Dating and The Big D

Maxwell Anders explores and shares on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 41 - Dawn, Max explores new beginnings in dating. We often fear the end or a turning point in our life, especially when it comes to our romantic partnerships. Full of fear, anxiety, and trepidation we ponder the next step we must take when starting over. Maxwell was on a break from dating to work on himself and is starting to talk to guys again on the dating apps.  Dallas celebrity South Dallas Foodie is our special guest on this episode and shares about her dating life and new beginning. Later she fills us in about the great and exciting things to do in Dallas for Spring and Summer.   We review the article " How to start dating again after a break" by Anna Lovine at mashable.com, go over our takeaway, episode quote and give a shoutout to Black Swan Yoga in Dallas.Great Dallas date spots:  Klyde Warren ParkDallas ArboretumPerot MuseumNasher Sculpture CenterLate Nights at the Dallas Museum of ArtHawkers Asian Street FoodCafe Madrid"It's our right to say what our time is...only I can know." -South Dallas Foodie"Coming from a place of yes.." -South Dallas Foodie"No matter where I go there I am, and that's the best part of it because I am whole person. I dont need anything else. I already have everything that I need." - Maxwell Anders"I like to say that we shine, and when you are confident in yourself you shine more." - Maxwell AndersMusic featured on this episode:Track: Cotton Candy — Another Kid [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: https://youtu.be/JUYS60ZzC4sFree Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/cotton-candySecrets by RYYZN https://soundcloud.com/ryyznCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/-secretsMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/Q2-WKpaHsdMLeonell Cassio - Stuck In A Dream (ft. Juhi Perumal) [Royalty Free/Free To Use]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jr1UPMzjBT0

Maxwell Anders explores and shares on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 40 - Depression, Maxwell, Brooklyn, and Asia discuss the impact depression can have on our dating lives.  At times life can hit is like a sledgehammer. With hustle and bustle of life, we have the demands of work, family, friends, society, dating and love.  It comes to a halt and our mental health can take a hit.  What are the signs of depression, and do we need to just take a break even when it comes to our love lives?  Max does not hear back from Nick after dating for two months and appears to have been ghosted and needs to rethink the whole hookup strategy.  He shares on his recent experience with depression.  Brooklyn and his partner have been making a point to spend time together at home. Therapist Randy Woodring from Dallas is our professional in the studio.  We review the articles "Dating With Depression: Expert Tips to Help You Succeed" from Psychcom.net.  We go over the Episode Quote and Shout Out."I got told I was a top.  A blouse is a feminine top" - Brooklyn SteeleMusic featured on this episode:Anybody — Next Route [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: https://youtu.be/A7yTHfK58rgFree Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/anybodyLeonell Cassio - Out Of Time (ft. Lily Hain)Savfk Music - Ultrahttps://savfk.github.io/savfk/ultra/https://www.youtube.com/savfkmusic

Maxwell Anders explores and shares on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 39 - Deviance Redux, Maxwell, Brooklyn, and Asia discuss the multifaceted nature of kink and BDSM and the importance of consent.  There is so much under the sun and in the closet that attracts us and turns us on. Kink and BDSM can be just as much about comfort and discovery, and it is about deviance and exploration. What parts do consent and honest play when it comes to BDSM and is vanilla hot as kink?The gang starts off with a heated discussion about bisexuality.  Since being last on the show Asia swore off women and now has a new girlfriend. Brooklyn opens up about how he and his fiancé continue therapy as maintenance and support their open relationship. Max shows off a new pair of arse-less chaps he hasn't had the chance to use yet!  The gang opens up about who they would have sex with from a sexual identity they are not normally attracted to. Hope from Dallas is our special guest on this episode and shares her insight and experience with the BDSM community and kink life.*This episode was originally recorded September 2021"If you can't say no, then it's not consent." - Hope"We have to value ourselves enough to where we can get to a place to communicate our needs, our wants and our boundaries and be okay with the other person stepping out if that's what they choose to do."   -HopeEpisode Quote: "Sex is a team sport sugar." - Cherise Sinclair from "Breaking Free"For more information on BDSM, Kink, and Consent:The Consent AcademyBeyond VanillaSouth Plains LeatherfestCrow AcademyMaster/slave ConferenceMusic featured on this episode:Too Sweet — IVAAVI [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: youtu.be/wfKbVnW4GcoFree Download / Stream: alplus.io/too-sweetRyyzn-DescriptionsCOPYRIGHT FREEFree Download: bit.ly/3Ais6fcStream: ffm.to/ryyzn-descriptionsLyrics: genius.com/Ryyzn-descriptions-lyricsProduced By: RYYZN, @aymenSavfk-Song of the Wanderershttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9yU4MRhp3g

