Dom Sub Devotion

Andrew is joined by his longtime friend and former co-host Eric (Conscious Dominance → now DSRX) for a candid, high-signal conversation about what long-term devotion actually looks like in a D/s relationship. They trace the arc from weekly podcasting accountability to the deeper craft of polarity: owning your desires, simplifying your life so love can lead, and learning to read and steer feminine energy without shrinking it. Eric shares what changed after a serious shoulder injury, why downsizing their home unlocked leadership and focus, and how a Dominant’s inner alignment turns a partner’s “no” into a clean “not now”—or an eventual full-body yes. If you’ve ever wondered how to build a relationship that’s both peaceful and wildly alive, this one’s for you.   ⸻   In this episode we cover   • Devotion vs. obligation: why gripping to commitments isn’t devotion—and how real devotion stays alive over years, not months.  • The Dominant’s inner work: how reactivity is often avoidance of vulnerability, and why befriending it creates true power.  • “Her no mirrors your no to yourself”: reading rejection as a reflection of your own unclean energy, shame, or self-abandonment.  • Chaos & order: letting feminine energy get bigger (not smaller) while providing structure, direction, and safety.  • Simplify to lead: downsizing, removing mental load, and making the main thing the main thing.  • Accountability & craft: weekly creation (100+ episodes), the “compound effect,” and treating relationship like a practiced craft.  • Embodied peace: moving from a reactive life to dynamic peace—aliveness with acceptance, not flat-line neutrality.  • Eric’s updates: healing from injury, becoming ambidextrous (literally and energetically), launching DSRX with Rachel, balancing coaching, construction, and content.   ⸻   Memorable lines   • “If I’m willing to see what I need to see, I can be better than I am.”  • “Most ‘nos’ are mirrors—showing you where you haven’t said yes to yourself.”  • “You don’t need hours of meditation to meet your edges. Devote yourself to one woman and let that mirror do its job.”  • “Don’t make her chaos smaller—make it freer and lead it.”  • “Simplify your life so love can lead. Then steer.” ⸻ ABOUT DSRX DSRX is a raw exploration of regenerative relating—where conscious leadership, holistic surrender, and intimate practice live inside our long-term love story. The podcast, hosted by Eric from Aerosha, dives into the lived practice (with his bride, Rachael) of building relationships on unyielding self-trust and shared depth instead of default. Evolving beyond traditional D/s, DSRX names a new terrain: Devotion and Service that honors the Rx cycles of rapture, rupture, and repair. Where recalibration and integration become essential medicine for deepening intimacy, erotic connection, and organic power exchange. Each week, you’ll find tactical tools and honest stories about the challenges of leadership, the dynamics of expression, and the necessity of hosting presence—widening the aperture into desire, artistry, and the many paradoxes of polarity. Join our Newsletter for episode updates + resources [https://www.aerosha.art/dsrx-mailinglist] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/dsrx_studio] ⸻ About Eric For 20+ years, Eric has moved between roles as an artist, teacher, father, builder, and coach. His 1:1 work guides men through self-renovation, emotional alchemy, relational polarity, and the craft of hosting intimacy with integrity. Book a Free Consult [https://aerosha.as.me/dsrx] ⸻ About Rachael As an artist, writer, dancer, and founder of AEROSHA (2008), Rachael is known for mentorship and movement offerings that guide the body into a receptive state of everyday ecstasy, erotic artistry, and embodied presence. Learn more about Aerosha [https://www.aerosha.museum/recent]   Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://onlyfans.com/dawnofdesire   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

Communion 2025 is open for enrollments, where we show you real life examples of what it takes to live your life from your feminine energy. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion2025   In this episode, Andrew speaks directly to women about the truth of feminine energy—and why so many feel exhausted, burnt out, or disconnected from their natural state. He unpacks common misconceptions, exposes the trap of “performative femininity,” and explains why most women today live in an inverted polarity that keeps them stuck in control, obligation, and depletion.   You’ll learn:  • The real definition of feminine energy—why it isn’t about softness, slowness, or performance, but about receptivity.  • What inverted polarity looks like—the “doing to get” energy that leads to control, burnout, and disconnection.  • Why performance isn’t femininity—and how real feminine expression includes the full range of emotions, not just softness.  • How burnout reveals misalignment—and why women who live from obligation rather than fullness always feel exhausted.  • The link between feminine expression and submission—how true surrender and obedience flow naturally when a woman is full, alive, and receptive.  • Practical steps to begin shifting—slowing down, practicing discernment, closing the “drain” of over-giving, and cultivating devotion to self.   Andrew also shares why his course Communion exists: to guide women out from behind the masculine shield, into their natural feminine expression, and into the freedom of surrender.   This episode is for women who long to feel more alive, radiant, and free—and for men who want to truly understand and lead the feminine.   🔗 Learn more about Communion: Click Here ⸻   Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://onlyfans.com/dawnofdesire   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

Most men think dominance means force. They bark orders, tighten control, or push until she submits. But that kind of control only creates compliance, not devotion.    In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, I share why true dominance doesn’t come from pressure or intimidation, but from presence. Your ability to be steady, grounded, and unshakable in yourself.   Over the course of this hour, you’ll learn:  • Why force erodes trust while presence builds it.  • How to become a man whose energy shapes the room before he speaks.  • The role of consistency in dissolving her fear and resistance over time.  • Daily practices to cultivate presence—breath, stillness, clarity, intention.  • How presence transforms erotic power exchange and deepens submission.   Presence is harder than force, because it’s not something you can fake. It’s not a trick you pull out in a scene or an argument. Presence is who you are in every moment—at the dinner table, in conflict, in the bedroom, and beyond. And when you embody it consistently, it becomes the gravitational pull that she naturally yields to.   Key Quote from the Episode:    “Force can win a moment. Presence can win a lifetime.”   Listen now to learn how to build the kind of dominance that doesn’t have to demand, because it compels devotion on its own.    ⸻   Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://onlyfans.com/dawnofdesire   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

Dawn rejoins Andrew to celebrate 100 Episodes!    Two years ago we launched this podcast with a simple vision: to share our real life as a Dom/sub couple beyond the limitations of short captions and quick clips on social media.    Week after week, we’ve opened our lives, our marriage, and our devotion. Today, Episode 100 is a celebration, and a reintroduction.   In this conversation, we revisit the heart of Infinite Devotion:  • Who we are as a couple, and how our 24/7 D/s dynamic has shaped us.  • What we stand for: truth, freedom, authenticity, and devotion.  • Why we share our life so openly, from this podcast to social media to OnlyFans.  • Why devotion and long-term commitment are essential to the depth we’ve built.  • How D/s has been a path to growth, courage, honesty, and sexual liberation.  • Why we’re not here to give you a rulebook, but to show you how we live, so you can find your own path.   We also reflect on what’s changed since those first clunky recordings — the growth, the lessons, and the willingness to keep showing up every week.   This is not a “how-to” podcast.  We’re not here to tell you how to live D/s. We’re here to show you how we live it — and what’s possible when you combine devotion, erotic expression, and unconditional love inside a long-term, committed relationship.   ⸻   In This Episode You’ll Learn:   • Why authenticity matters more than rules or labels in D/s.  • The difference between devotion and codependency.  • How to recognize when fear and shame are blocking your freedom.  • Why triggers are often pointers toward the very desires we need to claim.  • How kink and everyday life can be integrated, not separated.   ⸻   Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://onlyfans.com/dawnofdesire   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

Fear is the single most corrosive force in any Dominant/submissive dynamic. It distorts truth, poisons consent, and quietly turns devotion into performance or control. In this episode, I break down how fear shows up for both Dominants and submissives, how even fears outside the relationship bleed into your dynamic, and why no amount of technique or protocol can save a power exchange that’s built on fear.   We’ll look at:  • The subtle ways fear masquerades as love, responsibility, or boundaries  • How fear-based leadership robs your partner of agency  • How fear-based submission leads to performance, collapse, and resentment  • Why fear from outside the relationship (money, family, social pressure) still disrupts connection and polarity  • Why consent cannot survive in the presence of fear  • How to shift from fear to truth, both individually and together   If you want to create a D/s relationship that’s rooted in freedom, devotion, and truth, not fear, this episode is for you.   ⸻   Links & Resources:   • Learn more about Rapture, my in-depth course on devotional Dominance and submission: infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Listen to more episodes and find our free resources and other courses for Dominants, submissives, and couples at infinitedevotion.com ~~~

Most people are living by rules they never wrote. Rules about what love should look like. Rules about what makes you a “good person.” Rules about success, morality, sex, and identity. Most of those rules were handed to you by someone else. Parents. Culture. Religion. People who didn’t even live by those rules themselves. But you’ve built your life on them without ever asking if they’re actually yours. That’s what this conversation is about: questioning everything. Not to rebel. Not to burn your life down just to prove a point. But to live in truth. Because if a belief is real, questioning it only makes it stronger. And if it’s not real, you’ve just uncovered a cage you didn’t know you were in. Either way, you win. In this episode, I share: • How to tell the difference between truth and programming. • Why most people avoid questioning beliefs (and why that avoidance costs more than you think). • The 3 questions that will help you break free from rules that aren’t yours. • How unexamined beliefs sabotage love, intimacy, and power exchange. • Why freedom in your inner world will inevitably change your outer world , and why that’s a good thing. This isn’t theory for me. I’ve lived it in my marriage, in my leadership, in my faith, in my business. Questioning the rules has cost me comfort, image, and entire communities… but it’s given me something much more important: a life that’s actually mine. If you’ve ever felt like you were playing a role, performing for approval, or building a life that looks good but doesn’t feel right, this episode will hit home. For more on how I support people in coming home to living a life that's their own, and how that helps you connect in D/s dynamics and deeply polarized relationships, check out https://infinitedevotion.com/store  

Every man says he wants a woman who’s wild. Every woman says she wants to feel free. But the truth? Almost nobody is ready for what that actually means.   In this episode, we’re going deep into the raw, unfiltered truth about freedom and desire in relationships. Why women are cut off from their true wanting, why men unconsciously sabotage it, and what it actually costs to live a life of freedom instead of fear.   If you’ve ever wondered why passion fades… why sex feels like obligation instead of obsession… why you feel like you’re rationing your own aliveness just to keep the peace, this conversation will show you why.   Here’s what we cover:   • What genuine desire actually is (and what it’s not)  • Why most women have been conditioned to starve their own hunger  • How men secretly fear the very freedom they say they want  • The ancient wound that drives control and kills polarity  • Why freedom is terrifying and why it’s worth everything it costs  • The two paths every couple has to choose between: the cage or the fire   This is not a quick fix. It’s not a conversation for the faint of heart. But if you’re ready for the truth about what makes relationships feel alive and why most people never experience it you’re in the right place.   Links & Resources:   • Follow us on Instagram for daily conversations  • Learn more about our course Rapture → infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Check out Andrew’s flagship course: Becoming A Dominant Man - which will teach you how to become a man who can lead your woman to freedom and own the inner Dominance to hold all of her wildness. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  

Last week, Dawn and I opened up a side of our relationship we’ve kept private for years—and the response was overwhelming. After announcing Dawn’s OnlyFans and that we were sharing the intimate side of our dynamic publicly for those who wanted to witness it, we received incredible encouragement, some honest questions, and a little judgment.  In this episode, I reflect on what this experience has taught me about risk, freedom, love, and masculinity. I share the first email we received just two minutes after our announcement, why 98% of the feedback was positive, and what the 2% of negative responses reveal about illusion, expectation, and control. We’ll talk about:    • Why listening to the body’s wisdom is the foundation of every big decision   • The question that sparked a conversation about masculinity and freedom  Why defending Dawn's freedom isn’t passive—it’s the deepest form of devotion   What men had to say about this decision that might surprise you   • Why almost 80% of our initial OnlyFans subscribers were women—and what that means   • How projection, judgment, and control destroy intimacy    Whether you agree with our choices or not, this episode isn’t about convincing you. It’s about showing what’s possible when you stop living for approval and start living in truth.   ⸻   Links & Mentions:   • Listen to last week’s episode with Dawn for the full backstory  • Connect with us on Instagram @_infinitedevotion  • See inside the spicy side of our D/s dynamic at https://dawnofdesire.net  • Explore resources for building deeper intimacy and freedom in your relationship at  https://infinitedevotion.com  

Hi friends - Dawn here. My official, albeit temporary, return to the mic is probably going to shock some of you. When I stepped away six months ago, I was in the midst of a personal transformation. This season of silence was in support of a homecoming of sorts for me.   A full blown sexual spiritual awakening that we weren’t yet ready to share. Now we are. This episode will give you a lot more context, but as of today, I am ready to officially let everyone know that I'm on OnlyFans creating adult content, and I'm beyond excited to share this side of myself with you. I’m creating some of this content on my own, some with Sir. Not as a performance, but as an example of what true sexual freedom can look like inside of a relationship of 16 years. We know that not all of you want to engage with this part of what we're doing now, and that's okay. Infinite Devotion will remain the place where we share about our relationship and our dynamic. But we couldn't keep this part secret anymore. It's too big of a part of who we both are.    So for those of you who want to join us and see into the spicier side of me, and our dynamic, you can see for yourself at https://dawnofdesire.net   ~~~ This episode goes into a lot of detail around what this has all been for me, and I truly hope you'll listen. I've also written a letter to our followers and listeners that you can read here, for even more of the full story of what's led Sir and I to this place.    You can read that letter here: https://infinitedevotion.com/blog/dawn-of-desire Love, Dawn

In this special episode, Dawn returns to the podcast for the first time in six months to answer your questions—raw, real, and unscripted.   We’re in the middle of launching the Rapture Self-Study Course, and this Q&A episode is the perfect companion. It’s an honest look at what life really looks like inside a 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic—one rooted in love, truth, and personal transformation.   If you’re newer to the show, this is a powerful reintroduction to Dawn and her journey. And if you’ve been with us from the beginning, this episode will feel like coming home.   ⸻   In this episode, we explore:   💬 Does her collar get hot in the sun? 💬 What happens to submission when you don’t want to do what he says? 💬 Will we still be living this dynamic at 75? 💬 What role does Dawn play in choosing her clothes, makeup, and appearance? 💬 How do we talk to family and kids about our D/s lifestyle? 💬 How has surrender changed Dawn’s body and her relationship to food, fitness, and control? 💬 What’s the line between expressing desire and topping from the bottom? 💬 What’s the most liberating part of submission? 💬 How do you deal with jealousy inside a power exchange relationship? 💬 How long did it take Dawn to “break her ego”? 💬 And yes… someone asks if she likes BBC or white guys (we answer that too).   ⸻   Highlights & Quotes: 🌀 “The longer I’ve been in submission, the more me I’ve become.” 🌀 “Submission isn’t about getting your way. It’s about giving up the need to.” 🌀 “My ego didn’t break. It just became irrelevant.” 🌀 “Being right is a poor man’s version of self-worth.” 🌀 “I want to be a horny, kinky, radiant 75-year-old woman.” 🌀 “You can’t sprinkle kink on a regular relationship and expect it to transform you. It has to become who you are.”   ⸻   Whether you’re in a D/s relationship or just curious what it really looks like behind the scenes, this episode is an invitation into the deeper truths that make power exchange both erotic and transformative.   Next week, we’re diving into the real reason Dawn stepped away from the podcast—and what’s coming next. It’s a big one. Don’t miss it.   —   🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts. 🖤 Learn more or join Rapture at infinitedevotion.com/rapture 📲 Follow us on Instagram @infinitedevotion 💌 Got a question for a future Q&A? Drop it in our DMs or on our stories.

What if dominance and submission weren’t just a game, a kink, or a performance… but the structure that could reshape your life, your love, and your entire sense of self?   In this episode, I share the truth behind what we now call Devotional Dominance and submission as the lived, daily reality of our marriage. I talk about the mistakes we made early on, the illusions that had to die, and the exact ways D/s became our path to deeper intimacy, spiritual growth, and erotic freedom.   You’ll hear:  • Why most D/s dynamics collapse outside the bedroom, and how to prevent it  • How structure, love, and sovereignty actually work together  • The 5 subtle patterns that slowly destroy D/s dynamics from within  • Why performance, pleasing, and control are not submission or leadership  • The personal story of how Dawn and I almost destroyed everything and what saved us  • How real transformation requires letting the dynamic remake you    If you’ve ever struggled with living this lifestyle for real… if you crave depth, polarity, erotic honesty, and intimacy that lasts—you’ll find a mirror here.   And if you’re ready to take the next step, we’ve created something powerful.   Rapture is the most complete, embodied journey we’ve ever created. It’s for couples and individuals who want to live this devotion in real life…without the guesswork, the shame, or the endless pattern of collapse and confusion. It includes 6 transformative modules, over 20 hours of teaching, lifetime access to live Q&As, and a path back to truth. Learn more at infinitedevotion.com/rapture.   ⸻   Connect with us:  Website: https://infinitedevotion.com Instagram: @_infinitedevotion Questions? Message Andrew directly on Instagram.

In this special live-recorded Q&A episode, Andrew answers your most pressing questions about living a 24/7 D/s lifestyle with honesty, depth, and clarity.   This one is packed. It’s not scripted. It’s not curated. Just Andrew, live on Instagram, answering real questions from real people about dominance, submission, inner work, kink, emotional safety, and what it actually looks like to live a power exchange lifestyle in the real world.   Whether you’re new to the dynamic or deep in it already, this episode will help you reflect on what matters most: trust, leadership, inner strength, and truth.   ⸻   💬 Questions Andrew answers in this episode include:    • “Why does it feel like a cop-out when men blame women for being unsafe to masculine expression?”  • “How do I know if a man’s relationship with his inner child is healthy?”  • “How long did you research D/s before bringing it to Dawn?”  • “How do you integrate your dynamic while living full-time on the road?”  • “Why did you add an O-ring to Dawn’s collar?”  • “How can I get my husband to Dom me harder? He’s too soft.”  • “Do you get tired of being around each other all the time in the RV?”  • “How do you deal with judgment or criticism online?”  • “Any recommendations for healing inner child wounds?”  • “How do you navigate a dynamic when the Dom has a dismissive avoidant attachment style?”  • “Can I be submissive if I earn more money or have more assets than my partner?”  • “What do you do when Dawn is sick?”  • “Do you take breaks from the dynamic to recharge?”  • “How do you make and maintain friendships while in a BDSM relationship?”  • “Does Dawn call you ‘Sir’ in front of others?”  • “What’s in your contract beyond rules and tasks?”  • “Why don’t you use punishment in your dynamic?”  • “What should a Dom do if he gets ‘too excited’ during a scene and crosses a line?”    ⸻   🧭 Topics also explored:    • The real difference between childishness and inner child wounding • What to do when one partner initiates D/s but the other isn’t fully in it yet • The line between submission and self-abandonment • Embodied leadership vs. performative dominance • Living the dynamic through life’s challenges—not just in the bedroom • Why presence, containment, and self-control are non-negotiable traits for a Dominant • How integrating D/s into everyday life (even when someone is sick or stressed) is what makes it sustainable and fulfilling   ⸻   📍 Mentions + Resources:    • Becoming a Dominant Man – Course for men ready to lead from inner strength • The Self-Respecting Submissive Woman – Free guide • EMDR therapy, Hypnotherapy, and the book How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera   ⸻   📲 Subscribe & Share    If this episode hit home, send it to a friend, your partner, or someone who needs to hear real talk on power exchange. Follow us on Instagram @infinitedevotion and subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube for weekly episodes.   — 🔥 The DOM SUB DEVOTION Podcast: For those who crave love, power, surrender, and truth—without performance or pretense.   ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman  

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most avoided and most essential parts of any real power exchange dynamic: disagreement.   Most people think that if a D/s relationship is strong enough, aligned enough, or deeply polarized enough, there shouldn’t be any disagreement. But that belief is exactly what causes most dynamics to slowly collapse under the weight of silence, resentment, or performance.   The big point in this episode is this:  Disagreement isn’t failure, it’s feedback.    And how you handle it will define whether your dynamic works over the long run, or eventually collapses.   In this episode, I share how Dawn and I have navigated this exact terrain in our 24/7 D/s marriage.    This is something that my wife and submissive, Dawn, and I have navigated over the last 6+ years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic. And we’ve learned that disagreement, when handled with integrity, doesn’t weaken the dynamic—it strengthens it.   Here’s what I get into:  • Why real Authority doesn’t fear resistance—it’s built to hold it  • What happens when you suppress your submissive’s truth instead of integrating it  • How we use our Realignment Protocol to repair conflict without collapsing polarity  • The hidden cost of fake agreement and performance-based submission  • What a Dominant needs to do in the moment she says “no”  • And how structure either becomes a prison, or the very thing that allows her to melt     I also get personal about how I used to handle these moments—reactively, with force or logic—and how everything changed when I learned to pause, listen to the signal underneath Dawn’s voice, and lead from presence rather than control.   Whether you’re deep into a 24/7 dynamic or just beginning to play with power exchange, this episode will give you the tools to stop fearing tension and start using it to strengthen your connection, your sex, and your trust.   ⸻   Reflection questions to take into your relationship:   • What helps you feel safest to speak your truth, even when it’s hard?   • What helps you trust your partner to lead or follow, especially in moments of disagreement?    ⸻   Thanks for listening and being part of this movement to bring humanity and truth into Dominance and submission. If this episode hit home, leave a review, share it with a partner, or head to infinitedevotion.com to go deeper.   And remember: The strongest dynamics aren’t the ones with the least tension. They’re the ones with the most trust.  ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman      

