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Ignoring a narcissist is critical, and ignoring a narcissist is crucial when a narcissist tries to punish you. Narcissists love to get your reaction. As soon as they do, you are handing power away. And … when a narcissist hooks you in, everything you used to think is tipped upside down and turned on its head. We hand power away and can be significantly abused. Until we know better we think that combatting a narcissist is the answer, but it isn’t. IGNORING them is … and please learn the five ways to DO this in our POWER in this week’s radio show.

There is SUCH a deep soul familiarity to relationships with narcissists.   Are narcissists Soul Mates who we were meant to get it right with, but just couldn’t, or are they Twin Flames; deeply impactful souls called forth to surface and purge our darker pieces that they reflect, so that we can evolve?    In this blog article I share with you what I deeply believe to be the truth about this … regarding what VERSION narcissists are and WHY they are Soul Contracted to come into our lives. Join the conversation on the blog:  https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-soulmate-twin-flame-or-cell-mate

This radio show is one that many of you have been asking for – some conclusive steps regarding how it break free from a narcissist and recover from narcissistic abuse. I understand how hard it can be when we don’t know how to recover, or even what it is that could help us. There is of course tons of information we can read on the net, and we may be given advice from lots of people, including family and friends. I felt the same for years, and that is why I am passionate about sharing my breakthrough truly create our best and happiest life – even after feeling broken and devastated and having lost as much as we do when abused by a narcissist. And … that’s what these 5 steps are about … No Contact all the way through to conscious expansion, as well how to take ourselves firmly off the “narcissistic supply menu.” I so hope that this radio show helps breaks it down for you from the start of your journey to who you wish to be as your True Self.   Join the discussion with us on the blog.

I get asked by people ALL the time …“Can you please explain to me Melanie HOW to self-partner?” And that is such a great question! As are these questions: Is self-partnering something that can become automatic? Is it essential for abuse recovery and even MORE than that? I believe it is … absolutely! I will even go as far as to say I believe self-partnering holds the key to not only our Highest Potential and the Game of Life … It also unlocks the literal power of All of Creation itself. I hope with all of my heart and Being this article will harness within you how to become and experience the pure miracle of Life and yourself. Please come over to my blog to join in this conversation at: https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-10-most-impactful-ways-to-start-self-partnering-right-now

In Part One of this series, we looked at how to detach, and not a grant a narcissist narcissistic supply, and why this was so important. In this article – Part 2 I illustrate the 3 different ways we can try to deal with a narcissist – and the results of each And we also take a deep dive into the growing up of our traumatised parts that the narcissist could previous hook us with, and what that then looks like. I also answer specific questions from people in the Community about this very important topic! Please come over to the blog at join in on this week’s discussion.

There are many people in the Community who aren’t No Contact with narcissists. Maybe they are family members or you have to work with one … Or … maybe you are co-parenting with a narcissist. Or perhaps you are just not ready to let go yet. Whatever the circumstance, if you are still connected to a narcissist, please know it is possible to manage this and even have your rights upheld. Throughout this two-part series you will understand how and why.

Can we break free of the ongoing painful thoughts that can be so tortuous? Ones that … Bring us to our knees. Strip our Life-force. And leave us feeling so empty, broken and alone that we wonder how we can live, love and trust again. The answer is “YES!” Totally. Let me explain to you, with a deep dive into “how to” in Part 2.  Read along and join the conversation on the blog here.

It is so frustrating and exhausting to have our heads go over and over and over what happened to us after narcissistic abuse. Why do we keep thinking about “what happened” and all the “what ifs” when we know we can’t change what happened? Maybe, despite you putting in a ton of effort to heal yourself, the “story” still keeps taking you down – not allowing you to move on. Stripping your Life-force. In this radio series we take a deep dive into WHY this is happening, and why is is detracting from our ability to heal. And you will learn how to stop this, reverse this and get free – once and for all – from those torturous thoughts into your True Life and freedom. Join the conversation on the blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-evict-the-narcissist-from-your-head-and-move-on-with-your-life

This week’s episode is about two very important Quantum topics which I believe are pivotal for 2017. The realizing that time has sped up – and how to align oneself so as NOT to be “out of time” … meaning not living in the now and therefore not in the flow of Lifeforce and Wellbeing. I also discuss how the Feminine Collective Wounds are now rising up with great force to be released, and what this really means for females and males, as well as the healing of unity and humanity. This show may answer some mysteries for you that you have deeply felt and pondered.   Much Love xo

This week in Part Two, we take a deep dive into practical concerns when breaking up with a narcissist, which are not just heartbreaking and gut-wrenching – they turn our lives upside down. Things such as smearing, being replaced, trying to explain to others that you have been abused by someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, trying to have others understand that you are suffering from Traumatic Stress Disorder … as well as many other excruciatingly painful and stressful situations. How do we come back from this? How do we combat the terrible things that the narcissist is capable of when we break up with one? Find out in this week’s Part 2. Please see the transcript of this radio show, and join in on the conversation on the blog.

Why is it that when we break up with a narcissist we usually feel WORSE instead of get relief? And … What does it take to not just merely (and barely) survive from breaking up with a narcissist, but to actually Thrive as a result?  Find out in my two part series. Join the conversation with myself and other Thrivers on the blog.

This week’s topic about “forgiveness” was inspired by my friend Sylvia. She really nailed it … regarding “Organic Forgiveness”, and as a result I sat down to write about the truth of the stages of “forgiveness”, what they produce and how they set us free. Ranging all the way from Non-forgiveness, to Logical Forgiveness to the higher states of Evolving, Radical and Compassionate Forgiveness … ultimately leading to Organic Forgiveness. I hope with all my heart that this article will help set you free from abuse and pain … into the freedom of becoming your True Self. And … I hope you get as much out of soaking in this material, as I do in sharing it with you. This week’s topic about “forgiveness” was inspired by my friend Sylvia. She really nailed it … regarding “Organic Forgiveness”, and as a result I sat down to write about the truth of the stages of “forgiveness”, what they produce and how they set us free. Ranging all the way from Non-forgiveness, to Logical Forgiveness to the higher states of Evolving, Radical and Compassionate Forgiveness … ultimately leading to Organic Forgiveness. I hope with all my heart that this article will help set you free from abuse and pain … into the freedom of becoming your True Self. And … I hope you get as much out of soaking in this material, as I do in sharing it with you. Join the conversation with myself and other Thrivers on the blog here.

This is a radio show many men have asked for. Within this article we do a deep dive into the characteristics of narcissistic females. What makes them tick? How can they turn from the most beautiful, loving, sensual compassionate women you could ever hope to meet, into an entitled being who is never happy, always finding fault and acting nastily and crazily? And what is the difference between narcissistic men and women – and are there any differences at all? I am really happy to bring this radio show to you – not is a way that will demonise women or even narcissistic women, but I believe in a way that will help all of us – men and women come together healthily even more. You will see what I mean by this when reading this article! See further details and join the conversation: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com

Last week, in Part One, we explored the reasons why we fell for a narcissist and why it can be very difficult to leave and stay away.   And why, in this Community, we DO struggle to end it and break free, whereas other people just don’t … even if they were initially hoodwinked by a narcissist.   This week, in Part Two, I want to take a deep dive into the understanding of specifically why we were highly susceptible to narcissists, and may have felt (or still feel) it’s almost impossible to leave.   Because it is my fullest intention – if this is your battle – to help free you from that.   So this week … I hope you gain a lot of understanding regarding the Quantum Forces that are dictating our Life and working “for” us and not “to” us.   As well as how by becoming conscious and authentic we not only became a force that is no longer “narcissist-prone”, but we also get to experience Life at levels that we simply couldn’t before abuse.   And this is regardless of how painful are battles are or how hopeless everything seems right now.

Why is it that some individuals who have a run in with a narcissist don’t get hooked and adversely affected, once the mask drops … … whereas some people fall head over heels, make excuses for the terrible behavior and eventually have their life torn to shreds?  This is a very important question to have answered … because within the answer is a vital key to break free from the trauma and ensure it never happens to you again.   This two-part radio show series will hopefully reveal the truth of the answer to you.

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When the very person we put our heart and soul into teared our life apart how on earth do we trust again? Learn how to regain your faith in people and rebuild your life in this radio show.  Come and join the conversation with myself and other Thrivers on the blog here.

Aminath’s story is quite unique, and a little different to most of our Community Member’s backgrounds, because she came from a country and family torn by political unrest and fighting. Her father was incarcerated and her family was shunned and ostracised. Incredible shame and emotional wounds ensued. Aminath’s identity is protected in this interview, for a very good reason. She is a prominent person on a world stage (and incredibly humble about it). Her achievements and recognition came about because she had emerged from her childhood with a desire to be an advocate for world reform. Yet – as result of her childhood and generational wounds – even though she had such a BIG destiny and calling, she still felt small on this inside. Aminath was still unconsciously susceptible and primed for narcissistic abuse … which she endured. This story is about how Aminath was able to up-level and free herself from a lifetime of anxiety and shame, and the latest narcissist, to release into true joy and the power to achieve her dreams. And her calling …  This truly is a story I will never forget and I know you will gain many insights from listening to it.  Please join the conversation with other Thrivers by leaving a comment on the blog here.

Many of us have been deeply committed to spiritual practices and seeking information in order to become more enlightened, evolved and better people, and to heal. But why in some circumstances do we feel like we have to always to make so much effort and as soon as we don’t that our anxiety and fears come back and engulf us? Is spiritual practice and seeking truths and information really helping us, or is it just another method to try to manage our wounds, that is keeping us separated from truly releasing them for good? This radio show may help you realise that we can often be overcomplicating our healing when there is a much simpler and more direct path. Have a question for Melanie? Join the conversation with the Triver community by clicking here.

It near impossible to heal from narcissistic abuse when you are locked into the trajectory of just trying to survive ...  Where everyday tasks such as going to work, making appointments, meeting with people or planning out your day can send you into anxiety. Find out how to break free from this powerless state, stop the minute to minute panic attacks and gain peace so that you have a path to heal.    Join in the conversation with myself and other Thrivers on the blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-free-from-terror-and-gain-peace-in-your-life