Maxwell Anders explores and shares on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 38 - Devastation, Maxwell and Brooklyn delve into the the destruction and that is caused my rape and assault.  Few acts of violence can parallel the utter destruction that is committed on a person when rape and stalking are committed.  How do we protect ourselves, heal and have a sense of agency when such acts are committed upon us.  Max and Brooklyn return after an extended hiatus.  Our beloved Beau has parted ways.  Brooklyn decides it's time to make a change with this current job and hopefully can make time for him and his loving partner.  Maxwell shares about his relapse and the assault that led to the relapse.  Maxwell continues by sharing his history with sexual assault and stalking on an intimate Dating and the Big D.  We answer a listener's e-mail asking how to open her marriage and we review the article “I Matched With the Perfect Date on Tinder – Then He Started Stalking Me" from www.vice.com.  We go over our Episode Takeaway, Episode Quote, and we give a shout-out to Blue Seat Studios of the YouTube video, "Consent, It's Simple As Tea."*This episode was originally recorded September 2021Music featured on this episode:Track: Bliss Of Heaven — SOMM [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: https://youtu.be/JQ6mKeQLZakFree Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/blisss-heavenThe Clock (instrumental) by RYYZN https://soundcloud.com/ryyznCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/al-the-clockMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/Sf-DjaE_TeE

Maxwell Anders and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 37 - stackeD, Max, and Brooklyn discuss the role that health, fitness, and the pressures of body image affect their love and sex lives.  Health, fitness, body sculpting, shaping – we get so many messages from society to fit into a certain mold to be attractive and desirable.  Is there a perfect balance between looks and health?  Can we go too far trying to achieve that perfect body to find a mate?  What messages do we receive from society and culture regarding our bodies and attractiveness?Max starts dating a sexy geek only to have it end a month later. What does Maxwell learn from the experience? Brooklyn and his fiance make time for what's important: supporting each other and a date night during their increasingly busy schedules.Hunter Nelson from Dallas is our fitness trainer and dating guru in the studio.  We answer a listener's e-mail asking how to open her marriage and we review the article “15 Tips for Dating A Body Builder" from muscleandfitness.com.  We go over our Episode Takeaway, Episode Quote, and we give a shout-out to our beloved and departed angel, Buddy the beagle.Music featured on this episode:Caballero - Ofshanehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC34Wh4ysdP50H-ThbZFFfsARYYZN - Deja Vu [Copyright Free]Reloaded (FREE DOWNLOAD) By Savfk - MusicThis music is licensed under a ‘Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License (CC BY 4.0)’. You can find the link to that license here: creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 36 - Decisive, Max and Beau reflect on taking decisive actions to take ownership of the direction of their love lives.  Dating can be a whirlwind and some of us just feel like it’s never-ending white water in the rapids which never seem to never to calm down.  Others feel that it’ll never happen and that if we only had the right set of circumstances our love life would be great.  What happens when we decide to take bold action and are decisive in the direction our lives will take?Beau takes time for self-care and self-love as he is making big strides in his life. Max has a romantic encounter with another guy in recovery but finds that there are gaps that time will not be able to fill.  Brooklyn is on vacation and will be back for the next episode.  Enrique from Dallas is our dating guru in the studio.  We answer a listener's e-mail asking when is it okay to introduce sex of the rear end variety, and we review the book “Dating Sucks, but You Don't: The Modern Guy's Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and Finding the Perfect Partner" By Connell Barrett.  We go over our Episode Takeaway, Episode Quote, and we give a shout-out to Ana of Ana Psychology YouTube Channel.Music featured on this episode:Song: Diamond Eyes - Flutter [NCS Release]Music provided by NoCopyrightSoundsFree Download/Stream: http://ncs.io/FlutterWatch: http://youtu.be/lEHM9HZf0IACan't Find 'Em - RYYZNYoutube: www.youtube.com/watch?v=eBKptSRIhUISpotify: spoti.fi/2mdPyKbLyrics: genius.com/Ryyzn-cant-find-em-lyricsFollow RYYZN 🤙Soundcloud: @ryyznFacebook: www.facebook.com/RYYZN/Instagram: www.instagram.com/weareryyzn/Twitter: twitter.com/weareryyznRYYZN Patreon:www.patreon.com/RYYZNThe Messenger - feat Nikos Spiliotis - Savfkhttps://www.youtube.com/savfkmusicYou can download and use this track for free but PLEASE SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL IF YOU USE MY MUSIC: www.youtube.com/savfkmusicFollow Nikos Spiliotis here:Youtube: www.youtube.com/user/nikospiliotisWebsite: spiliotismusic.wixsite.com/theartofmelodyFacebook: www.facebook.com/nikospiliotisBandcamp: nspiliotismusic.bandcamp.comSoundcloud: @nspiliotisIf you wish to donate (thank you so much for that!), you can do so by clicking here:www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cm…_id=427SCHV94A3BEYou can download this track for free here: savfk.github.io/savfk/the-messenger/The music in this video is licensed under a ‘Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License (CC BY 4.0)’

