Hey Listeners 👋,It's been some time since we recorded and upload a new episode! Too long in fact. You will also notice some changes, in that it's just Tom Nash - Mr Divorce Coach on episodes moving forward. I recently spoke to a former client of mine, who spent the best part of 2023 working with me as their Divorce Coach, following an introduction from their Family Lawyer, who rightly recognised that whilst they know the law... I know the emotions and lived experience of Divorce/Sep...
Hey Listeners 👋,We've had a lot of professionals on the show and those that seek to support a client in various ways through a divorce / separation. But I wanted to start bringing you some personal stories, from individuals (and hopefully some couples) about their own experiences of divorce, separation, co-parenting, the family courts and more. 20th June 2022 (day of posting) is "International Fathers' Mental Health Day"... Conveniently it's the day after Fathers Day (UK), so it seemed v...
Hey Listeners 👋,Welcome to the (sometimes scary) world of Dating After Divorce / Separation! In this episode of the DCP, Tom & Fay talk to Nevine Coutry, Founder & CEO of THE UK's Dating App for single parents, PlayDateNevine is a divorced single mum living in London, with the "single" world at her feet, you'd like to think a potential endless possibility of opportunities to date being in the big City would mean she'd have no problems finding a new person to share her life with... So ...
Hey Listeners 👋,In our last few episodes of The Divorce Coaching Podcast, we have been looking at the different ways and resources to help you and your fellow co-parent manage and transition through this phase of divorce/separation in relation to your children. We still have a few more episodes coming up on the CoParenting front but, I also wanted to bring you something fresh and unfortunately, not very well known of in the process of your divorce and legal proceedings! In the UK, Legal ...
Hey Listeners 👋,In our last episode of The Divorce Coaching Podcast, we looked at Tech and Divorce, how tech can be helpful or a hinderance, with a specific look at Co-Parenting tech such as Our Family Wizard...Well we're going analogue for this next episode people! Yep we're going back to the old school with pen, paper, crayons, drawing and more... And still in keeping with our recent theme around Co-Parenting, Divorce, Emotional Impacts and Lived Experiences. In this episode, Ep26 of t...
Hey Listeners 👋,Tech can be helpful or it can be a hinderance during a divorce or separation! In this episode of The Divorce Coaching Podcast, I talk to James Evans, Professional Liaison at Our Family Wizard... a very helpful bit of tech for divorcing / separating co-parents 📲James kindly talks us through some of the vast functionality of the OFW App, we cover a number of real-life everyday situations and circumstances can assist with:- Who is the App for? 1 parent? Both parents? The Kids? Yo...
Hey Listeners 👋🎧In this episode of The Divorce Coaching Podcast (Ep27 on YouTube & Ep24 on here!!! 🤩 WHEN did that happen😱!!), Fay & I talk to my fellow Co-Parenting guru and Instagram friend from across the pond, Jen Gallagher from SingleParentingSolutions.com. Jen has been #coparenting with her ex and their son since before their childs birth!!! Who knew you could start that early right. I was amazed to hear Jen's story, but more so than that, her expert tips for #singlepa...
Hey Listeners 👋,"Do I HAVE to go to Court?"... A question I get asked all the time as a Divorce Coach. The answer to this question ends up going down the rabbit the hole of what we call DR, Dispute Resolution (also known as ADR=Alternative DR, NCDR=Non-Court DR).Another Divorce Coaching Podcast episode and another Divorce Myth Dispelled 🧙...In this episode, Fay & I have a lovely chat with Corinne Parke, Family Law Partner at Law Firm, Child & Child. Corinne & I (Tom) work tog...
Hey Listeners, Fay & I have been talking to more divorce & separation professionals, to bring you more knowledge, resources and truths about different topics...In this episode we talk to Hafsa Patel from Primrose Mediation, an expert family mediator and all round lovely person. We're asking lots of questions today about what Mediation really is?How it works?Can you use it for both financial and child matters?What should someone prepare for Mediation?What's a MIAM?We leave no...
Hey Listeners 👋Our first episode of the Divorce Coaching Podcast for 2022, sees Fay & I continuing with our theme of "Divorce Myths Dispelled" as we have a lovely chat with Paul Linsell, expert Family Law Professional who heads up the Family Law team at Boyes Turner.In this episode we get detailed and specific on a number of myths that come up a lot!..From "is it only mum who has parental responsibility?" To "do men only pay child maintenance?"And one of my favourites "is the family ...
Hey 👋,Welcome to another episode of The Divorce Coaching Podcast...Fay & I are on little mission to dispel some Divorce Myths!?... And bring you, the viewers, some hard facts and detailed truths from industry professionals. This episode is all about Parental Alienation. What it is? Both how it is defined in terminology & how to spot it. Did you know there are 3 main types of Parental Alienation! We ask questions like "do the kids have a voice?""Can you get a psycho...
Hey 👋In this episode we have Resolution Certified Divorce Financial Planner extraordinaire, Tamsin Caine of Smart Divorce join Fay & I on the DCP channel. We're talking about getting those financial ducks in a row today, along with real-life, everyday experiences and questions anyone may find themselves thinking about when it comes to their own divorce or separation. Tamsin knows, like Fay & I, she's been through it herself and now uses her super power (more than just a calculato...
Hey Listeners 👋,Question? Are all Ex's Narcissists? Read on... Fay & I took the summer off and had a little break to recharge our Podcast batteries, but we're back with a bang and have brought you an awe-inspiring guest for this episode of The Divorce Coaching Podcast. Dr Supriya McKenna MBBS, also know as "The Life Doctor", is one of the top specialists in the UK in NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and Co-Author of the highly recommended book: Divorcing a Narcissist.If y...
Hey Listeners 🎧Ep17 of the Divorce Coaching Podcast is quite a special one indeed. This week it's just me and 2 of my 4 blended family beauties, Zac & Sam joined me in the yellow chair to give us some insights into what it's like being a child of divorce 😍These two young gentlemen came out with some absolutely gems, they clearly do listen to me sometimes as they are dropping verbal bombs about going through "transformations" and more (mic drop for the boys) 🎤Zac & Sam are "step" sibli...
Hey Listeners 👋,The Divorce Coaching Podcast has yet another amazing guest for you this week, the effervescent and happy smiley Surrogacy Family Law superstar that is Natalie Sutherland. Natalie is a Partner at Burgess Mee Family Law and a hugely respected specialist in Surrogacy & Donor Conception. She shares lots of knowledge both emotional and practical in this episode, about what to expect and the trials and tribulations one might go through during this process.As Natalie says herself...
Hey Listeners 🎧WHAT IS CHILD INCLUSIVE MEDIATION? 💭There are many forms of mediation, one of which peaked my interest when hearing more about it a little while ago from my good friend and expert in her field, Louisa Whitney at LKW Family Mediation. Louisa is a specialist mediator and works in a very interesting area that is all about putting "child at the centre, NOT the middle".It might be your divorce / separation... but it's your kids experiences and life-long lessons that will show you wh...
Hey Listeners 🎧What is a Nesting Arrangement!?... We ask Family Law Professional Rosalind Fitzgerald of Rayden Solicitors. Why did we ask Ros?... Well she's not only a fantastic Family Solicitors (which she very mush is) but she has lived and breathed her own personal life experience as a separated mum and divorcee with her family living through their own Nesting Arrangements journey. So who better to ask really! So what is a Nesting Arrangement and how does it work?... Listen ...
Ep13 is all about starting over after your divorce / separation. Now I thought Fay & I were going to go down the practical route in this chat of the nuts and bolts of what do you do after the "formal" process was done... But straight out the gate and Fay jumps in with a banger of question that I was expecting... "what was the major change you had to navigate after..." and it turns out she meant after "that conversation"!!! Like immediately after... Where would I stay that first night?When...
In this episode (#12) Fay & I delve into the world of "Dating After Divorce" 😱Do you get back out there? If so, when? How long do you wait?How do you go about it?Digital Dating - Have you ever had to date via an App?! What's swiping right/left?Who do you date?Do you have new criteria in what a "good" partner looks like?And for some people, they even may be asking why?? Why would I want to!Yep we talking about everything from catfishing (and kitten-fishing) to the ups and downs of dating p...
"You are what you eat" Or are you? Or more importantly for our audience, does what you eat affect your divorce? How you'll act? How you'll feel?We thought we'd ask a Pro so we talked to Saffron Rogerson, a Nutritional Therapist from www.thislifenutrition.co.uk We've likely all thought an ex was nuts... but I'd never thought that eating them (nuts not my ex!) could impact so much both physically, mentally & emotionally. Have a watch and tell us your thoughts... comments below 👇We're also n...