Disrupt the Pattern

Our story will continue, but we will be closing the book on Disrupt the Pattern for now. Check out the video and stay authentic my friends. 🫶🏻

Sharing our story from 2002 when we met! As stated in this episode - Here’s the link to join our email list and get weekly inside perspectives and content: https://disruptthepattern.com/join-the-email If you want to share your story - email clientcare@disruptthepattern.com

We found a common thread with these 3 things… Your parents, your past relationships, and your own insecurities. While each of these are widely different for each of us, they all impact how we show up for and with our spouse and how we connect with them in any level of intimacy - because: intimacy is so much more than what happens in the bedroom.   Grab our FREE "Systems Check" guide here to see if there are areas you can strengthen in your marriage and family: https://disruptthepattern.com/free-guide-optin   Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch.   Want to connect more? Sign up for our email updates here: https://disruptthepattern.com/join-the-email   To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

INTIMACY ISSUES… every marriage has them at some level, but what you may not realize is that you’re bringing a lot of influences “in bed” with you and it can create some major barriers to healthy intimacy in your marriage. In fact, the church culture has even created some of the problem, but world culture has definitely contributed its own darkness as well. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch.   Want to connect more? Sign up for our email updates here: https://disruptthepattern.com/join-the-email

ROOMMATE mode… We were there!! And we didn't even see it coming. It's a place that almost every marriage gets to, and can be really dangerous to your marriage if it's not recognized and dealt with.   Grab our FREE "Systems Check" guide here to see if there are areas you can strengthen in your marriage and family: https://disruptthepattern.com/free-guide-optin   Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch.   Want to connect more? Sign up for our email updates here: https://disruptthepattern.com/join-the-email   To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

There are SO many things pulling us away from quality family time, and yes - sports can be one of them. We discuss the different distractions here.   As mentioned in the episode - here's our list of family activities you can use for ideas on how to create quality family time: https://bit.ly/FamilyActivityIdeas   Want to connect more and get more resources? Sign join our email list here: https://bit.ly/FollowDisruptThePattern   Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Hear our TOP 10 ideas to help reduce the temptation and "repel" an affair happening in your marriage. Check out the full list here: https://bit.ly/AffairRepellants Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! Want to connect more or reach out? Sign up for our email updates here: https://bit.ly/FollowDisruptThePattern

How cool that we get to interview our daughter and get her perspective on family relationships and faith in our home! Take a listen! Grab our FREE "Family Systems Check" guide here to see if there are areas you can strengthen in your marriage and family: https://bit.ly/FamilySystemsCheck Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! Want to connect more? Sign up for our email updates here: https://bit.ly/FollowDisruptThePattern

STOP thinking your spouse will complete you. In this episode, we discuss different expectations men & women put on their spouse and why that's making things a big mess. Grab our free "Family Systems Check" guide to see if there's areas you can strengthen in your marriage and family: https://bit.ly/FamilySystemsCheck Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

There's no denying that 'til death do us part' isn't holding up as much as it used to. Our culture is developing a "norm" of broken marriages and families and we're discussing why that is and how we can change it. Grab our free "Family Systems Check" guide to see if there's areas you can strengthen in your marriage and family: https://bit.ly/FamilySystemsCheck Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

Using answers from our followers, we discuss the top 2 most common reasons we think marriage is difficult. Wondering if you need to disrupt some patterns in your home? Grab our free "Family Systems Check" guide to find out: https://bit.ly/FamilySystemsCheck To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, Disrupt the Pattern. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ23fAKSGht18bBjpL_TTYA to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

This is an intro to who we are and what "Disrupt the Pattern is about" as well as what you can expect weekly from us.