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 35 - cliff Diving, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn examine jumping all in and "cliff diving" into relationships.  We meet someone new and we are suddenly wrapped up in excitement and emotion.  Is it fate that someone so perfect crossed paths with us or do we see what we want to see when we want to see it? So We throw caution to the wind and jump in headfirst when it comes to a new relationship.  Could it be that our old habits and desires get in the way when meeting someone new? Do you jump headfirst into your romantic relationships?Brooklyn makes a monumental announcement with his relationship which calls for a celebration! Maxwell discovers that all isn't as it seems when he has a hookup with a guy who says he is also sober.  Beau is back to work and hit on by an older woman who is convinced he is looking for an older woman.   Asia from Dallas is our dating guru in the studio.  We answer a listener's e-mail asking about a guy who only texts in the middle of the night with "You Up?" and we review the article “How to Tell If You're Jumping Into a New Relationship Too Soon: Because the "time you were together ÷ 2 = how long you should wait to date" equation doesn't work for anyone.” from Cosmopolitan.com.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout-out to photographer Guillaume Bigot who gave us a great and memorable photo shoot. Check out Photos by Guillaume site and on Instagram @photosbyguillaume.Music featured on this episode:From Russia With Love by Huma-Humahttps://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCmUJTKdQUcUcNdugXjx72AA/musicWoho, I Thought It Be Me & You (ft. Lily Hain) by Leonell Cassiohttps://soundcloud.com/leonellcassioCreative Commons — Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported — CC BY-SA 3.0Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/woho-leonell-cassioMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/SGyFvojx2PURetreat by Jason Farnhamhttps://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCmUJTKdQUcUcNdugXjx72AA/music

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 34 - Dogs and other majestic beasts, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn reminisce on how having a beloved pet plays into their dating lives. It is the classic trope, a cute guy playing with a puppy and everyone falls for him.  The couple that meets while at the city dog park and sparks fly.  We love our fur babies.  They pull at our heartstrings and we have such a strong relationship with them. How do our pets play into our dating lives? Do we use them to attract a mate, do we heed the warnings from our pets when they do not like someone new in our life?  Is there a magic equation to balance loving our pets and taking time to date?  Brooklyn and his partner make time together despite having an increasingly busy schedule and Brooklyn has a new buddy!  Beau is back on the dating apps. He and Max go to a new meeting which to their surprise is filled with beautiful people. Maxwell matches with a handsome guy on a dating site only find out at the date that he has been "kitten-fished."  Later, Max gets nervous and giddy when a pretty girl appears to be flirting with him at Central Market!We answer a listener's e-mailing asking about dating an ex's brother, and we review the article “Pets and Dating Survey Shows Love of Animals is Key” from barkpost.com. We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to the various local coffee shops which have remained open during the pandemic. Support your local coffee shops today!Music featured on this episode:We Are One by Vexento https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento https://soundcloud.com/vexento Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/Ssvu2yncgWULeonell Cassio - A Magical Journey Through Space [Copyright Free/Free To Use]Stream/Free DL/Buy:http://bit.ly/AMJTS-FreeDL-Streaming​ (FanLink)http://bit.ly/AMJTS-Soundcloud​http://bit.ly/AMJTS-Spotify​http://bit.ly/AMJTS-iTunes​The Principle Of Inner Necessity (FREE DOWNLOAD) By Savfk - Music is licensed under a  Creative Commons License.https://soundcloud.com/savfk/the-principle-of-inner-necessity

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.We are back for Season 3! On Episode 33 - Duped Part 2, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn share on being duped and catfished by someone else.  It seems harder and harder to meet someone in person nowadays with our increasing reliance on online dating apps and online communication.  We trust that the services and tools that we use are reliable and that we can trust the people we are engaging with.  For the most part, singles online are good people and looking for a connection just like all of us.  However, on the darker side of the spectrum, there are those who Catfish and prey on the vulnerability, hopes, and dreams of those of us looking for love.  Maxwell gets very close to compromising his values and life for a guy he used to chase after in the past who only has recently noticed him. Shortly after, Max feels seen and heard for the first time after meeting a talented and gorgeous rock climber.  Brooklyn runs into an ex from the past during an event and realizes how much he has come to terms with his past, and how special his current relationship is. Beau gets honest about the end of his last relationship and the changes his life has recently taken.Dallas celebrity, food blogger, and influencer of @SouthDallasFood, Stephanie Dorn,  is our guest and gives us some ideas for places to go in Dallas now that Spring is here!  We answer a listener's e-mailing whose boyfriend constantly responds with "I don't know. What do you want to do?" and we review the article "Kittenfishing: The common dating trend you're probably (slightly) guilty of.”  from NBCnews.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to Esther Perel host of the podcast Where Should We Begin and author of the New York Times bestsellers, "The State of Affairs:  We Thinking Infidelity."Music featured on this episode:Fluffy by Smith The Mister https://smiththemister.bandcamp.comSmith The Mister https://bit.ly/Smith-The-Mister-YTFree Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/stm-fluffyMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/OM9G3nyLT_wMiss You by RYYZNhttps://soundcloud.com/ryyzn/miss-youMiss You by RYYZN is licensed under a  Creative Commons License.Instrumental Piano and Violin [Copyright Free Music] - "Luz de Luna" by Juan Sánchez 🇪🇸"Juan Sánchez - Luz de Luna" is under an Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0) licenseMusic promoted by BreakingCopyright: https://youtu.be/h7fSbXEadzI

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 32 - Desperately seeking cupiD: A Dating and The Big D Valentine,s Special, Max, Beau Brooklyn share about the anxieties and joys of Valentine's Day.  We see it everywhere red, white, and pink in the stores galore with Valentine's Day cards, chocolate, flowers, and suddenly all of the restaurant reservations are filled for one day out of the year set aside for lovers.  The pressure to find a date or a relationship can almost be paralyzing and maddening.  Some are driven to send to themselves the dreaded bouquet of flowers to work or find a date or a relationship with anyone just in time for Valentine's Day.  Others renounce the holiday altogether.  Whatever your choice is, the pressure is felt by many in the hope to be hit by Cupid's own arrow.  We introduce our new intern and sound guy JB.  Max breaks it off with the guy he went to go visit. Brooklyn announces a new development in his relationship, and Beau takes himself off the market for a special lady.Celebrated NYC Dating Coach, Connell Barrett is our guest in the studio and discusses "Dating with Authenticity." We answer a listener's e-mail worried she may not find a date for Valentine's Day, and we review the article "Singles On Valentine's Day Feel 'Pressured,' Survey Finds Trending News: Is It A Big Deal If You're Not In A Relationship On Valentine's Day? ” from askmen.com.  We go over our Call to Action, and Episode Quote.Music featured on this episode:Bird Brainz- Otis McDonaldCreative Commons Attribution license (reuse allowed)ALL original music written, performed, produced, mixed, and mastered by Joe Bagale aka. Otis McDonaldSergey Wednesday - Beautiful Piano(Romantic Royalty-Free Musichttps://soundcloud.com/sergey-wednesday-musicMove — KV [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: https://youtu.be/mQm340YnF2w​Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/mov

