Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Ever wondered how to go beyond the tinsel and treats of Christmas to create a truly holy and meaningful celebration? Justin and Kylie Coulson take you on a journey through the "Three Levels of Christmas," offering heartfelt ideas and inspiring stories to bring joy and purpose to your family’s holiday season. Whether it's singing carols, setting up nativity scenes, or reflecting on deeper spiritual themes, this episode is full of inspiration for making Christmas a time of connection, love, and purpose. In this episode: Understanding different perspectives & beliefs Creating a Christ-centred Christmas The three levels of Christmas: Level 1: Santa Claus, gifts, & festive indulgence Level 2: The nativity story & spiritual reflection Level 3: Celebrating Jesus' life & message Ideas for making Christmas more meaningful, including carolling, nativity scenes, & giving back Stories from listeners about their faith-centred Christmas traditions Related Links: Christmas Day and Divorced Families 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family Have I Ruined Christmas for My Child by Telling the Truth About Santa? Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Does Christmas gift-giving feel more like a burden than a joy as you try to find a balance between gift-giving and avoiding entitlement? Dr. Justin Coulson and Kylie discuss how to preserve the magic of the season while avoiding the trap of indulgence and entitlement. In this episode: Finding perspective Reflecting on the true meaning of Christmas Having zero agenda—relationships, games, joyful moments What to do when Christmas is hard Focusing on others—emphasising giving, kindness, and family traditions over materialism The Secret to Happiness? Giving.—Elizabeth Dunn research Related Links: How to Unspoil your Kids this Christmas [Webinar] Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Are we there yet?" Long family road trips can definitely be painful, BUT they can also be a great opportunity for some quality family time! We share a list of some helpful road trip games to keep everyone entertained. I-spy Spotto I went to the shops and I bought The alphabet game Car cricket Old MacDonald Had A Farm The Goanna Gang Bingo This Is The Song That Never Ends Peel The Avocado The Fart Game Stay quiet or else! Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Some Christmas movies that will keep your children from getting underfoot while you get the gifts wrapped! G-rated options: The Polar Express Klaus Arthur Christmas Elf Home Alone Santa Clause Honourable (grown up) mentions: Christmas Chronicles Bad Santa The Holiday Nativity movies: The Nativity Story (2006) Chasing The Star (2017) VeggieTales: The Little Drummer Boy (2011) The Star (2017) Journey to Bethlehem (a musical) (2023) The First Christmas (1998) Purchase Tis the Season to be Cranky or How to Unspoil your Kids this Christmas Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christmas is a time where we can really lean into and celebrate family traditions!  Christmas traditions: Gifts, Santa. decorating Spending time with loved ones Advent, carols, the nativity Christmas Eve, stockings, pyjamas, Jolabokaflod Christmas ninjas - giving & serving others Related Links: Take Back Christmas Family Traditions Help Kids Make Sense of Life Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feel like you're drowning in a sea of Christmas "shoulds" and "musts" as a parent? Or that you're constantly running on empty, with no energy left to enjoy moments with your kids?  This episode of I'll Do Better Tomorrow addresses the burnout that many parents experience during the holiday season and beyond.  Listen in to hear Justin and Kyle share their own struggles and insights, as well as some helpful tips on how to break free from the cycle of exhaustion and find joy in the simple things again.  In this episode: Kylies in a flunk in the lead up to Christmas, feeling burnt out and stressed Prioritising tasks Introjection motivation What is it that you want? Taking time to reflect on what has worked in the past for mental, physical, and emotional well-being Alfie Kohn Do one thing well Making time for loved ones Related Links: Self Care Strategies That Really Work We Need to Talk About Parent Wellbeing [ Webinar ] Burnt Out [ FREE webinar ] Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode unpacks Australia's groundbreaking social media ban for kids under 16, set to roll out by Christmas 2025. With tech giants stepping up enforcement, parents are relieved, while teens face digital detoxes. Join the discussion as we explore Prince Harry’s surprising critique, parents’ joys and woes, and strategies for tackling this new era of tech parenting. In this episode: New legislation Australia's incoming social media ban cannot be considered overreach | Sky News  Bullying over social media Parental reactions Prince Harry's comments  Why Harry has it royally wrong on social media dangers | Daily Telegraph Implementation, digital IDs Navigating conversations with kids Acknowledging sadness and disappointment, FOMO The flow-on effect of the ban The 3 Es of Effective Discipline: Explore, Explain, Empower Related Links: Super Solutions for Technology Troubles [Webinar] Unplug Childhood - join the village Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode takes a heartfelt turn as we delve into one of the most touching Christmas stories ever