Derek Sivers

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Why did I move to New Zealand?

I get this question a lot, so here’s my honest answer.

02-25
02:55

How to listen to Ulysses

(I haven’t done this yet, but plan to. I listened to that Odysssey audiobook in two days of walking around Port Meadow, Oxford, and have been yearning to listen again.)

02-24
03:04

the birth and reverb of friendship

Imagine you’re a ghost. You drift through the world but nobody sees you. You’re disconnected.

02-23
01:46

a relationship that ended, not failed

I was dating for the first time, after a six year long relationship.

02-22
03:07

Have I been married?

Sofia was my first big love. We met at 21, when we were both in the circus. She opened me up, and taught me how to be honest. I was absolutely certain that I was going to spend the rest of my life with her.

02-20
03:14

Why are my best friends Jewish?

This is a real question. I don’t know the answer and I’m curious.

12-11
02:54

One big choice shapes a hundred more

I was 36, and had been living in Portland for two years. I saw an amazing house for sale — really amazing — stunning design, ideal location on the edge of the city, and its backyard was the start of a huge state park. I had a visceral reaction.

12-10
02:22

Come and get me (both you and AI)

I’m going for the double meaning of “get me” that also means “understand me”.

12-06
01:16

I’m in the final third of my life

According to statistics, I’m in the final third of my life. (I don’t expect to beat the odds, because I inherited a cancer-creating genetic disorder.) So maybe it’s the final quarter.

12-05
01:04

I love the contradiction of religions

Because I was raised with no religion, I used to think they were all ridiculous.

11-26
01:48

The first time I met someone who believes in God

My parents never mentioned God or any religion. Not necessarily atheist — nothing against. The subject just never came up.

11-25
01:50

Dismissed!

Dismissing gives me a quick little lift.

11-18
01:40

I hated Dubai until I learned about it

Dubai was in my “Top 5 places where I NEVER want to go”. I heard it was commercialized hedonism, glorified overindulgence, pandering to millionaires and influencers — extravagance and opulence. Everything I hate. That’s why I had never gone there.

11-16
13:13

To question is to consider, not refute

Tomorrow you have plans to go to an event with a friend. You made the plans a month ago. You ask your friend, “Do you still want to go?”

11-15
01:57

Rats are surprisingly sweet pets

I used to live in a basement apartment, next to the trash room. Rats were often blocking my door, and I could hear them walking in the ceiling right above me as I slept. I hated them so much that I happily killed as many as I could, with no remorse.

11-12
02:44

We don’t need to use what we make

For many years, I was a touring musician, performing live on stage every week. But I didn’t like attending concerts. I liked making music more than listening to music. I felt I must be in the wrong line of work, creating something that I don’t consume. I never reconciled this feeling.

11-11
01:04

Wealth = Have ÷ Want

Not a new idea, but just another visualization and reminder.

09-27
01:15

How to make the best possible translation of a book?

You know that frustration of reading a book that should have been an article? Me too. So I try to do the opposite — to write so succinctly that you wish I would have said a little more. You complete it with your own thoughts.

08-14
02:43

the best book ever written

I’ve asked my favorite musicians if, when they’re done writing a new song, they feel it’s the best song ever. All of them said yes.

04-12
01:34

Ben Kihnel

I just got the call from the super-connected Alex Steininger that our mutual friend Ben Kihnel died in his sleep. He was only 48.

03-28
01:39

Chris Owen

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Eloy Maes

Love this story! Chills at the ending.

11-17 Reply

Reaksmey Higgins

finally

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