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Ellis Ever After
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LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! That's what Khadeen and Devale Ellis spent 5 years discussing on their Webby Award winning podcast Dead Ass. Now that they've talked it out, disagreed, and come to many understandings, it's time for something new. Ellis Ever After, formerly Dead Ass, is what's next. From ironing out the newlywed blues, to being seasoned spouses who know each other inside and out. Each week, the Ellises discuss what they know now about love, sex, marriage, parenting, money, and much much more. And they've invited their team, Tribble, Josh and Matt to add their two cents.
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As aging millennials, we're all getting to the midlife point where we start to question the rigidity of our lives.The choices we've made because other people said we should. The people and things we've prioritized over our own joy. But before we breakdown, maybe we should break up with people's expectations and live the way we truly want to. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss why midlife ain't a crisis. Dead ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sometimes it takes more than just the routine with your kids. Time well spent can really change things for the better. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they've leveled up their parenting with intent. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What is your purpose? Can you say with certainty what you are here to do? Without talking about your career or what makes you money? The Ellises and the crew talk purpose, passion and living well in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's time for our favorite part of the show...Listener Letters! And this time we've got more noses all up in your business. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Growing up Black, no matter where you're from, it seems like we all had the same experiences. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about the Blackisms we grew up with. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What makes you feel wanted? The answer can be different for men and women. Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss desire in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to the 50/50 conversation, we know that nothing in life or relationships is truly equal. So how do you manage power dynamics in love, work and relationships, so that nobody feels like they're getting the short end of the stick? The Ellises and the crew talk about how to make things truly fair in love and war. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
All money ain't good money, so how do you make yours? And when you got it, what you do with it says a lot about your values. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what they think it means to be rich and ethical. Like my girl Diamond from The Player's Club said "make the money, don't let it make you." Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to conflict, crashing out may not always be the best way to handle it. But when is crashing out necessary? Or is it ever? The Ellises and the crew discuss. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Trying to do your best is always a good thing. Until it keeps you from doing anything at all. The Ellises and the crew discuss when perfectionism is low key self-doubt. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We've all heard the terms "Black excellence" and "Black power", but what is the difference between the two? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Josh, Matt and Tribble discuss it. What do you think? Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to being Black in America, the hoops we have to jump through just to be recognized as worthy are ever changing. But do you think code switching is harmful or necessary for Black excellence? The Ellises and the crew give their opinions in this episode, Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What do you do when you're tired, worn out, at your max? Do you keep pushing through the stress? Do you take a break to recharge? Or do you even notice when you're on the verge of burnout? In this episode, The Ellises and the gang talk about burnout. How it feels to be tired and ambitious. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We always talk about legacy and what we want to leave behind in. But beyond generational wealth, what does legacy really mean? In this episde, the Ellises talk about what wisdom they hope to impart on their four boys, and the crew joins in on the conversation. #DeadAss.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The old saying goes, you cannot receive with a closed fist. And when we hold onto the people, habits, and feelings that are no longer serving us, we miss out on the blessings that are meant for us. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale chat with the crew about being on their Queen Elsa ish...letting go. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As we get older and our lives change, so do our relationships and the requirements we have for them. In this episode, the Ellises chat with the crew about what friendship looks like for them at their big big ages. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We're baaaaaaacckkkk! And things are a little different. A new name, a new look, and a few new voices. But it's always and forever #DeadAss! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew talk about the changes ahead for the podcast, and what they're looking forward to in this new season.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The podcast formerly known as Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis is now Ellis Ever After. The same great conversations with more knowledge, more opinions and more voices. Listen to full episodes of Ellis Ever After starting April 16th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's that time again! The Ellises get all up in your business and put their two cents in. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Great episode for a number of reasons! I love y’all!
you are inspirational and love you guys , Dead ass!
You should of had mimi and pops on this episode
Much needed
Lock And Key analogy is spot on.
Love This Podcast.
i loove y'all (from kenya)
After listening to this episode I knew Kadeen is a fellow Sagittarius.
"I dont want you to need me I just want you to want me" A WOOORD
this was a FANTASTIC episode, I loved hearing the Black male perspective on this subject and would love to hear similar episodes to this in the future! 👍
Hiii what do you guys think about having a three some? or should I say have you guys considered having a threesome? I adore your relationship and may the LORD keep you guys and your family 🙏❤️ j love your podcast #DEADASS
Omg I am so glad y'all are back!! I missed y'all soon much!!!
Amazing episode!!!!!
love yall!!!! listening to you two, and watching your videos give me life and hope❤ Wishing you both much success!!!! #mywillandjada
I'm mad I'm so late on this podcast! I went back to the beginning and listening to EVERYTHING!!! Yall are great! Thank you! 🙏🏾🇯🇲
This is so for me.
Forreal stop saying woman cuz it's mad hard to get my man to get in the mood.
I liike,glad I discovered yall
I liiiike
khadeen is not allowed to say "due diligence" anymore 😆 its every episode