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Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally! 21:21 - Shandy Debrief 26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat! 56:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to get 15% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.storyworth.com/DEARSHANDY to save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:46 - Garrett & Taylor 16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler 25:13 - Monica & Stephen 40:06 - Marissa & Ramses 48:41 - Alex & Tim 1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany 1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick 1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 27% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Finale Kick Off 10:25 - Bora Bora 43:55 - After The Final Rose 50:08 - Grant If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - A Very Random Introduction 3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist? 11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question? 21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams? 32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help! 52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a free gift + a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to http://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:18 - Men Tell All 36:50 - Bloopers 41:30 - Preview 44:02 - Andy’s A-Game 46:52 - Shandy Word Watch 48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://hexclad.com/SHANDY for 10% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off 11:58 - Guy’s Overnight 39:45 - Pascal 42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight 51:51 - Andy’s A-Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/FREESHANDY for 10 free meals! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress? 18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do? 29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy? 45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws? 1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to http://lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Guy’s Hometown 13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown 28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown 37:09 - Chock’s Hometown 49:00 - Rose Ceremony 1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch 1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off 12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1 18:43 - Mark 24:55 - Back On The Date 32:58 - Group Date 39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1 47:47 - The Next Day 50:27 - Rose Ceremony 56:06 - Andy’s A-Game 57:44 - Shandy Word Watch 1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate?  13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure? 23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend? 33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter? 55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on $75+! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off 5:04 - Group Date 22:59 - The Next Day 26:00 - Jordan’s 1-On-1 33:50 - Guy’s 1-On-1 39:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 51:19 - Rose Ceremony 53:35 - Andy’s A-Game 54:26 - Shandy Word Watch 57:27 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:03:30 - F***, Marry, Kill If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:37 - Episode 3 Kick Off 6:02 - Pascal’s 1-On-1 13:18 - Sharleen’s Frant 25:14 - Group Date 39:45 - Jonathan’s 1-On-1 49:13 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 57:20 - Gerry 1:03:21 - Rose Ceremony 1:03:53 - Andy’s A-Game 1:04:09 - Shandy Word Watch 1:07:48 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:19 - Q1: I Celebrate My Friend’s Birthdays But She Often Forgets Mine—Is She A Hypocrite Or Are We Not As Close As I Think? 11:43 - Q2: Am I The Asshole For Not Wanting To Attend My Friend’s 2-Year Old’s Birthday Party? 16:32 - Q3: My Baby’s Guardians Have Really Disappointed Me—Can I Rescind Their Role? 37:37 - Q4: How Do I Hit On My Cousin? 46:26 - Q5: Mister Nice Guy Vs Mister Good In Bed—How Do I Choose? 59:25 - Q6: To Dye Or Not To Dye My Grey Hair? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & Random Question 3:11 - Episode 2 Kick Off 8:52 - Group Date #1 18:26 - Chock’s 1-On-1 25:34 - The Next Day 27:40 - Group Date #2 34:40 - BBQ 46:59 - Rose Ceremony 52:26 - Andy’s A-Game 55:21 - Shandy Word Watch 57:19 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere of the Golden Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.keepertax.com/shandy for a free trial plus 10% off your subscription! - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.huel.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: Coming soon! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! Previous Anniversary Q&As... 1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411 2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:47 - What Advice Would You Give Aspiring (But Intimidated) Podcasters? 3:58 - What’s The Best, Most Non-Intrusive Way To Approach You In Person? 6:00 - If You Could Only Watch One TV Show For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be? 15:38 - Is Andy Tired Of Watching The Bachelor Yet? 18:51 - Which One Of You Would Win Survivor?  22:01 - What Animal is Truly The King Of The Jungle? 24:15 - If Asked, Would You Both Host A Reality TV Show? 25:07 - What Type Of Natural Disaster Are You Most Afraid Of? 28:31 - At 4 Years Of Podcasting, What Is More Frustrating Than When You Started And What Is Less? 35:37 - When Are Andy And Thomas Reuniting? 35:36 - When Wiping, Do You Bunch Or Fold Your Toilet Paper? 36:26 - Describe Yourself As A Kitchen Utensil 37:51 - Do You Break Your KitKats Or Bite Into Them With Disregard For The Breaking Line? 40:25 - What Is Something New That Ruby Has Brought Out In Your Relationship? 43:15 - How Did You Choose Ruby’s Name? 44:07 - I Know Sharleen Loves Video Games But Has Andy Ever Played One And Enjoyed It? 47:46 - If You Could Each Go Back And Tell Your Partner’s Younger Self Something, What Would It Be? 51:45 - How Many 3-Year Olds Do You Think You Could Fight Off Before They Overtook You? 55:29 - If You Could Drop Everything Right Now, Money Is Not An Object, Where And How Would You Go And Live? 58:40 - Thank You If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science-driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:35 - Q1: Am I Delusional For Wanting To Be Friends With This Ex? 11:47 - Q2: Am I A Bad Friend If I Break My Promise Twice? 27:06 - Q3: My Friend Bailed On My Birthday Trip At The 11th Hour—How Do I Address This? 45:53 - Q4: My Roommate Keeps “Complaining” About Getting Hit On—What Should I Say? 1:05:45 - Q5: This Gym Guy Is So Honest But Also Confusing—What’s My Next Move? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the shocking FINALE of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Visit http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:00 - Jenn’s Family In Hawaii 27:58 - Devin’s Final Date 30:26 - Doctor Odyssey 31:42 - Marcus 38:19 - Neil Lane 40:26 - Record Scratch 1:00:33 - Proposal 1:13:09 - Golden Bachelorette Preview 1:13:43 - Andy’s A-Game 1:19:12 - Fashion 1:22:32 - Shandy Word Watch 1:23:35 - Night One Predictions 1:24:35 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a Bachelor Nation POWER COUPLE who has been married for nearly a year. You got to know Caelynn on Colton Underwood's season of The Bachelor, and Dean on Rachel Lindsay's season of The Bachelorette, but it was on season 6 of Bachelor in Paradise where we saw them escape reality TV, hand-in-hand! Today Caelynn and Dean chat their true first impressions of one another, the ways in which their partner isn't what they might have predicted for themselves, what the biggest misconceptions about them are, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a relaxed but very fun Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Caelynn: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/caelynnbell TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@caelynnbell Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@CaelynnBell More Dean: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/deanie_babies TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@deanie_babies Blog - https://www.deaniebabies.com/ Caelynn & Dean: Podcast - https://www.instagram.com/help_i_suck_at_dating Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Caelynn & Dean Bell! 3:42 - Their New Surname 8:25 - First Impressions 21:13 - The Podcast 26:33 - How They Complement Each Other 33:39 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 40:07 - How They Fight 45:22 - Common Misconceptions 52:01 - What They’ve Learned Through Working Together 58:18 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 59:15 - The Newlyweds Game 1:12:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're doing double, we're breaking down both Episode 8 and Men Tell All of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Visit http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:53 - Episode 8 Kick Off 2:27 - Devin’s Overnight 12:50 - Jonathon’s Overnight 19:05 - Marcus 24:30 - Marcus’ Overnight 38:03 - Episode 9 Kick Off 41:58 - Rose Ceremony 46:00 - Men Tell All 51:00 - Sam M’s Hot Seat 56:10 - Jonathon’s Hot Seat 56:47 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives Promo 58:10 - Grant 1:00:53 - Jenn  1:14:03 - Andy’s A-Game 1:14:40 - Fashion 1:19:20 - Shandy Word Watch 1:22:28 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices