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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into deeply impactful conversations aimed at helping boys, young men, and adult men learn valuable life lessons. Through personal anecdotes and real-life scenarios, the hosts discuss the importance of not taking things personally and how it can affect different areas of life, from personal relationships to professional settings. They also delve into the dynamics of parenting with grace and the significance of leading with curiosity, both in the corporate world and at home. Tune in for insightful dialogue that encourages self-reflection and proactive change. Don't miss out—like, share, and subscribe for more compelling episodes! 00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Sun Show 00:00:18 Catching Up: Birthdays and School Updates 00:00:53 Discussing the Cowboys and Gremlin Losses 00:02:55 The Importance of Taking Things Personally 00:09:06 Corporate Lessons: Firing vs. Resignation 00:20:24 Leadership and Parenting: Balancing Friendliness and Authority 00:24:58 Leading Curiously: Asking 'Why' for Better Outcomes 00:29:20 Listening to Your Child 00:29:54 Adjustments vs. Compromises 00:30:34 Setting Expectations in Parenting 00:33:42 Communicating in Relationships 00:45:51 The Importance of Participation 00:52:17 Grace and Understanding 00:56:37 Closing Thoughts and Announcements #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to another insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deeply into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they touch on three main topics: the importance of respecting time and its implications, the challenges of parenting through gray areas and difficult scenarios, and the significance of not placing a price on one's integrity. The episode promises a blend of humor, critical thinking, and raw authenticity, providing valuable insights for fathers and sons navigating their own paths. Make sure to like, share, and subscribe to the channel to join us on this journey! 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Anecdotes and Gratitude 00:01:01 Engaging with Audience Comments 00:02:14 Promotions and Announcements 00:05:04 Cultural Perspectives on Time Management 00:06:24 Mindset and Perception in Personal Development 00:07:50 Parenting and Job Interview Experiences 00:13:22 Leadership Styles and Effectiveness 00:23:55 Understanding the Impact of Parenting Styles 00:24:54 Adapting Leadership and Management Approaches 00:26:36 The Unique Nature of Each Child 00:28:13 The Importance of Data in Decision Making 00:28:47 Encouraging Open Conversations 00:31:20 Core Values and Personal Beliefs 00:35:07 The Dangers of Valuing Money Over Integrity 00:39:03 Legality vs. Morality 00:51:07 Parenting Through the Gray Areas 00:51:38 Football Season and Closing Remarks #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this milestone episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the pressing issues faced by parents today. They explore the intricacies of family dynamics, touching on the importance of communication with children and the struggles of balancing structure and empathy. The episode delves into real-life scenarios, including handling children's schedules, the impact of modern technology on parenting, and the importance of understanding and meeting your children's needs. This engaging conversation is a must-watch for parents seeking to strengthen their relationships with their children and improve their parenting strategies. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on future episodes! 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:17 Show Kickoff and Announcements 00:54 Book Promotions and Giveaways 02:55 Daily Life and Parenting Challenges 09:57 Football Season and Rivalries 14:52 Reflections on the Show's Impact 22:07 Parenting in the Digital Age 26:31 The Beauty of Awareness 27:00 School Phone Policies 28:47 Emergency Situations and School Safety 29:56 Parenting Challenges and Reflections 31:46 Balancing Discipline and Empathy 37:32 The Importance of Communication 50:09 Compromises and Time Management 57:28 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover topics that resonate with fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. Key highlights include Jey Blac discussing his excitement about becoming a senior in college and the challenges that come with it, D Johns sharing his son's experiences balancing school and a budding career in the electrical trade, and an insightful discussion on how not every planted seed grows but how persistence and good nurturing can yield unexpected results. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about balancing multiple responsibilities and the importance of dedication in every aspect of life. Don't miss this engaging discussion and make sure to subscribe to our channel for more heartfelt conversations and life lessons! 00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show 00:00:26 Celebrating Milestones and Achievements 00:01:43 Back to School and Family Updates 00:03:30 The Challenges of Parenting and Education 00:04:53 Not Every Planted Seed Grows 00:07:40 College Life and New Beginnings 00:12:07 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility 00:21:34 Gardening and Life Lessons 00:25:07 The Heat in Dallas and Plant Care 00:25:44 Germination Period and Patience 00:26:13 The Importance of Proper Plant Placement 00:26:54 Sharing Resources and Soil Management 00:27:48 Nurturing Plants and Recognizing Efforts 00:28:45 Marriage and Relationships Insights 00:32:00 Balancing Busy Schedules and Priorities 00:34:51 Strategic Planting and Crop Rotation 00:35:37 Teaching Life Skills and Observations 00:41:10 Career Advice and Personal Growth 00:49:17 Promoting Books and Final Thoughts #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into the importance of self-reflection and accountability. They discuss how understanding one's strengths and weaknesses can lead to personal growth, and they stress the significance of not falling in love with one's initial ideas or external perceptions. They also explore the challenges of maintaining meaningful relationships amidst busy lives and highlight the role of honest communication in strengthening these bonds. Finally, they examine the role of AI and modern technology in today's workforce, emphasizing the importance of using these tools to enhance rather than replace human skills. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to help young men and boys realize the value of introspection and meaningful connections. Remember to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes. 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dishon Show 00:00:13 New Beginnings and Reflections 00:01:57 Today's Topic: Watch That Mirror 00:03:06 Accountability and Self-Reflection 00:06:38 Generational Shifts and AI 00:13:12 The Importance of Networking 00:21:37 Relationships and Lifelong Friendships 00:30:07 Parental Involvement and Dual Parent Households 00:31:17 Encouraging Fathers to Engage More 00:31:54 Self-Love and Its Pitfalls 00:32:43 Constructive Criticism and Personal Growth 00:34:46 The Importance of Being Receptive 00:36:30 Balancing Personal and Professional Life 00:42:21 Maintaining Relationships Amidst a Busy Schedule 00:46:09 Reflecting on Personal Accountability 00:53:46 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode of The Dead Son Show, join hosts D Johns and Jay Black as they delve into meaningful conversations about the journey of fatherhood and the importance of leaving a lasting legacy for future generations. From discussing the challenges of balancing work and family life to ensuring children understand the value of resilience and progress, no topic is off-limits. Key highlights include the importance of being a dependable source of guidance for your children, the value of teaching entrepreneurial skills and financial literacy, and the necessity of holding children accountable to their dreams to foster their independence and success. Subscribe to our channel and join the dialogue on effective parenting and family building! 00:00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show 00:00:16 Hosts Introductions and Personal Updates 00:01:00 Life Lessons and Parenting Reflections 00:03:06 Dear Son, Don't Let Me Be Your Ceiling 00:04:37 The Scooter Debate and Generational Perspectives 00:10:50 Financial Wisdom and Family Conversations 00:15:53 Teaching Financial Literacy to the Next Generation 00:20:05 The Value of Conversations and Learning from Elders 00:28:54 Struggles of Growing Up with Financial Hardships 00:30:29 Navigating High School and Future Uncertainties 00:32:06 Military as a Pathway to Education 00:33:32 Parenting Challenges and Overcoming Adversity 00:36:17 Encouraging Children's Dreams and Aspirations 00:47:56 Reflections on Personal Growth and Music 00:53:27 Closing Remarks and Call to Action #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, Jey Blac and D Johns delve into meaningful conversations aimed at guiding young boys and men. They explore the balance between traditional values and modern practices, discussing the impact of old advice on new generations. Key topics include the significance of teaching wisdom rather than just steps, the complex dynamics of caring for aging parents, and the importance of letting the new generation find their own path. Tune in for a deep dive into parenting, societal expectations, and the evolving nature of roles within the family. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sound Show 00:24 Podcasting Journey and Influences 01:12 Summer Plans and Family Life 02:07 Grocery Shopping Habits 03:24 Today's Topic: Keep Your Old Paint Off My New Canvas 06:11 Parenting Styles and Micromanagement 09:49 Teaching Wisdom Over Steps 16:24 Marriage Dynamics and Generational Differences 20:01 Explaining the Why to Children 24:16 Encouraging Independence in Children 25:27 Reflecting on Parenting and Sibling Dynamics 25:57 Observing and Encouraging Children's Creativity 29:05 The Role of Children in Caring for Aging Parents 31:29 Balancing Tradition and Modern Responsibilities 33:24 Navigating Family Dynamics and Caregiving 40:40 Generational Differences and Adaptation 49:08 Concluding Thoughts and Family Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to another heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they navigate the exciting and challenging journey of parenting, focusing on significant moments and lessons learned. They discuss their sons transitioning into adulthood, the importance of expressing love and appreciation, and how to prepare them for life's responsibilities. Tune in for a heartwarming and enlightening discussion on embracing fatherhood. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content! 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:00:19 Hosts Catching Up 00:00:48 Parenting Updates and Reflections 00:04:21 Discussing the Joys of Fatherhood 00:05:47 Children's Humor and Personalities 00:09:59 Activities and Hobbies 00:15:52 Lessons Learned from Parenting 00:21:19 Changing the Tire 00:21:26 Teaching Life Skills to Kids 00:22:04 Yard Work Memories 00:23:18 Bonding with Children 00:24:41 Caring for Aging Parents 00:25:10 The Cycle of Life 00:33:38 Expressing Love to Teenage Sons 00:36:16 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting 00:41:43 Pride and Support in Parenting 00:47:10 Cherishing Parenting Moments 00:48:31 Conclusion and Gratitude #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to another impactful episode of The Dear Son, Show with Jey Blac and D Johns! In this episode, we dive deep into real-life conversations aimed to guide young men and fathers through the challenges of life. JD shares a moving story about his father's recent health scare, and they both open up about navigating their sons' journeys toward adulthood and independence. Together, they tackle the importance of 'fine-tuning' rather than 'removing' traits in your children, the valuable life lessons learned, and the importance of setting benchmarks for parental involvement. Tune in to hear our take on vital topics like effective parenting, preparing for life's unexpected turns, and encouraging self-awareness in your kids. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button and share your thoughts in the comments below! 00:00 Introduction and Host Greetings 00:17 Personal Stories and Family Health 01:29 Parenting Challenges and Reflections 02:06 Today's Topic: Don't Remove, Fine Tune 02:30 Parenting Styles and Generational Differences 04:21 Navigating Teenage Independence 06:00 Preparing for the Future: Education and Career Choices 10:35 Balancing Guidance and Independence 13:14 Real-Life Parenting Struggles 24:31 Getting the Bread: Job Hunting and Opportunities 25:40 Scooter Dilemma: To Ride or Not to Ride 27:45 Lessons in Confidence and Humility 29:45 Navigating Trade School: Challenges and Strategies 33:21 Parental Guidance: Balancing Support and Independence 46:43 Final Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to another meaningful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deep into the life lessons and challenges faced through the lens of fatherhood. This episode tackles critical topics such as choosing friends wisely in adulthood, the acceptability of allowing your friend circle to discipline your child, and the essential nature of having a trustworthy village to help raise your kids. Not only will we explore the importance of these discussions, but we'll also delve into real-life examples and personal stories that illustrate the impact of these decisions. Don't miss this candid and insightful conversation. Like, comment, and subscribe to never miss an episode! 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:00:18 Summer Adventures and Content Creation 00:01:24 The TikTok Experience 00:01:56 Disciplining Children: Trust and Boundaries 00:02:46 Generational Differences in Discipline 00:05:16 The Importance of Communication in Discipline 00:09:42 Respect and Consequences in Public Behavior 00:19:20 The Role of Community and Authority 00:24:37 Choosing Friends and Their Impact on Family 00:25:26 Navigating Adult Friendships 00:25:58 Defining Trust and Boundaries 00:26:24 Evaluating Character and Trustworthiness 00:27:24 The Importance of Family and Close Circles 00:28:01 Guarding Your Inner Circle 00:29:52 Teaching Children About Relationships 00:32:07 Life Lessons and Friendships 00:34:25 The Impact of Friends on Life Choices 00:36:13 Support and Loyalty in Friendships 00:37:56 The Role of Village in Parenting 00:45:06 Closing Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and personal growth with host and special guest Quintin Harris. Through compelling dialogue, they explore the nuances of fatherhood, the importance of being present, and navigating the intricacies of marriage. Discover how personal experiences and shared wisdom shape their journey, and gain practical advice on effective parenting and relationship building. Tune in for an episode rich in life lessons and heartfelt moments. Don't forget to subscribe for more engaging conversations. 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dead Sun Show 00:00:17 Meet Quentin Harris 00:00:25 The Brotherhood at Concord 00:01:38 Quentin's Role at Concord 00:03:04 Family Dynamics and Challenges 00:05:15 Growing Up in Baton Rouge 00:07:08 College Life and Lessons Learned 00:21:48 Marriage and Personal Growth 00:28:40 Realizing Insensitivity in Relationships 00:30:01 The Impact of Fatherhood 00:36:04 Corporate Life vs. Home Life 00:41:14 Marriage Challenges and Solutions 00:49:45 Parenting Wisdom and Reflections 01:00:37 Final Thoughts and Future Plans #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this captivating episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the realm of double standards. Designed to provide young boys and men with wisdom they can use today, this conversation addresses the real-life implications of double standards across parenting, relationships, and societal expectations. Discover Jay Black's and D John's personal experiences and candid thoughts on subjects such as the differing rules for sons and daughters, the unique dynamics in marital relationships, and the societal pressures young men face today. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that offers both heartfelt advice and relatable anecdotes. Subscribe now to stay updated with our insightful conversations! 00:00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:00:28 Parenting Challenges and Curfews 00:02:41 Double Standards in Parenting 00:04:23 Curfews and Responsibilities 00:06:29 Gender Roles and Expectations 00:10:40 Teaching Life Skills 00:14:09 Balancing Discipline and Freedom 00:25:38 Navigating Double Standards in Relationships 00:26:05 The Unspoken Rules of Marriage 00:28:14 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned 00:30:47 The Consequences of Double Standards 00:41:42 Parenting and Double Standards 00:47:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this captivating episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the profound conversations about fatherhood and the pivotal moments of their sons' recent high school graduations. They discuss the journey from adolescence to adulthood, the impact of newfound independence, and the responsibilities that come with it. Key topics include the emotional whirlwind of seeing their sons graduate, the importance of letting them face life's challenges to build character, and the realities of parenting double standards. Join the discussion as they share personal stories and advice, making this an essential episode for parents and guardians navigating similar paths. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated with our latest conversations! 00:00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show 00:00:31 Celebrating Our Sons' Graduation 00:01:38 Balancing Family and Education 00:02:48 Navigating Fatherhood and Expectations 00:05:30 Preparing for the Next Chapter 00:08:43 Reflecting on Parenting and Independence 00:21:29 The Prom Experience and Generational Differences 00:23:41 Building Your Future Self 00:24:07 Time as Wealth: Avoiding the Money Trap 00:24:57 Balancing Work and Life 00:26:08 Learning from Mistakes 00:26:51 Family Stories and Lessons 00:29:24 Recognizing and Avoiding Danger 00:30:31 Parenting and Protection 00:37:03 Prom Night Reflections 00:39:27 Preparing for Independence 00:45:35 Final Thoughts and Resources #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to another powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into what it truly means to take responsibility for our actions and lives. From the pressures of leading a family to the evolving challenges young boys face today, this episode sheds light on the idea that 'It's On Me.' Tune in as we discuss the importance of accountability, share personal stories, and offer invaluable advice to help young men navigate their paths. Don't miss this eye-opening conversation — like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on our latest episodes! 