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Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.
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Send episode requests here I hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that. If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough. I'm sharing the conversation that made me realize I was "undercoached," why I invested $24,000 to level up my skills, and how focu...
Send episode requests here If you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle. I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start showing up in your life. You'll learn how to stop hoping for different results while doing the same ...
Send episode requests here If you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting. In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming keeps you stuck with men who don't value you, and my S.T.A.N.D. framework that stops you from betraying yourself in real ...
Send episode requests here Broke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide. If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely. I'm sharing the real reason your success mindset is working against you in dating and my five Provider P...
Send episode requests here My ex came back (Latin Papi) In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I'm handling this situation, including my five-step repair plan that lets me enjoy what works between us while protecting my peace. You'll learn the difference between repair and reconciliation, why trusting patterns over promises keeps you out of fantasy, and how the right boundaries actually give you more freedom instead of less. I'm sharing the blueprint for handling any ex who trie...
Send episode requests here At 40 years old, Dr. Courtney had been single most of her life, hadn't dated anyone in six months, and was drowning in dissertation anxiety while dealing with a nightmare tenant situation. Fast forward just five months later and she's now Dr. Douglas with multiple quality men traveling hours just to take her on dates, including one who performed magic tricks for her during an 11-hour first date. In this episode, she shares her complete transformation from some...
Send episode requests here You got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to handle men who repeat the same annoying mistakes, what to do when your ex comes back wanting another chance, how to communicate your needs without becoming passive, and how to know if your walkaway power is too strong. We also talk about managing expectations when dating feels too good to be true, entering new relationships when your life feels m...
Send episode requests here You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone. Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you bu...
Send episode requests here You're getting attention, good morning texts, and flirty conversations—but he never actually asks you out, and you're sitting there wondering what the hell happened. You know he's attracted to you. The conversation flows. He seems interested. But weeks go by and you're still just texting while he never makes real plans. You're confused why he acts like he wants you but won't actually do anything about it. I'm breaking down the three real reasons why men who seem int...
Send episode requests here You know you're a catch, you show up looking good, but you want quality men to feel more excited about approaching you…and it's simpler than you think. The secret isn't changing how you look or where you go. It's three powerful energy shifts that make you magnetic to approach instead of just beautiful to admire. When you master these, quality men will feel drawn to connect with you because your energy says "I'm worth the risk." I'm sharing the exact shifts that tran...
Send episode requests here If you want multiple quality men pursuing you but you're only meeting one decent guy every few months (if that), the problem isn't your city or the men in your area—it's your strategy. Most successful women treat dating like a separate project they need to carve extra time for, but that approach keeps your roster empty and your options limited. There's a better way to build a quality roster without adding stress to your already full life. I'll share the exact strate...
Send episode requests here You say you want a relationship, you're putting yourself out there, and you believe you're ready….but quality men aren't approaching you or staying interested. The problem isn't what you think it is. In this episode, I reveal the three invisible barriers that keep women stuck in a cycle of dating disappointment, even when they're "doing everything right." These blocks are so subtle that most women don't even realize they're creating them…but once you see them, every...
Send episode requests here When Danelle started working with me just months after her divorce, she was guarded and would shut men out. She desperately wanted love but was too scared to show her real personality. In this episode, you'll hear how she went from being afraid to open up to having amazing dates and deep connections. You'll discover how she learned to set boundaries without pushing men away and why fixing her dating life also improved her business and relationship with her son. Inte...
Send episode requests here My relationship with Latin Papi ended abruptly after a few years of dating, I had a choice: collapse or confront it with complete honesty. I chose the path that would transform my heartbreak into healing…and I'm sharing every raw detail with you. In this deeply personal episode, I'm taking you behind the scenes of my recent breakup and showing you what conscious healing looks like in real time. You'll hear about the night it happened, the messy days that followed, a...
Send episode requests here When Amanda got divorced at 50 after 21 years of marriage, dating felt overwhelming and exhausting. She'd deleted dating apps for six months because it felt like "too much work" and wasn't filling her bucket. In this episode, Amanda shares her real transformation story after five months of working together. She went from people-pleasing and avoiding difficult conversations to confidently dating multiple men and describing her love life as "fruitful, fresh, and fun."...
Send episode requests here If you find yourself often find yourself drained and disappointed with men Or that men keep leaving you feeling foolish and that he just wasted your time… It’s a good chance that you might be a woman who is easily impressed. Because an easily impressed woman almost always ends up somebody’s fool. In today’s episode, learn what it means to be an easily impressed woman, why it’s causing you so much suffering and how to break from this behavior if you are...
Send episode requests here When I left my marriage years ago, I didn't know what my life would look like. I didn't trust myself, I was confused on how to take up space with my new status, and couldn't see the powerful woman I would become. In this special birthday episode, I invite you into a vulnerable conversation with my friend and life coach, Catherine Navarro, who has supported my transformation behind the scenes. For those who compliment my powerful presence, strong boundari...
Send episode requests here I've been dating two incredible men for months. They're consistent, thoughtful, supportive, and make my life better in tangible ways—yet I've decided not to go exclusive with either of them, even though I originally planned to choose by May. It's not that these men aren't good enough—they're wonderful—but I've realized that just because something is good doesn't mean it's right for where I'm going. In this episode, I walk you through what it looks like to make...
Send episode requests here That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love. If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes. In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's...
Send episode requests here I attended a business conference this weekend where one of my long-time business heroes was speaking—someone whose career I've admired for years. While everyone else focused on her business strategies, I was captivated by her personal transformation. After her divorce, she took an approach to dating that completely contradicted what most women do. In this episode, I'll share the surprising conversation we had about how she intentionally created space for new love wh...
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This episode was everything 🙌🏽
Love this episode! ❤️
This advice is much needed in this world. I am so enjoying listening to your advice and will definitely be sharing with the women I know.
I love all these gems that Torah is sharing. I have always enjoyed her on Clubhouse and social media, and the new podcasts are just as great! Thank you, Torah, for all of your wisdom. I am finding success with the strategies that you teach!
Ohhhh YES! TORAH THIS IZ IT!!🙌🏿
This podcast is rich with wisdom and insight. Torah takes time to break the information down to make it chewable for the listener! This is a great addition to her other resources. Take a listen you will not be disappointed!
Absolutely Love this Podcast. I've learned so much and inspired to put into practice!!! Thank you Torah!!!
Torah!!!!! I'm throwing my shoe at you!!!! Thank you for this wonderful Valentine's Day gift of understanding what makes up a quality man!!!! Love your Podcast!!!
Great Tips..I really need needed this jewel! Will save as a favorite so that I can put into practice!
Torah is an answer to a prayer. Growing up in a Christian home did not necessarily prepare me for dating in a healthy way. Torah provides healthy, practical and successful strategies to date and surround yourself with healthy people. Church women are often groomed to help broken men and not necessarily a healthy legacy partner. This is not when the best part of her program, she truly is annointed to facilitate a complete transformation into your best and healthy self. Concepts such as how we ( Christian) women objectify men, collecting data for vetting and the importance of the B.O.M.B. experience. I feel delivered!!! I am do grateful for this work and the gift of Torah!!