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Unleash The Greatness Within Your Dog! - Expert Dog Trainer, Doggy Dan, shares his ’No Force, No Fear, No Aggression’ method of dog and puppy training. His kind and gentle way of training your dog is also fun and easy to learn, and solves the growing problem of dog reactivity. In these podcasts he’ll teach you how to become the pack leader and get genuine results - often within minutes. You’ll also learn everything you need to know about raising a happy and healthy dog. Doggy Dan runs TheOnlineDogTrainer.com that has over 250 videos of Dan in action training real dogs of all breeds, with every kind of problem. Whether you’re a seasoned pro, or just bringing home your first puppy, there’s something for everyone!
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Walking your dog is a crucial part of raising and training them; thus, knowing the two types of dog walks can make a HUGE difference to your training experience.
"Doggy Dan, is there more than just one way to do dog walks?"
Yes… and my goal is to help dog owners tap into the power of switching walking styles to make the most out of dog walks.
In this blog, I will talk about the two types of dog walks, why you need to know both, and how to know which type to use best.
Read on to learn more.
The Two Types of Dog Walks: Why You Need More Than Just One Type of Walk
All walk and no play makes your dog a very irritable and restless pet.
A common misconception among dog owners regarding walking dogs is that there's only one walking style to follow from start to finish.
As a dog trainer who has helped dogs and their owners make walks effective while having fun, I know that sticking to one walking style can make your time outdoors an absolute struggle!
Because let's be honest: our dogs are playful, and the outdoors is the perfect setting for unleashing their love for fun!
Expecting them to follow one style of walking (and nothing else!) sets you and your dog up for frustration!
So, what do you do to make outdoor walks more effective? Here are the two types of dog walks you should follow.
The Structured Walk
The first dog-walking style is the “structured walk”.
Even though it is not THE ONLY walk you can do, it is undoubtedly the most important walk you should master.
Most dog owners feel this type of walk is the gold standard, the only way to do things. (More on this later.)
During the structured walk, your dog walks with a leash, and you absolutely are in control of the entire walk.
You give commands, you decide what your dog can and can't do, and your dog is expected to follow your charge.
This is the walking style that tells your dog, "I am in charge of the walk. I make the decisions. You listen to my commands."
When you engage in a structured walk, you drive the entire walk, and your dog has to follow YOUR charge.
The Social Walk
Now, this walking style is what your dog loves!
The walk becomes social when your dog can roam free and do what they want for a time.
The walk doesn't have a structure, and dogs are more accessible to sniff posts, or check out areas they want to see.
Compared to The Structured Walk, this more relaxed option allows your dog to really have fun and socialize!
Two Types of Dog Walks: What the Structured Walk Teaches Your Dog
Walking your dog the structured way sends them this important message: you're in charge of the walk, not them.
The Structured Walk is crucial because it can solve typical dog walking problems such as leash pulling, aggression, overexcitement, and outdoor anxiety.
Sure, you will be giving your dog the freedom to roam around and freely explore, but before you do that, your dog must understand you make the calls.
And it is during the structured walks that your dog firmly gets the message that makes them say, "Ahh, I should listen to my owner's commands before I do anything during the walk."
I actually talk more about The Structured Walk in my blog on the best way to walk dogs, the fifth in my Five Golden Rules series.
In a nutshell, The Structured walk is critical because it teaches your dog they're not in charge. And when your dog knows they don't make the calls, they relax, they become less aggressive, and they come to your call (which is an absolute need if you're going to switch to The Social Walk).
What the Social Walk Teaches Your Dog
The Social Walk is about having fun!
Here's the truth: we can't expect our dogs to spend the entire 30 minutes of their time outdoors just following a structured walk.
They're already outdoors; they need to explore, run, sniff, and play.
The social walk allows your dog to enjoy a little fun and downtime during your walk.
Which Should You Do With Your Dog: How to Know Which Walk to Choose
So, how do you know which walk to choose between the types of dog walks?
When To Use the Structured Walk
If you live in a city with limited free space for your dog to roam around, most of your dog walks will be structured (aka, dog on a leash with you commanding your dog what to do).
However, if your place has ample space, I recommend using the first five to ten minutes of your time outdoors doing a structured walk BEFORE letting your dog walk more freely.
I also recommend using a Structured Walk at the start and the end of EVERY walk to establish and re-establish your role as the one in charge of your time outside.
Before you stop the Structured walk to make the switch to Social, I encourage you to ask the following questions:
Is my dog coming to me when I call them?
Do they have spiked-up energy levels?
Do they tend to be aggressive?
Does my dog understand boundaries?
Have I established clear dog-walking commands with my dog?
If safety is an issue for your dog and others, I recommend staying on structured walks before it's absolutely safe to give them freedom.
When to Use the Social Walk
Your dog WILL become restless after a few minutes of Structured Walks. The outdoors is so exciting for them to stay still.
There is a problem if you wait for your dog to pull the leash before you allow them to have their free time.
Because a simple tug on the leash is like your dog saying, "Hey, it's fun time!" when you give in to the pull, you're sending the message that your dog makes the call.
So here's what I recommend you do:
Assess when your dog starts becoming restless. Observe how long into the walk they start pulling the leash.
Start the walk structured. Continue with the structured walk for five to ten minutes before they tell you to let them run.
Let them enjoy their social walks.
Before you end, switch back to the Structured Walk to re-establish leadership.
How Using Two Types of Dog Walks Can Change Your Walking Experience With Your Dogs
Perfect Balance
Think of structured walks like school time, where your dog learns the rules, and social walks like playtime, where they just get to be a dog. Mixing it up means your dog gets a healthy dose of discipline and fun!
More Fun for Everyone
Ever get bored of the same old routine? Your dog does, too! Switching between structured and social walks keeps things interesting for both of you. It's like sometimes you're the teacher, and other times you're both just pals exploring the world together.
Clear Leadership and Joy
On structured walks, you're the boss, and your dog learns to follow the leader — that's you! But you show them you're not the uptight, no-fun leader during social walks. You still let them have fun. This balance shows your dog that you're not just in charge, but you're also their buddy who loves to see them happy.
Spot-On Walks
With a clear plan for each walk, you're not juggling too much at once. Structured walks focus on training, while social walks are all about exploration and play. This means your dog learns better and faster, and you both enjoy your time more.
Fewer Problems
Mixing walks can really cut down on those pesky walking issues. Structured walks nip destructive behaviors in the bud by reinforcing your leadership. Social walks let your dog burn off that extra energy and curiosity in a positive way. Together, they make for a smoother, more enjoyable walk.
Learn How to Do The Two Types of Dog Walks Better with the Dog Calming Code™️
Dog walks are my favorite thing in the world.
It gives me and my dogs a mighty great time when done right!
However, I understand so many things can go wrong when walking a dog. This is why The Walk is a big part of The Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules. When dog walks are done right, YOU CAN BE THE ABSOLUTE LEADER IN THE EYES OF YOUR DOGS.
If you want to do both types of dog walks, I recommend you check out The Dog Calming Code where I talk more about Rule #5: Dog Walks.
Because when your time outdoors with your dog is done well, the benefits are amazing!
When dog owners come to me for help on how to stop leash pulling, I feel for them, especially when I hear the frustration in their voices.
It's understandable why having a dog pulling the leash can be such a pain! If all you want is to enjoy a quiet, peaceful walk with your dog, the constant struggle for control can be exhausting.
And most of the time, the leash pulling happens at the start of the walk, making you wonder, "Is going out for a walk even worth it?"
Why do dogs do this? Why is there even a power struggle? And should you persist?
In this blog, I will talk about my biggest theory of why dogs pull the leash at the start of every walk… and what you can do to change it.
Read on to learn more.
Key Takeaways:
Understand the Instincts: Dogs pull on the leash due to instincts derived from their wolf ancestors, seeing walks as a time for hunting and leading. They will naturally take the Alpha role if they don't sense a leader, hence the pulling.
Be the Alpha Leader: To stop leash pulling, you must establish yourself as the leader in all aspects of your dog's life, not just during walks. This means setting boundaries, giving consistent consequences for pulling, and showing calm, assertive energy.
Prepare and React Appropriately: How you start the walk sets the tone. Go out first, decide when to walk, and be ready with calm responses to pulling, like pauses or changing direction. Letting your dog lead or not giving consequences encourages pulling.
Stop Leash Pulling: Understanding Why Dogs Pull the Leash Right Before You Start Your Walk
You walk to the door; your is already pulling on the leash.
You step outside down the stairs, and your dog pulls and pulls as if telling you to "Hurry up!"
Your time outdoors is all about having to regain control of the leash.
If you've experienced the things I mentioned above, you get how challenging it is to have a dog who wants to take charge of the walk from start to finish.
But why do dogs pull the leash at the start of every walk?
Let me answer that using dog psychology.
You see, our dogs have the DNA of a wolf — 99.98%, to be exact. Why is this significant? Because how your dog acts can be connected to how wolves act in the wild.
For the wolves, everything is about survival. When they head outdoors, a walk is not just a walk; it's all about hunting for food.
The most interesting thing about wolves is they don't push through with their walk until the Alpha — the pack leader — steps in to lead the way, signals "Let's go!" and goes on to make all the big decisions.
Even though our dogs have become more domesticated than their ancestors, they still think like wolves.
Someone has to lead, someone has to decide, someone has to be followed, someone has to call the BIG shots.
FACT: If your dog doesn't feel like an Alpha is in charge, they will take over.
Why?
Because dogs, by nature, will always look for the leader. If that isn't filled, they immediately have to assume the role.
It’s hardwired into the DNA.
And leaders lead…thus, your dog is out front and there is endless leash pulling, especially at the start of every walk.
Have you ever observed your dog becoming more in tune whenever the walk happens? They're gearing up to make the big decisions!
So… what can you do?
To Stop Leash Pulling, You Have to Know That Control Matters to Dogs
Control is a powerful concept in dog psychology!
Why? Because your dog knows control is essential for survival. The Alpha is their protector! The Alpha tells them how to survive the wild and find food.
Your dog pulling the leash shows they have taken the role of the Alpha. Their pulling sends the message, "I'm making the big decisions now. I will tell you what to do!"
So when your dog pulls the lead, they aren't deliberately disobeying you or getting on your nerves.
They pull the lead because they feel they're the pack leader, and they need to make every crucial decision to make the walk successful because that's what pack leaders do.
5 Things You Can Do To Stop The Dog From Pulling the Leash
The biggest solution to stop leash pulling is to actually show your dog they can pass on the hat of leadership to you.
Here are some ways you can do it.
#1: Be the Leader in Everything
Just as the Alpha wolf leads the pack, you need to establish yourself as the leader of your pack.
I want to be very clear: to stop leash pulling, you need to be the leader of EVERYTHING, and not just of walking outdoors.
Some dog owners assume they only need to show their authority and leadership during the walk, and what happens before or after the walk doesn't matter.
I 100% encourage you to take charge of everything, from the walk to the feeding to giving affection and attention.
Becoming the leader in your dog's eyes requires an all-round approach, and that's why I made my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.
This dog training program is dedicated to helping you become an all-round leader in your dog's eyes by guiding you on how to feed dogs, give attention, respond to calls for danger, and how walks should be done.
So when you need to go outdoors, your dog already knows who to listen to!
#2: Set Boundaries and Consequences
When it comes to walking, I recommend these simple options if you're looking for a way to incorporate discipline during your time outdoors.
Consequence #1: The Pause
Do the pause if your dog starts pulling the leash. This consequence is your way of saying "Hey, we won't continue walking if you keep on pulling."
Wait 2-5 minutes and see if your dog stops the pulling the lead.
Consequence #2: The 180
If pulling, aggression, or rowdiness doesn't stop after a couple of pauses, turn the other way around and abandon the walk. I know this could be heartbreaking, especially when your dog has been looking forward to time outdoors. However, doing the 180 can help your dog understand that ultimately, YOU are the decision maker, the one in charge, and they should be listening to you.
Your dog will eventually get it, and will follow habits you expect them to do.
#3: Know What to Do Before Stepping Out of the House
This one is crucial because how you walk out of the house predicts how your walk will go.
Even if you've already showed you're the leader, one power move from your dog can change the dynamics.
What do I mean by this?
I mentioned earlier that dogs are all about control. Your dog is smart and will subtly challenge your leadership before the walk.
Some dogs will attempt to jump through the door before you do as if to say "Ha! I lead now!"
Sometimes, dogs will attempt to take control by tugging at you, or handing you the leash to tell you "Hey, it's time for my walk!"
In both circumstances, if you give in to your dog, you WILL lose control.
So before stepping out of the house, here are three things I want you to remember:
Tip #1: You Go First
You need to be the CEO of the walk every. single. time.
This concept means if your dog attempts to go in front of you, you calmly lead them back to your side to walk WITH you.
Don't let your dog have any semblance of control.
Tip #2: You Decide When To Go for a Walk
I talk more about this in my blog about the Doggy Dan Rule #5: How to Walk Your Dogs.
The main principle: the go signal comes from you and not from your dog.
Sure, your dog will attempt to convince you to bring them outside whenever they want. This could be tempting, especially when they can't hide their eagerness. But stay strong, furmom and furdad.
Ignore the request for a few minutes then call your dog. Doing this establishes that you — not them — decide when the walk should happen.
Tip #3: You Decide If A Walk Should Actually Happen
Keep an eye on your dog's behavior to see if you should push through with the walk.
Some factors that indicate you should not push through include:
a high energy that doesn't go down
extreme aggression that could harm others
a rowdy behavior that doesn't respond to commands
persistent leash pulling even after you reprimand them
If you see these factors in your dogs, don't hesitate to call a rain check on your walk.
#4: Stay Calm
Your dog can sense your emotions, so if you're tense or frustrated, they'll pick up on that and may become more difficult to manage. Keep your cool, even when they're testing your patience. A calm demeanor reinforces your role as the leader.
4 Things You Should Not Do If You Want to Stop Leash Pulling
#1: Get Angry With Your Dogs
Yelling or getting frustrated only escalates the situation.
For your dog, the one who doesn't easily flinch or fold wins and takes the leadership hat.
But what do you do when the constant leash pulling becomes too much for you?
I want you to remember this: give calm, consistent consequences.
A consequence given with calmness can teach your dog what they need to do more than shouting or using force can.
When you're angry, your dog will more likely become stressed, making it hard for them to really understand you.
#2: Giving Up and Letting Your Dog Have Their Way
Before you continue reading, I want you to know I completely understand your frustrations.
I've had conversations with dog owners where I asked them "What happens during the walk?"
A lot of them said "Well, the leash pulling becomes too much, we just let them lead the way. We figured it was better than abandoning the walk altogether."
Definitely a big misconception!
If you are a dog owner who thinks giving in to your dog will make training easier along the way, I'm here to tell you it won't.
When you let the dog control the walk, you're also giving them control over everything.
Dog barks and snaps at everyone and everything? It's because they're in control.
Dog doesn't respond when you call? Why should they listen to you if they're in control?
Dog runs far from you even if you command them to stop? Again, you're not in charge.
If you give dogs control, everything will be on THEIR terms, not yours.
#3: Not Giving Consequences
If there's no consequence for bad behavior, there's no reason for your dog t
Seeing dog owners letting their dogs run wild when the car door opens is quite a familiar scene. It’s adorable at face value… but it’s a tricky if you want to have calm walks with dogs.
“Doggy Dan, do you mean I also have to keep an eye on how my dogs exit the car so I can have peace while I walk outdoors with them?”
Yes, you’re right.
All your problems with leash pulling, aggression, overexcitement, and yes, even protectiveness will be reduced by simply ensuring you take control WAY BEFORE your dog steps out of the car.
Key Takeaways:
Control Starts with the Car Exit: The way dogs exit the car sets the tone for the walk. Controlling this aspect ensures a more manageable and enjoyable outdoor experience.
Calmness is Key: Encouraging calm behavior from the start, such as opening the car door calmly and giving clear commands, can significantly influence your dog's energy and responsiveness during the walk.
Establishing Leadership: Teaching dogs to exit cars calmly reinforces the idea that you are in control. This understanding helps in reducing undesirable behaviors like leash pulling and overexcitement, leading to more peaceful and enjoyable walks.
LEARN HOW TO WALK YOUR DOG THE RIGHT WAY WITH DOGGY DAN GOLDEN RULE #5!
Table of Contents
A Quick Recap of Doggy Dan Rule #5: How You Can Control the Walk
The Way Dogs Exit Cars Influences How Your Walks Will Go
How to Help Dogs Exit Calmly
What Happens When You Help Your Dogs Calmly Exit Cars
Learn More About How You Can Take Charge of Your Dog's Walks with the Dog Calming Code
A Quick Recap of Doggy Dan Rule #5: How You Can Control the Walk
In my previous blog about the Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5, I discussed how you can truly gain control of the walk.
In the same blog, I mentioned three pillars for a successful walking experience:
#1: You control the walk and the energy.
#2: You set the rules on what is acceptable and what is not.
#3: Your dog has to know that it’s you who calls the shots.
Using this Golden Rule as a guide, letting your overexcited dog run out of the car like a sprinter immediately strikes out your chances of becoming in control of the walk.
Read on to learn more about why the way dogs exit cars can make or break your outdoor walks.
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The Way Dogs Exit Cars Influences How Your Walks Will Go
If your dog sprints out the moment you open your door, they will be hard to control throughout your time outdoors.
You see, the one who controls the walk matters to dogs.
If you control the walk, your dog will listen. If you let them run the show, they'll do things on their terms.
Now, most dog owners don't make anything big out of the way your dog eject themselves out of cars.
But I'm here to tell you that how they leave the car matters in the grand scheme of your dog's time outside.
Let me give you an analogy…
When I was younger, my parents brought us to exciting trips. My siblings and I would run out of the car, so excited to just be out there. That often gave my parents a hard time because calling us back was impossible once we were out.
They needed our help, but we shut them off.
My parents learned some hard lessons from those experiences.
The next time we went on a trip, they made sure to talk to us before we headed out.
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"You help out first before you play," mom and dad would say.
It was easier for us to follow their orders since they set the instructions. And if they did ask us to do something, we immediately listened.
We knew what we had to do. We knew what was expected of us.
It's pretty much the same with our dogs! If you've ever gone outdoors with your dog, you’ve probably experienced dealing with a hyperactive dog that just doesn't listen no matter how many times you call!
They pull the leash no matter how hard you pull back.
They also get snappy with almost every dog they meet, making socialization really hard.
How to Help Dogs Exit Calmly
So, how do you execute this simple hack for a calmer, more relaxed time with your dog outdoors?
Really, really, really be the CEO of the walk, and the boss of every step!
Here are some ways you can follow below:
#1: Open the Door Calmly
The operative word here is calm. It's like dog training's prime rule: when you're calm, your dogs are calm, too.
You can encourage your dogs to also be in a calm mood by not being agitated, anxious, or restless yourself. Try not to be jittery or preoccupied before opening the car door.
Don't raise your voice or get angry when you command them to be still.
I recommend doing some breathing exercises and calming yourself before you open the car door; this helps dogs start off with a calm energy, too!
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#2: Give Clear Commands
Be firm with your commands. Say "stay" if you want them to stay and "sit" if you want them to be still. Make sure your dogs understand these commands way before you use them on your walk.
#3: Use a Leash if Necessary
You can use a leash if your dogs need extra help calming down. I even use a leash to my dogs if they're too excited to calm down.
Just attach a leash onto your dog to help them ready for their walk… the calm way.
#4: Give the Go Signal
This is the most important part.
The outdoors has many distractions: leaves, flying birds, kids playing in the park, and other dogs.
Your dog — especially when they're already too distracted — will jump so fast you won't have time to react… or even chase them!
They sprinted even without your signal. You've already lost control. They've already shut you out.
This is why the go signal for your dogs to run free SHOULD COME FROM YOU. Your dogs must understand that everything — walks included — happens on your own terms.
(Why does doing things on your own terms matter in dog training? I talk about it here.)
What Happens When You Help Your Dogs Calmly Exit Cars
Dogs Listen to You More
You know that moment when your dog seems to tune into your every word? That's what happens when they learn to exit calmly.
When you don't allow them to run away from you without your command, they understand the language of patience and respect.
When you're in control, your dog doesn't just hear you; they listen. They become more attentive and more tuned into your cues.
Recall training will work. Leash training will work. Even helping your dog relax will work!
All because you don't let your dog overstep you as their leader.
HOW TO WIN THE WALK WITH THE DOGGY DAN DOG CALMING CODE
Their Energy Levels Are Retained to an Adequate Number
We've all seen it—the zoomies, the endless circles around the lawn.
However, when dogs learn the art of calm exiting, their energy levels balance out.
They aren't bubbling pots of hyperactivity waiting to spill over.
Instead, they maintain a steady, manageable energy level. Their energy stays in the level 2 or 3.
Now, They're still the playful, spirited companions we adore, just without the chaotic overdrive.
They Recognize Boundaries
When dogs understand how to exit calmly, they also understand the invisible lines we draw in our lives.
These boundaries could be anything from not rushing out the door to waiting patiently for their food.
They learn that not everything is a free-for-all.
This recognition is crucial. It's not about limiting their freedom; it's about teaching them respect and safety, ensuring they know where they can and cannot go, what is theirs to explore, and what is off-limits.
They Know They Are Not in Control
A dog that understands calm exiting also understands they're not the one calling the shots. This understanding significantly reduces tendencies like aggression, overprotectiveness, or leash pulling.
They realize that you're the leader, and with this realization, comes a sense of security and peace for them.
They don't feel the need to be overly protective or assertive because they trust in your guidance. It's a beautiful shift from chaos to harmony, from uncertainty to trust.
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It Creates Better Walking Habits
The great thing about dogs is they're fast learners.
Once habits are formed, our dogs will stick to them.
Sure, you're going to experience frustrating, really challenging walks at first. But stick with the essentials — including teaching dogs to exit cars calmly — and your dog will catch on quickly!
Learn More About How You Can Take Charge of Your Dog's Walks with the Dog Calming Code
A dog who knows how to be calm during a walk is a dog who understands these:
a. They're not in charge.
b. Their owner is in charge.
c. They are expected to behave a certain way during their outdoor walks.
And teaching these things to your dog goes beyond simple commands.
In my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️, I talk about how you can train dogs to be calm, chill, and happy while enjoying the walk outdoors.
Because when you're bonding and spending time with your dog outdoors, there's nothing better than a walk that’s free from the stress that commonly comes with dog walks!
Check out the Dog Calming Code here.
You got this!
~ Doggy Dan 😄
If I asked you to write down at least three dog-walking problems, I am sure I’d find leash pulling and misbehaving somewhere on that list.
Why? Because almost 80% of those who come to me for help on walking their dog have those issues.
And here’s the truth: the solution is fairly simple.
The problem starts when dog owners dismiss their dog's little quirks and defiance during walks as nothing serious… until they are.
Fortunately, you can flip the switch by doing one simple thing: really making your dog see you’re in charge.
How? Read on to learn more.
Key Takeaways
Leash pulling, barking, and overexcitement during dog walks often stem from a common root: your dog believes it's in charge.
If you take charge, your dog will start to relax. Thus, your walks will be more calmer, controlled, smooth.
Gentle gestures the walk like calmly pausing to tell your dog they’re not the one in charge can help you retain control from start to finish.
LEARN HOW TO WALK YOUR DOG THE RIGHT WAY WITH DOGGY DAN GOLDEN RULE #5!
Table of Contents
Stop Dog-walking Problems By Taking Control of the Walk
Stop Dog-Walking Problems: What Happens When You Take Control of the Walk with Dogs
Stop Dog-Walking Problems By Taking Charge… Not Only On Walks. The Dog Calming Code Will Help You!
Stop Dog-walking Problems By Taking Control of the Walk
The most common cause of dog-walking issues like leash pulling, barking, and getting excited by just about anything is this: your dog thinks they're in control.
It's like the case of "whoever gets in the driver's seat first decides where the trip goes."
When the dog sees they have taken over the "driver duties" during the walk, expect them to drive… even if it requires pulling the leash, running without your permission, and chasing everything!
Yes, they would do all these things despite your non-stop commands of "No, no, no, no!"
So it's absolutely critical that control is in your court… and your dog has to know it!
Here are some ways you can do that.
#1: Take Control Even Before You Start the Walk
If you start exhibiting control after leaving the house, you already lost it.
Control is solidified when you're the one to decide when to take the walk.
"Doggy Dan, what do you mean by this?"
I want you to think of this: who decides to go for a walk?
If your dog approached you with a leash in their mouth, prodding you to take them outside, AND YOU AGREED, you have lost control.
Let's say your dog goes to you to signal they want to go out; here's what you can do…
Ignore them for five minutes, then give the cue that it's time for a walk.
You're doing this not to make your dog feel ignored but to establish your role as the ultimate decision-maker in walk-related matters.
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#2: Your Dog Will Persist in Regaining Control… You Can Gently Remind Them With This Move
Dogs understand control. In fact, dogs are so keen in having it because it's programmed in them that control is necessary for survival.
So you will see a lot of attempts to take charge of the walk or get in front of you so they can control the walk.
(Bonus note: dogs also try to take control of the walk because they are sometimes very protective and feel responsible for protecting you.)
The great thing about dogs is they're quick to get the message. Once you do something that tells them "Hey, I got it. I'm in charge," they will adapt.
If your dog makes a run for the door to ensure they go first, do this gentle move: calmly block their way with your legs, open the door, and go first.
#3: And If Your Dog Insists on Taking Charge of The Walk, Pausing for a While Works
If your dog persists, insisting on being the one in charge, stop the steps. Refrain from continuing the walk until they get the message that you decide what happens with your time outdoors.
Doing this simple step is like giving your dog an outdoor timeout. Once your dog gets that you stopped because of their rowdy behavior, they will listen to you.
Stop for a few minutes until your dog calms down and understands the message.
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#4: Wrap Up the Walk When Needed
If rowdiness persists, you should be quick on stopping and heading back home.
I know this can feel heartbreaking for you and your dog, but it's one of the most powerful ways of telling your dog, "Hey, what you did is not going to make this walk continue. Please remember that."
Deciding to end the walk right there and then will establish to your dog that, indeed, you have the final word.
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Stop Dog-Walking Problems: What Happens When You Take Control of the Walk with Dogs
Chill on the Protective Stuff
You know how some dogs get all barky and uppity around other dogs? That's them being overprotective. But guess what?
When you take charge of the walk, your dog starts to chill out. They look to you for cues, and pretty soon, they're not so quick to bark or get feisty with other dogs. It's like they're thinking, "My human's got this, no need for me to go all superhero."
No More Leash Tug-of-War
Ever feel like you're in a tug-of-war match with your dog on walks? You're not alone. A lot of us deal with dogs pulling on the leash.
But here's a cool thing – when you're clearly in charge, your dog starts to get it. They follow your lead instead of dragging you around. It turns the walk into something you both can actually enjoy.
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Relaxed Vibes All Around
Ever notice your dog being super tense and on guard when you're out walking? They're in what I like to call 'protector mode'.
But when you step up as the leader, it's a game changer. Your dog gets the memo that you're handling the big stuff, so they can kick back and enjoy the walk. They get to sniff around, see the sights, and just be a happy dog.
Making Friends, Not Frenemies
Leading the walk also means smoother run-ins with other dogs and their humans. When your dog is behaving and not causing drama, it's way easier to have friendly encounters. No awkward apologies or tense moments.
Just good, sociable walks.
Building Trust, Like a Boss
Consistency is key. When you lead the walk the same way every time, your dog learns to trust your decisions.
They feel safer and more secure with you in charge, and that just makes your bond stronger. Walks turn into quality time you both look forward to.
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Here's a bonus: dogs that get the hang of your leadership on walks often behave better in other areas too.
We're talking calmer at home, nicer to your guests, and listening better in general. It's like they understand you're the leader all the time, not just on walks.
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Being in charge during the walks is just one of the many facets of being a true blue pack leader dogs respect and listen to.
You see, being in control is business #1 for the dogs. And if you don't get this (or how to do this!) you will find yourself dealing with the same issues not just on walking but with almost all the challenges that come with dog ownership.
The Dog Calming Code™️ can help you understand what it means to really be a pack leader, and how to take control from your dog who thinks they are in charge. Because when you're a pack leader who knows, your dog will just follow.
You can learn about the Dog Calming Code here.
~ Doggy Dan 😄
Dogs don’t always say what they’re feeling, so it’s understandable why we want to know the reason why dogs yelp.
Each sound our dog makes is crucial; it can signify hunger, distress, and pain.
So it’s no surprise our dogs’ sudden yelping sounds can make us spring into protective, worrying mode.
Yes, a yelping dog can be a dog in pain. But a dog letting out a high-pitched, petrifying sound isn’t always a pained dog… and it’s an essential truth owners should understand.
Key Takeaways:
Dogs yelp for various reasons, not always due to pain. It's important to discern the context of their yelping, which can indicate hunger, distress, or leadership struggles.
Yelping during interactions with other dogs can be a way of establishing or conceding leadership, not necessarily a sign of pain.
The concept of The Dog Calming Code emphasizes the importance of human leadership in a dog's life. By establishing themselves as the leader, owners can reduce dog fights and power struggles.
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Table of Contents:
The Other Reason Why Dogs Yelp: For Dogs, It’s All About Leadership
Why Do Dogs Yelp During an Intense Interaction With Other Dogs
Why Dogs Yelp Reason #1: Yelping is a Sound of Conceding
Why Dogs Yelp Reason #2: Yelping is a Shock Factor to Make the Other Dog Stop Charging
Why You Should Not Immediately Intervene Between Two Dogs in a Rumble
Dealing with Dog Rumbles: When Do I Step In?
The Doggy Dan Dog Calming Code: Becoming the Leader In Your Dog’s Eyes… The Gentle Way
The Other Reason Why Dogs Yelp: For Dogs, It’s All About Leadership
Here’s a truth I truly embrace: dogs are all about the hierarchy. Knowing who leads and who follows is business #1.
When dogs meet, they first sort out leadership because dogs are BIG on leadership.
(Thus, the reason for the creation of my popular course, The Dog Calming Code™️ , which you can learn more about below.)
If you can observe two dogs that just met at the park, there’s a high chance you’ll catch them growling and seemingly testing the other.
Eventually, they will engage in a brawl, a classic way of challenging one another.
After a few minutes of commotion, everything gets back to normal. The two dogs fighting earlier will start to interact without any aggression.
When two dogs stop fighting or challenging each other, they have already settled who the leader is and who the follower is.
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Why Do Dogs Yelp During an Intense Interaction With Other Dogs
Where does yelping come in?
Somewhere during the brawl, one of the dogs might let out a sharp cry. (Think: loud, human shriek). It’s a sound that can make any dog owner spring to their feet.
But here’s what I want dog owners to know: a yelp isn’t always an indication of pain.
Of course, keep an eye on the dog fight and intervene when physical harm is involved.
However, I encourage you to also assess the situation BEFORE immediately getting between two dogs.
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Why?
Because yelping can also mean two things:
a.) It’s a sound of conceding.
b.) it’s a shock factor to tell other dogs, “Stop chasing me. You win.”
Why Dogs Yelp Reason #1: Yelping is a Sound of Conceding
Dogs understand the value of leadership more than they show.
Because of this reason, a dog will not back down until they’ve established themselves as the leader.
However, the screaming will start when a dog sees they’re at a disadvantage.
The scream that they let out isn’t always a scream of pain.
When another dog pins them down, their scream can mean, “Okay, enough. You win. You’re the leader!”
It’s like tapping out in a wrestling match, a sure way to communicate surrender.
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Why Dogs Yelp Reason #2: Yelping is a Shock Factor to Make the Other Dog Stop Charging
To explain this part, I’m sharing the story of my two kids, Stanley and Sage.
Like what children normally do, Stan and Sage would have really intense playtime that could end up in shrieks and cries.
There was this one time where Sage, out of nowhere, let out a blood-curdling shriek.
Of course, I was very worried. I dropped what I was doing and charged inside the house.
“Sage, what did he do to you?” I asked my daughter.
She simply said “Oh, nothing. I just didn’t want him to catch me.”
And it made sense to me!
Screaming so loud can make another person think “Yep, that’s it. They’re over this. They’re done. They won’t be fighting anymore.”
It’s the same with dogs!
A dog uses loud sounds to ward the other dogs off or to stop fights.
An intense sound from your dog is not always an indication of pain, but a way to communicate defense against their strong opponent.
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Why You Should Not Immediately Intervene Between Two Dogs in a Rumble
Your dog let out a scream of pain… checking in on them and stopping the fight is the most sensible thing to do.
I totally recommend intervening in a dog fight when signs of harm are evident (for example: blood and scratches).
HOWEVER, YOU DON’T ALWAYS NEED TO GET IN THE WAY OF A DOG FIGHT.
“But why, Doggy Dan?”
It’s because dogs ALWAYS want to sort out who leads the pack and who follows.
When we intervene, we could also get in the way of dogs sorting the leadership issue out.
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In a more dominant dog’s mind, the other dog is still not conceding. The power struggle will still continue. There will be more chasing, fighting, screaming.
Dealing with Dog Rumbles: When Do I Step In?
If you’re dealing with more frequent dog rumbles, I recommend being quick in observing the severity of the dog fight.
We don’t always need to get involved in the middle of the fight, BUT we still have to keep an eye on when the rumble becomes serious.
When there are increased levels of aggression (forceful biting, blood, deep scratches), quickly stop the fight and place dogs on timeout if necessary to help them regulate their emotions.
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Knowing the other reason for a dog’s yelp can help you not panic whenever you hear them make that sound.
But here’s the thing: if we can do away with that sound, it’s so much better, right?
If dogs stop fighting for dominance, you can rest your mind from dealing with constant fights!
That’s where The Dog Calming Code comes in.
In your household, one leader should be in your dogs’ eyes: YOU.
When they see you wearing the hat of leadership, any aggression towards other dogs to establish dominance will be minimized.
Power struggles between dogs will be lesser because every dog in the house know it’s YOU who is in charge of the pack.
I know that because I have seen tens of thousands of dog owners get over the problems involving dog fights and dogs hurting each other.
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All because the owners truly showed they are capable, strong, confident leaders their dogs can trust.
Your dogs will no longer have to vie for leadership; with The Dog Calming Code, you already got it covered.
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~ Doggy Dan 😄
What do you do when your dog's energy levels spike from a 3 to an 8? My answer as a top dog trainer: the Calm Freeze.
I know it's daunting seeing your dog transform from well-behaved and calm to rowdy and agitated in the blink of an eye.
But here's an important fact I've learned from years of working with dogs and their owners: you, as a dog owner, possess the remarkable ability to transform your dog's behavior from hyperactive and agitated to calm and relaxed.
And the Calm Freeze has been proven to bring back your dog's calm and relaxed demeanor WITHOUT having to use any product or tool.
I trust it so much I even use it on my dogs.
In today's blog, I will talk about the Calm Freeze and how this technique can calm your dogs without tools, words, products, or even force.
Key Takeaways
The technique is effective in various situations, including overexcitement, aggression, dog fights, disobedience, and anxiety.