Episode 90 — Why Women Don’t Find Dominant Masculine Men  This is the sister episode to Episode 88 (“Why Submissives Resist”). But this time, it’s not for the men—it’s for you, the women who messaged me by the hundreds after that episode. Women who cried, who remembered, who finally felt seen. Women who said: “This is what I’ve been craving.”  In this episode, I’m speaking directly to you. You say you want a Dominant man. You ache to surrender. You long to be led. But do you actually want to let go of control? Do you know the difference between craving submission and living it? This episode is not here to coddle you. It’s here to hold up the mirror—to call you back to yourself, and to the sacred edge where true submission begins. We’ll talk about projection, ego traps, feminine control patterns, somatic trust, and the death of performance-based submission. I’ll show you what it really takes to embody a life of devotion—and why that Dominant man you long for can’t lead you until you actually choose to follow.   This one is raw, deep, and likely confronting. But if you let it in, it could change everything.   ⸻   💡 Key Themes Covered:   • Why longing is not the same as readiness  • How projection and blame block real surrender  • The subtle ways women unconsciously kill leadership  • The difference between safety and comfort  • Why trust begins in your own nervous system—not in his behavior  • The trap of performing submission vs. living it  • How to turn daily moments into acts of devotion  • Why the right man won’t fight you for the lead  • The terrifying and liberating truth of being reshaped by love  • How true submission starts as a practice, not a personality   ⸻   🔥 Memorable Lines:    “Crying over what you don’t have doesn’t make you ready for it.”   “You’re not submissive because you want a strong man. You’re submissive when you’re willing to meet your edge and stay open anyway.”   “Don’t ask for a dominant man to lead you if what you really mean is: lead me only in the ways I like.”   “You don’t become submissive by getting a collar. You become submissive the moment you choose to live without control.”   “Real submission isn’t obedience. It’s openness.” ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman    

 Episode 89 – Let Go of the Game: Healing Without Effort with Sven Loss    In this illuminating and soul-stirring conversation, Andrew welcomes Sven Loss—a widely respected teacher of inner freedom and truth—to explore a radical idea:   What if healing doesn’t require years of work? What if transformation is instant—if you stop trying?   This episode is a deep dive into the paradox of healing, identity, and transformation within the context of polarity, power exchange, and intimate relationships. Andrew and Sven both share their stories of awakening—not through slow self-improvement, but through moments of surrender that changed everything.   Together, they dismantle the illusion that “working on yourself” leads to wholeness and instead reveal:  • Why the effort to let go is actually a form of holding on   • How your addiction to fixing yourself is the very thing keeping you stuck  • Why deep healing often begins the moment you stop performing and trying  • How your relationship patterns are shaped by early life conditioning—and how to break the cycle  • The real reason most people don’t know what they want (and why that’s okay)  • How masculine and feminine embodiment naturally emerge when you stop pretending  • The truth about safety, leadership, and freedom inside power exchange relationships  • Why dominance begins with surrendering to truth—not performing control   This episode is especially powerful for couples navigating a D/s dynamic, polarity work, or deep inner work in partnership. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of trying to heal, be more masculine or feminine, or “get it right,” this episode will give you permission to stop… and just be.   🌀 Featured Guest:  Sven Loss is a Relationship and Transformation Coach. He helps people break free from subconscious patterns that drive their behaviour and how they show up in relationships and life. His work guides clients toward self-realisation, healthy relationship dynamics and a general sense of peace with their lives and themselves.   🖤 Links & Resources:  → Learn more at infinitedevotion.com → Follow Andrew & Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion → Connect with Sven on Instagram: @sven.loss → Connect with Sven on Instagram: https://svenloss.com     📌 If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who’s ready to stop trying and start living.  ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman      

Get UNSHAKEABLE - The FREE email mini course. 7 days. 7 lessons on how to build yourself into an unshakeable Dominant force in your life and relationship. Get it here: https://infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable ~~~~~ If your woman isn’t submitting to you—especially if she says she wants to—it’s not because she’s broken. It’s because you’re not actually dominating her.   And if you’re a submissive who struggles with being able to let go, this might be a deep comfort.   In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew delivers a powerful and confronting message to Dominant men: Her resistance is not the problem. It’s the feedback. You don’t need more tactics, scripts, or kinky techniques—you need more depth, more integrity, and more internal strength.   This is not about getting her to behave. It’s about becoming the kind of man whose presence makes surrender inevitable.   ⸻   🔥 What You’ll Learn:   • Why women test you (and why it’s not a bad thing)  • The real reason she spirals, brats, questions, or pulls away  • What “holding the frame” actually means in a 24/7 D/s relationship  • The core masculine mistakes that destroy trust and safety   • The difference between controlling her and containing her  • How to dominate her erotically, emotionally, and psychologically—without ever needing to explain yourself   • Why Dominance is a vow, not a vibe—and what it costs to lead a woman this deeply   ⸻   📌 Key Quotes:    “Her resistance isn’t rejection. It’s revelation. She’s showing you exactly where your dominance isn’t deep enough to hold her.”   “You don’t dominate her with your words. You dominate her with your life.”   “She doesn’t want to understand you. She wants to feel that you won’t move when she storms.”   ⸻   💼 For Men Ready to Lead:    If you’re tired of trying to perform Dominance instead of embodying it—if you’re ready to become the kind of man a woman can truly submit to—this episode is for you.   This work is not for the faint of heart. But if you’re willing to burn away your approval-seeking, collapse, and control, what remains is a man whose Dominance is sacred. Unshakable. Devotional.   ⸻   🔗 Work With Me:    Want help creating this level of depth and leadership in your relationship? Explore my coaching, courses, and resources below, or click here: 👉 https://infinitedevotion.com/store     ⸻   💬 Support the Show:    If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Leave a 5-star review on Apple or Spotify to help us reach more men and couples doing this work.   Her submission begins with your presence. Your leadership begins with your vow.   ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman  

In this special Q&A episode, Andrew answers real, raw, and vulnerable questions submitted by submissive women from around the world. These are not theoretical musings—they’re lived experiences. Stories of longing, pain, fear, and devotion from women navigating the tension between their deepest cravings and the reality of their relationships.   This episode is for everyone—especially Dominant men.   Because behind every question is a woman trying to surrender… but finding nowhere safe to land. A woman who wants to obey, to offer herself, to be reshaped… but is met with comparison, neglect, shutdown, or confusion. Andrew shares both practical insights and piercing truth about what it really means to live this lifestyle—and why so many women feel heartbroken in their attempts to do so.   Topics include:  • How to live a D/s dynamic with kids or family at home  • Navigating kink and submission inside busy or dominant careers  • What to do when your man says he wants to lead… but doesn’t  • Dealing with shutdown, trauma, comparison, and inconsistency from a Dom  • How a woman’s pain and truth can shape a man—not destroy him  • Whether expressing deep emotions is disrespectful  • The fine line between surrender and self-abandonment  • What to do when it’s time to walk away   And so much more.   This episode is as much a mirror as it is a guide. It is a call to women to keep feeling, keep expressing, and never submit to what is not worthy. And it is a challenge to men: If you want her to submit, be a man she can safely surrender to.    ⸻   🔗 Mentioned in this episode:   • Becoming a Dominant Man course  • Free “Unshakeable” email series for Dominant men   💬 Got a question for the next Q&A episode (for Dominants)? Send it to Andrew via Instagram @_infinitedevotion or reply to any email on the mailing list.   🖤 If this episode moved you, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your reviews help more men and women find the guidance they’re searching for.   ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman    

This episode comes with a free gift — my 7-day email series called Unshakeable. If you want to live this kind of leadership in your body—not just understand it—sign up today. You’ll get seven powerful lessons AND one-week free access to my Becoming a Dominant Man course and live men’s group call. Get it here: https://infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable ~~~ In this episode, I dismantle the common misconception that Dominance is just a role you play in your relationship. It’s not. True Dominance begins as an internal state—a deep, grounded strength that reshapes your relationship with yourself, your body, your mission, your leadership… and yes, your submissive. This is the episode I’ve been needing to record for a long time. After working with hundreds of men, I’ve seen a pattern: when a man begins to embody Dominance not as performance but as identity, every area of his life changes—career, parenting, social presence, spiritual depth, fitness, integrity, sex, and love. This episode is a roadmap for that kind of transformation. You’ll learn:  • Why your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have  • How inner Dominance enhances your leadership in work, parenting, and community  • The direct link between self-respect and sexual authority  • Why setting emotional boundaries prevents burnout and deepens connection  • How embodiment makes you magnetic—and why that matters more than charm  • The hidden cost of nice guy energy in your life and career  • How grooming, health, and fitness are spiritual practices for Dominant men  • Why your life is what tells her it’s safe to submit—not your rules  • And how to step into vision-driven leadership that reshapes your entire reality   You’ll also hear personal stories, client breakthroughs, and actionable challenges to help you find your next edge as a man committed to power, truth, and freedom.   ⸻   Resources mentioned:   • 🔥 Free email series: Unshakeable  • 💪 Online course: Becoming a Dominant Man   • 📚 Online course: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic  • 🧭 Blog: Core Values Exercise for Dominant Men   ⸻   If this episode spoke to you, leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on YouTube. Share this with a man who’s ready to become unshakeable.    Because when one man rises, he invites others to rise with him.   ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