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, Conrad Dixon explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, and relationships in the city.On Episode 14 - Dumped, Max, Beau, and Conrad discuss their experiences with being dumped or having to dump someone. We all have been dumped or have had to dump someone we were dating. It usually doesn’t feel good and sometimes we try to prolong the relationship to avoid this often uncomfortable experience.Beau Alexander returns as our stand-in cohost and Conrad Dickson joins us as our guest cohost. Beau spills the tea about why he had to block his ex from the last episode. Conrad gets to practice healthy boundaries with an ex and shares how he handles breakups. Max shares the first few dates he's had with two guys now that he's started dating. Clinton Richie from Dallas is this episode's dating guru. We go over our dating quiz, “These 17 Questions Will Tell You If You Should Dump Or Not.” From Buzzfeed and we discuss the article, “How Long You Should Wait To Date Again After A Break Up According to Experts” from thriveglobal.com. We give a shout out to Maxwell's Gay Dodgeball - Dallas team, The Alcoballics as they start their new season in January of 2020. Check out gaydodgeball.com if you are interested in joining the Gay Dodge Ball league in your city. Music featured on this episode:Closer Now ( Funk Remix ) by Dysfunction_AL (c) copyright 2012 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/destinazione_altrove/39341 Ft: SnowflakeSpheres (Hip Hop Instrumental) by Robbero (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/Robbero/43483 Drunk TXT ( Remix ) by Dysfunction_AL (c) copyright 2019 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/destinazione_altrove/59759 Ft: Section_808

Maxwell Anders, Charlie Gold, and Sommer Bailey explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, and relationships in the city.On Episode 1 - Dallas, we love the Big D. Max, Charlie, and Sommer share their experiences with dating in the Big D. How do we feel about the dating scene in Dallas?  Where do we go out to meet other singles in Dallas?  Does Dallas or other cities have their own singles and dating scene style? Sommer goes on three dates in one week!  Guess which one she likes?  Max joins a gay men's group online as part of his personal development and goes out dancing where he gets hit on several times.  Charlie reaches out to a guy she was hoping to hear back from and they go on a second date.Ben the Soldier Dallas is our guest dating guru for this episode.  We play this episode's dating quiz "This Dating  Test Will Reveal What People Find Most Attractive About You." from BuzzFeed,  we announce this episode dating challenge and we review the article “Guide to Dating in Dallas without Tinder or Dating Apps” from Thrillist.  We go over our Call to Action, and Episode Quote.Music featured on this episode:Happy Hornet by reusenoise (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/reusenoise/57364Wayo wayo, Danca Danca... by reiswerk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/Reiswerk/50067 Shiro (Kirkoid Mix) by Kirkoid (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/Kirkoid/43938 

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On Episode 31 - hoe for the holiDays: A Dating and The Big D Holiday Special, Max, Brooklyn. and JB reminisce about being naughty and nice during the holidays!  It’s the most wonderful time of the year!  Love ones unite and we get into the spirit of giving. Many are home for the holidays or they go out of town and there is something about feeling nostalgic or being out of our element that gets us all worked up, Sometimes it’s loneliness and sometimes it’s just being a horny devil.  Either way, we want to connect, feel something, or feel good.  It’s no wonder the holiday season is filled with thoughts of hoe-hoe-hoe, being naughty or nice, and all I want for Christmas is dudes! JB from Dallas stands-in as co-host while Beau is out for this episode and we change it up a bit and play "Never Have I Ever" after each one of us shares a dating story or update!Maxwell has decided to delete the dating apps while he gets to know and makes plans on meeting the hottie from OKC.  Will sparks lead to flames? Brooklyn and his boyfriend celebrate Christmas together driving around in bunny suits like Ralphie from "A Christmas Story."  JB and his new boyfriend celebrate Christmas together with their puppy.  Does he give up them cakes once and for all?JB from Dallas is our guest dating guru.  We answer a listener's e-mail asking about letting her ex-boyfriend know that she's dating his best friend, and we review the article "This Is Whom Single People Are Hooking Up With Over The Holidays” from New York Post.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to four tv shows who have prominently and positively featured LGBTQ2 characters in 2020.Music featured on this episode:Christmas Village - Aaron Kennyhttps://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC-ZcMmsJehuQShEK2t65_Zg/musicHeavy Petting - Otis McDonaldhttps://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC-ZcMmsJehuQShEK2t65_Zg/musicRYYZN - Souls [Copyright Free]COPYRIGHT FREE TRACKFree Download: bit.ly/3rcoWGfLyrics: genius.com/Ryyzn-souls-lyricsSEXY FUNKY SENSUAL BACKGROUND MUSIC by Audio Junction - NoCopyrightSoundshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGtegPx4W9c&list=RD0oIIbV3zKGM&index=30

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On the Season 2 Finale, Episode 30 - Duped Part 1, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn open up on dating someone they thought they knew who turned out to be someone else.  You know everything about me, and I know everything about you.  We share our lives together and grow together.  We like to think that we know the person we are with, until we don’t.  What does one do when everything we thought we knew may have been a lie? Dating, sex, and relationships abound with our terrific trio as we wrap up season two!  Brooklyn prepares for a quiet holiday experience with his boyfriend as they adjust for a quieter Christmas together at their new home.  Beau has multiple dating offers, and decides on a lovely woman who supports his healthy and spiritual lifestyle.  When it rains, it pours! Maxwell finally gets hit on by two rock climbers but does his dream come true?  Max gets stood up twice on the same day by the same guy.  Later he gets to meet up again with the daddy who wants a daddy.  Finally, Max meets a guy who is mutually crazy about him and lives a few hours away.We introduce our new sound tech Austin Watson from Dallas who is joining the show on the upcoming third season in 2021.  We reflect on season two, what we have learned, and the takeaways.  We set our intentions for season three and the upcoming year.We answer a listener's heart-felt e-mail asking what to do differently after repeatedly being cheated on, and we review the article "Ask Dr. Conte: My Longterm Relationship Was Based on A Lie – What Do I Do Now?" from drchristrianconte.com.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a personal shout out to those who have impacted our lives, all of our guests, and to all of you, our listeners, who have made season two spectacular.Music featured on this episode:Sub Urban - Cradles [NCS Release]Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds.Watch: https://youtu.be/Hn4sfC2PbhIFree Download / Stream: http://ncs.io/CradlesYOSittin' Throwin' Rocks (ft. Lily Hain) by Leonell Cassiohttps://soundcloud.com/leonellcassioCreative Commons — Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported — CC BY-SA 3.0Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/_sittin-throwin-rocksMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/KunCHEX0MR4Venticinque Aprile ["Bella Ciao" orchestral cover] (FREE DOWNLOAD) by Savfk - Music is licensed under a  Creative Commons License.You can download this track for free here: savfk.github.io/savfk/venticinqueaprile/This music is licensed under a ‘Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License (CC BY 4.0)’.

