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Welcome to Divorce Ed. 101, or Divorc{ed} 101 as we like to call it. The host of this podcast, Rich, is currently going through a divorce. He is going to share his thoughts and experiences throughout his journey. Rich's hope is that he will help enable other couples going through the same thing to find some solace and some solidarity; and maybe provide a few laughs along the way. It's about life, legal processes, relationships, personal problems and everything else you can think of it. The podcast episodes are meant to be easily consumable. Really you can listen to them in any order you would like, so jump right in. Starting at the beginning would probably help with continuity and context but its dealers choice, folks! Unfortunately a lot of people experience the pain and heartache of divorce in their lifetimes and there are so many different emotions that come along with that, dealing with them can sometimes seem overwhelming. So lets laugh at the lamentations together. Listen along while I navigate the waters of post married life. Divorce can be brutal and devastating but it doesn't always have to be, however when it is, it pays to have some friends along the way. I cant promise you anything. The only thing I know for sure is that neither one of our lives will be the same, time for some new beginnings.
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Richard waxes philosophical about New Years Resolutions, making memories with his nephew and having nerf wars. He also talks about giving rather than receiving and how to do it appropriately.
Vegas Baby! Rich tells his tale of mosh pit madness and talks about going on adventures all on your own.
Rich talks about being comfortable with new people, and getting accustomed to their habits. He also talks about his flatulence and how it affects relationships is weighed in on.
Rich is back for season two of Divorce(d) 101! Dating in the after life is his way of saying dating after marriage - how does it go? Who does he meet? Only time will tell.
Rich apologizes for being a day late and a dollar short. He pontificates about consideration and acknowledging other people. Sorry for the sound quality!
Rich talks about ambition and effort in life. He screws up a Woody Hayes quote and laughs about working too hard.
Rich talks about forgiveness, how sometimes its more for yourself than the other person. Healing through the process of forgiving another person is a challenging thing and he talks about his relationship with his father and how he was able to move beyond the major issues in their relationship.
Rich talks about love, and losing it. He theorizes on how we deem who is worthy of our love and why we decide to love the people we do. Rich also talks about the power of love and how you can use it to help everyone around you. Hope you all enjoy!
Rich talks about the passage of time, and it how it can be elastic. The sweet is never is sweet without the bitter and remembering to cherish the good times, even more so because of the bad is a good lesson to . Rich also pontificates on the cliche about how time heals all wounds.
Rich talks about getting back what you put in, meaning the amount of effort you exert is what you should expect in return. Also he pontificates about selflessness and being able to to sacrifice in the now, for the future. He also talks about valuing yourself, and showing up for yourself and how important that is.
Rich talks about doing things the way he wants to do them, tells a story about loading the dishwasher. He unpacks how it feels performing tasks that he never used to do, and how it feels to do it in his own way. We all have our own habits and patterns, and now we are learning to do it on our own timelines and in our own ways. NOTE: Sorry for posting a day late, life got in the way - don't judge me.
Rich talks about remembering the good old days, identifying what was great about them but also remembering the opposite side of that. He also talks about living in the moment, and helping his son through a really tough breakup. Hope you guys enjoy!
Rich talks about being solo, and the idea of loneliness. How to be secure by yourself and finding the peace within. It's important to be alright being comfortable by yourself and being with just yourself. He dialogs about the process of becoming accustomed to being truly alone and why it is not really a bad thing. Rich also discusses therapy, and the importance of finding the right fit. There's nothing wrong with wanting to improve upon yourself. If you care about yourself you don't have to worry about anyone else caring about you; but when they do you are able to be the best version of yourself for them. Hope you all enjoy!
Rich talks about the act of separating and how that looks as he and his ex move away from each other. He talks about some personal details regarding the separation to allow for context into the divorce. Also he throws some ideas in there about how to handle the good and the bad days, along with some self deprecating humor. Chloe the bear dog makes a guest appearance, it probably won't be her last.
Rich talks about the importance of emotional assets and how you need to work with your partner to successfully move on from the relationship. Ultimately you both want the same outcome, happiness. As he says, "It's time to get the gang back together for one last adventure!" Hopefully to make sure that you both can move onto your own separate, happy, and very fulfilled lives.
Rich further elaborates about equitable distribution and its true meaning. Equitable does not actually mean EVEN, and why that statement can be misleading. He also discusses the different variables that can be considered by a judge when determining what is, and is not fair. Rich provides a list of states that are not equitable distribution states, known as common property states and they can be found here:https://www.divorcenet.com/states/nationwide/property_division_by_state(Correction Rich said 8 states during the podcast but there are 9 common property states!)Rich also talks about his ex-wife moving out and the emotional toll it can take on a person, from his own point of view.
Our second episode talks more about some of the mediation topics previously mentioned and touches the finer points of haggling over assets; as well as how to truly get the outcome you ultimately want. Rich also talk about separation periods and why they are important for a couple to be able to gain perspective and understand each others needs. He also pontificates about the status of his mental state and the separation of the couples tangible assets.
This episode introduces the Podcast and its host Rich and quickly delves into the topic of conversation(s) for most of the episodes. Which is his divorce and relationship; and how he is handling it. His hope is to provide some witty commentary and guidance on somethings you can do to safeguard yourself during the process. This is meant for both men and women, and does focus mainly on uncontested divorces, though we will delve into some of the deeper more complex topics here and there. There is no real structure, it's just a talk track about feelings, or things that come up throughout a divorce. Some of the processes, agreements and things that you will need to do. Really its just one dudes take on how his divorce is playing out which will hopefully help some of you strangers out there.
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