In this raw, revealing, and richly layered conversation, Andrew welcomes writer, speaker, and feminine guide Ginger Kern to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast. What unfolds is not just a dialogue—but a masterclass in embodied polarity, truth, desire, and what it really takes to create sacred union. Together, they dive into:  • The difference between performative desire and embodied eros  • Why truth—not integrity—is the highest value in a power exchange relationship  • How men and women both must submit to something greater to be truly free  • The journey of a woman learning to trust her voice, her body, and her desires  • What it feels like to be in the presence of a man who is aligned with truth  • The trap of the “Hungry Mind” and why embodiment—not more knowledge—is the portal to change  • Conditional vs. unconditional love in the context of devotion, polarity, and human relationship  • The erotic, energetic, and existential responsibility of being fully in your human experience   Ginger brings nuance, reverence, and fierce clarity to what it means to be a vessel for life, love, and truth. Andrew challenges listeners—especially men—to claim their full power not through force, but through unwavering alignment.   This episode is for you if:   → You’re tired of trying to “do” submission or Dominance and want to live it → You’ve felt the call to union—but haven’t known how to embody it → You crave truth, depth, and integrity in love, sex, and self-leadership → You’re ready to go beyond the surface and hear what devotion actually demands   ⸻   Ginger Kern is a writer, mentor, and guide for women on the path of the devotional feminine. She is the root of Mythic Feminine, an ecosystem supporting women in soul nourishment & Union with men. Her work supports women in restoring sovereignty, soulfulness, and full-range embodiment of Truth in service of Life.    Links:  @mythic.feminine on Instagram Soul Sanctuary membership community for women Free resources & newsletter signup Cathedral of Love Masterclass   ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman  

 After last week’s conversation with my friend Christina (@solarfemininearts) about her pulling back from her work to fully drop into being a wife and mother, I realized it was time to share what’s been happening behind the scenes in my own marriage—and what’s evolved for us since Dawn pulled back from the podcast and Infinite Devotion a few months ago.    This is the full update on our dynamic—what’s shifted, how it’s evolved, and why it’s never been hotter, deeper, or more alive than it is right now.   Dawn had a moment of truth at the beginning of the year where she knew—without a doubt—that she needed to step away from our business and this podcast. It didn’t make logical sense, and part of both of us resisted it. But I chose to lead us through it. And what it’s created in our lives, our marriage, and especially our D/s dynamic… is almost indescribable.   In this episode, I break down exactly how her surrender has deepened, how I’ve had to grow as her Dominant, and why I had to stop softening around her ego and start holding the standard without apology.   I also open up—publicly, for the first time—about how much our sexual dynamic has exploded. Kink, obedience, ownership, and submission are now more central to how we live. We haven’t shared much about the sexual and kink side of our dynamic for good reason, but avoiding that truth going forward would mean hiding the most alive and real parts of our relationship.   If you’ve followed us because of the emotional depth, the love, the realness—we’re still here for that. But we’re also done leaving out the erotic truth at the heart of it all. This is the life we’re living. And it’s time to let you in.   ⸻   Inside This Episode, I Share:   • Why Dawn stepped away from Infinite Devotion—and what that made possible  • How over-analyzing our relationship started killing our polarity  • The exact shifts I made in my leadership to meet her deeper submission  • How I stopped backing down when her resistance showed up  • Why her resistance was often a mirror of my own hesitation  • What it means to raise the standard instead of lower it  • How kink and obedience have taken over our sex life—in the best way  • Why I’m done hiding how erotic our marriage has become  • And why the results of living this way are showing up everywhere: more love, more fun, more money, more freedom   ⸻   02:08 Dawn's Decision to Step Back 03:01 Impact on Relationship and Dynamic 04:56 Living the Dynamic More Authentically 07:41 Changes in the Podcast and Business 13:29 Traveling and New Adventures 14:36 Growth in Dominance and Submission 20:49 Embracing the Sexual Side of the Dynamic 24:52 Facing Resistance and Raising Standards 34:16 Public Perception and Social Media Growth 42:57 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans   ⸻   Connect with Us:   • Follow Andrew and Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion  • Learn more at infinitedevotion.com   If You Loved This Episode:   • Share it with a friend who needs to hear this message.  • Leave a 5-star review and tell us what landed for you.  • Tag us on Instagram and share your favorite moment!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman