Enneagram & Coffee

Today, we are back with another coffee chats episode. We are talking about what’s going on behind the scenes as well as what I’m thinking about this week. Grab yourself a coffee or a cup of team and let’s catch up! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I am answering a question texted into the podcast phone line about mistyping yourself. As a reminder, you can get your enneagram, self-care, creativity and time management questions answered at 828-338-9127. -- Thank you to this week’s podcast sponsor:  BETTERHELP: Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/egram — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, Sarajane Case discusses how therapy has simplified her understanding of relational conflict. She shares a personal example from her relationship with her partner, Oby, where they experience conflict during their tennis games. Sarajane explains how therapy has taught her to recognize the core issues and fears that each person brings to a conflict, often rooted in their inner child responses. By pausing and reflecting on their inner child needs, they can find practical and less emotionally overwhelming resolutions. Sarajane emphasizes the importance of exploring these needs to simplify relational conflict. -- Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series with a deep dive into Type Three—the Achiever. We explore the hidden aspects of Type Three’s personality, how their strengths can become shadows, and practical ways to integrate these repressed parts with compassion. From inauthenticity to the fear of failure, we’ll unpack how these shadows show up in work, relationships, and self-talk. Plus, we’ll look at how other Enneagram types can guide Type Threes toward deeper self-acceptance. Tune in for actionable shadow work practices and encouragement to embrace your worth—beyond achievement. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I’m answering fun, random "get to know you" questions—no prep, just honest thoughts as they come. Expect a mix of deep dives, lighthearted moments, and maybe a little self-discovery. Grab a coffee, settle in, and let’s chat! ✨ What’s your answer to one of these? Let me know! And if you love the show, a review means the world. 💛 Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, Sarajane Case dives into the hidden patterns that shape the experience of Enneagram Type Twos. Explore how over-giving, people-pleasing, and the need to be needed can lead to exhaustion and resentment. Learn practical shadow work tools to set boundaries, release the fear of being disliked, and embrace self-worth beyond helping others. Plus, discover what Twos can learn from other Enneagram types to create a more balanced, fulfilling life. If you’re ready to break free from burnout and build healthier relationships, this is a must-listen! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I take you through my reflections on the seven dimensions of wellness—spiritual, social, environmental, emotional, intellectual, physical, and occupational. I share what’s working, what’s not, and the small but meaningful shifts I’m making to move forward. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase In this episode of Enneagram & Coffee, Sarajane Case explores the connection between ego, fear, and the Enneagram. January is all about recognizing that you are not your type, and today, we’re diving deep into how the ego shapes our identity, keeps us stuck in fear, and limits our personal growth. Learn how to identify where your ego shows up, understand the fear that fuels it, and take practical steps to move beyond its grip. If you're ready to break free from self-imposed limitations and step into your true self, this episode is for you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover the transformative power of shadow work for Enneagram Type Ones in this insightful episode of Enneagram and Coffee. Learn how to recognize and embrace your inner critic, perfectionistic tendencies, and suppressed emotions while exploring practical tools for growth and self-compassion. Perfect for Type Ones seeking balance and those supporting them, this episode offers actionable steps to integrate both light and shadow. Embrace your imperfections and unlock the beauty of your authentic self! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we explore the concept of nonlinear healing and why progress often doesn’t follow a straight path. Drawing from personal experiences, we discuss the frustrations of setbacks, like overcoming one challenge only to face another, and how this mirrors the broader nature of societal growth. Learn why spirals of growth, both personal and collective, are part of the process and how to navigate them with self-compassion, trust, and patience. Perfect for anyone feeling stuck or disheartened on their journey, this episode offers actionable insights and hope. Tune in to embrace the beauty of messy, nonlinear healing. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Discover the transformative power of shadow work in this brand-new Enneagram & Coffee series. Host Sarajane introduces the concept of shadow work, why it matters, and how embracing our hidden parts fosters self-acceptance. Tune in to explore how the Enneagram offers unique insights for each type’s shadow journey. Perfect for anyone ready to deepen their sense of self-acceptance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover how releasing attachment to personality can unlock personal growth and deeper authenticity in this episode of Enneagram and Coffee. We explore how over-identifying with Enneagram types and personality patterns can keep you stuck, and share practical tools to reconnect with your essence. This conversation offers strategies for stepping beyond labels to embrace freedom, peace, and your true self. Tune in for a blend of self-awareness, spirituality, and actionable steps to live expansively. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode is a coffee chat. I share with you what I'm learning right now, what's been happening behind the scenes and what to expect on the podcast this week! Grab yourself a cup of coffee or tea and let's catch up! -- Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we are talking with Melanie Rashbaum - a licensed marriage and family therapist, supporting clients in her private practice via telemedicine or in person sessions at my office in Los Angeles, California. Stay in touch with Melanie here: www.theextrovertedtherapist.com www.instagram.com/the_extroverted_therapist -- Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today Sarajane answers the question: " Hi Sarajane! I'm a 1w9, struggling with other people's reactions to and perceptions of my anger. I spent most of my life repressing it, and now I'm trying to allow myself to feel and actually process my anger (which I feel ALL the time), but I don't feel allowed to do that because I keep getting feedback that it's "too much" or "too intense." I feel like other types may experience this with their go-to emotions, too (e.g., 4s constantly being told they're too sad and to get over it). Any advice and practical tips on how to deal? Thanks so much for your amazing podcast!! It's life-changing!" - Thank you to this week’s podcast sponsor:  Indeed knows that when you’re doing everything for your company, you can’t afford to overspend on hiring. Visit Indeed.com/egram to start hiring now. — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I’m walking through a reflection exercise to reflect on 2024 and plan for 2025. It’s also the last episode of season 5. Thank you all for joining me this year. I can’t wait to see what 2025 has in store. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we completing our series on relationship pairings with type nine and nine. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we continue our series on relationship pairings with type eight and type eight. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we continue our series on relationship pairings with type eight and type nine. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we wrap up our series on relationship pairings with type seven and type seven. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Thank you to this week’s podcast sponsor: LMNT Get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/EGRAM Also try the new LMNT Sparkling — a bold, 16-ounce can of sparkling electrolyte water. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices