What does community service look like in the AB/DL lifestyle? I share the ways I've given back to the community (yikes, if I sound preachy or like I'm bragging, I really don't mean to). I also share ways that you can get involved with community participation (lots of different ways for your comfort levels). Why do it? It just feels good to pitch in and be part of something bigger than yourself. Hope this was inspiring & helpful!! Happy Holidays. All my links at http://www.diaperperv.com
Just checking out my friends new ABDL Nursery (where we live, Las Vegas, NV) and I'm seeing a lot of this stuff for the first time myself! Open the drawers with me. Half the video we just talk about diapers, lol. I discover some new (to me) Japanese diapers from Amazon. Friend is Mister_EEEE on FetLife if you'd like to add him! All my links at http://www.diaperperv.com
You're going to your 1st ABDL Con & have Q's? I've answered some of these questions before on other ABDL convention Q&A videos but here are some of the most common questions that I keep seeing asked time and time again over many social media platforms. Most of these are also diaper specific related questions that I know you're all wondering about. Most of these were sent by a former play partner who's going to his 1st ABDL con ever so I'm really doing this for him. LOL. If you want a "Must Wear Diapers" medical bracelet look for him at Cold Cap(con) next month!! (add him at FetLife: YogiBoi or IG: @diaperedyogis ) Find all my links at http://www.diaperperv.com
It's my first solo video in months & I am NERVOUS! LOL. I see a lot of you asking on social media "What is a play partner (to me)?" and I'm sure you're wondering how does one become my play partner. I've had a good number over the years and I answer all these questions now! My definition of "Play Partner." Am I polyamorous? What I look for in a play partner? and more!
There's a brand new AB/DL convention on Nov 12-16th, 2025 called Littles Jamboree & we're sitting down with the creator, Mommy Belle (aka. Tianas Nursery) to talk about ALL the details. SORRY ABOUT THE AUDIO VOLUME FOR MY VOICE Littles Jamboree will be held in Milwaulkee, WI. Nov 12-16, 2025. Tickets go on sale Nov 28th, 2024 & will have Black Friday deals. We go over the programming schedule, the hotel details, ticket details (includes breakfast buffet & snacks!) & also Halloweeny stuff she's planned! Mommy Belle has her own abdl companies (Little Dreamzzz and PrettyNColor Boutique), has her own Youtube Channel & has taught classes and organized events for many years. Follow the con at http://www.twitter.com/littlesjamboree
There's a brand new AB/DL convention on Nov 12-16th, 2025 called Littles Jamboree & we're sitting down with the creator, Mommy Belle (aka. Tianas Nursery) to talk about ALL the details. Littles Jamboree will be held in Milwaulkee, WI. Nov 12-16, 2025. Tickets go on sale Nov 28th, 2024 & will have Black Friday deals. We go over the programming schedule, the hotel details, ticket details (includes breakfast buffet & snacks!) & also Halloweeny stuff she's planned! Mommy Belle has her own abdl companies (Little Dreamzzz and PrettyNColor Boutique), has her own Youtube Channel & has taught classes and organized events for many years. Follow the convention at http://www.twitter.com/littlesjamboree
We talk about curating your realistic fantasies to come to life. How to plan it? I also talk about a very incredible diaper day I had with a former play partner (story time!!) and some of you guys wanted this spicier types of conversation so here you go!! What would your "BEST Diaper Day" look like and let's make it a reality! Follow me at http://www.diaperperv.com JayBDL is Switchbacks on FL.
Happy ABDL Diaper Day (National Diaper day was Oct 24th). JayBDL and I have a very casual chat about diapers, the advancement of abdl & adult diapers over the years and what you can do to celebrate. In all seriousness, every day should be diaper appreciation day so let's all wear one & wet it together in collaborative solidarity & give diaper butt bumps (like fist bumps but with your padded butts) to all your AB/DL buddies! Find me at http://www.diaperperv.com JayBDL is Switchbacks on FL.
Donny and I talk about 7 common mistakes we see people making in AB/DL. And you may be missing out because of these. 1. Thinking that women don't go to events. 2. Not going to event at all. 3. Not paying attention to red flags! 4. Pushing AB/DL onto others without consent. 5. Confusing fantasy with reality. 6. Pigeonholing yourself to one thing. 7. Finding a caregiver isn't the end goal. Do you agree or disagree? Sound off in the comments! Make sure to watch Part 1 "5 ABDL Mistakes You may be Making!" https://youtu.be/6PpAvU946JQ?si=b2Fqx-qsgUWoPklR And "5 Mistakes at AB/DL Conventions!" https://youtu.be/uD-ouZmEELs?si=9cbhUuvAhFCzB6sp
Get to know Baby Donny! You've seen him on my youtube videos, maybe seen him or hung with him at one of the many national events he attends... get to know Baby Donnys (Aka. famous pornstar Draven Navarro) ongoing ABDL journey & the secret to his diaper confidence. All my links at Diaperperv.com Baby Donny at Draven Navarro Twitter
A very LONG WINDED conversation about how to find a good pro-diaper fantasy facilitator and mitigate your risks of getting ripped off. In short (really, this convo could have been a total of 6 minutes long) 1. Remove your emotions during the search process. 2. Vet them! Remember, they're working for you! 3. Communicate what you want out of the experience. 4. Do a video/text/voice session first. 5. If you don't have a good feeling, keep searching! Finding a great facilitator who clicks with you might take some searching or traveling. Try out different people. And organize yourself and your thoughts before but also keep an open mind while you're meeting people. Don't forget to have fun. YOLO! Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com JayBDL is Switchbacks on FL.
I was highly amused while editing this because I was SO TRIGGERED just talking about it that I could not properly communicate and articulate myself, LOL. All I can do is laugh about it now. Ever since I got online at 19 and found out I was not alone in my interests... I've been scrutinized, been suspicious of, questioned about whether I'm "real" or if I actually have the fetishes I have & not believed. Why does this still happen?? Seriously though, I think there's enough of me online to show you who I am at this point. Thank you to JayBDL (Switchbacks on FL) for talking through this with me & helping me see another point of view.
I know it can get boring having ABDL kinks/interests by yourself but Donny, Livewire and JayBDL all chime in with ways they try to keep it entertaining and fun for themselves. Hope you get some new ideas or scenarios to try out & keep it light & fun everyone! Comment below with your favorite solo play ideas! Find me at http://www.diaperperv.com Some of my older ABDL videos that you may find helpful: Joining the ABDL Community (updated) https://youtu.be/9ukRSoNDTDE?si=YSMwwFpHwQUvQALF Being your own Big! https://youtu.be/UsROGSIN5NY?si=1ydOC3hDl_yZ-ib1 ABDL Events Guide: https://youtu.be/Aitf1O2KJdU?si=jAttKeYfoZ2Y3jvu
For many, diapers + "punishment" go hand in hand. For some, just having someone put the diaper on is punishment enough, but what else is there? I've had SO many requests for AB/DL's whose partners need help for "diaper punishment" ideas & they don't really know what to do. We all pitch in with ideas; Donny & Livewire have some great ones! We also do a show & tell of different devices & fun "toys" to enhance the experience! JayBDL does a great job of moderating us and keeping it flowing. There's a LOT of toys shown so if you can, please watch it on Youtube Do you have any favorite "diaper punishment" ideas? Share them below!!
That's right! JayBDL actually told his mom about his diaper fetish & ABDL interests. So how did she react? Listen & find out. Diaperperv & JayDBL discuss who we've all told in our lives & what their reactions were. Why would you even want anyone in your life to know about it?? We discuss that too! NOTE: We were driving as we recorded this (on my phone) so there's steady background road noise. I tried to de-noise it but it just sounded even weirder.
We cover this sex topic AGAIN but in much more detail. It really helps when JayBDL moderates us as we talk about all the different ways to incorporate our diaper fetish with penetrative adult fun! We also cut a hole into the ABU Tiny Tails to make a DSD (diaper s3x diaper!) for some wholesome crafting. Baby Donny can be found on twitter as @draven_navarro Livewire25 can be found on FL. Diaperperv & my socials can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com
Earlier this week, @ZaciRoo shared his 2024 ABDL wishlist so now it's my turn to share mine!! I don't think most of these will happen but let's but it out into the ABUniverse anyways. These are not my personal wishes, just general wishes that I think would benefit the community! What's on your AB/DL wishlist this year?? The current AB/DL worldwide events list is at http://www.whyabdl.org/events (email him if you want your event listed) http://www.diaperperv.com for all my links & socials!
Why are there so many scammers (successfully) trying to take advantage of AB's and DL's in the scene? What is considered a scam & what is not? @ZaciRoo & I talk about the different ways scammers try to fleece you & the warning signs to look for! More people are probably scammed than we know because it is embarrassing to admit it if you were. Please DON'T send anonymous online people face pics/vids of yourself & don't send anyone money that you don't know and trust. All Diaperpervs links!
There's been a lot more eyes on the terms AB/DL, ageplayer, diaper lovers & adult babies in the media lately! With that comes a LOT of misconceptions and stereotypes, mainly due to the media & those that aren't great representatives of the lifestyle that talk to the media. Adult babies are not... well you'll just have to watch it! Adult babies are: 1. productive members of society from all walks of life. 2. aware of cleanliness & hygeine. 3. keep listening! Joined by my long time non-abdl friend Ashley who's also learning about the lifestyle!! (Note: Ashley is a stage name she picked for this video & she'd forget when we referred to her as "Ashley." LOL) ABDL terminology & slang video: https://youtu.be/0r9vjSwFZ6I Adult Babies in media are false: https://youtu.be/fa082Ys80jQ ALL my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com
Just in time for Capcon 2024! Baby Donny, my non-ABDL friend Ashley and I (Diaperperv) talk about ways to overcome shyness, get out there and engage with people! There's lot of tips and our own stories. I think almost all of us has been there and events can be quite intimidating when you're new, or not new. It's normal to feel nervous but what if your shyness is preventing you from living your life to the fullest! Ashley's got some great advice! Watch "Attending my 1st Capcon alone & how I dealt with shyness: • AB/DL Event Anxiety - 1st Capcon was ... In all honestly, I don't think we 3 were the best at giving "shyness tips" because we're not really shy or have social anxiety or anxiety in general. So take the discussion as it is & we'd like to do better next time. All my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com