It reinforces the owner's leadership by showing calm confidence in handling different dog behaviors.
The Calm Freeze is about understanding a dog's emotional state, not just a physical technique.
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Table of Contents
What is a Calm Freeze?
How Do You Perform The Calm Freeze? Here's a Step-by-Step Process
Why The Calm Freeze Works in Calming Dogs
When Can You Use the Calm Freeze?
The Calm Freeze is a Great Way to Let Your Dogs Know You're in Charge
The Calm Freeze: The Technique That Tells Dogs "Look at Me, I'm Calm. I Want You to Be Calm, Too."
What is a Calm Freeze?
The Calm Freeze is a strategic approach to soothe a hyperactive, stressed, anxious, or restless dog.
It's more than just a technique; it's an understanding of your dog's emotional state and a way to communicate peace and stability.
This method isn't about physical restraint but about emotional resonance.
By using the Calm Freeze, you're not just controlling your dog's actions but also influencing their emotional state, bringing them from a place of hyper to stillness.
How Do You Perform The Calm Freeze? Here's a Step-by-Step Process
Step 1: Begin By Calmly Guiding Your Dog Towards You
This initial step sets the tone for the entire process — it's crucial that your approach is cool and composed.
Don't start the Calm Freeze by shouting or forcing your dog to come to you; this can potentially create more resistance.
Step 2: With a Gentle, Upturned hand, Lightly Hold Your Dog's Collar
The emphasis here is on gentleness. Your dog will pick up on your calm energy, which, in turn, helps them to relax.
Use a finger or two to hold the collar securely.
Like I mentioned above, your dog will understand your energy more than your words. When you are calm, your dog will replicate that.
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Step 3: Maintain Your Calm Demeanor
Your steady presence can be a powerful calming force even if your dog shows signs of agitation, fear, or restlessness.
Your calming presence also helps your dog regulate their energy and emotions.
Step 4: If Your Dog Tries to Bite You, Put Them in Timeout
If your dog reacts negatively, such as attempting to bite, guide them calmly into a timeout. This pause allows both you and your dog to settle any heightened emotions.
Step 5: Gradually Loosen Your Hold and Release Your Dog
Once you start to sense their energy levels going down to a 2 or a 3, slowly release your hold.
This step is important as it signifies the end of the calming process and a return to normalcy.
Why The Calm Freeze Works in Calming Dogs
It's a Technique That Dogs Understand
Dogs are acutely sensitive to energy. When you, their owner, embody calmness, you're speaking their language. You're giving them cues they understand better than any verbal signal.
The Operative Word is "Calm"
The ultimate goal of the Calm Freeze is to help dogs bring down their spiked energy levels.
Imagine this: asking your dog to calm down through shouting, or threatening them, or getting angry.
It doesn't make sense. In your dog's eyes, your words and actions don't click. Following your instructions becomes so much harder.
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The Calm Freeze believes in this: a gentle approach fosters a peaceful response.
Dogs often mirror the energy and behavior of their owners, so the Calm Freeze is the remedy that makes sense.
Non-Forceful
This technique is effective because it doesn't rely on physical force, which can escalate anxiety and aggression.
Also, remember that a pack leader always chooses a gentle and calm approach. Once your dog sees even their antics, anxiety, and aggression don't affect you, their respect for you will increase.
With increased respect comes an increased ability to follow your directions. When you gently hold their collar, they get what you mean: "You can calm down now."
It Helps De-Escalate Stressful Situations Fast
The calm freeze is excellent for quickly diffusing tense situations immediately.
It's like reassuring your dog, restoring peace more rapidly than verbal commands or physical interventions.
When Can You Use the Calm Freeze?
Handling Overexcitement
It's particularly effective when dogs become excessively excited and lose focus.
Does playtime make your dog hyperactive even after playtime has ended? Spend at least 5 minutes to do the Calm Freeze with your hyperactive dog.
Countering Aggression
If you're starting to sense your dog's aggression rising to the surface (and it's crucial you know how to see the signs ASAP), use The Calm Freeze.
The gentleness of the calm freeze can pacify your dog's overwhelming emotions.
Watch out for potential aggression towards you. If aggression persists, you can put your dog in timeout.
Interrupting Dog Fights
It can help break up dog fights by calming one of the dogs involved.
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Dealing with Disobedience
The Calm Freeze is handy when dogs are rowdy and do not respond to verbal commands. This technique is also effective in making dogs turn their focus on you.
Easing Anxiety
It's a gentle way to comfort anxious dogs, especially in unfamiliar or stressful environments like when they’re dealing with strangers and perceived threats.
Holding your dog still is like telling them, "It's okay, I'm here. I'm the one in charge, so I can confidently handle what you're worried about."
The Calm Freeze is a Great Way to Let Your Dogs Know You're in Charge
Your dog's restlessness, aggression, protectiveness, overexcitement, anxiety… basically, any strong, heavy emotion can be traced back to them feeling they're in charge.
But here's the truth you want your dogs to know: you are the leader.
You are in charge.
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You handle anything that worries them.
You can handle the danger that causes their protectiveness.
And how can The Calm Freeze help dogs see this?
The Calm Freeze shows this by manifesting to your dogs that you:
a. Are calm and confident. What worries them doesn't worry you.
b. Handle everything. Your calm energy will show them this.
The Calm Freeze: The Technique That Tells Dogs "Look at Me, I'm Calm. I Want You to Be Calm, Too."
When your dog shows a change in energy, what can happen next is unpredictable.
Will they bite? Will they exhibit aggression? Will they hurt other dogs? Will they run away?
It's crucial to have a solution the moment you see the first signs of spiked energy.
This is why The Calm Freeze is a GREAT dog training tool to master. It's free, it's easy to do, and you can use it whenever you need it.
Try using it and see the difference!
~ Doggy Dan 😄
The reason why dogs need timeout is because they don't naturally understand human language.
If you want to give consequences or correction for a specific dog behavior, you must speak a language your dog totally understands.
And that’s where timeouts come in.
The thing about timeout for dogs is that it's so simple. And because it's so simple, it's also so easy to overcomplicate and done wrong.
Some dog owners don't tap into the power of using timeouts to correct behavior. Some also fail to apply it effectively, leaving dogs to miss the significance of their actions' consequences.
As a top dog trainer who swears by timeouts, I'm here to tell you that if you're training your dog, timeout is something you should NEVER overlook or toss aside.
Read on to know more.
Key Takeaways
Unlike shouting or using force, timeouts provide a clear, non-violent message to dogs that their behavior is unacceptable. It offers a direct and consistent response, teaching dogs that their actions have consequences.
Dogs, like humans, learn from consequences. Timeout serves as a powerful consequence, indicating that certain behaviors are not acceptable. Gentle consistency is key, avoiding the need for force or intimidation.
Combining attention and love when deserved with timeouts for correction helps dogs understand both rewards and consequences. The key to an effective timeout lies in maintaining calm consistency and ensuring control during and after the timeout, reinforcing your role as a reliable leader.
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Table of Contents
Dogs Need Timeout: The Number One Mistake Dog Owners Do When Correcting Negative Behavior
Why Dogs Need Timeout: Why a Timeout Is An Effective Way of Disciplining Dogs
Why Dogs Need Timeout
The Two Things You Can Do to Make Timeout for Dogs Effective
FAQs About Timeout for Dogs
Using Timeout for Dogs Can Speed Up Your Training Success!
Dogs Need Timeout: The Number One Mistake Dog Owners Do When Correcting Negative Behavior
Let me share a common scenario I'm sure you're familiar with.
Your dog shows negative behaviors — perhaps barking non-stop or chewing on cables, or jumping on guests — which finally gets to your nerves.
If you don't do timeouts, you’d more than likely reprimand your dog in a booming voice, "STOP IT!" and then never follow through with a correction or a form of discipline that teaches the dog not to repeat the behavior.
The dog knows you are angry, but do they know why?
Addressing dog behavior requires a thoughtful approach, and it goes beyond mere reactionary measures.
Shouting might momentarily startle the dog, but it fails to instill a lasting lesson that prompts your dog to change negative behavior.
The dog, bewildered and possibly frightened, may temporarily stop the behavior, yet the underlying issue remains unaddressed.
In such circumstances, your dog is likely to repeat the undesirable action, as the shouting has not effectively communicated correction or what is expected of them.
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This is where the concept of timeout plays a pivotal role in behavioral correction.
In dog communication, a timeout is an essential tool. It's not just the act of separation; it's a clear, non-violent message that the dog's behavior was unacceptable.
Unlike shouting, which can be both unclear and stressful, a timeout is a direct and consistent response. It teaches the dog that their actions have direct consequences.
And this is when change happens.
(Check out this blog I wrote about how to make sure you do your timeouts effectively.)
Why Dogs Need Timeout: Why a Timeout Is An Effective Way of Disciplining Dogs
Dogs love their freedom! Dogs love you! And when you're nearby, they're all about being near you.
This is why during a timeout — when dogs are temporarily separated from you and denied their chance of running around — correcting negative dog behavior becomes impactful.
This removal is not about isolation but about providing a moment of pause, a break in the pattern that leads to undesirable behavior.
In this quiet space, your dog has an opportunity to calm down and reset.
They will also begin to figure out why they were put in timeout. Dogs are so fast in associating actions to consequences, they'll get the reason why they are in timeout quickly.
Timeout does not use force — this is why it's effective. When you use force, fear, or intimidation, the dog will only feel the energy but never see the lesson.
Without timeout, you just inflict fear to your dog but never leave a lasting lesson.
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Why Dogs Need Timeout
Consequences for Actions
Dogs, much like humans, learn from consequences. When a dog misbehaves, it's crucial to establish a consequence that is firm yet fair. This teaches them that their actions have repercussions.
A timeout allows you to tell your dog "That behavior is not acceptable." Timeout POWERFULLY sends that message.
Gentle Correction
Yelling at a misbehaving dog often proves ineffective. Dogs ignore shouting as it doesn't translate into a tangible outcome for their negative behavior.
Additionally, when dogs see you always angry, rattled and frustrated, they won't be able to associate you with calm, confident, capable leadership.
Which — proven time and time again — does not have much effect.
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When Coupled with Attention and Love, Timeouts Help Dogs Understand Rewards and Consequences
The two-fold approach of giving attention when deserved and using timeouts to correct bad behavior can help your dog understand what is expected of them… without you having to use extreme remedies.
The Two Things You Can Do to Make Timeout for Dogs Effective
The key to an effective timeout depends on these two things:
Firstly, gentle consistency. Secondly, taking control of the timeout.
Calm, Consistent Consequence For Dogs
I call it "calm" correction because there's no need for force or intimidation. Consistent because your dog has to understand that timeout will immediately happen once they exhibit negative behavior. There's no buts or compromise.
Consistency and firmness are vital, but they must be tempered with kindness.
Ensuring That You Have Control of the Timeout
Avoid giving in to your dog's whims during a timeout.
As much as possible, do not entertain them if they are still whining on the other side of the door. Only take them outside the room when they've completely relaxed and behaved.
Once you're done with the timeout, dogs usually come to you for attention. I know it's tempting, but wait to give in.
It's your dog's way of letting you know they have a special request: "Hey, I'm out. Notice me!"
Remember, yielding to their requests — during and after — this critical learning period undermines your position as a reliable leader.
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FAQs About Timeout for Dogs
How Long Should a Timeout Last?
The duration can vary – from a minute to ten minutes, depending on the situation and the dog's response.
Is There a Tool I Can Use If I Do a Timeout for My Dog?
I absolutely recommend the short line! It makes controlling dogs 10 times easier! If you have a dog that is constantly running around when you're training them, the short line can really help.
I talk more about the Shore Line in this blog.
What if My Dog Barks During Timeout?
Don't let them out if they're still barking. Wait until they have calmed down before ending the timeout.
Should I Interact With My Dog During and After Timeout?
No. Avoid any interaction, including pats and cuddles, during this period.
Once you let them out, don't immediately give cuddles and treats. It will confuse your dog as to who really is in charge (which can be equal to them choosing not to listen to you).
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What if My Dog Repeats the Behavior?
Consistency is key. If they repeat the misbehavior, apply another timeout. This can be repeated as necessary and is effective for many minor misdemeanors.
Can the Timeout Spot be Where They Sleep, Like the Laundry Room?
It's not about the location, but how you conduct the timeout. The key is to create a clear separation. Just make sure the timeout area is NOT in the room you’r
You could use a toilet or bathroom, a separate room, garage, or somewhere where they are isolated and can't see you. There needs to be a door separating you, not a window or gate where they can still interact with you.
What Are the Safety Considerations During Timeout?
Ensure the timeout area has enough water (especially if you’re putting your dog on a longer timeout), is not too cold or hot, and is free from any dangerous items like pesticides.
How Do I Use Timeout for Aggressive Behaviors, Like Nipping?
Immediate timeouts are effective for aggressive behaviors. It helps the dog associate negative behavior like nipping with the consequence of isolation.
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Using Timeout for Dogs Can Speed Up Your Training Success!
I don't think I'll stop talking about timeouts for dogs anytime soon.
You see, it's because nothing beats taking a loving and consistent approach in resolving issues. You can communicate to your dog what is and isn't acceptable in a way that they understand.
And the best thing: no shouting, hurting, and intimidating in the mix!
Remember: when you give clear, calm, consistent consequences with love, your dog will understand that a timeout for a dog IS necessary.
Don't be afraid to give timeouts a try — they may just become your new powerful tool in dog training!
~ Doggy Dan 😄
The reason for using a short line for dogs boils down to this: control.
It sounds extreme, but in dog psychology, the one in control is the one in charge.
And when your dog runs under tables and around the garden uncontrollably, and you're having a hard time catching them, you're not in control!
The short line for dogs helps you regain control without raising your voice, resorting to harsh strategies, and losing your composure (news flash: in your dog's eyes, a rattled dog owner is NOT a worthy pack leader).
Let's talk more about why you should ABSOLUTELY include the short line in your arsenal of helpful dog training tools.
Key Takeaways
The short line helps establish control, signaling to the dog that the owner is in charge and can guide behavior effectively.
The short line makes training sessions cooperative, reducing power struggles and distractions. It facilitates quicker learning without resorting to harsh measures.
Acting as a physical boundary, the short line helps the dog understand limits, enabling quick corrections and reinforcing the owner's authority.
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Table of Contents
Using the Short Line for Dogs: What Is It?
5 Reasons Why Using the Short Line for Dogs Can Change Your Dog
Guide to Using the Short Line for Dogs
Using The Short Line + The Dog Calming Code Can Transform Your Dogs
Using The Short Line for Dogs: What Is It?
The short line is a fairly simple tool: a basic lead attached to a dog's harness. This lead's length ranges between 1-2 meters. No fancy instructions are involved; all you need to do is to attach it to your dog's harness safely.
As simple as it is, the short line can transform training.
Dogs are brilliant, and they understand the concept of control.
Do you notice how they run away whenever you chase them? The reason is this: dogs know that as long as you miss them, they win. They're in charge. You have lost control and, therefore, also lose your authority.
When the dogs perceive that they can do whatever they want without you being able to correct it, they assume leadership. They see themselves as the pack leader.
And the pack leader is firm in their ways. When dogs think they're the leader, they are much harder to train.
This is the reason why I love the short line.
When you use a short line, you tell your dog, "No, you're not in charge. I am. I can control you when I need to."
Slowly, as your dog sees that you can simply use the line to catch them, they will realize that they are not the leader.
It's like playing a game of tag!
When it's apparent that someone can't catch us no matter what they do, we feel like we rule the game.
It's a different story when the opponent is capable in every way! We become more aware that we're not the top players, and we have to be mindful of what other people will do.
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5 Reasons Why Using the Short Line for Dogs Can Change Your Dog
There's so much that goes into training a dog THE RIGHT WAY. Using a tool like the short line can improve training and address issues such as:
protectiveness
fear-based aggression
resource guarding
lack of boundaries
non-stop barking
recall problems
dog anxiety
One single short line = tons of perks.
Here are three reasons why using the short line can change your dog… and your overall training experience!
Reason #1: It Makes Training Easier
It's hard to train a dog that is always running away from you.
With the short line, training sessions become less of a power struggle and more of a cooperative effort between you and your dog.
Using a short leash helps you handle your dog better in different situations without needing to shout. It creates a peaceful atmosphere for both you and your dog.
When you use the short line properly, you are not leading with aggression but guiding with gentle firmness.
When your dog knows you have the end of the short line, they pay closer attention, learning commands more quickly. In their eyes, you have taken the leadership from them.
The short line reduces distractions for your dog, making it easier for them to focus on your instructions and smooths out the training process for both of you.
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Reason #2: You Regain Control
Using a short line pulls the reins of control back into your hands—quite literally.
In the wild dance of chasing your dog around the yard, the short line is your dance partner that never steps on your toes.
It's a clear and gentle reminder to your dog that while freedom is good, it comes with limits.
With a short line, you can quickly and efficiently correct behaviors without breaking stride, ensuring that your dog understands who is leading the training.
Reason #3: You Establish Boundaries
Boundaries are essential in any relationship, and it's no different with your dog.
A short line is a physical representation of these limits.
It helps your dog learn where their space ends and where yours begins.
When they are like a running fireball around the house, correcting them won't come with a chase and a shout anymore. You can simply pick up the short line and put them to timeout.
Dogs are fast learners! They WILL GET why you guided them into timeout.
Reason #4: You Show You're a Confident and Capable Leader
Dogs are pack animals and naturally look for a leader—someone who is confident and capable.
By effectively using a short line, you are demonstrating these qualities. Your calm assertiveness tells your dog that you are in charge, not out of intimidation but out of competence.
This approach builds trust and respect, the cornerstones of any strong pack leader that dogs FIERCELY trust.
Reason #5: You Teach Your Dogs What Is and What Is Not Expected of Them
One of the fundamental aspects of training with a short line is setting clear expectations.
When your dog understands what behaviors are rewarded and which are corrected, they make better choices.
The short line is a constant, gentle guide that helps communicate these lessons.
It's not just about preventing unwanted behaviors; it's about encouraging your dog to make the right decisions on their own, promoting a sense of achievement and confidence in their daily life.
Reason #6: The Short Line for Dogs Makes Catching Your Dog So Much Easier!
The short line not only saves you from the stress and exhaustion of running after your dogs all the time; it also prevents you from catching the dog via the collar (which is a feat on its own!).
With the short line, you can just grab the leash OR stand on the end of the leash as soon as you sense your dog gearing to bolt out.
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Guide to Using the Short Line for Dogs
#1: Choose a Lead That's 1-2 Meters Long
Look for a leash that's between 1 and 2 meters long, ensuring it's tough enough to withstand your dog's movements and strength.
#2: Attach the Lead to the Harness
Securely connect the lead to your dog's harness, ensuring it's properly fastened to prevent any unexpected escapes.
#3: Let the Dog Roam Around With the Short Line Trailing Behind
Give your dog some freedom to wander while the short line follows along, allowing them to explore without feeling too restricted.
#4: Always Keep an Eye On Your Dog If a Short Line is Attached to Them. Safety First!
Make sure to stay vigilant and keep a close watch on your dog, especially when they're connected to the short line, ensuring they stay out of harm's way.
NEVER LEAVE THE SHORT LINE ATTACHED WITHOUT ANY SUPERVISION.
#5: You Don't Use the Short Line Forever. Put it On For Several Minutes Until Your Dog Behaves Better.
Use the short line for short intervals, giving your dog a chance to learn proper behavior. Gradually increase the time as they begin to exhibit improved conduct.
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Using The Short Line + The Dog Calming Code Can Transform Your Dogs
The short line is effective. It has worked for tens of thousands of dogs.
But the short line is just a tool. You have to get the strategies that will make dogs know that short line = your control, first and foremost. Or else… the short line will be less effective, especially if your dog struggles to see you as the leader.
Don’t worry, I have the solution for that!
My online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️, helps dog owners like you learn how to be the calm, confident AND capable leader that dogs listen to!
So when you do have to use the short line, your dog already knows YOU MEAN BUSINESS and you want them to listen.
You can click this link here to learn more about the Dog Calming Code.
~ Doggy Dan 😄
A whistle for dog recall training is a very important tool that some dog owners overlook.
Of course, I recommend you go for solutions that work best for you and your dog.
If you've put in all possible effort to train your dog to come when called, and still haven't had any success, the dog recall training whistle is a tool that you absolutely must not underestimate.
In this blog, we're going to talk about using a whistle, and why it's a need especially if you want to have dog training success.
Let's dive in.
Key Takeaways
Incorporating a whistle into dog training can enhance recall training, allowing for clear communication and prompt responses without straining your voice.
When selecting a whistle for dog recall training, prioritize durability, portability, and sound quality to ensure effective communication with your dog during outdoor activities.
Consistency in using the same whistle sound and emphasizing leadership based on guidance and safety are crucial in successful dog training. Patience and a calm approach in handling setbacks are essential for continued progress.
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Table of Contents
Why I Recommend the Whistle for Dog Recall Training
What to Look for in a Whistle for Dog Recall Training
Whistle for Dog Recall Training: Strategies and Tips Dog Owners Should Understand
Is Your Dog Still Not Responding To Your Calls?
Why I Recommend the Whistle for Dog Recall Training
I live in the countryside where roads come with rushing cars. I love letting my dogs explore freely, but I also make sure they're still safe.
My dogs are trained, and they come when I call. But, I still carry a whistle with me every time we go out because my dogs are also adventurous; I need to make sure they don't stray off to dangerous places.
You can say that I'm a top dog trainer that doesn't rely on my voice alone for dog recall training.
Here are several reasons why…
Dog Recall Whistle Comes With a Powerful Sound That Dogs Can Associate With
In my decade of training dogs, I've come to realize the sheer power of simplicity.
The whistle is a prime example of that.
Unlike the complex modulations of the human voice, a whistle emits a clear, piercing tone that a dog's ear can pick up and distinguish from the distraction of everyday sounds.
This crisp sound is unique, making it easier for dogs to associate it with a specific command: recall.
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You Reserve Your Voice for The Really Important Commands
Your shout should be reserved for the most important communications: when you need to connect with your dog, or when you give the most crucial instructions.
Using your voice all the time, especially over distances or in distracting environments, won't be as effective over time.
If you're constantly shouting your dog's name during recall training, your dog will find it hard to understand that your voice = urgent.
The whistle? It's calm, it's controlled, and it's constant. Because they know the sound of the whistle means "Come back here!" your dogs will come running back to you, no shouting involved.
It Reaches Longer Distances and Stands Out Among the Sounds
Dog recall training whistles are not just for the training field— they are vital tools for ensuring your dog's safety in the great outdoors.
A dog's hearing is finely tuned to pick up high-pitched sounds, which is why a whistle's sound can travel further than the human voice, standing out amongst nature's buzz or the clamor of the city.
Whistle for Dog Recall Training Has a Sound Dogs Can Get Familiar With
Consistency is key in any form of training.
Unlike our voices, which can sound different when we are tired, frustrated, or excited, a whistle's tone doesn't change.
This consistency means your dog can get familiar with it quickly, recognizing it as a signal for a specific action: to return to you.
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What to Look for in a Whistle for Dog Recall Training
If you're going for a whistle for dog recall, what should you choose? I recommend checking out these factors, so you'll get the whistle that's best for you.
Durable Material
When you're in the market for a whistle, think of it as an investment in your dog's safety.
You'll want one that withstands the elements, accidental drops, and even the occasional chew if it falls into curious jaws.
Durability ensures the sound remains consistent, which is what matters most for effective recall training.
Easy to Bring Outdoors
Your whistle should be as ready for adventure as your dog is.
Look for something lightweight with an option to attach to your keychain, belt loop, or around your neck.
It shouldn't be a hassle to carry; instead, it should be an extension of your outdoor gear as you go outdoors for exercise.
With Good Sound Quality
Sound quality isn't about music to your ears; it's about a clear, distinct signal to your dog.
A whistle with poor sound quality can fluctuate in tone, which can confuse your dog and undermine your training efforts.
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The Doggy Dan Whistle
The perfect whistle for dog training doesn't have to be edgy or really expensive; it just needs to work really well for you and your dog.
I just want to put this here: I truly support whatever choice you make when it comes to the whistle you choose for dog recall training.
However, if you are looking for a whistle I personally trust, I recommend the Doggy Dan whistle for effective recall training with your dog.
It's a straightforward, trainer-endorsed tool that can help improve your training sessions. In my years of testing various whistles, this one stands out in terms of sound quality and durability.
You can check out the whistle here (and even score a free whistle with the Whistle Training Masterclass course).
Whistle for Dog Recall Training: Strategies and Tips Dog Owners Should Understand
Start by Creating Association
Before the whistle means anything to your dog, it must become synonymous with something they desire.
Start by associating the whistle with positive experiences.
Blow it gently before meal times or right before a play session. The goal is to get your dog to connect the sound with moments that mean, "Hey, something good is waiting for me!"
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Build on the Positive
Now that your dog perks up at the sound of the whistle, it's time to work on the recall. Start in a controlled environment without distractions.
Give the whistle a blow, and if your dog comes, reward them immediately with a high-value treat, play, or affection.
Repeat this, gradually increasing the distance.
Move to Distractions
The real test of recall comes when there are competing interest.
Once your dog is responding reliably in a quiet environment, introduce more challenging scenarios.
The next step would be taking them to a park where other dogs and people are, and continue your training there. Always reward them for coming back to you.
The Importance of Consistency
I cannot stress enough how crucial consistency is. Use the same whistle-blow every time.
Your dog should know that that one sound—and one sound only—means it's time to return to you.
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Maintaining Leadership
Leadership in dog training isn't about being loud or aggressive. It's about being the source of guidance and safety for your dog.
In my previous blogs, I highly emphasize the power of leadership and control. When you're a leader in your dog's eyes, it solves the most pressing dog training issues, including the recall.
I talk more about becoming the leader in your dog's eyes in my online training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.
You can check my other blogs related to the topic of how to become a pack leader here.
Handling Setbacks
Training isn't linear, and there will be setbacks. Your dog may ignore the whistle one day, or they may be too distracted by a squirrel. Stay calm.
If you get frustrated, your dog will pick up on that energy and may become anxious or resistant. Reset, and try again.
Safety as a Priority
Always remember that the whistle is a tool for safety.
It's not just for when you want to leave the park; it's for those moments when immediate recall can prevent an accident or danger.
When you blow that whistle, you're not just calling your dog; you're potentially saving their life.
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Is Your Dog Still Not Responding To Your Calls?
I always tell dog owners that if their recall training does not work, they can try again using a whistle.
But if issues still persist after using one of the most effective tools in dog training, I recommend getting down to the bottom of the issue: leadership.
If your dog does not see you as the pack leader who is in control of everything (including them!), they will be thinking, "Why should I respond to their calls? I'm the one in charge here!"
I've seen the recall finally work for dog owners after months of training. The secret? Really becoming the leader their dogs look up to, listen to, and respond to.
With the right leadership and a great whistle on your side, you can transform your dog training journey.
You can check out the Dog Calming Code here.
~ Doggy Dan 😄
Training tips for aggressive dogs flood the internet, all promising miraculous results!
There’s a mix of positive reinforcement, showering dogs with treats, and even giving dogs really scary punishments!
While all these solutions work for a while, I know one thing from my experience as a top dog trainer: you need to get to the heart of the problem to see real progress.
The key to addressing snappy behavior in dogs goes beyond mere techniques.
In this article, I'll explore why even non-aggressive dogs can become snappy and aggressive.
By understanding these root causes, we can use a more gentle yet effective training to transform our beloved dogs into well-behaved and calm pets.
Key Takeaway
Snappy behavior in dogs often stems from fear, not aggression. Creating a secure environment and providing positive training can help them overcome this behavior.
Establishing yourself as a confident and protective pack leader can alleviate a dog's anxieties, reducing their tendency to be snappy.
Dogs can become protective of their personal space and territory. Respecting their boundaries can help minimize snappy behavior.
LEARN HOW TO HANDLE SNAPPY DOGS WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE
Table of Contents
Why Are Snappy Dogs Different From Most Aggressive Dogs
Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs: The 2 BIGGEST Reasons Behind Snappy Behavior
How Being The Pack Leader Can Help Snappy Dogs
Training Snappy Dogs: What Causes Snappy Dog Behavior?
9 Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs
How the Dog Calming Code Can Change Snappy Dogs
Why Are Snappy Dogs Different From Most Aggressive Dogs?
First, let’s talk about why snappy dogs are unique dogs, especially when it comes to aggression.
Snappy dogs possess a unique behavioral trait, distinct from outright aggression.
Their inclination to snap arises primarily from fear and boundary concerns.
Unlike overtly aggressive dogs, they may not intend harm but resort to snapping when they sense perceived threats.
You can see this in small dogs getting barky and feisty once you touch them. You can also see this in seemingly calm dogs whose energy levels spike up from a level two to a level nine when their personal space is threatened.
This behavior often emerges when unfamiliar people or situations encroach on their comfort zones or possessions.
Snappy dogs are not inherently aggressive but exhibit a protective mechanism driven by apprehension.
Understanding this uniqueness is vital for responsible ownership, emphasizing patience, positive training, and creating secure environments to help these dogs overcome their fears and develop more confident, non-snappy behavior.
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Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs: The 2 BIGGEST Reasons Behind Snappy Behavior
REASON #1: Your Dog is Always on High Alert Because They Think They Are In Charge.
For dogs, survival is the name of the game. Therefore, when they think they are the ONLY ONES dealing with danger, dogs become fiercely protective.
Our dogs are instinctively wired to seek a leader within their pack.
When they perceive a lack of clear leadership, they become anxious and agitated, always on high alert for potential threats.
This constant unease can lead to snappy and aggressive behavior as they attempt to assert control and protect themselves.
REASON #2: They Are Protective of Their Space
Consider this scenario: you're walking down the street, and a stranger suddenly comes up to you and say "Oh you're so cute, I love you!"
You'd likely feel violated and possibly react angrily. After all, somebody just got into your space without permission.
Dogs are no different; they can become snappy when they feel their territory or personal space is threatened.
And for dogs, space is a big deal!
This crossing of boundaries is a common scenario among small, popular breed dogs. These dogs are stranger magnets because they can be so adorable; being constantly mobbed by strangers can make them feel overly-protective and aggressive.
How Being The Pack Leader Can Help Snappy Dogs
Being a pack leader is crucial in addressing snappy dog behavior for several reasons.
First, Dogs Have a Natural Instinct to Establish a Hierarchy Within Their Social Groups
If they perceive themselves as the leader, they may feel responsible for handling threats or dangers around them, something that can contribute to snappish behavior.
You can flip this by embracing your role as the pack leader. It's like tapping your dog on the head to say, "Hey, buddy. I got this. You can chill and hand the danger to me."
When you help establish a strong association with you as a fierce, protective, confident, and reliable leader, your dog will learn to ease up and become more tolerant.
Second, Dogs Rely on a Pack Hierarchy for Survival
They needed a cohesive group to protect themselves from threats.
When a dog doesn't feel it can rely on a leader, it might take on this role, resulting in increased stress and potential aggression.
Third, Taking the Leadership Role Can Make Your Dog Feel Secured
This sense of security can lead to decreased anxiety, making them more tolerant and less prone to snapping.
By establishing yourself as the pack leader, you create a harmonious environment that allows your dog to flourish mentally and emotionally.
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Training Snappy Dogs: What Causes Snappy Dog Behavior?
Fear or Anxiety
Dogs may become snappy when they feel threatened, scared, or anxious by strangers and people they know.
Loud noises, unfamiliar people or animals, stressful situations, and changes in the environment are just some reasons for fear and anxiety.
Non-aggressive dogs can show their fangs as a typical response to perceived threats.
Pain or Discomfort
Dogs in pain or discomfort may become snappy as a defensive mechanism.
When dogs feel weak, they have all the more reason to be really, really protective.
Physical issues such as injuries, dental problems, or internal discomfort can lead to irritability and aggression. If you have an ailing dog, err on the side of safety.
Territorial Aggression
Dogs are territorial animals, and they may become snappy when they think a threat is getting near their territory or possessions.
The causes for territorial aggression can include guarding their food, toys, or living space.
Lack of Socialization
Dogs not adequately socialized during their critical developmental periods may become fearful or aggressive in unfamiliar social situations.
This can result in snappish behavior when encountering new people or animals.
Frustration or Resource Guarding
A frustrated dog trying to protect a valuable resource, like food or a favorite toy, has a higher chance of snapping.
Resource guarding is one of the core by-products of trying a dog’s desire to survive.
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9 Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs
1. Be the Pack Leader Who Deals with Danger
When it comes to snappy dogs, here’s a formula I want you to remember:
You as the Pack Leader + Proper Training = a Calm, Chill Dog.
(Actually, this is the heart of my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️!)
Dogs are all about survival. They want to be safe, they want to feel protected. If you don’t make them feel that they can hand all the worrying to you, THEY WON’T STOP BEING SNAPPY…however hard you train them!
My 5 Golden Rules to becoming the pack leader in your dog’s eyes (which you can find in The Dog Calming Code) will solidify your leadership. You can take these simple but highly effective steps to make your dog say “Now that’s a pack leader I can trust to protect me and the pack!”
2. Know the Triggers of Your Dog
I’ve had dog owners come to me expressing their shock at how their non-aggressive dog attacked someone!
“We don’t know what caused them to react like that!”
Trust me: your dog WILL SHOW signs they’re triggered. We just need to really, really be keen in knowing what these triggers are.
Identify the specific triggers that cause your dog's snappy behavior.
Is it random strangers, other dogs, or specific situations? Perhaps a change in the environment?
When you know the triggers, you increase the safety of your dog and the strangers that interact with them.
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3. Err on the Side of Safety
Ensure that your dog is securely leashed and has appropriate gear to prevent harm to others in case of aggression.
I know it’s tempting to trust on your dog’s natural, kind character. But aggression is unpredictable; you have to take every step to prevent your dog from hurting others.
4. Introduce Your Dogs to Strangers Slowly
I totally understand this: you simply want to show your cute dog to your friends or to strangers you meet. However, your dog might not share the same enthusiasm.
When it comes to introducing your dogs to strangers, a slow introduction is key.
Gradual exposure to strangers can help desensitize your dog. Take your time and allow your dog to adjust at their own pace.
5. Don't Use Harshness
Avoid harsh training methods, as they can confuse and exacerbate your dog's aggression. Gentle, positive reinforcement techniques are more effective.
6. Practice Timeout When Needed
Implement timeouts when your dog displays snappy behavior. This gives them a chance to calm down and learn that aggression won't be tolerated.
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7. Retreat from Strangers
If your dog becomes aggressive with a stranger, calmly remove them from the situation to de-escalate tension.
8. Ask Strangers to Respect Boundaries
Inform strangers about your dog's needs and boundaries. Most people will appreciate your proactive approach.
9. Limit Exposure to Strangers
Don't overwhelm your dog by exposing them to too many strangers at once. Gradual socialization is key to success.
DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN BE THE LEADER IN
Doggy Dan, why is my dog overexcited? Also, how to calm overexcited dogs?
I often get this question from dog owners dealing with dogs that are always all over the place, jumping on the couch, on them, and on other dogs.
They bark, run, and lunge all because they are excited… something that causes a lot of stress not only to their owners but to other dogs as well.
These overexcited dogs often get shouted at or barked at because they're constantly invading space, always not listening.
In other words, these dogs always get into trouble.
And who wants that for their dogs, right?
You're in the right place if you have an overexcited dog and want to get to the bottom of the issue.
If you're looking for ways to calm an overexcited dog, I have important tips.
Read on.
Key Takeaways
Overexcitement in dogs can manifest in various behavioral signs, including incessant barking, hyperactive jumping, pacing, and the inability to remain still. This behavior often arises from underlying issues related to the dog's perception of its role as the pack leader, a lack of physical and mental stimulation, and overstimulating environments.
Establishing yourself as the pack leader is crucial to calming an overexcited dog. By taking charge of mealtime, attention, walks, and all aspects of the dog's life, you communicate that you are the one in control, which can help reduce the dog's overexcitement and restlessness.
Additional strategies to calm an overexcited dog include providing regular physical exercise and mental stimulation, consistent obedience training to establish a stronger bond and outlet for the dog's energy, and creating a tranquil home environment that includes a safe space for the dog.
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Table of Contents:
How to Calm Overexcited Dogs: What Are the Signs to Look Out For
What Causes a Dog to be Overexcited?
When You Show Leadership, You Calm an Overexcited Dog
Apart From Being the Pack Leader, How Do You Calm an Overexcited Dog?
How the Dog Calming Code Can Change Your Overexcited Do
How to Calm Overexcited Dogs: What Are the Signs to Look Out For
Is your dog really just happy or are they starting to show signs of being an overexcited dog?
The easiest way to tell is to look at the signs. From non-stop barking to hyperactive jumping, here are some critical signs that you have an overexcited dog who needs help.
Sign #1: Incessant Barking (AKA A Dog Who Just Can’t Stop Barking Because of Excitement)
This dog is relatively easy to spot. An overexcited dog barks at other people or dogs to get their attention.
It's like saying, "Hey, I want to play. Notice me! I'm here!" And when attention is not given, the barking gets more and more persistent.
An overexcited dog may bark persistently and excessively, often without reason. This non-stop barking behavior is always a manifestation of heightened arousal, and these dogs often continue barking despite attempts to calm them down.
In short, simply telling your dog to "Stop barking!" does not really work.
Sign #2: Hyperactive Jumping
When faced with excitement, a dog might jump uncontrollably, especially when greeting their owners or encountering new visitors.
This jumping can become particularly overwhelming, making it challenging for the dog to focus or listen to commands.
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Sign #3: Hyperactive Pacing
When your dog gets their excitement meter through the roof, they often engage in rapid and erratic pacing, making them unable to settle down or relax.
Once your dog gets piqued up, they will find it hard to really calm down or tune in.
Sign #4: Inability to Remain Still
Overexcitement may render a dog unable to remain still, even for short periods.
You can see it in how they fidget, shift positions, or show restlessness.
Sign #5: Overzealous Playfulness That May Escalate Into Rough or Aggressive Behavior
Overexcited dogs might demonstrate excessive enthusiasm during playtime, which can sometimes turn into overly rough behavior or even aggression. Especially when the other dog don't share their excitement!
This behavior can result from the dog's inability to regulate their excitement levels, leading to potential behavioral challenges during interactions with other animals or people.
What Causes a Dog to be Overexcited?
Understanding the underlying triggers contributing to a dog's overexcitement is CRUCIAL in devising the best training plan for managing their exuberant behavior.
When you understand the cause of dog overexcitement, it helps you address the issue clearly. You'll also know how to correct this issue in its roots.
Reason #1: Your Dog Thinks They’re the Leader, Thus the Heightened Energy
If you don’t establish yourself as the pack leader, dogs will take on that role. And when they do, they will find it difficult to regulate their excitement levels.
Without clear guidance and reinforcement of desirable conduct, these dogs may become easily overwhelmed and struggle to remain composed in various situations.
(I teach the nitty gritty of how you can combat this through my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code.)
Reason #2: Pent-Up Energy
A surplus of unused energy due to insufficient exercise or mental stimulation can contribute significantly to a dog's overexcitement.
Always calling rain check on your walks and exercise? Don’t!
A lack of movement and exercise cause dogs to exhibit restlessness and hyperactivity, making it challenging for them to maintain a state of calmness and relaxation.
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Reason #3: Overstimulating Environment
Environmental factors such as loud noises, crowded spaces, or frequent disruptions can overstimulate a dog's senses, leading to an increase in their overall arousal levels.
In such environments, dogs may find it difficult to focus or remain composed, resulting in heightened excitement that manifests through various behavioral cues.
And if you, their dog owner, come home with a frenetic, overexcited energy, your dog will absorb that.
Reason #4: Lack of Mental Engagement
Dogs, especially those with high intelligence or specific breed traits, require regular mental stimulation to prevent boredom and subsequent overexcitement.
Without engaging activities or interactive play that challenge their cognitive abilities, dogs may resort to hyperactive behaviors as a means of seeking stimulation and attention.
When You Show Leadership, You Calm an Overexcited Dog
The very root of overexcitement is this: your dog feels that they are in charge.
It's not only the aggressive, fierce dogs who think they run the show… even the hyperactive, overly playful one feels the same.
Why?
Because they think they're in charge of playtime. They are the leader in their minds, so when they lunge, jump, or bark excitedly to signal to everyone it's playtime, they think everyone should listen.
And if the other dogs don't respond as your dog wants them to, they won't stop lunging or jumping at them.
You may have already seen this scenario play out in a park.
The excited dogs are working up every other pet in the vicinity because they can't stop asserting their authority through overexcitement.
What you expect as a quiet, calm, chill day with your dog at the park turns into a bark-fest, with your dog as the instigator.
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The Solution to Helping an Overexcited Dog Calm Down is Simple: Be the Pack Leader
Let's go back to the park scene.
In the park, some dogs are ABSOLUTELY calm and tranquil and just so in tune with the commands of their owners.
So different from your dog with a ranging level 8 energy level!
Let me tell you this: the only difference between your dog and the calm dog at the park is this: the latter knows who is in charge.
Your overexcited dog gets wired up every single time because they think they are the decision-maker.
They decide when playtime is.
They decide when to pull the strings of other dogs.
They decide on everything!
And if you're the decision maker, you can get overwhelmed. And this overwhelm often translates to overexcitement.
If you want to remove the factors that cause your dog to display frenetic behavior, become the pack leader who knows how to handle things.
Being a Pack Leader: How it Helps Calm Overexcited Dogs
When you take the leadership hat off your dog, it will show them that they're not in charge.
They're not in control of playtime.
They're not in charge of rounding up the animals for playtime.
They're not in charge of initiating play.
"But Doggy Dan, how can I show my dog I'm in charge?"
I have an entire series dedicated to this which you can check here. But let me give you a snippet:
When your dog takes control of mealtime, they don't see you as a leader.
When your dog thinks they can get attention from you any time they want, you're not a leader in their eyes.
When they take over a walk while you're outdoors, they think they're the leader.
So when you take charge of EVERY SINGLE THING (food, attention, danger, walks) related to your dog, you're sending a message that you're the pack leader, the one in charge of everything.
They don't have to worry about playtimes at the park.
Or the dogs that don't play with them.
It's a matter that should be dealt with BY YOU.
It calms them down!
(You can learn more about how to become the pack leader with my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.)
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Apart From Being the Pack Leader, How Do You Calm an Overexcited Dog?
Tip #1: Physical Exercise and Mental Stimulation
Help your dog diffuse their overexcitement by engaging them in regular physical exercise, such as brisk walks and interactive play sessions.
Incorporate mental stimulation activities, like puzzle toys or training exercises, to help channel their focus and promote a sense of calmness.
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If you are wondering how to deal with an overprotective dog, you MUST know that these animals are NOT naturally inclined to cause harm.
In fact, dog aggression from overprotectiveness is a case of a dog’s desire to keep harm away from you and the property they’re protecting.
But when is a protective dog too much? And how do you deal with an aggressive, overprotective dog?
In this blog, we’re going to talk about dog aggression coming from overprotectiveness and how you, as a dog owner, can help your dogs.
Read on to learn more.
Key Takeaways
Giving dogs treats hoping it will stop their overprotectiveness doesn’t work at all. Your dog has to know they can count on you to protect them.
Being the leader who shows your dog that you are in charge can ease your dog’s overprotectiveness.
“Security dog” and “border patrol dogs” are just some examples of the types of overprotective dogs. Although different, both dogs exhibit behavior connected to their need to protect: barking, charging towards the threat, even biting!
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Table of Contents
How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog: Why Are Dogs So Overprotective?
What Role Do You Play in Dealing with an Overprotective Dog: Take Charge!
9 Signs of an Overprotective Dog
8 Ways To Deal with an Overprotective Dog
How to Deal With an Overprotective Dog: The Dog Calming Code Can Help You!
How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog: Why Are Dogs so Overprotective?
What is an overprotective dog?
This kind of dog is easy to spot. One of the overprotective dog types is the “security guard” dog.
They usually spring up at the very first sound of the doorbell. Their energy levels can go from 2 to an instant 10! They get up from their little corner to run and bark at the person or animal on the other side of the door.
The other kind is the “border patrol” dog. This overprotective dog restlessly goes around the property checking on gates and fences and making sure nothing gets in.
Although different, these dogs exhibit aggressive behaviors that drive their dog owners crazy.
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But really, what causes a dog to be overprotective?
Dealing with an Overprotective Dog: This Dog Thinks They Are in Charge
The number one reason for a dog who charges towards the door from the slightest knock or from a doorbell is this: they think they’re in charge.
Let me explain through an analogy…
Let’s say you come visit my house.
I ask you to sit, give you refreshments, and entertain you with conversation.
All of a sudden, the doorbell rings. Will you get up to get it?
You would probably say “No, I won’t because it’s not my house.” You know that it’s not your job to answer the door.
That’s the homeowners job because they’re in charge of everything related to their home.
And it’s the same with our dogs: because they think it’s their responsibility to answer to anyone who comes near the house, they go frantic at the sound of a doorbell, or bark when someone gets too close to your property.
They think they’re the leader of the house, so they are the first to the door.
They think they’re in charge of you and the property, so they rove and guard non-stop to keep you safe.
In short, these dogs are stressed, agitated, exhausted, and just can’t relax. All they have on their mind is protect, protect, protect.
So how can you help?
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What Role Do You Play in Dealing with an Overprotective Dog: Take Charge!
In your relationship with your dog, who is responsible for answering the door?
You could say that “My dog knows I am the one in charge.”
But do they really?
If your dog believes they are in charge, they will continue to be aggressive towards anyone near the door or fence.
The “security guard” and the “border patrol” dogs are constantly barking at the door, constantly patrolling the area with an aggressive energy because they think they’re in charge of it!
You're a big deal in your dog's world, and that can sometimes lead to them being a tad overprotective. In your dog’s eyes, you and the property are priority #1.
But you don’t want that! You just want your dogs to be calm and chill, and let you do all the worrying.
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Here’s where the challenge comes in.
You’re probably thinking “I need to get a training program to stop this aggression.” A good move, yes. But which program?
Because here’s what I’ve observed so far: most programs aimed at stopping overprotectiveness by just giving dog treats so they will stop worrying.
Treats and rewards are not enough. You have to learn how to show them they have NOTHING to worry about.
How do you do this?
How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog? Be the Pack Leader By Showing Them You Deal with Danger!
Remember this ONE CRUCIAL TRUTH before we discuss additional steps to handling an overprotective dog:
Your dog is overprotective because they don’t see you as the leader who will do the protecting.
“But Dan, I do all my best to protect my dog!”
I have no doubt you do.
But dog psychology is more complex than what us humans understand. Your actions can send your dog a different message.
(Dog psychology comes with various concepts that are essential for dog owners to understand. I talk more about cracking the dog code with my online training program The Dog Calming Code™️.)
The bottomline is telling your dog “Don’t worry, I’m in charge here” just won’t do it.
So how do you show your leadership, especially when it comes to answering the door?
Here are several examples of what you can do (taken from Doggy Dan’s Golden Rule #4: Dealing with Danger).
If your dog is barking at someone from a distance, show them that you acknowledge what they’re barking at BUT DON’T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT.
Calmly reassure the dog that you saw their perceived threat, and they have nothing to worry about by telling them “Thank you” and walking away.
If your dog still barks after doing this, take them to a room to help them let some steam off and bring their energy level down.
Always make sure your energy is not stressed or agitated as well. Because even if you say “Thank you!” and walk away IF your energy level is anything BUT CALM, your dog won’t be calm.
These are just some examples of dealing with a dog who can’t stop barking and worrying about their perceived threat.
(Important note: Remember, it’s you who needs to do the worrying!)
I talk more about dealing with perceived danger in Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4. I have a blog dedicated for this which you can check out here.
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9 Signs of an Overprotective Dog
They’re Constantly Vigilant
Dogs, with their innate sense of alertness, are often found keeping a watchful eye on their surroundings.
They are always alert, prepared to notice any possible intrusions or disturbances, whether it's the sound of leaves rustling or distant footsteps.
Standing Alertly
In the presence of unfamiliar sounds or movements, dogs can be seen standing tall, ears perked up, and muscles tensed, all in preparation for any potential encounter.
Their alert posture serves as a testament to their acute awareness and readiness to react.
They Center Their Focus on a New Stimulus All the Time
At the slightest hint of a new presence in their environment, dogs swiftly redirect their attention.
Their keen focus on the newcomer reflects their instinctual need to assess potential threats or new companions, gauging whether they pose any danger or warrant a friendly approach.
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Growling or Barking at Perceived Threat
When sensing a possible threat or intrusion, dogs often resort to vocal cues, expressing their unease or asserting their authority.
Their growls or barks serve as a clear warning, communicating their readiness to defend and protect their territory or loved ones.
Going Back and Forth Between You and Perceived Threat
In moments of perceived danger, dogs instinctively position themselves as a shield, placing their bodies between their loved ones and the potential harm.
This protective behavior showcases their loyalty and unwavering commitment to ensuring the safety of their human companions.
Returning to Normal Once the Threat is Gone
Once the situation deems itself safe, dogs swiftly ease back into their usual demeanor, relinquishing their defensive stance and resuming their ordinary activities.
Their ability to swiftly switch between defense and ease highlights their responsive and adaptable nature.
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Overly Aggressive, Threatening Stance
In the face of what they perceive as a genuine threat, some dogs may adopt an overtly aggressive posture, with their heads held high and hackles raised, signaling a clear message of intimidation.
This defensive stance is a visual display of their readiness to confront and defend against any potential harm.
Overreacting to New Situations
In some cases, dogs may showcase an exaggerated response to new or unfamiliar situations, often reacting with heightened anxiety or aggression.
Their overreaction might stem from a place of heightened protectiveness, where they interpret the unknown as a potential threat to their territory or loved ones.
Urinating to Mark Territory
Through the act of urinating in specific locations, dogs establish their territorial boundaries, leaving behind scent markers to communicate their ownership or presence.
This instinctual behavior serves as a means of asserting their claim over their environment, highlighting their innate need to protect and secure their space.
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8 Ways To Deal with an Overprotective Dog
Be the Leader in Charge of EVERYTHING
When you deal with a fear biter, you have to understand that this dog’s tendency to bite is not fueled by the desire to simply bite.
These fear biters are fierce protectors.
When dog owners come to me and ask about aggression due to fear, I tell them when they deal with a fear biter, they have to halt the training until they solve the problem on a deeper level.
Because most of the time, fear-based aggression that causes biting is not a matter of lack of training but a lack of tactic.
In this blog, I’m going to talk about the number one reason why dogs bite due to fear, and how you — their dog owner — can actually change fear biters.
Key Takeaways
Fear biters don’t bite out of habit. They use biting as a way to protect you and the property from danger.
The number one reason why fear biters continue to bite is because they feel that they are in charge, so they have to do all the protecting.
The Dog Calming Code teaches the 5 Golden Rules, a set of rules that can help establish YOUR leadership in your fearful dog’s eyes.
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Table of Contents
How to Deal with a Fear Biter: The #1 Reason a Fear Biter Bites
How to Deal With a Fear Biter: Change Dog Biting Aggression By Being the Pack Leader
So… How Do You Become the Pack Leader That Stops Fear Biting Aggression?
How to Deal with a Fear Biter: How Being a Pack Leader Changes Biting Due to Fear Aggression
How to Deal With Biting Due to Fear Aggression: Other Reasons Why Dogs Become Fear Biters
Fear Biting Dogs: What Are The Signs to Look Out For?
How to Change the Fear Biting Aggression in Dogs
How to Deal with a Fear Biter: Let the Dog Calming Code Help You!
How to Deal with a Fear Biter: The #1 Reason a Fear Biter Bites
So why do fearful dogs bite?
Like what I always mention in my previous blogs, dogs fueled by fear are driven by their primal responsibility to protect.
This issue puzzles dog owners: they usually have a pretty well-mannered dog, until a perceived danger or threat comes near.
They immediately show their fangs, and they don’t hesitate biting anything or anyone who they think disrupts safety.
I want to emphasize again: fear biters don’t just bite out of habit — they perceive themselves as the one in charge of their owners and their property so… they bite to protect.
Here’s a scenario that can explain it better.
As parents, we’re actually pretty chill when we’re alone. It’s a different story when we have kids that are under our care.
We become more wary about things around us — even anxious! — and always on the edge to protect our kids from the danger of strangers and threatening circumstances.
Why? Because we know that when it comes to our kids, we are the ones in charge.