written—O. Henry’s The Gift of the Magi. Whether you’re a longtime fan of the tale or hearing it for the first time, its timeless message of love and sacrifice is sure to move you. In this episode: A reflection on Christmas storytelling O. Henry’s The Gift of the Magi Sacrifice, love, and the spirit of giving Related Links: 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family Gifts our Children Need For Christmas Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christmas is almost here! In this festive episode, we share five simple yet impactful ways to elevate your holiday celebrations. Whether it’s through meaningful traditions, playful gift exchanges, or acts of kindness, we’re here to help you focus on what truly matters—time, connection, and joy. In this episode: Focus on time together Fun with gifts Christmas Eve traditions Jolabokaflod - Icelandic book tradition Acts of service Neighbourhood connections Related Links: Minimising Materialism this Christmas 10 Ways to ‘Unspoil’ the Children this Christmas Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As the end of the year closes in us, we take a look back at 2024 and the top five episodes you listened to this year. Click on the links to go back and listen to an episode. Number 5 - #1041 Screens Suck Number 4 - #1042 Work & Home School Life Balance Number 3 - #1009 ADHD in Adults & Toddlers Number 2 - #1038 Managing Emotional Dysregulation Number 1 - #1055 Why The Kids Don't Listen   Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's the weekly wrap up, where we look back at the week that was and figure out ways that we can improve in our parenting. In this episode: Despite being guaranteed downtime this year, Kylie is feeling more tired than ever. If we want to do better, we need to do less. Self awareness is a game changer. Putting your whole self into whatever you are doing. Related Links: Leidy Klotz - Subtract Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Christmas, skip the shopping stress and focus on what really matters. From creating a stress-free environment to embracing meaningful traditions, we explore how these intangible gifts—none of which require wrapping paper or a credit card—can bring joy and connection to your family.  In this episode: Peace Presence not presents Playfulness Purpose Family traditions Reject the pursuit of perfection 3 Levels of Christmas Related Links: Take Back Christmas 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when online bullying transcends the screen and starts shaping young lives in tragic ways? With eSafety Commissioner Julie Inman Grant, we uncover the harsh realities of cyberbullying, sextortion, and the online traps facing today’s youth. Learn about innovative tools and strategies available to parents, educators, and schools to protect children, as well as the importance of staying engaged in your kids’ digital lives. In this episode: The role of Australia's eSafety Commissioner Cyberbullying & mental health  Emerging online threats (doxing, sextortion, violent language, isolating victims) Contagion effect of self harm Parental awareness & responsibility Cooperation from platforms Removing content Tools and resources for parents and educators Teaching kids to report bullying & collect evidence Setting boundaries & modelling respectful communication at home Strategies for managing kids' screen time Related Links: #639 Online Sextortion With Detective Superintendent Jayne Crossling Lifeline Australia - 13 11 14 Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800 13YARN Australia | For First Nation Australians - 13 92 76 Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As the holidays approach, many parents are preparing their children for the transition into school. Zoe Wragg, a parent educator and former primary school teacher, shares practical advice on making this major change easier. From understanding what school readiness really means to offering tips for supporting reading development, Zoe will help ease your worries.  Plus—strategies for a smooth start to 2025 with simple, actionable tips that parents can apply during the holidays. In this episode: Transitioning children to school School readiness Overcoming overwhelm in preparing children for school Reading skills and supporting beginning readers Free school readiness checklist  Tips for parents navigating the holidays and preparing for school next year www.edzocate.com.au Related Links: Starting School Activity Book [A free Happy Families resource!] The Big Debate: Should you Delay your Child’s Start in School? Facing First Day Fears [Webinar]  Find massive savings during the Happy Families Black Friday Sale Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A few months ago we spoke about the momentum that was building for age restrictions around social media for children under 16.  On Friday those laws were passed in the Australian Parliament, so we thought this was the perfect opportunity to replay this episode, as it will help your family navigate the changes that are ahead. In Australia, children below a certain age will be banned from social media as part of a national plan to counter its negative effects on youth. We discuss the government's commitments, the challenges this new legislation may face, and what parents can do now to protect their kids in a screen-saturated world. In this episode: 'National Social Media Age Limit' | A Current Affair Why 13+ is the current legal age Collecting personal data Politics and obstacles facing this legislation The impact of social media on kids Using screens well: with intentionality, self-regulation, limits Play-based childhood vs screen-based childhood Holding tech companies accountable What parents can do while waiting for legislation to pass Kids need smart parents not smartphones Building community Unplug Childhood - sign the pledge & join the village today!  The Screen Smart Series: 'Unplug Childhood' & 'Tweens, Teens & Screens' (included in membership). Related links:  #980 The Anxious Generation With Jonathan Haidt Tech Giants are Anti-Kids Black Friday sale ends tonight!  Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's Friday, which means our weekly 'I'll Do Better Tomorrow' reflections, looking back on the week that was and thinking of ways we can improve as parents. As the year winds down, Kylie and Justin reflect on their goals and parenting approaches, offering a mix of humor, candid thoughts, and lessons learned. Topics discussed in this episode: Our words of the year - EMBRACE (Kylie) and PRESENT (Justin) - did we live up to them? Justin putting the important things on hold to have fun with the kids. The "good enough" parent Fun pool games Homeschool reflections Kylie discovering that the things we have always held tightly to, may not be what's important now. Find massive savings during the Happy Families Black Friday Sale Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dive with us into three issues impacting parents today: Woolies has partnered with Roblox (and parents are mad!). The rise of nicotine pouches among teens as a discreet alternative to vaping or smoking. Proposed legislation to ban kids under 16 from accessing social media and the challenges of enforcement. In this episode: Roblox Rewards at Woolies Thousands of Australians Call for Woolworths to Axe Partnership with Gaming App Roblox | Daily Telegraph Teens getting "nic-sick" with zyns Addictive, hard to detect, easy to procure Nicotine pouches gaining popularity with teens despite being illegal in Australia | ABC News Opposition to the social media legislation Finding refuge & safety online Policing legislation Unplug Childhood Related Links: #974 Roblox Rules The Screen Smart Series [Webinars] Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit (More nirvana. Less drama.) Bad Influence of Influencers Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do we teach our boys about consent in a world filled with mixed messages and harmful influences? Daniel Principe shares his experience working with boys, schools, and families to address this challenge.  From tackling online influences to reshaping outdated notions of masculinity, Daniel paints a hopeful yet realistic picture of where we stand and what needs to improve. He explains why starting conversations early and normalising openness can make all the difference—and why no child is ever beyond hope. Daniel Principe is a boys' advocate, speaker, Australian of the Year nominee, and Consent Can't Wait ambassador. In this episode: Consent & boys: what's working & what's not?  Exposure to harmful online content Normalising open conversations about consent, porn & relationships Building emotional literacy Reshaping societal ideas about masculinity How to protect your child from becoming victims or perpetrators of harmful behaviours Removing punishment & shame No Matter What Building strong men of the future Related Links: Boys & Screens: Gaming, Gambling, & Pornography [Webinar] Helping Our Boys Grow Into Men Pornography-Proofing Your Kids  #226 More Than Consent Education with Melinda Tankard-Reist Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is repeating a year of school really the best solution for struggling students? Join us as we unpack the research, share personal stories, and discuss why alternatives like tailored teaching/differentiation, extra support, and starting school at the right age may yield better outcomes for your child. Whether you’re grappling with this decision or curious about educational trends, this episode offers valuable insights to guide you. In this episode: Pros/cons of grade retention Differences in learning (heterogeneity) Delaying the start of formal education (redshirting) Competency & self-esteem Global trends in repeating a school year Effectiveness of grade retention: A systematic review and meta-analysis Social consequences Alternatives to retention Practical advice for parents with struggling students Related Links: Starting School Activity Book The Big Debate: Should you Delay your Child’s Start in School? Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With Christmas just around the corner, it's time for men to step up and do some shopping! Don't let Mum be the only one without a present under the tree this year.  This episode explores why many far too mums feel left out during the festive season and just want to be thought of by their family. Tune in for practical tips, heartfelt conversations, and a reminder that the best gifts don't have to break the bank. In this episode: The cognitive load of gift-giving Not enough men are buying the women in their lives Christmas presents Money & budgets Materialism Unique gift ideas Supporting local charities Giving Machine | Light The World Related Links: 16 Gifts our Children Need For Christmas Minimising Materialism this Christmas Christmas Day and Divorced Families Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.