams
This advice is much needed in this world. I am so enjoying listening to your advice and will definitely be sharing with the women I know.
Smiling Kiz
I love all these gems that Torah is sharing. I have always enjoyed her on Clubhouse and social media, and the new podcasts are just as great! Thank you, Torah, for all of your wisdom. I am finding success with the strategies that you teach!
Simona Foster
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Blu Affinity
This podcast is rich with wisdom and insight. Torah takes time to break the information down to make it chewable for the listener! This is a great addition to her other resources. Take a listen you will not be disappointed!