And it’s the same with our dogs.
Of course they will be scared. Of course they will be protective!
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The fearful biter is a dog that sees themselves as the pack leader and they want the source of danger to know that. They bite to make the danger stay away.
So how do you let the fear biter know that there’s nothing they should be worried — or biting — about?
How to Deal With a Fear Biter: Change Dog Biting Aggression By Being the Pack Leader
Dealing with a fear biter requires both understanding and proactive steps. Becoming the pack leader is a powerful way to effectively address your dog's fear aggression.
Here's a detailed guide on how to do it:
Our Dogs Have to Know That They Are Not the Leader, It’s Us
Dogs often have a natural tendency to assume leadership, which can lead to constant anxiety, vigilance, and eventually fear-based aggression.
The best remedy is to assert ourselves as the leaders. Here's how:
#1: Stay Calm in the Face of Danger
Dogs pick up on our reactions.
When they sense danger, try to remain composed.
Even if their barking or biting tendencies can get into you, demonstrate that you are unfazed.
Let them see that you acknowledge the situation but are not troubled by it. This reassures them that there's nothing to worry about because YOU will do all the worrying.
#2: Use Calm and Consistent Corrections
If your dog continues to exhibit anxious or aggressive behavior despite your calm leadership, use calm and consistent corrections, such as timeouts.
Over time, this can help reinforce your position as the pack leader and correct any bad behavior before it becomes extreme.
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Dogs Should Know They Can Transfer Leadership to Us for Peace of Mind
A dog’s primal desire to protect is really strong.
So even if you tell them “Don’t worry about it!” they will still worry about it, especially if they don’t see you as the leader who can actually handle dangerous business.
By assuming the role of the strong, sure, undeterred pack leader (one they can confidently, totally trust), they can hand the baton of leadership to you.
Dogs Should Know You Deal with Danger, Strangers, and Strange Noises Confidently
As the pack leader, you have the responsibility to handle potential threats, whether they be danger, strangers, or unfamiliar sounds or objects.
Your confidence in dealing with these situations conveys to your dog that they are safe under your care.
By showcasing your ability to take charge and face challenges with confidence, your dog gains a sense of security. They recognize that you are there to protect them, reducing their need to resort to fear-based aggression.
So… How Do You Become the Pack Leader That Stops Fear Biting Aggression?
After years of working with thousands of dogs as a top-notch dog trainer, I've got the lowdown on how to be the kind of pack leader your dogs can really rely on.
And guess what? I'm spilling the beans in the Dog Calming Code™️, an online dog training program that spills all the secrets of the 5 Golden Rules of dog leadership.
In the Dog Calming Code, you'll uncover everything you need to know about stepping up as the pack leader, earning your dog's trust, and helping them overcome their tendency to bite out of fear!
You can learn more about the Dog Calming Code here.
How to Deal with a Fear Biter: How Being a Pack Leader Changes Biting Due to Fear Aggression
Biting due to fear aggression changes when our dogs see us as the Alpha. Our dogs start to understand that they don’t really have to protect us, we are going to protect them.
Now if they start to see you as a pack leader, your call to build confidence instead of fear BECOMES BIGGER.
Here’s a quick analogy:
Imagine there’s an ice cream truck in the middle of the woods.
This ice cream truck is a strange, very random sight to the wolves in there.
How will the rest of the pack react to this foreign thing? Totally depends on the pack leader!
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If the pack leader or the alpha panics after seeing the ice cream truck, guess what will happen? The rest of the pack will panic, too.
If the pack leader or the alpha pees all over the ice cream truck, the pack understands they have nothing to worry about it.
If the pack leader ignores the ice cream truck, you can bet a dollar that the rest of the pack will ignore it, too.
However the pack leader reacts, the rest of the pack follows.
How to Deal With Biting Due to Fear Aggression: Other Reasons Why Dogs Become Fear Biters
Reason #1: When Dogs Deal with a New Environment
Dogs can exhibit fear aggression when introduced to new environments.
They may feel overwhelmed or anxious in unfamiliar surroundings, leading to defensive behavior, including biting.
When you do have to introduce a new environment to your beloved dogs, please do so gradually. A gradual introduction provides positive experiences and reassurance to ease their anxiety.
When You Introduce New Routines
Is the change of season calling you to change routines as well? Well, you might soon deal with an anxious fear biter.
Changes in routines can trigger fear aggression in dogs because they find comfort in a frequently-followed flow.
A sudden disruption in their daily schedule creates stress and uncertainty. Just like navigating around new environments, try introducing routine changes one at a time.
DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN BE THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG’S EYES
When Dogs Meet New Animals
If your dog has dealt with scary past experiences with other animals, introducing them to a new pet can spell trouble.
Fearful dogs may react aggressively when confronted with unfamiliar animals as a defense mechanism.
Careful and controlled introductions to other animals, under supervision, can help reduce fear-based aggression.
When Dogs Deal with Stranger Danger
The most common fear biting trigger in dogs is stranger danger.
When dogs perceive a person as a threat, they may resort to aggression as a way to protect themselves or their owners. When a sound or an object looks strange enough to simply be ignored, your dog will be on high alert.
The solution to a fear biter’s problem with stranger danger? Socialization and consistency in showing your dogs YOU take care of danger! These are key to helping dogs become more comfortable around strangers.
Gradual exposure to new people, along with positive reinforcement, can help them overcome this fear.
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Fear Biting Dogs: What Are The Signs to Look Out For?
Sign #1: Immediate Aggression to Strangers
Immediate aggression towards strangers is a clear sign of fear-based aggression in dogs.
When they perceive someone they don't know as a threat, they may react defensively by growling, barking, or even biting.
This response is their way of trying to protect themselves or their owners from what they perceive as a potential danger.
Sign #2: Reactive to Strange Noises, Sounds, Environment
Dogs with fear-based aggression can be highly reactive to unusual noises, sounds, or changes in their environment.
Sudden loud noises, unfamiliar soun
The question of how to handle a bossy, dominant dog is common among dog owners who are exhausted, frustrated, and overwhelmed by their bossy dogs.
Bossy, dominant dogs have a distinct characteristic: they always want to be in charge over every dog they encounter. They love challenging authority, they display brute strength, and they don’t hesitate in showing aggression.
One can say “Oh, but that’s just a dog’s personality!”
Though it can be true, dominant behavior not corrected can lead to more serious challenges including your dog dominating you.
Stopping aggression in dogs is crucial to avoid other problems including your dog hurting another dog, a disorganized home, and having a dog that just doesn’t listen to you.
If you have an aggressive dog, you’re in the right place…
In this blog we’re going to talk about the dog psychology behind aggression, the 8 powerful strategies to stop aggression due to dominance, and the mistakes dog owners make that set their dogs back.
Key Takeaways
A bossy, aggressive dog has one mission in mind: to let other dogs (and people!) know that they’re the one in charge.
One of the best ways to handle an aggressive dog is to start establishing YOUR leadership at home. Your dog has to know that you’re the pack leader, and the one in charge.
The Dog Calming Code™️ program comes with lessons that can help you regain control over your dominant, aggressive dog.
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Table of Contents
How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: What’s Going on In a Bossy Dog’s Mind?
How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: Aggressive Dog Signs and What They Mean
How to Tell When a Dominant Aggressive Dog is Asserting Their Dominance on You
Training a Dominant Dog: 10 Best Strategies to Stop Dominant Dog Aggression
Five Mistakes Dog Owners Make That Cause Dog Dominance
Learn How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior with the Dog Calming Code
How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: What’s Going on In a Bossy Dog’s Mind?
What truly drives your dog's need to assert dominance and display aggression?
Let me give the explanation through a common scenario often encountered by dog owners with aggressive and bossy dogs.
Picture this: when you take your bossy pet to the park, they tend to gravitate towards other dogs, sizing them up.
Dogs typically approach each other with erect ears, engaging in a circling ritual as they assess one another.
Soon enough, you might hear a chorus of barks, each dog unrelenting!
So, why do they behave this way? Especially when there is no food or toy around?
The answer is rather straightforward: they exhibit aggression because they want to know who is in charge.
The bossy aggression happens when your dog perceives themselves as the alpha… the leader of the pack, so to speak.
They have this HUGE need to assert themselves, and if either you or another dog fails to comply with their desires, they resort to aggressive behaviors to assert their dominance.
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How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: Aggressive Dog Signs and What They Mean
Signs of aggression in a dominant dog is different from a dog with aggression driven by fear. The aggressive behavior of bossy dogs come from their want to assert authority and put other dogs in their place.
Dog owners, knowing these signs by heart can protect you and your other pets from aggressive outbursts of your bossy dog.
Here are aggressive dog signs that gives you the cue you need to remind your dog “Hey, it’s me who is in control here.”
Barking
Is your bossy dog the king of non-stop barking?
Dogs use barking as a means to assert themselves as the leader of the pack. It’s their way of commanding attention, demanding for resources, or forcing compliance from other dogs or humans.
It's a vocal display of their perceived authority.
Growling
Growling is a sign you can’t simply brush off!
When a bossy dog growls, it's a clear warning that says “You are pushing the boundaries!”
A bossy dog can resort to growling in instances such as:
Another dog getting into their space
When they see another dog — or you — as a threat to their authority
When other dogs are challenging them
The growling can escalate to aggression if the perceived threat persists.
It's a signal that the bossy dog believes they have the right to control the situation and are willing to use force if necessary.
Stance That Says "I'm Ready to Fight"
You’ve probably seen this if you have a bossy dog: the dominant stance, which includes standing tall with their head held high, and a stiff body posture.
Aggressive, dominant dogs use this stance to communicate their readiness to engage in a confrontation if challenged.
It's a serious way of saying "I'm in charge, and I'm prepared to defend my position."
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Bumping Heads
In the dog kingdom, head bumping is a show of dominance.
One dog asserts dominance by positioning its head above the other's, signaling its victory in the hierarchy struggle. The opposing dog resists and attempts to gain the upper position, leading to occasional head collisions.
The more they push back, the more they’re communicating “No, I AM THE BOSS not you.”
Circling Around
When a dog circles another, it’s an act of assessing their opponent.
Circling allows them to size up the competition, anticipate movements, and potentially find an advantage in a confrontation.
A dog who circles around strategizes on how he can completely cement his position as the alpha.
Attacking Forward
When a bossy dog attacks forward, it usually occurs when they feel their authority or dominance is being questioned or threatened.
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How to Tell When a Dominant Aggressive Dog is Asserting Their Dominance on You
Do dogs also exhibit dominance over their owners?
They can and do!
Some of the signs that your dog is showing dominance over you includes them refusing to come when called, persistently climbing onto your bed and couch despite your objections, or displaying aggression towards you.
Recognizing these signs is crucial because they show that you have potentially lost control of your dog.
And when you lose control over a dominant dog, it can be the start of difficult behavior issues.
So, how can you prevent these issues from escalating?
There are four signs that you should 100% watch out for.
Invading Your Space
Picture this: dogs encroached upon your personal space, freely climbing onto your bed without an invitation, perching on your head, or occupying your lap without consent.
It might sound sweet at first (“Yay, my dog wants me!”) but they are actually very subtle ways of dogs taking over the leadership. Even a dog lying on your feet is their way of showing dominance.
And the more your dog invades your space, the more they start to think “I can do this because I'm the one in charge here.”
Growling at You
When dogs growl at you, it's a significant sign.
This is because growling can be a precursor to an attack.
It suggests that your dog perceives you as a threat to their authority and security, prompting them to growl to assert dominance.
Ignoring Your Commands
You call your dog, but there's no response.
You command them to stop, but they disregard your instructions.
Regardless of how loudly you may shout, they simply do not heed your words.
It’s a silent but powerful way of letting you know “Why should I listen to you?”
Making Decisions
Dogs take matters into THEIR OWN PAWS, making decisions without waiting for your input.
They decide when to eat food, nudge you for cuddles, or fetch their leash to signal their desire for a walk. These actions may seem harmless, but they slowly build into a wrecking ball that eventually crushes your control.
Once these signs become evident, it's essential to regain control. I am sharing the powerful strategies for training bossy dogs I’ve learned from my experience. Read on below.
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Training a Dominant Dog: 10 Best Strategies to Stop Dominant Dog Aggression
#1: Start in the Home
The journey of teaching your dog essential lessons begins right at home, and it's an indispensable starting point.
In fact, home is where the foundation for good behavior is laid, and there's no better place for this crucial groundwork.
By focusing on your dog's behavior within the home environment, you'll be better equipped to help them become less aggressive when they venture outdoors.
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In my years as a dog trainer, I have seen how even the most bossy, authoritarian dogs turn into calm dogs who learn how to listen and chill.
These transformations inspired me to make the Dog Calming Code program featuring the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules.
These Five Golden Rules of Dog Training were created to help dog owners like you TAKE BACK CONTROL through SIMPLE but POWERFUL strategies.
Here’s a quick preview of how you’re going to achieve leadership in your bossy dog’s eyes through the Dog Calming Code.
Doggy Dan Golden Rule #1: Control the Food
Your bossy dog has to know that you control the food and everything that comes with eating: mealtimes, scraps, eating habits.
Food is HUGE for dogs, and the one who controls the food is the one who is in charge.
Read more about Rule #1 here.
Doggy Dan Golden Rule #2: Delay Attention
After separation, your dog will challenge your leadership by going to you. This rule teaches dog owners the power of delaying acknowledgement to establish leadership, just like leader of the pack would.
Read more about Rule #2 here.
Doggy Dan Golden Rule #3: Doing Things On Your Own Terms
Your bossy dog has to see this: all the decisions come from you. They’re not the one in charge, so they absolutely just have to chill and hand all the decision making to you.
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If you’re eager to know how to help fearful dogs, I know where you’re coming from. Fearful dogs are exhausted. You can read their exhaustion through their habits and body language: they can’t easily sleep, they’re reactive, and they’re triggered by the littlest things.
If you own a dog that is highly fearful, you already know telling them “Please, calm down” doesn’t work.
So what do you do as a dog owner to truly pacify your dog’s fears?
I’m sharing an IMPORTANT dog trainer tip I’ve learned through the years. Read on to learn more.
Key Takeaways:
If you want to know what causes dog fears, it’s important to check your fears as well. You can directly influence your dog’s reaction to things!
Helping fearful dogs overcome their fears starts with letting them see our calm, confident, unfazed energy. When we don’t give attention to things that worry them, it sends a message that they can ignore it, too.
Becoming the pack leader is an important ingredients to stopping fearful dogs from becoming more stressed!
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Table of Contents:
Dog Owners and Dog Fears: The Story of the Woman with a Reactive Dog
How to Help Fearful Dogs: The #1 Reason For Your Dog’s Fearful Energy
Helping Fearful Dogs: Other Reasons Why Dogs Are Afraid
10 Signs of a Fearful Dog
How to Help Fearful Dogs at Home
How to Help Fearful Dogs Outdoors
Dog Calming Code: Helping Fearful Dogs Become Calmer and More Confident
Dog Owners and Dog Fears: The Story of the Woman with a Reactive Dog
My heart is close to dogs struggling with fears and anxiety. So when a lady told me that she had a problem with her reactive dog, I recommended a consultation.
When I met them, I couldn’t sense any agitated energy in her dog.
So we started rolling the camera to record the dog’s interactions as part of the consultation.
(And boy, I’m sure glad we did!)
When I asked them to walk, the dog was chill… until they had to walk past my dog.
The woman’s dog snarled, barked, and poised to attack the other dog.
That immediately made me wonder “What caused the change?” I knew the dog was reactive, but the way they shifted from calm to aggressive caught my attention.
We decided to review the tapes to see what caused the change.
And the moment I saw it, I immediately knew the exact reason.
During the walk, both owner and dog carried a happy, calm energy. When the dog had to walk past my dog, the owner did a slight, almost unnoticeable tug on the leash.
A gesture that meant “Hey, there’s a dog and I’m quite worried with what you’re going to do. Don’t come near him.”
And the dog immediately thought “Oh, so that dog is danger!”
The reasonable next step is for the dog to react to the threat — it was their way of protecting their owner from something they think is scary.
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How to Help Fearful Dogs: The #1 Reason For Your Dog’s Fearful Energy
I'm about to share a game-changing secret from my experience as a top dog trainer. When it comes to helping fearful dogs: your energy matters more than you might think.
Now, let's dig deeper with a few questions:
Have you ever noticed that your fears influence your dog’s fears?
Do you observe your dog getting more fearful when you’re also feeling anxious or worried?
Has your dog shown fear toward things THAT SECRETLY SCARE you?
If you find yourself answering “yes” to all these questions, it’s time to understand a fundamental principle: “Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes.”
What does this mean, exactly?
It means that if you're focused on things that trigger either YOUR fears or YOUR DOG'S fears, there's a good chance your dog will start to fear those things too.
Let me illustrate this with an example:
Think back to the woman I mentioned earlier. When she paid no mind to my dog, her dog remained calm and unbothered.
But the moment she started to react with worry, her dog sensed that worry and began displaying fear-based aggression.
Now, picture a different scenario: What if that woman— instead of panicking — decided to ignore my dog and redirect her dog's attention elsewhere?
Do you think her dog would react with the same level of aggression?
I'd bet my bottom dollar that the dog wouldn't be as aggressive.
In essence, your energy and attention play a pivotal role in shaping your dog's feeling towards certain things.
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Helping Fearful Dogs: Other Reasons Why Dogs Are Afraid
Now that I laid out the number one cause for dog’s fears — which is your own fear as a dog owner — it is also important to talk about the other reasons that cause fearful dogs.
Lack of Socialization
Lack of socialization causes fearful dogs because they feel everything and everyone is a stranger to them.
