How to add "peripheral vision" to your elicitations to get the full picture of your date.
Here's a tool by which to clarify what your date - and you - really mean, so that you avoid assumptions that can create problems later on.
Safely cut to the core of character with "why" and "how" questions - even from the first date.
Hear how good listening encourages your date to share, and sets the tone for the questions that follow.
Hear why the level of willingness to answer questions may very well correlate with the level of readiness to date
Here's a way to give a grounded response to the shadchan's question, "So, what are you looking for?"
Hear why it's challenging to distinguish between personality and character traits, and why it makes such a difference.
This introduction lays out the goal of this series, while emphasizing the importance of maintaining an empowered mindset throughout the dating journey.