Dating & Marriage (DAM) Perspectives Podcast

Besties for a really long time…like a really long time, we both live two different lives. Amber is married with children while Karina is living the single life. We have seen each other go through a lot of relationship shenanigans, and over time, our perspectives, often opposing, have formed the way we pursued a life partner. We’ll talk about funny and not-so-fun dating and marriage life experiences. From our couch to yours, tune in every week for real talk, guests’ perspectives, and questions from fans.

Do You Sexually Punish and Reward Your Partner for the Bad and Good They Do?

Don't be surrised, but sex is used as a reward or a punshishment. Do you or have you used sex in the same way? Find out here. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

08-30
38:37

What’s Your Sexuality? Own It, Love It, Flaunt It

Human sexuality is the way people experience and express themselves. This involves biological, psychological, physical, erotic, emotional, social, or spiritual feelings and behaviors. In the words of Madonna, "Express yourself." Or better yet, Lizzo, "I get my hair toss, check my nails..."looking good as hell." How do you best express your sexuality? Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

08-23
34:28

What’s Your Longest Dry Spell?

As much as we would like to, we don’t have sex all the time. Could be based on what's happening for you at the time or you've purposely decided to be sexually inactive. What was a dry spell moment for you? What might be the benefit of going without sex for a while? Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

07-26
55:08

Rules of Dating, The Male Perspective: What is the 90-Day Rule?

90 day rule?! The male perspective on when to have sex. It's simple, category 1, category 2, category 3. Find out what he means. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

07-24
01:07:31

Rules of Dating: What is the 90-Day Rule?

What is the 90 day rule? Giving up the cookie and other benefits when she's seen what the guy brings to the table (i.e., act right, fellas). How long do you wait to have sex with a new partner?

07-12
30:44

Intimacy and Foreplay Are Different: Why They Matter for Women?

Being intimate and close without intercourse. Can you have a relationship without intimacy? Do you believe in foreplay? Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

07-05
42:16

Sex History: Do You Tell How Many Partners You’ve Had to Your Partner?

So your partner is asking about Your number? Tell the truth or tell a lie?! Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

06-28
33:39

Let’s Talk About Sex

Sex is a natural part of a relationship, and, for some, really important. So let's talk about sex.   Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

06-21
40:59

Trusting Your Gut Will Never Steer You Wrong in Relationships. Trust!

Women's intuition is the north star of just about every decision they make. How is it that we tend to ignore it in love and relationships? Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

06-07
33:13

What’s the Difference Between Old School and New School Dating?

Old school and new school dating and marriage, ARE they different? Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

05-31
41:21

Dating a Bad Boy and Being a Bad Girl are Good for the Soul

Bad boys! Gotta have 'em!! They can facilitate something exciting in us. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

05-24
43:43

What’s Up With Today’s Love Songs?! They Aren’t What They Used To

Songs send us messages about what love is and is not. A lot of songs are about bumpin’ and grindin’ and cheatin,’ while other songs are about love, commitment, hope, and patience, even social justice. What songs do you expose yourself to? How do songs today inform love? Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

05-17
39:03

Messages About Love Inform Our Relationships: What Are They?

We get love and relationship advice from the people in our life that we’ve applied or avoided in our own life. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

05-11
40:46

Texting or Calling: Establish Your Preference Early in Relationships

We can all agree that technology connects us in ways it has not before, but technology has also reduced us to be lazy, selective, and unresponsive to relationships. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

05-04
25:05

Lies We Were Told: DAMn You Cinderella and Snow White

Introduced to us at a young age are Disney movies, shaping our perceptions and expectations of what love and relationships are. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

04-27
39:09

The Good, the Bad, and the Muddocks of Online Dating

The good of dating, the bad of dating, and the mudducks, encountered. Wait? What is a mudduck. Find out here. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

04-19
46:58

What is Marriage and What is Dating for These Two Co Hosts

Get to know your hosts of DAM Perspectives and why we're doing the show. Follow us on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

04-13
40:15

After ”I Do” Surprises You Didn’t See Coming

Once married, did you learn things about your spouse you didn’t know before the “I dos”? Maybe they cook less after “I dos.” Maybe they care for their bodies less after “I dos.” Maybe they open the door for you less after “I dos.” Whatever it is, you’re not feeling it.  Find us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

11-01
28:06

Should You Believe a Woman Who Says, “It’s OK You Make Less Than Me.”

We’re talking about it again. Money! Money, for the most part, is a challenge for any relationship. Think about it. It brings out power, uncertainty, trust, and security. For women and love, it’s about security and safety. So, should a man believe a woman who says it’s ok he makes less than her? Find us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives  

10-24
23:57

Married! The Signs You Give Off When You’re Not Wearing Your Wedding Ring

Have you ever kicked it with someone, maybe during a flight home, who you thought was available because, after all they're not wearing a wedding ring, only to find out, after chatting awhile, they are married? WTF. Wear your ring!! Listen to learn more. Find and follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives Share your thoughts with us 💗

10-17
24:10

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