Dating, Divorced, and Downright Weird

Dating, Divorced, and Downright Weird

While being single, staying single, navigating your divorce, or whatever the situation may be, we’ve got you. We certainly don’t have all the answers, but we want you to know, wherever you are, we’ve been there too. And you are not alone. This podcast exists to bring a little light and laughter among the shit show of divorce. Our mess is our message, and we’ve got a feeling you can relate.

Love, Fear, and Clinginess: Unpacking Attachment Styles in Relationships (Part 2)

In this episode, we’re joined by The Kings of Khaos to explore the complex world of attachment styles. From understanding the roots of love and fear to navigating clinginess in relationships, we break down how these dynamics affect our connections. With raw honesty and a touch of chaos, this conversation is packed with insights, humor, and tips for building healthier bonds. Don’t miss it!You can reach Adam & Al:Podcast: The Kings of KhaosInstagram: @the.kings.of.khoas.podcast Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

01-22
39:04

Love, Fear, and Clinginess: Unpacking Attachment Styles in Relationships (Part 1)

In this episode, we’re joined by The Kings of Khaos to explore the complex world of attachment styles. From understanding the roots of love and fear to navigating clinginess in relationships, we break down how these dynamics affect our connections. With raw honesty and a touch of chaos, this conversation is packed with insights, humor, and tips for building healthier bonds. Don’t miss it!You can reach Adam & Al:Podcast: The Kings of KhaosInstagram: @the.kings.of.khoas.podcast Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

01-22
39:03

Rewiring the Mind: How EMDR Transforms Trauma in Adulthood (Part 2)

In this enlightening two-part episode, we sit down with Dawn, a licensed therapist and EMDR specialist, to explore the transformative power of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy in trauma healing. Dawn shares her expertise on how EMDR works, breaking down the science behind it and why it has become a go-to approach for trauma recovery.You can reach Dawn:Podcast: Dear Divorced DiaryGo to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

01-15
24:44

Rewiring the Mind: How EMDR Transforms Trauma in Adulthood (Part 1)

In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Dawn, a licensed therapist and EMDR specialist, to explore the transformative power of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy in trauma healing. Dawn shares her expertise on how EMDR works, breaking down the science behind it and why it has become a go-to approach for trauma recovery.You can reach Dawn:Podcast: Dear Divorced DiaryGo to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

01-15
31:59

Toxic Ties and Tragic Loss: Navigating Grief While Dealing with a Narcissist (Part 2)

In this two-part episode, Anna opens up about the profound pain of losing a child and the challenges of navigating grief. She also shares her journey of being married to a narcissist, offering insight into the unique struggles and setbacks that come with that experience. Tune in for a raw, honest conversation about resilience, healing, and personal growth.

01-08
37:42

Toxic Ties and Tragic Loss: Navigating Grief While Dealing with a Narcissist (Part 1)

In this two-part episode, Anna opens up about the profound pain of losing a child and the challenges of navigating grief. She also shares her journey of being married to a narcissist, offering insight into the unique struggles and setbacks that come with that experience. Tune in for a raw, honest conversation about resilience, healing, and personal growth.

01-08
32:22

Scars and Stories: The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Love and Life

In this episode, we explore how our childhood experiences shape our adult relationships. Our guest, Cicone Prince, author of H.E.A.L., dives into the critical process of healing our inner child and why it’s essential for building healthier connections as adults. Tune in for valuable insights on healing past wounds to transform your future relationships.You can reach Cicone here:http://ciconeprince.com/heal/Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

01-01
35:31

Inside Out: Building Self-Love Through Boundaries, Goals, and Inner Work

In today’s episode, Leann Kanzler, a break-up coach, joins us, and shares her unique approach to building self-love. Leann offers fresh insights based on her personal experiences and coaching expertise, guiding us through healing and self-empowerment. Tune in for a new perspective on nurturing yourself after a tough chapter.Reach Leanne and her practice here:https://leannekanzler.com/Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

12-25
38:02

Follow Your Dreams Not Your Boyfriend

The podcast welcomes 2 new guests! Blair and Deyna are two early twenty-somethings trying to navigate the dating pool in today's world. The girls discuss their dating lives, future plans, and current dreams. This episode gives a different perspective on the times the girls are currently living and dating in today.Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

06-14
36:33

Let's Talk About Sex 2.0

Let’s talk about sex! Again! Sex and Family therapist Karisa returns to the podcast. This episode explains the sexual differences between men and women, communication styles, and so much more. It is a candid and open discussion about sex. Anyone with sex questions or curiosity should listen to this episode. Reach Karisa and her practice here:https://www.iloveusintimacy.com/meet-karisaGo to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

06-14
50:35

Divorce is a Legal Process

In today’s episode, we sit down with Angela. She is a divorce and family law attorney. Angela talks about the legal processes and rules that come with divorce. There are many layers to divorce and a lot comes with it. Divorce is never all the same, but there are ways to prepare yourself. Angela breaks it all down from start to finish. Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

06-14
58:47

Divorce is an Emotional Process

Typically, Divorce causes many major life changes. Leanna Kanzler is here to walk you through it all. Leanne Kanzler is a psychologist based in Sydney, Australia. In this episode, she explains the emotional ups and downs of divorce. Leanne is here to help cover and explain all the psychological stages that can come with divorce. Most importantly, she discusses how to reflect, emotionally cope, and move forward. Reach Leanne and her practice here:https://leannekanzler.com/Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

