In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola takes a deeply personal dive into the theme of balance—how she navigates the push and pull between work and play, doing and being, connection and self-sovereignty. Through heartfelt reflection, Nicola explores how extremes in her life and relationships have shaped her understanding of masculine and feminine energies, independence and intimacy, and the ongoing dance of aligning the mind and heart. Some key highlights you’ll hear: The subtle ways imbalan...
In this intimate solo episode of Divine Union™, Nicola shares her personal journey of always seeking to be seen by the masculine, and how that longing shaped her choices in love, intimacy, and self-expression. Through stories of romance, heartbreak, and the moments where she shrank or self-sacrificed, she reveals the deeper truth: every breakdown was guiding her back to herself. You’ll hear: How seeking validation in love can pull us away from ourselvesThe cost of self-sacrifice and what it t...
In this special episode of Divine Union™, recorded on Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year and the symbolic birth of the universe and humanity itself, Nicola explores karmic relationships, their place in our lives, and for soul’s correction, or tikkun. Through teachings from Kabbalah and lived experience, she reflects on how our deepest wounds, like longing for validation, fear of abandonment, and being disrespected, are sacred invitations. Our souls call in these exact dynamics to help us grow...
Life shifts can feel uncertain. But they’re actually divine invitations to realign, reinvent, and step into what truly matters. In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola welcomes Leanne Elliott, certified reiki master, intuitive guide, writer, and host of The Living Wellness Muse podcast, to explore how to navigate major life pivots with greater clarity and ease, so you can release what no longer serves you and move toward a life that feels fully yours. Some things they cover: Recognizing when...
What really happens when we say we’re giving, but underneath, we’re actually taking? In this episode, Nicola explores the hidden agreements in our relationships: serving, accepting, taking, and allowing, and how they shift when done in the light versus how they manifest in the shadow, using Dr. Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent as a framework to understand the quiet bargains of desire and exchange that shape intimacy, connection, and relational dynamics. Subscribe to Nicola's Newsletter for i...
In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola explores polarity as a living principle that fuels attraction, intimacy, and depth in partnership. Through the lens of opposition and contrast, you’ll discover how the dance between polarities creates magnetic connection, and how to intentionally cultivate it, whether in conflict, the bedroom, or anywhere in between. You’ll walk away with tools to spark passion, invite greater presence, and experience the beauty of polarity across all relationships, ro...
In today’s episode of Divine Union™, Nicola explores why cultivating inner polarity, the balance of our inner masculine and feminine energies, is the key to creating outer polarity and the sacred dance of union. She unpacks how embodying both ends of the energetic spectrum builds attraction, magnetism, and passion in partnership. And why expanding your range within yourself is what fuels intimacy, devotion, and aliveness with another. If you’ve ever wondered why connection fades when roles ge...
In this episode of Divine Union™, we explore the art of balance and how aligning our active and passive energies, or our masculine and feminine energies, creates fulfillment in intimacy, leadership, and life. You’ll hear how imbalance shows up in relationships, work, and personal well-being, and why cultivating balance is the key to deeper love, empowered leadership, and inner harmony. This episode offers insight and tools to help you come into greater wholeness and groundedness within. Menti...
A gift from us to you. In today's episode of Divine Union™, Nicola takes you on a journey with a Taoist Microcosmic Orbit meditation to help you transform stuck or crunchy emotions and move your qi through your body’s energy centers. Perfect for starting your day with clarity, winding down in peace, or finding your center anytime you need it. Subscribe to Nicola's Newsletter for intimacy and communication content, along with exclusive special offers. Connect with Nicola on Instagram S...
What if your next level was less about doing more, and more about becoming the version of you who can hold more? In this conversation, Nicola sits down with Katie Rogers, Feminine Leadership and Embodiment Coach, who shares her journey and how leaders can move from high-performing chase cycles to becoming their own energetic authority, building abundance, safety, and true wealth in aligned, easeful ways. They dive into identity as strategy, nervous system wealth, and why sourcing from within ...