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On episode 29 - Destiny, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn dive deep into whether destiny plays a part in our love lives.  What are in the cards for me?  Is life a game of chance when meeting someone and finding love? Do we believe that we will only find it when we are not looking for it? Sometimes we are so focused on finding that perfect relationship or mate.  Yet at other times we may believe that we are destined to be alone.  Am I destined to find love?  What does the future hold?Beau's focus and dedication to working on himself are paying off and others are starting to take note.  Brooklyn's relationship is blossoming and they are experiencing added intimacy emotionally and physically.  Max reminds himself not to chase after men who do not reciprocate attention.  Lastly, Maxwell gets to meet the sexy polyamorous daddy who is looking for a daddy for himself.  Luke Kent from Dallas is our guest dating guru for this episode.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding a possible haunting at a holiday get together from a guy who ghosted her, and we review the article "The Trouble With Destiny: Relationships Take Work" from the Berkeley Science Review.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to all our family and friends during this holiday season!Music featured on this episode:Nico Staf - Fast and Runhttps://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCmUJTKdQUcUcNdugXjx72AA/musicYou’re free to use this audio track in any of your videos, including videos that you monetize. No attribution is required.YouTube may credit the artist and link the Audio Library from your video.RYYZN - high as h3LL [Copyright Free]COPYRIGHT FREE TRACKFree Download: bit.ly/36GGBh9Stream:Lyrics: genius.com/Ryyzn-high-as-h3ll...Prismo - Stronger [NCS Release]Music provided by NoCopyrightSounds.Watch: https://youtu.be/IIwiM777OzQ

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On episode 28 - Danger, Max, Brooklyn, and Pam open up about risky dating and relationships.  Trouble Trouble Trouble.  Can't get enough of it and can’t get away from it?  We love exciting and we love the thrill of life.  However, sometimes, too much of a good thing puts us at risk in our dating, love, and sex lives.  Some are attracted to it and can’t seem to be happy any other way.  Is dating on the edge thrilling or just fool hearty and dangerous?Pam Edwards is our guest co-host filling in for Beau who will be back in the next episode. Max identifies some red flags with a potential suitor and later goes on a picnic date with a sweetheart. Did sparks fly?  Pam updates us on some major growth she is encountering with her partner.  Brooklyn shares how he and his boyfriend eloquently handle conflict resolution.   John Chapman from Dallas is our guest dating guru for this episode.  We answer a listener's question on how long one should wait to hear back from your last date, and we review the article "Warning Signs of Dangerous Relationships-Why We Ignore Them on First, Second and Third Dates" from Psychology Today.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to psychtogo.Music featured on this episode:Average by Patrick Patrikios https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTPI2hZYxoHtdGEpdFoaU5A/abouthttps://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC-ZcMmsJehuQShEK2t65_Zg/musicTrack: Savana — Vendredi [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: youtu.be/8G3y-LHrOUEFree Download / Stream: alplus.io/savanaAt The Kitchen Table by Savfkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B0224641E_4You can download this track for free here: savfk.github.io/savfk/at-the-kitchen-table/This music is licensed under a ‘Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License (CC BY 4.0)’.

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On episode 27 - Dexters, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn delve into dating a potential psycho.  Meeting a person with ambition and determination can be exciting and sexy.  We meet that person who seems so great and almost too perfect.  However, something seems just off and we can’t quite put our finger on it.  They seem like everyone else at first.  They are charming and attractive, but they slowly seem to unravel and show their true colors.    What do we when we think we may be dating a psycho?Brookly and his boyfriend celebrate 2 years together and update us on how the next stage of their relationship is evolving! Beau opens up and shares his experience with being rejected and how he decides to take care of himself.  Max's most recent FWB experience may have played itself out, and he opens up on possibly exploring a fetish.Casey Durham from Dallas returns to the show but as a guest, this time around, and opens up about a close call with a potential Dexter.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding if a first date should be with a group of friends.  We review the book "Why You're Not Married Yet - The Straight Talk You Need To Get The Relationship Yo Deserve" by Tracy McMillan.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to the right to vote!Music featured on this episode:Supa Bass by Peyruis https://soundcloud.com/peyruisCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: http://bit.ly/-supa-bassMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/MLKz6WfJwX8Track: Rocky Mountains — Scandinavianz [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: youtu.be/_szFz5HwCiMFree Download / Stream: alplus.io/rocky-mountainsRYYZN  - Fake People [Copyright Free]Free Download: https://bit.ly/2wvgcDTStream: https://ffm.to/fakepeopleInstrumental: Coming March 29, 2020

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On episode 26 - Driven, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn open about dating when someone is ambitious.  Meeting a person with ambition and determination can be exciting and sexy.  They have their eye on the prize and we may be part of that journey.  Can such goal-driven aspirations hinder the romantic experience and get in the way of love and connection?  Are we on the road to success and looking for that next prize to claim as our own?Brooklyn is back and he shares on the next major step his relationship has taken! Hilarity ensues when Beau walks up to a girl and hands her his number.  Max realizes that he may be looking for signs when there is really no match.  Later he meets a kick-ass dude he is having fun with.Patrick Maverick from Dallas is our guest dating guru on this episode.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding pansexual relationships, and we review the article "Should You Date A Less Ambitious Person? A Relationship Expert Weighs In" from Forbes.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to Summit Climbing, Yoga and Fitness.Music featured on this episode:Desert Brawl - Vans in JapanDon't Hate Me - Digital PunksStreet Rhapsody - DJ Freedom

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Casey Durham explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On episode 25 - Dull, Max, Beau, and Casey discuss dating when someone is dull.  Life can be exciting and thrilling and no more is this the case when it comes to dating and find someone new.  What happens when we encounter the utterly dull and boring?   What is exciting to some can be painfully boring to others.  Can we add a little spice to our dating and sex lives?  Casey Durham from Dallas is our stand-in guest co-host, and our favorite and beloved Brooklyn Steele will be back in our next episode.  Beau catches up with a girl from his past.  Later he practices getting out of his comfort zone and braves facing rejection.  Maxwell updates us on the drunk cutie who asked him out at birthday dinner and meets a guy that seems to "measure up" or down to Max.  Casey puts the breaks on a stunningly beautiful man and reflects on the decision.Kevin McKenzie from Dallas is our guest dating guru on this episode.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding when one partner demands a lot of sex, and we review the article "You Should Be Dating Someone Boring” from Thought Catalog.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to the author and TEDTalk sensation Tracy McMillan.Music featured on this episode:Waiting For You by Le Gang https://soundcloud.com/thisislegangCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/l-g-waiting-for-youMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/ipBADI59ZLQDamn Shame (Ft. Lincoln) by NIMBVS https://soundcloud.com/nimbvsmusicCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: http://bit.ly/al-damn-shameMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/YiA8hdOZNPITragic Love by Savfk (copyright and royalty free epic emotional orchestral piano soundtrack music) https://soundcloud.com/savfk/tragic-love

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.On episode 24 - Drop Dead gorgeous, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn discuss dating the devastatingly beautiful.  Stunning, breathtaking, beautiful, gorgeous, and alluring. These are but a few of the words to describe individuals that turn heads, stop traffic, and turn us into awkward teenagers.  Is there a different standard for extremely attractive people when it comes to dating?  Have we experienced dating as a stunningly beautiful person or have we dated someone who is drop-dead gorgeous? We return from our two-month mid-season break with lots of updates! Beau makes a choice when meeting the girl of his dreams and encounters another he decides to pass on. Max learns a lesson in rejection and acceptance and later has a surprising experience with a cute guy at a birthday dinner party.  Brooklyn and his boyfriend explore piercings and visit Infliction Hall, "the social lounge with a dungeon atmosphere."Bailey Rene from Dallas is the guest dating guru in the studio. We answer your dating e-mails and discuss the article "Breathless:  The Pitfalls of Dating the Freakishly Attractive” from Vogue.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to Charlie Houpert, co-creator and face of book and YouTube Channel "Charisma on Command."Music featured on this episode:Here, If You're Going - Otis McDonaldGenre and Mood: Hip Hop & Rap + FunkyLicense: You're free to use this song and monetize your videos.Free Download: https://youtube.com/audiolibrary/musicThe Perpetual Ticking of Time — Artificial.Music [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: https://youtu.be/vSoQgxDwxYMFree Download / Stream: http://alplus.io/PerpetualTickingOfTimeCome Over? - RYYZN https://soundcloud.com/ryyznCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/ryyzn-come-overMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/XWxtEf57SgA