06-14
46:14

Maintaining and Creating Conscious Relationships

This episode welcomes Stephanie from Restorative Connections! Stephanie takes a holistic healing approach as a professional counselor. This episode is all about maintaining and generating healthy conscious relationships. Stephanie goes through the steps of mindfulness and intention. She dives into the personal growth and experiences an individual faces in conscious relationships.The links below provide more about Stephanie and her practice:https://www.restorative-connections.org/https://www.instagram.com/restorative_connections/Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at-home test kit.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with your ideal therapist who will listen and help. #sponsored

06-14
38:15

SoE: Become A Better Lover

Let’s talk about sex! No really, we’re going to talk about sex with renowned sex, relationship, and family therapist Karisa Kaye. There is so much to learn from this absolute expert. From teaching men to be better lovers, to understanding the importance of foreplay, we are going to have a frank and direct conversation about sex. Keep that in mind when deciding where to listen to this episode. This episode is a must-listen for anybody and everybody who has questions about sex, and we all do.You can find out more about Karisa, her practice, and helpful resources at https://www.iloveusintimacy.com/ or you can follow her on Facebook or Instagram @ILURelationships.Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsoredGo to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kit

11-03
01:00:30

SoE: Don't Avoid The Hard Conversations

This episode welcome’s our first international expert. Leanne Kanzler is a psychologist in Sydney, Australia. She specializes in break-ups, which means she’s right up our alley. Leanne shares some knowledge and perspective on ghosting. We know it, we hate it, we may have even done it. But Leanne is going to break down why ghosting happens, the effects it has on both the ghoster and the ghostee, and how to bounce back once it happens. You won’t want to unexpectedly walk away from this episode without telling anyone.To see Leanne’s TED Talk, referenced in the episode, The Time Is Now To Listen To Men, check out https://leannekanzler.com/featured-videos/. You’ll be able to connect with Leanne and her other services there too.Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kitGo to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored

10-27
35:28

SoE: Watch The Spending Patterns

Likely the most prevalent reason for divorce is money. Struggles with money are common for everyone. So when you mix the stress of a relationship with an already tough topic, it’s a recipe for disaster. Caroline is back to lay down some financial wisdom and help head off some of the financial pitfalls. She’ll discuss not only the financial considerations surrounding divorce and breakups, but how to head off some of the monetary struggles within relationships before they lead to calling things off. Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsoredGo to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kit

10-20
01:19:26

SoE: Don't Hold Onto Wrongs

When we think about divorce, it may be easy to overlook the spiritual aspects of what’s going on in your life. So often we turn to friends or books or even singles’ podcasts! Sometimes we are confronted with a faith community that will carry us through a tough time in our lives. Pastor Chris gives us that reminder that the spiritual aspects of our lives can inform how we handle relationship stress. Listen on for some solid advice that can be helpful for any person in relationship with other people. Which I guess is everyone, right?Go to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kitGo to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored

10-13
49:08

SoE: Counting on Legal Counsel

It’s finally here, a full season of expert advice. We have been digging into some stories from folks in the dating pool, mostly for at least the second time. But this season, we’re talking to experts who may have some advice for those of you facing divorce, or working through the process.We start with Emily, an attorney who has worked in family law for years. Did you ever wonder if you were legally covering all your bases when it came to your divorce. Emily has some simple tips, and sober-minded advice, to help navigate the maddening time that is the divorce process. Stay Weird!Go to https://betterhelp.com/DDDWeird for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsoredGo to our sponsor https://trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use the code DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kit

10-06
01:00:21

Downright Weird, Part 2

The last episode had a lot to wade through, so we’ve taken a quick breather to process. Natalie and Lacy are back to continue talking with Michelle about her own toxic relationship. In this episode, we talk a little more about how to get out of an abusive relationship. Which for many can be extremely difficult.If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, there are resources to help. As Lacy mentioned, from a landline, anywhere in the US, dial 211 to be connected to the United Way. They can help determine which of their various services best fit any situation.Lacie also suggests contacting your local district attorney’s office for legal help and local services.To help make sense of her situation, Michelle has been reading the book Why Does He Do That? She thought it may help others in similar situations. The podcast makes no money from sales of the book.Go to our sponsor, LetsGetChecked, at trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kit.Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode. Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off of your first month of therapy at BetterHelp.com/DDDWeird

02-14
58:27

Downright Weird, Part 1

After bringing so many guests on the podcast to talk about their single stories, it’s finally time for Michelle to come clean about her own. Michelle has brought good friends, and former guests, Lacy and Natatlie on the show to discuss what happened with her abusive relationship with her former fiance. This conversation will be the first part of two, discussing what went wrong, and how to look out for dangerous situations in your own life.If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, there are resources to help. From a landline, anywhere in the US, dial 211 to be connected to the United Way. They can help determine which of their various services best fit any situation.Lacy also suggests contacting your local district attorney’s office for legal help and local services.To help make sense of her situation, Michelle has been reading the book Why Does He Do That? She thought it may help others in similar situations. The podcast makes no money from sales of the book.Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode. Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off of your first month of therapy at BetterHelp.com/DDDWeirdGo to our sponsor, LetsGetChecked, at trylgc.com/DDDWeird and use DDDWEIRD25 for 25% off your at home test kit.

02-10
56:15

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