00:00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:00:58 The 'It's On Me' Mentality 00:03:17 Personal Reflections and Challenges 00:06:59 Navigating Change and Uncertainty 00:13:44 Parenting in a Changing World 00:26:17 Reflecting on Military Experiences 00:27:30 Parental Expectations and Realities 00:28:15 Navigating Job Applications 00:30:00 College Selection Challenges 00:33:01 Teaching Accountability 00:36:46 Handling School Incidents 00:39:25 Parenting Reflections and Lessons 00:47:26 Future Plans and Announcements#theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, host D Johns engages in a profound conversation with Nate Cottman, a repeat guest known for his insights on masculine vulnerability and love. Join them as they discuss fatherhood, relationships, and the essence of intentional living. Nate opens up about his journey of personal growth, his thoughts on dating with intention, and the powerful lessons he's learned along the way. This episode is a must-watch for anyone navigating the complexities of marriage, fatherhood, and personal evolution. Don't miss out on these valuable insights and heartfelt moments. Make sure to subscribe to The Dear Son Show for more inspiring conversations! 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:00:18 Meet Nate Cotman: Masculine Vulnerability Prototype 00:01:50 Discussing Nate's Book: Flowers from Forgotten Fields 00:03:41 The Journey of Love and Relationships 00:05:33 Navigating Modern Dating 00:10:20 The Importance of Curiosity in Relationships 00:16:48 Masculine Vulnerability and Love 00:21:07 Navigating Life's Potential and Grace 00:22:18 Gender Expectations in Relationships 00:25:41 Marriage, Divorce, and Personal Growth 00:31:53 Fatherhood and Emotional Intelligence 00:36:29 The Importance of Sexual Discipline 00:40:14 Trusting Intuition and Overcoming Fear 00:43:01 Final Thoughts and Gratitude #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow Nate: https://instagram.com/fromnatewithlove Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My Ebook: https://stan.store/JohnsandCo Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to the Dead Son Show, where we dive deep into the essence of fatherhood, forefathers, those with and without fathers. Join hosts D. Johns and Jane as they share personal experiences, discuss connecting with their sons, and highlight the importance of affirmation and open communication. This episode goes beyond the surface, touching on crucial aspects such as the dangers of conflicting views on manhood, the importance of hugging your children, and the necessity of being a well-rounded role model. Whether you're a father or anticipating fatherhood, this conversation is rich with insights to help you build stronger, more meaningful relationships. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated as we journey through topics that shape futures and change perspectives.00:00 Introduction to the Dead Son Show00:34 Neighborly Bonds and Community02:31 Mock Jury Selection Experience03:45 The Importance of Jury Diversity06:51 Encouraging and Praising Our Sons10:04 Balancing Criticism and Praise12:25 Fatherhood Reflections and Personal Growth24:32 Discovering Hidden Talents24:55 Building Confidence Through Connection25:55 The Importance of Feeling Valued26:54 Understanding Self-Worth27:37 The Role of Fathers in Shaping Self-Worth28:53 The Impact of Parental Communication29:24 The Necessity of Open Conversations29:58 Addressing Sensitive Topics with Sons35:56 The Importance of Physical Affection37:22 Balancing Authority and Affection46:59 Encouraging Emotional Flexibility49:27 Final Thoughts and Encouragement#theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My Ebook: https://stan.store/JohnsandCo  Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help others through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this deeply heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac hold an essential conversation about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover significant topics that affect us all: preparing for mortality, the importance of spiritual grounding, and the necessity of financial responsibility. They share personal stories and insights, emphasizing the need for transparent and early discussions on grief, loss, and life planning. Don't miss out on their invaluable advice and actionable steps to better navigate fatherhood and personal growth. Subscribe now to ensure you never miss an impactful episode. 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Updates and Reflections 00:01:26 The Importance of Health and Mortality Awareness 00:03:10 Preparing for Life's Uncertainties 00:06:46 Conversations About Family Roles and Responsibilities 00:10:33 The Necessity of Planning and Communication 00:20:21 Dealing with Grief and Loss 00:22:09 Planning for the Future 00:24:24 Understanding Grief 00:26:38 Parenting and Emotional Intelligence 00:30:33 A Lesson in Perseverance 00:36:34 Balancing Life's Priorities 00:40:40 Spiritual and Financial Guidance 00:43:19 Final Thoughts and Future Plans #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My Ebook: https://stan.store/JohnsandCo Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, our host, D Johns, engages in a deep and meaningful conversation with Xavier Miller, a remarkable guest who shares his unique life experiences. From growing up in the segregated neighborhoods of Chicago to joining the Air Force and eventually diving into entrepreneurship, Xavier opens up about the lessons he learned along the way. The discussion touches on the significance of fatherhood, the challenges of maintaining strong family relationships, and the invaluable advice received from elders. If you’re seeking wisdom on personal growth, leadership, and the delicate balance of life, this episode is a must-watch. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with more compelling conversations. God bless and peace! 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:00:20 Meet Xavier Miller 00:00:46 Life in Chicago and Moving to Florida 00:02:57 Joining the Military and Life Lessons 00:04:37 Fatherhood Reflections and Lessons Learned 00:13:16 Entrepreneurial Journey and Financial Wisdom 00:21:21 Balancing Family and Business 00:34:16 The Importance of Environment and Influences 00:35:54 Protecting Innocence: A Father's Perspective 00:37:33 Parenting Through Generations 00:39:10 Marriage and Personal Growth 00:43:16 The Reality of Relationships 00:53:57 The Fear of Divorce 01:06:46 The Importance of Headship 01:13:11 Final Thoughts and Reflections #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #entrepreneurship #cryptoinvestor #Parenting Connect with Xavier: https://instagram.com/millionaire.mindsetpod Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My Ebook: https://stan.store/JohnsandCo Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into the importance of having real, impactful conversations with young boys and men on the verge of major life milestones. Drawing from personal experiences, the hosts discuss how to ask the right questions to get meaningful answers, the importance of checking in beyond routine responses, and why it's vital to support your children's true passions—even if they differ from your expectations. This powerful discussion is also inspired by a recent tragedy, emphasizing the importance of doing real-life check-ins. If you want to equip the young men in your life with the wisdom you wish you had, this episode is a must-watch. Like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest conversations! 00:00:00 Welcome to The Dear Son, Show 00:00:26 The Importance of Real Conversations 00:01:34 Dear Son, Let's Talk 00:02:52 Tragic Events and Real-Life Check-ins 00:04:21 Graduation Milestones and Parental Guidance 00:05:45 Navigating Post-High School Decisions 00:16:43 Comparing Paths and Individual Journeys 00:20:08 Modern Career Advice for the Next Generation 00:23:34 Meeting Mentors and Learning Procurement 00:24:14 A Challenging Lesson from a Manager 00:25:20 The Importance of Explaining the Right Thing 00:25:47 Parenting and the Right Answers 00:27:39 Supporting Children's True Passions 00:28:51 Avoiding Personal Regret in Parenting 00:31:48 Balancing Parental Expectations and Children's Desires 00:37:09 Planning for Children's Futures 00:42:05 The Value of Discipline and Finishing What You Start 00:44:04 Final Thoughts and Announcements #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My Ebook: https://stan.store/JohnsandCo Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Join us on this episode of The Dear Son, Show, where host D Johns engages in a profound conversation with educator extraordinaire Mr. Carvell Dangerfield. Dive into the intricate world of fatherhood, education, and personal growth as Mr. Dangerfield shares invaluable insights from his life journey. Discover the challenges and triumphs of raising a son, the impact of technology on today's youth, and the delicate balance of guiding students both in and out of the classroom. This episode is filled with relatable stories, practical advice, and a powerful call to be more intentional in our roles as fathers and educators. Don't miss this meaningful dialogue—subscribe now for more impactful discussions! 00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show 00:00:16 Guest Introduction: Mr. Carve Dangerfield 00:00:45 The Importance of Documenting Conversations 00:01:09 Mr. Dangerfield's Background and Education 00:01:49 Experiences at an HBCU 00:02:58 Challenges and Realities of College Life 00:10:13 Transitioning to a Career in Education 00:11:10 Roles and Responsibilities of a Teacher 00:11:53 Navigating Educational Politics 00:20:53 Student Motivation and Technology Distractions 00:25:35 Parental Involvement and Challenges 00:28:34 Accolades and Teaching Philosophy 00:32:45 Balancing Fatherhood and Teaching 00:36:09 Navigating Music and Parenting 00:45:10 Reflecting on My Relationship with My Father 00:55:09 The Role of God in My Life 00:57:19 Lessons Learned and Advice for My Son 00:01:01:24 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Projects #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Connect with Carvell: https://mrdangerfield.com Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My Ebook: https://stan.store/JohnsandCo Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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