Why do we feel the need to resolve everything in one conversation? In this episode of Divine Union, Nicola explores the quiet truth that not all conflict needs to be wrapped up quickly. Rushing resolution can actually short-circuit intimacy, leaving us disconnected instead of closer. Through story, client insight, and personal reflection, she invites us into a more spacious, attuned approach to conflict, one rooted in presence, permission, and the unfolding nature of connection. Whether you’r...
In this tender solo episode, Nicola opens up about something rarely spoken about the ache of loneliness, even as a relationship coach. Whether you're single or partnered, this episode invites you to rethink what loneliness means and explores the deeper truth behind our longing to be completed by another. She dives into self-pleasure as a sacred practice, the illusion of wholeness through partnership, and the spiritual dance of inner union. If you’ve ever felt the ache to be met, to be held, o...
In this episode of Divine Union, Nicola is joined by Sarah Walton, business coach, sales expert, and international speaker, to go beyond the usual chatter about money and dig into the deep beliefs that shape how we see and experience abundance. What if the secret to financial freedom isn’t in the things we chase but in the space around them? Sarah unpacks the money narrative and creates a new one. Some key highlights we discussed. 3 core money myths that keep us stuck in sca...
In today's episode of Divine Union, Nicola dives into the subtle dance between connection and sovereignty, and how we navigate space, silence, and self-honoring in relationships of all kinds. Whether it’s with a partner, a friend, or a collaborator, this episode explores the unspoken dynamics of boundaries, the fear of being “too much” or “not enough,” and how to anchor into your truth without collapsing into codependence. Nicola shares personal reflections on recent experiences in business a...
On this episode of Divine Union, Nicola explores how play can be a portal back to vibrancy and confidence, especially in the face of challenge or rejection. Whether you're navigating heartbreak, business setbacks, or tension in relationships, play does wonders for your internal state and relationally. Internally, it lifts your energy. Relationally, it can create a soft space for reflection, open up connection, and help shift heavier dynamics with lightness and care. In this episode, you...
What if conflict isn’t a problem to fix, but a doorway to deeper connection? In this episode of Divine Union, Nicola unpacks one of the most avoided and misunderstood aspects of human interaction: conflict. She explores how disagreements, emotional flare-ups, and moments of misattunement can become powerful openings for greater trust, truth, and intimacy. Through story and embodied insight, Nicola reveals why we often miss each other in conflict, whether at home or at work, and how to s...
In today's episode of the Divine Union podcast, Nicola sits down with Nikki Ananda, Sacred Feminine Embodiment Mentor, to discuss all things walking in Union, with self, with God, in relationship, and with all of life. We dig into the path to Union through her teachings on the nervous system, yogic philosophies of the Koshas and energetic bodies, polarity, sacred sexuality, and so much more. This incredible conversation will leave you feeling inspired, expansive, and you probably will have to...
In this soul-stirring episode of Divine Union, we explore the tender, nuanced dance between togetherness and separateness in relationships. How do we stay rooted in our individuality while nurturing deep connection? How do we honor silence, spaciousness, and sovereignty without slipping into disconnection or codependency? Drawing from her work with couples and individuals, Nicola unpacks why spaciousness is essential for intimacy, how communication supports healthy sovereignty, and why ...
Using Story to Deepen Intimacy, Build Influence, and Create More Harmony in Your Relationships. How do you tell someone you're hurt without having to say “I’m hurt”?Or to invite a more avoidant partner into a conflict in a way that is seductive, seamless, and fun?To give feedback in a way that is received with openness?To be the one people go to for advice, and they value your opinion?In this soulful episode of Divine Union, we explore the art of communication that transforms relationships, f...
Why is it so hard for women to truly receive? In this heartfelt and illuminating conversation, Nicola sits down with Diana Eskander, Love Coach and Founder of The School of Love™, to explore the deeper emotional, energetic, and societal blocks that often prevent women from receiving. Together, they unpack: What receiving actually looks like in practiceThe hidden fears, beliefs, and existential kinks that keep women from receiving and feeling fulfilledHow receiving shifts the dynamic in romant...