And unfamiliar people and things can cause fear!
Insufficient exposure to different people, animals, environments, and experiences during the critical socialization period (typically between 3 and 14 weeks of age) can lead to fear of the unfamiliar later in life.
Past Trauma or Negative Experiences
Dogs who have experienced trauma, abuse, or negative encounters in the past may carry emotional scars that result in long-lasting fear reactions to certain stimuli or situations.
Genetic Predisposition
Some dogs may have a genetic predisposition to anxiety and fearfulness. Breeds or individual dogs with a more nervous temperament may be prone to fear-related issues.
Medical Issues
Medical conditions that cause pain, neurological problems, or sensory deficits, can make dogs more prone to anxiety and fearful behavior. It's essential to rule out any underlying health concerns when addressing fear in dogs.
Lack of Confidence
Dogs with low self-esteem or a lack of confidence may exhibit fear-based behaviors as a way of coping with unfamiliar or challenging situations.
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10 Signs of a Fearful Dog
“Doggy Dan, how can I tell if my dog is starting to absorb my fearful energy? What are the signs of fear in dogs that I should look out for?”
The best way how to help fearful dogs is to know what signs to look for. Here are some examples.
Excessive Cowering or Trembling
Picture your dog on a stormy night, cowering in the corner as thunder rumbles outside. If your dog senses your fear of the sound, your dog may start trembling or retreating in a corner.
Avoidance Behavior
Have you ever seen your dog hide under the bed when the vacuum cleaner comes out? This avoidance behavior shows they're scared of the noisy machine.
Excessive Barking or Whining
Imagine a scenario where your dog encounters a large, unfamiliar dog at the park.
If random dogs startle you, too, your dog may bark and whine as a signal of their unease and discomfort in that situation.
Tail Tucking
Think about when a stranger approaches your dog on a walk, and suddenly, their tail tucks between their legs. This is their way of saying, "I'm scared."
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Panting and Drooling
After a visit to the vet, your dog might pant excessively or drool due to anxiety. These physical signs can indicate their stress.
Aggression
If your dog growls or snaps when a child gets too close to their food bowl, it's a sign of fear. They feel threatened and react defensively.
Excessive Shedding
During a thunderstorm, your dog might shed more fur than usual due to their anxiety. It's a visible sign of their emotional distress.
Potty Accidents
Consider a situation where you leave your dog home alone for an extended period. When you return, you find a mess on the floor. This can result from their fear of being alone.
Dilated Pupils
When your dog encounters a loud noise like fireworks, their pupils may dilate. This shows they're in a state of fear and arousal.
Lack of Appetite
If your dog suddenly refuses to eat when you introduce them to a new environment, it could be related to their fear of the unfamiliar surroundings.
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How to Help Fearful Dogs at Home
If dogs are within our property, they should feel safe enough to feel protected from any danger, right? Well, that is a common misconception.
You see, the reality is a bit different.
Even when dogs have a loving home, if their owner doesn't establish themselves as the leader of the pack, dogs will think they're in charge of protecting the home themselves.
This can actually lead to some unexpected anxieties and fears in our dogs.
Here are a few examples and how you can help.
Fear of Random Sounds
Any unfamiliar sound is a sign of danger for a dog that feels they are in charge.
I talk about this being one of the fears that dog owners can resolve with the help of the Doggy Dan Rule #3: Dealing with Danger.
In golden rule #3, the solution is simple: you have to show your dog that the random sound doesn’t faze you.
You have to send the message “Don’t you worry about that. It doesn’t worry me. And if that one’s danger, then you can let me worry about it. You just chill out.”
Your dog will feel your confidence as a pack leader, and they will see you’re not fearful at all!
And if your dog feels your calm energy, they can stop worrying, too.
Fear of Other Animals in the Home
To help your dog overcome their fear of other animals, consider introducing them to a new fur-sibling outside your home, such as a park. This neutral environment can facilitate a more relaxed initial meeting.
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Fear of People
When dealing with your dog's fear of people, it's crucial to approach introductions gradually and with sensitivity.
Begin by having the person your dog is afraid of maintain a calm and non-threatening demeanor. Allow your dog to approach them at their own pace.
How to Help Fearful Dogs Outdoors
Is going out such a stressful thing fo
Any loving dog owner gets concerned about the factors that cause dog stress. After all, we just want the best for our pets, from their physical to mental health.
You can attribute the cause of dog stress to multiple factors: unhealthy upbringing, violent history, a chaotic environment, and strained relationships with owners and other dogs.
But what most dog owners usually overlook is a stress trigger that affects more dogs than we know it: dog owner stress.
Yes, you read that right: your stress as a dog owner affects the stress levels of your dogs.
And although it is quite heartbreaking to know that dogs can absorb our stress, there’s a bright side: it is also YOU that can make it better for your beloved dogs.
This is what I’m going to share with you today. Read on to learn more.
What Research Says About Dog Owner Stress Being a Cause of Dog Stress
A research found out that dog owners’ acute and long-term stress has a direct impact on their dog’s stress levels known as cortisol.
In one of the studies published in the Scientific Report where a team studied 58 dog owners and their pets, it was discovered that stress are synchronized between dogs and the ones caring for them.
Whenever dog owners get elevated stress, dogs exhibited a spike in cortisol as well.
It also indicated that the closer the bond and the stronger the reliance, the more susceptible dogs are to absorbing their owner’s stress and emotions.
The senior zoologist conducting the research, Lina Roth, emphasized that dogs truly understand their owners, especially in the emotional aspect.
“Dogs are quite good at understanding humans,” Roth added.
Hearing this can make a dog owner go “Awww…” but this sweet fact comes with a downside: when we’re sad and stressed, our dogs feel it, too.
Your Dog Feels Emotions Rather Than Hear Words, And That’s One Thing That Causes Dog Stress
I always say this: your dog can’t always hear what you say because your actions and emotions are louder than your words.
When you communicate with a dog, they assess your body language and tone of voice to make sense of your words.
You might say “I always tell my dog to calm down, Dan. I encourage them to not go crazy with stress!”
But here’s a dog trainer insight: no matter how much you assure your dog, if your stress levels are through the roof, they will know.
“Calm down” is just a phrase if your dog can see the worried, nervous, or annoyed energy behind your words.
Your dog can go “Wait, why are they worried? Why do I sense panic? Should I worry? My owner looks worried so I think I should be, too!”
And the cycle goes on and on: you’re wondering why your dog can’t seem to understand your request, while your dog can’t stop picking up the panic and frustration in your voice.
As a top dog trainer that has seen this scenario play out thousands of times, here’s a simple rule I always encourage dog owners to remember: your dog is your mirror.
Before they do anything, they must first see it in you.
Your Dog Is Your Mirror: A Chill Dog Owner = A Chill Dog
I have seen a real life example of a dog owner directly affecting the personality and energy levels of their pets.
One day, while I was on my way to a consultation, I saw an interesting sight: a dog owner walking oh-so-calmly with his dog.
From the get go, it would sound like nothing out of the ordinary. But the dog in this story is a pitbull.
A dog that is so notorious, so scary, and always exuding boss energy!
But on that day, I was totally taken by surprise at how calm the dog was. So calm, they follow their dog owner wherever he goes.
The dog had no leash, and showed zen-like calmness.
It only took one look for me to know why.
His dog owner was absolutely chill. No worried stance, steps light and easy, and it looked like he was having a great time in their outdoor stroll.
It confirmed to me: yes, indeed, the pitbull was chill because his owner was absolutely chill.
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If the man in my story can influence his dog to be relaxed and diffuse agitated energy, imagine the opposite: what will happen to our dogs if we perpetually show stress.
“But why are dogs influenced by our stress, Doggy Dan?”
The moment these dogs come into our home, they become our companions. When it comes to reacting, perceiving danger, and socializing they will be looking up to you as their example. Whatever you do, they will do.
But it does not stop there.
Whatever you feel, they also feel.
So if you’re wondering why dog owners cause dog stress, here are the reasons.
Dog Owners Don’t Understand That They Cause Dog Stress
I totally know the look on your face right now. It’s the same look I usually get when I tell dog owners that they unintentionally cause dog stress.
But before you feel guilty, I want you to know that you’re not alone on this boat.
Even the most loving, most protective owner can make dogs feel stressed even without meaning to.
For example:
Reacting in a worried tone all the time tells your dog they should always be on the lookout for danger.
Pacing back and forth with agitated energy confuses dogs into thinking there’s something bad they should worry about.
If we’re always angry, always shouty, always wired up, our dogs will act the same!
These actions are easy to overlook as stressors for dogs, but they are. Being aware that our reactions and emotions cause our dogs stress can be the first step to change.
Dogs Absorb Energy, and the Energy They Absorb The Most is From Us
Our dogs are highly attuned to our emotions. They sense energy, and they take on the energy they’re exposed to.
Because dogs spend most of the day with us, the chances of them absorbing our energy is high.
So when we constantly carry a heavy, stressed energy, it won’t be a surprise if our dogs will start to show signs of stress as well.
They Feel Our Emotions More Than They Hear Our Words
Ever had a dog that seems to be constantly scared despite your constant reassurance?
It’s great if you can take a step back and ask: am I also scared? Is my dog picking up the energy of fear from me?
Remember: dogs feel what you feel. Dogs tend to feel and act like their owners, so if you want them to be more confident, you should start by showing them you’re calm, sure, and confident yourself.
5 Ways You Can Reduce Your Dog’s Stress
Keep Your Energy in Check
Be mindful of your own energy and emotions around your dog.
Because we’re dog owners, we have to remember that dogs are quietly observing us and absorbing whatever energy we radiate.
Try to maintain a calm and positive demeanor, as this can have a soothing effect on your dog.
For example:
Instead of reacting in an angry voice, take a few seconds to regulate your emotions by breathing in and out.
If we do need to release emotions, we have to be careful not to let it out on our dogs.
We have to ensure that we take time to let release stress so dogs won’t have to deal with the consequences of our pent-up stress.
Always Spend Some Quiet Time with Dogs
Dogs, like humans, need downtime.
Spend quality, quiet time with your dog where you engage in gentle activities like petting, cuddling, or simply being together in a calm environment.
In my previous blog, I shared the Three-Minute Quiet Time to help calm dogs down.
Here’s how you can do it:
Every morning, start your day with a quiet, calm energy. Sit in silence for 30 seconds to 3 minutes.
Quietly observe how this change in energy affects your dog. Are they calmer? Are they more relaxed?
Once you feel that both you and your dog are calm, call them. You will see how relaxed and receptive they are.
Provide a Safe Space for Your Dog
Ensure your dog has a designated safe and comfortable space, like a crate or a cozy corner.
This little corner should be designed as a place they can retreat when they need a break from stimulation or social interaction.
Make this safe space off limits from kids or other dogs so your dog can let off steam and diffuse stress without any distraction.
Be Mindful of Your Actions
Having a dog also means being responsible not only with how we react, but how we act as well.
Stomping our feet because we’re angry causes stress. Banging on doors causes stress. Even dropping stuff forcefully because of irritation causes stress.
And our stressed-induced actions can turn our calm dog into one that’s also on the edge.
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If anyone comes to me for tips on how to get dogs to listen more, I always ask them to do this:
“Think of the most connected, most effective conversations you’ve had with a loved one. Were they done with shouting, or were they filled with calm, understanding energy?”
Surely, you would say the latter.
And it’s true. As a parent, the most effective conversations I've had with my children are ones done in absolute calmness.
No anger.
Without raised voices.
No hurtful words.
And like what I mentioned in my book “What The Dogs Taught Me About Being A Parent”, it’s the same with our dogs!
One of the best ways to make dogs listen and connect with us is to practice silence and calm energy whenever we communicate with them.
Read on to learn more about this.
Key Takeaways:
Dogs listen and connect with us more when we have a calmer energy.
Starting the day with a calmer energy helps our dogs become calm and receptive to us.
What we consider as regular noise can already be too overwhelming for our dogs. Making sure our energies and noise are regulated can help dogs tune in better.
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Table of Contents:
How to Get Dogs to Listen: We Listen More to Silence Than the Noise
Why Silence Is Important in Making Dogs Listen to Us More
5 Reasons Why a Dog Is Not Responding To You
3.1 Reason #1: They Are Overwhelmed
3.2 Reason #2: The Energy You Have Speaks Differently Than Your Voice
3.3 Reason #3: You're Shouting a Lot, and They No Longer Know What's Urgent and What's Not
3.4 Reason #4: You Are Not Connected with Your Dog
3.5 Reason #5: They Don't See You as a Leader They Can Trust
Use this Quick Exercise on Silence and Calm Energy To Make Your Dog Listen More
4.1 Step 1: Start Your Day Quietly
4.2 Step 2: Observe the Effect on Your Dog
4.3 Step 3: Call Your Dog Calmly
How to Get Dogs to Listen More: Why Yelling Is Not the Answer
5.1 Reason #1: Yelling Tells Your Dog You’re Not a Confident Leader, Making It Hard for Them to Follow You
5.2 Reason #2: Yelling — as a Knee Jerk Reaction — Rarely Builds Any Connection
5.3 Reason #3: If We Go About Yelling Every Time, Our Dog Will Constantly Carry a Stressed Energy With Them
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How To Get Dogs to Listen: We Listen More to Silence Than The Noise
Let me share a simple story that shows why quiet moments matter when communicating with dogs.
My wife and I went on a double date with our friends one evening.
We all started chatting in the car and having a great time.
But during the trip, something interesting happened.
My friend and I stopped talking and focused on listening to our wives speaking softly.
My friend turned to me and said, "Hey, mate, I think they're talking about something important!"
We spent the rest of the drive in complete silence, eager to hear what they were discussing.
This experience made me realize that sometimes, being quiet and calm helps you communicate better than shouting!
This lesson from everyday life also applies to training dogs. Our dogs respond better to calm and quiet energy than loud noises.
If you really want your dog to listen, focus on the silence and the calm.
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Why Silence Is Important in Making Dogs Listen to Us More
Important note: I have to add here that when I say silence, I don’t mean you say zero words to your dog. It is being intentional with words, ensuring we keep what we say, and our energy, in check.
So, why is silence important for dogs?
In the wild, dogs are calmer and quieter. They are not used to hearing shouting. In fact, they only use their sound — like barking and howling — to communicate danger and to protect the pack.
They use noise for the REAAAALLY important stuff.
It’s a different story for our domesticated dogs.
Every single day, they have to deal with different kinds of noise like:
The hustle and bustle of morning preparations when kids and adults start their day.
The busy reunions at night time when everyone has to scramble to prepare for dinner or family time.
Loud sports matches on TV and the hyperactive energy from watching these kind of programs.
And what seems to be regular noise to us is already too much for our dogs. Too much that it makes dogs tune out and not hear what we are saying!
And this overwhelm and tuning out makes it hard for dogs to understand your commands, which can make you wonder, “Does my dog even listen to me?”
5 Reasons Why a Dog Is Not Responding To You
I always tell dog owners this: a dog who doesn’t seem to listen is a dog who has tuned out.
Dogs are not inherently disobedient and defiant. Sometimes, it’s just hard for them to get you.
Here are some factors that could contribute to their inability to listen and respond to your commands.
Reason #1: They Are Overwhelmed
Just like humans, our dogs can become overwhelmed by their surroundings or situations.
If your dog is exposed to too much stimuli, such as noise, new people, or unfamiliar environments, they may need help to focus on your commands.
It's crucial to recognize when your dog might be feeling overwhelmed and take steps to create a calmer and more controlled environment.
What to Do
If you suspect your dog has tuned out, retrace what happened before. Have you been shouting more? Is the noise at home louder this time? Is there increased activity in your home?
Knowing what caused your dog to tune out can help you understand what’s causing your dog to become unresponsive to your commands.
Reason #2: The Energy You Have Speaks Differently Than Your Voice
Dogs are highly attuned to energy and body language.
In fact, they can sense your emotions and intentions often more accurately than they can understand your words.
Feelings of anxiety, frustration, or impatience… your dog feels them.
When they pick up on these negative emotions, it becomes more difficult for them to respond positively to your commands.
What to Do
Always make sure that your energy matches your words. If you ask your dog to “Please calm down," you have to be calm as well.
Remember: dogs understand energy more than words! When they see that you’re calm, they can calm down, too.
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Reason #3: You're Shouting a Lot, and They No Longer Know What's Urgent and What's Not
Consistent shouting or using a loud, commanding tone can lead to confusion for your dog.
The louder you shout, the more they are desensitized to your voice, not knowing when a command is really essential.
As dog owners, there are crucial moments when shouting is a NEED. If you’re always shouting for every single command, you lose the power of a louder voice.
What to Do
Use clear and consistent commands with a normal tone of voice.
Only use loud or urgent commands when you want immediate action from your dog. This way, your dog will better understand when it's CRUCIAL to respond promptly.
Reason #4: You Are Not Connected with Your Dog
A strong connection with you is what makes dogs understand what you’re asking from them.
Your dog should have a strong connection with you to know that your commands are always for the better.
If you haven't invested enough time in building this connection and trust, your dog can go and think:
“Should I trust them enough to do what they’re commanding me to do?”
What to Do
Connect with your dog using a non-threatening and calm energy. When your dog is agitated, calmly check for the reason and avoid reacting harshly.
Reason #5: They Don't See You as a Leader They Can Trust
Dogs are pack animals and naturally inclined to follow a leader they can trust.
Our dogs will constantly check on us to see if we’re the leader they can rely on. They will sometimes test us, checking if we’re easily provoked or if we are truly the leader capable of leading the pack.
The more we show a calm, sure, confident energy, the more they will trust us.
What to Do
Establish yourself as a trustworthy leader by setting clear boundaries and rules for your dog. And always do things with a calm energy.
If your dog refuses your commands, you can use the strategy I call the Three C’s: the calm, consistent, consequence to an action. An example of this is gently leading your dog to a timeout when a behavior needs to be corrected.
It’s timeout with absolutely zero angry energy. It’s powerful for dogs!
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Use this Quick Exercise on Silence and Calm Energy To Make Your Dog Listen More
A routine that begins in silence is one effective exercise to strengthen your bond with your dog and encourage a more attentive response. th
Here's how you can try it:
Step 1: Start Your Day Quietly
In the morning, when you check in with your dog, aim to keep your energy low and your actions almost silent.
You can start with as little as 30 seconds of this calm interaction, or if you're up for it, extend it to three minutes.
The key is to connect with your dog in a very calm, very serene way.
Step 2: Observe the Effect on Your Dog
While you enjoy the calm, start observing how your dog responds to your quieter demeanor. This exercise will show you how your dog react to a positive change in your energy.
Step 3: Call Your Dog Calmly
After a few minutes of this serene connection, gently say your dog's name, crouch down, and calmly call them over to you.
Observe how they respond as they approach you. They will exhibit a far calmer energy compared to when you initiate interactions with a more elevated energy level.
And when a dog is calmer, they’re more ready to listen to you.
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How to Get Dogs to Listen More: Why Yelling Is Not the Answer
I know that not yelling at dogs is easier said than done, especially when we feel like our dogs just don’t pay attention to what we are saying.
If you do struggle with yelling, here are some things I w
If you’re here because you’re wondering how to teach boundaries to dogs, I’m here to commend you!
I know it’s tough. When our dogs start to show their puppy eyes, denying their requests becomes so hard.
But there is power in SAYING NO.
When dog owners say NO, it paves the way for better obedience training, and dogs that are calmer and easier to take care of.
Additionally, dog owners who say NO are less likely to deal with aggressive, restless, stressed, and anxious dogs who don’t listen.
“How is that possible, Dan? Can behavior problems really start because of not saying NO?”
YES.
Giving NO to your dog equals you showing your leadership and boundaries.
And setting those two in place can make a BIG difference to your training and relationship with your dogs.
Read on to learn how to teach boundaries to dogs and why NO is one of your most powerful dog training tools.
Key Takeaways:
A dog that gets YES all the time will start to think that they’re in charge. And when they think they’re the leader, behavior problems such as barking, aggression, and disobedience come up.
Saying NO does not need to come with a heavy, angry energy. Using a calm energy while saying NO can communicate that your answer still comes from a place of love.
You need to say NO to your dogs because it is one of the most powerful ways to show dogs that you’re in charge, you’re the leader of the pack.
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Table of Contents:
Why Set Boundaries With Dogs? My Experience with Spoiled Dogs
How to Teach Boundaries: The Power of NO in Dog Psychology
How to Teach Dog Boundaries By Saying NO
Why No is an Expression of Love and a Powerful Way of Teaching Dogs Boundaries
Dog Calming Code: The Program That Will Help You Set Boundaries… With Love
Why Set Boundaries With Dogs? My Experience with Spoiled Dogs
Here’s what I’ve learned in my years of working with dogs: some of the hardest dogs to train are the ones that receive SO MUCH LOVE.
Disclaimer: showering our dogs in love is not inherently bad. However, when great love comes with zero boundaries and no rules, it becomes a problem.
Dogs who are constantly given EVERYTHING they demand become a big problem to the owners that adore them.
I’ve seen this firsthand.
Some would come up to me asking “Dan, we’ve given our dog everything! What could be the problem?”
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What Saying “YES” to Every Request (AKA Spoiling Your Dog) Does To Them
Here’s the problem: if your dog is acting up, not listening, and still charging around despite asking them to behave, you might check if you have a spoiled dog.
Ask these questions…
Am I saying yes to my dog’s requests all the time?
Am I letting my dog run the show and make the decisions?
Do I treat disobedience with leniency instead of really setting the rules?
If you said YES to any of these questions, you could be dealing with a spoiled dog.
Spoiled dogs are just like spoiled kids: they are defiant, they are hard to control, and it’s a challenge to get them to respect authority and boundaries.
Some may say “Oh, they’re just acting up because that’s part of their personality.”
But the bottomline is this: because your dog sees you respond to every bark, every request for treats, every nudge for snuggles, your dog feels they are in charge—they can get whatever they want, WHENEVER!
Giving a YES can be tempting, but in the long run, letting dogs have everything they want can have serious consequences.
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Consequence #1: Dogs In Charge Have Zero Downtime. They’re Constantly on High Alert
Constantly saying YES to your dog’s demands has their mind going…
“Aha! They said yes to my requests. They gave me treats when asked for some. I peed on the floor and I didn’t get a timeout! I barked and we walked! They gave me everything! Looks like I am the new leader here now.”
You’ll see the signs once the leadership hat switches from your head to theirs—they’ll be more defiant, they’ll invade your space more demanding attention.
Sleeping is also difficult for dogs who think they’re in charge. Even if they do lie down, they sleep lightly…making them even more anxious. Because all the time they’re tightly focused on ensuring the safety of you and the property.
Their system is perpetually stressed from all the guarding and protecting, leaving them exhausted, worried and more prone to health issues.
Consequence #2: They're the Leader, They Find No Reason to Listen to You
Dogs are masterminds. Their seemingly safe, sweet cues can actually be their way of checking if you’re the leader they can trust and rely on.
And if you give in, you lose that leadership in your dog’s eyes.
When your dog starts to perceive themselves as the leader, they may not see any reason to listen to your commands.
They’ll ignore your requests, become disobedient, or refuse to follow basic training cues. This makes it difficult to manage and control your dog, leading to frustration for both you and your pet.
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Effect #3: It's Like a Go Signal That They Can Do Anything They Want
Saying "YES" to every request without setting boundaries or rules can give your dog the impression that they can do anything they want without consequences.
They may engage in destructive behavior, such as chewing furniture or digging in the garden, because they haven't learned appropriate limits.
Your dog might not understand the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior, which can lead to confusion and chaos in your household.
How to Teach Boundaries: The Power of NO in Dog Psychology
Here’s a quick scenario that can help you understand why NO should be an integral part of dog training.
Between a teacher who lets everything pass every single time, and one who gently but firmly reinforces the rules, who would you follow when they say “Please pay attention to me.”
I bet you would also say the latter.
And there’s good reason, right? They set clear rules, they firmly stick to it, and they have clear expectations that you follow them. They are in charge of the class, and they don’t allow anyone to freely challenge her rules.
It’s the same when you try to teach boundaries to dogs.
Through The Lens of Dog Psychology: Why NO is Powerful
Setting boundaries with our dogs starts by saying NO.
Why?
Because for dogs to calm down, to behave, and to be more obedient, they have to know YOU are the Alpha who sets the rules in place for safety and survival.
If you’re familiar with Doggy Dan’s Five Golden Rules, you’ll know the way to make a dog switch off and calm down is to show them you’re the pack leader, the ultimate decision maker.
You make all the decisions.
Your word is final.
You are in charge of setting the rules and expectations.
And the best way to show them you’re in charge, and that they don’t call the shots is BY SAYING NO.
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How to Teach Dog Boundaries By Saying NO
#1: Understand That You Can Say No with Love
Most dog owners hesitate to say No to their dogs because they associate the word with disappointment, anger, and exasperation.
Truth is, you can say NO in the most gentle, proactive way.
For dogs, it’s all about your energy.
Instead of saying (or shouting!) “No! You can’t do that!”
You can embrace calmness while saying to your dog “No, I won’t allow that. I don’t think it’s a good idea.”
Using a gentle tone communicates love despite denying your dog something they want.
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#2: You Set the Rules, Not Your Dog
Unfortunately, some dogs live in a household with zero rules, so the dog gets creative and makes these themselves.
And because they are now the rule maker, they demonstrate behavior like this:
There’s barking, resisting training, or just filling the home with hyperactive and reactive energy.
The best remedy to this is by stepping up and setting the rules for your dog. Be very clear with your rules and make a commitment to stick to it.
#3: You’re The Leader. Your NO is NO.
"No" isn't just a word; it's a powerful signal of leadership. You are the captain of the ship, the head honcho, and your dog needs to recognize that.
To be an effective leader, your top priority is to be firm but gentle.
When you say "No," it's not about anger or frustration — it's about clarity and consistency.
aYour dog needs to understand that your "No" means business. It's a way of communicating boundaries, and it should be delivered with confidence, firmness, assurance, and love.
#4: Show That You’re In Charge of EVERYTHING… This will Help Your Dog Switch Off
Think of it this way: you're the CEO of your dog's world.
Every aspect of their life, from mealtime to playtime, is under your control.
Demonstrating that you're in charge of everything helps your dog switch off from the constant decision-making.
When your dog sees you as the ultimate authority figure, they can relax and trust you to make the right choices. It's like a weight off their shoulders, allowing them to be at ease and simply enjoy being a cherished member of your pack.
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Why No is an Expression of Love and a Powerful Way of Teaching Dogs Boundaries
Reason #1: Taking Charge and Setting Boundaries Help Dogs FINALLY Switch Off
I’ve had the privilege of working in a doggy daycare where I was in charge of 30 humongous dogs!
But what’s amazing about these dogs is their absolutely chill nature. They’re so relaxed, so calm, so happy… you can tell they’ve finally switched off.
And I can confidently say it’s because the daycare set rules and boundaries which they FIRMLY encouraged the dogs to follow and respect.
The dogs that were once running all over the place, leaping onto caretakers, and barking no
The best way to know how to walk a dog is to understand this crucial principle:
In every walk, there’s a follower, and a leader.
And most of the time, the leader is NOT you.
“What do you mean, Dan? Are you saying that even if I hold the leash, I’m still not in control?”
That’s right!
Which explains why dogs tend to pull ahead of you on the leash, or become so uncontrollable during the walk — stopping to sniff wherever they want, lunging at other dogs — they think they’re the CEO of the walk, and you have to follow them.
But here’s the thing: it’s SO HARD to know when you start to lose control and when your dog begins to take over.
This shift in leadership can be very subtle, but really impactful. And the problem is so common, I see thousands of dog owners struggling with it everyday.
For this reason, I created Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5 which aims to help dog owners tell their dogs “Hey, I know we’re not at home anymore but I’m still the leader here.” And when dog owners take charge of every walk, they enjoy a calmer, happier outing with their dogs.
Read on to learn more.
Key Takeaways:
Walking your dog gives you an opportunity to show to your dog that you’re in charge… even outdoors!
If you want a calmer, less aggressive dog the most important thing to do is to show your dog that you’re in charge of the walk.
For Doggy Dan Rule #5 — How to walk your dog — to work, you need to put the first four rules in place.
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Table of Contents:
A Recap of The First Four Golden Rules
Rule #5: How to Walk Your Dog To Help Them See You’re In Charge
How to Walk Your Dog: What Goes Wrong Before A Walk
Dog Psychology: How to Walk Your Dog the Better Way with Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5
Structured Walk Vs. Social Walk
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A Recap of The First Four Golden Rules
I always remind dog owners who want to know how to walk dogs better that Golden Rule #5 works so much more when the first four rules have been put in place.
If you haven’t checked them out yet, here’s a quick recap.
Rule #1: Controlling the Food
Your dog has to know that you have the ABSOLUTE control over food. You can find more about Rule #1 here.
Rule #2: Delaying Acknowledgement After Separation
If your dog jumps on you after separation, is that an expression of love or a challenge to your leadership? Rule #2 is about establishing your role as the pack leader through delaying acknowledgement after separation.
Learn about Rule #2 here.
Rule #3: Your Terms
To become the reliable, trustworthy pack leader in your dog’s eyes, you and your dog MUST DO EVERYTHING in your terms.
Check out Rule #3 here.
Rule #4: Dealing with Danger
Stop barking and aggression by showing your dog when it comes to danger, YOU’RE THE ONE IN CHARGE AND YOU’RE THE DECISION MAKER. Not them.
Learn about the power of Rule #4 here.
Rule #5: How to Walk Your Dog To Help Them See You’re In Charge
Just like with the first four rules, the fifth rule in the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules zeroes in on making sure YOU establish yourself as the leader by taking control of the walk.
While the first four rules help you become the pack leader inside the house, the fifth rule communicates to dogs that you’re still the pack leader even if you are outside the property.
It’s you who is in charge, so it’s you they should listen to, depend on to, and obey.
Think about this: Ultimately, we want a calm dog who follows our directions, and does not come with a high-strung, protective energy during the entirety of our time outdoors.
And for that to happen, our dogs should know that they are not in charge. They also don’t call the shots before and during the walk.
The Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5 consists of three pillars that can help you take control of your walk..
Pillar #1: You Control the Walk, You Control the Energy
Your dog has different energy levels. The higher the energy level, the more your dog will exhibit behavior that includes high-strung energy, aggressive lunging and pulling, and ignoring commands.
Ideally, you would aim for an energy level of one or two (three max!) when going for a walk. And the way to retain this calm energy is to show that you’re in charge of when, where, and how you want your walk to happen.
A spike in your dog’s energy usually happens when dogs feel like you have given control away to them.
This includes submissively giving in to your dog's request to be walked and letting them decide when to go, rewarding your dog's hyperactive enery, and encouraging them to dictate where to go on the walk.
BUT When your dog sees that you are the ultimate decision maker, your dog will remain calm all throughout, and will be receptive to your instructions.
Pillar #2: You Set the Rules on What’s Acceptable or Not
You must understand that your dog has to see you’re firm in things that are acceptable or not.
This means clearly communicating IT’S YOUR WALK to your pet, through postponing the walk until they calm down, or stopping the walk mid-way if they start showing rowdy or uncontrollable behavior.
Your dog needs to know that if they want walkies, they have to follow the rules that you have set. Otherwise, the walk may not happen!
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Pillar #3: You Are the Decision Maker, Your Dog Has to Know That
When it comes to which route to take, your dog has to know it’s going to be your call.
When to walk? Absolutely on you.
The pace? The directions? The frequency? All of these are your call, and your dog should clearly know this.
And when your dog knows they have NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT on the walk — that you decide what’s dangerous, not them — they can chill out and follow you.
How to Walk Your Dog: What Goes Wrong Before A Walk
Even before you take the first step of a walk, the question of “Who leads?” has already been answered.
What you do BEFORE THE ACTUAL WALK is a great predictor of how your walks will go.
From experience, most dog owners get confused by this!
“I’m not the one with a leash on, my dog is. What do you mean I’m not in control?’
Let me answer that with three questions:
Who dictates where to go?
Who sets the energy?
Who calls the shots on how the walk will happen?
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If you answered “My dog” to one or all of these questions, you’re not the one in control of the walk.
Some people may say:
My dog is just unsocialized!
Our walks are full of distractions, my dog can’t stay calm.
Morning walks make my dog more excited!
But here’s the bottomline: when your dog thinks they’re in charge, the walk comes with an overly high energy, an uncontrollable, leash pulling dog, and often, non-stop barking.
So what actually causes you to lose control of the walk BEFORE IT EVEN STARTS?
If You Do These Things Before You Walk Your Dog, You Have Already Lost Control
#1: Letting the Dog Dictate When You’re Going for a Walk
Barking, nudging, and even getting your attention by scratching the door are some of your dog’s ways of telling you “Hey, it’s time for my walk.”
It communicates “I want to go for a walk and I want it now. I am making the call here and if you say yes, I will be in control, not you.”
If you respond to their demands with “Sure, buddy” it’s telling your dog “Sure, it’s your call! You can do whatever you want with your walk.”
#2: Rewarding Hyperactive Behavior
Dogs get energy spikes when they feel like you are rewarding their frenzied behavior. Remember, rewards make dogs think they should carry on with what they are doing.
Here’s an example…
Let’s say your dog peeked through the window and saw their best buddy across the road…
They start running to you with a noticeable increase in energy.
You stand up to get the leash. Dog gets more energy spike because you rewarded their behavior.
It’s taking you a while to get the leash, and by this time, your dog starts to think “they responded when I showed excitement. Let me do it again!”
And so your already-excited dog turns the energy up a notch.
Guess what happens if you also hurried to the door? You’re going to walk out the house with a dog who’s overexcited, thinks they’re in control, and who thinks listening to your commands is not all that necessary!
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#3: Not Having the First Four Golden Rules in Place
This is very important: unless you have not established following Rules #1 to #4, it will be a LOT more challenging to show you’re in charge.
In your dog’s mind, they will be thinking “I’m pretty much in charge with my food, and my demands for attention are always granted. SO WHY SHOULD I LISTEN TO MY OWNER DURING MY WALK?”
However, once your dog starts to see that you’re in charge around the house, it will be easier for your dogs to follow your cues and respect your leadership during your walks.
Dog Psychology: How to Walk Your Dog the Better Way with Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5
#1: Not Responding To Your Dog’s Cues Shows That YOU Are in Control
If your dog is agitated because they’re pushing you to hurry out, don’t respond. Don’t reward. Don’t move forward.
Your dog should know they don’t make the decisions for your walk. They can bark, nudge, run up and down, and even scratch on the door, but you’re not going to yield ever.
What you can do is wait for five to ten minutes or until your dog calms down before you go or resume the walk.
#2: Communicate to Your Dog that Frenzied Energy Does Not Merit Reward or Progress
Dogs are really simple!
If your dog feels rewarded even after a hyperactive jumping spree, they will continue doing it.
However, if you want a more chill dog, you have to reward calm behavior (AKA: letting dogs know that unless they’re more relaxed and calmer, no walk will happen!)
If you want your dog to be calm and not aggressive while you’re outd
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