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High-Profile Celebrity Breakups & Legal Drama are making headlines. From romantic entanglements like Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift to legal battles such as the Coldplay Kiss Cam scandal and the divorce of Jeff Bezos, this episode grants an insider look into the legal ramifications of celebrity relationships. Get expert insights on prenups, custody battles, and much more. Also, tune in for a healthy dose of  humor involving pet monkeys. Don't miss out on this informative and entertaining episode.00:00 Introduction and Team Setup00:43 Family Law in the Headlines: The Coldplay Kiss Cam Incident05:14 Celebrity Relationships: Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift08:54 Courtney Thorne-Smith's Divorce11:50 Ryan Lochte's Custody Battle16:13 Jamie King and Kyle Newman's Unusual Custody Case17:01 Custody and Legal Decisions17:38 Supervised Visits and Drug Problems17:50 Understanding Shared Legal Custody18:50 Nightmares of Custody Orders19:40 Third-Party Decision Makers20:16 Celebrity Relationships and Prenups25:36 Kanye West's Controversial Actions27:41 Real Housewives Drama31:04 Cardi B and Offset's Public Disputes33:28 Jeff Bezos' Massive Alimony35:09 Concluding Thoughts and Monkeys------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

New Direction Family Law layers and staff discuss the complexities around parentage. They cover the process of establishing and disestablishing parentage, the legal implications, and the need for paternity actions. The team also explores issues related to legitimation actions, the legal challenges of changing a child's surname, and the complications that arise within same-sex parent families. Tune in for an informative discussion about the legal intricacies of parentage and the importance of having an attorney navigate these complicated matters.00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction00:36 Understanding Parentage: Establishing and Disestablishing01:10 Affidavit of Parentage: Hospital Procedures01:52 Paternity Tests and Legal Actions02:43 Legitimation Actions: Replacing the Wrong Dad03:36 Legal Implications of Birth Certificates05:30 Disestablishment of Paternity: Legal Steps07:41 Changing the Child's Surname10:52 Complexities in Same-Sex Parentage12:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

We unpack the complex and often controversial legal topics of Alienation of Affection and Criminal Conversation. They discuss the nuances, historical context, and practical implications of these laws, which are still recognized in a few states, including North Carolina. The conversation includes real-life cases, the pros and cons of pursuing such lawsuits, and the potential impacts on all parties involved.00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction01:01 Introducing the Topic: Alienation and Criminal Conversation01:33 Matt's Experience with Alienation Cases02:16 Legal Nuances and Publicity of Cases04:43 Breaking Down Alienation and Criminal Conversation05:50 Defenses and Legal Strategies07:20 Damages and Case Examples08:49 Challenges and Considerations in Pursuing Cases12:53 Mother-in-Law Drama13:34 Alienation of Affection Law13:54 Constitutional Concerns15:41 Jurisdiction Issues18:18 Office Affairs21:12 Connivance and Framing------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

Join lizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they delve into crucial insights for clients preparing to testify in family court. Alongside Cam, their coordinator, they discuss the intricacies of courtroom procedures, the importance of honest and concise testimony, and how to handle cross-examinations and character witnesses. From what to wear to how to manage your emotions, gain valuable advice on presenting yourself effectively in court. Whether it's a custody case, financial disputes, or spousal support, this episode covers everything you need to know to navigate your court appearance with confidence.00:00 Introduction to New Direction Family Law00:57 Preparing Clients for Testimony01:46 Courtroom Basics and Client Preparation03:36 Direct and Cross-Examination Tips06:46 Character and Expert Witnesses09:54 Handling Emotions and Courtroom Etiquette11:08 The Importance of Genuine Emotions in Court11:23 Challenges Judges Face in Determining Credibility11:51 Handling Lies and Perjury in Court13:56 Using Text Messages and Emails as Evidence15:52 The Dangers of Faking Evidence17:16 Respecting Court Protocol and Behavior17:46 Financial Testimonies and Document Familiarity18:51 The Waiting Game for Court Rulings19:49 Preparing for Cross-Examination21:43 Character Witness Preparation

Our hosts discuss the complexities of handling custody issues when co-parents live in different states. They delve into the legalities, jurisdiction matters, and real-life scenarios including military families and interstate relocations. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding state laws, getting court permissions, and the potential emotional and financial impacts on the children and parents involved. They also provide practical advice on dealing with such situations, emphasizing the significance of consulting with an attorney before making any moves.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:41 Custody Issues Across State Lines00:57 Jurisdiction and Legal Complexities01:02 Case Study: California to North Carolina02:01 Challenges of Interstate Custody03:12 Real-Life Examples and Scenarios05:06 Impact on Children and Families06:27 Personal Experiences and Insights09:22 Judicial Decisions and Fairness09:50 Financial Implications of Custody Arrangements10:41 Navigating Child Support and Extraordinary Expenses11:04 Relocation and Its Legal Implications12:50 Getting Permission to Move: Legal Steps13:35 Factors Judges Consider in Relocation Cases15:44 Emergency Custody and Relocation Challenges17:30 Co-Parenting and Relocation: Practical Advice19:57 Consulting Attorneys Before Relocating20:38 Final Thoughts on Relocation and Custody

In this insightful discussion, we talk about the growing phenomenon of 'default parent' divorces among millennial marriages. The episode explores the dynamics of household responsibilities, the emotional toll of being the default parent, and how this imbalance often leads to marital discord and eventually divorce. The hosts share personal anecdotes, client experiences, and offer practical advice on managing these challenges through better communication, therapy, and allowing mistakes to foster growth in co-parenting.00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction00:44 The Default Parent Epidemic01:46 Impact on Relationships and Divorce03:11 Gender Roles and Societal Expectations04:40 Challenges in Co-Parenting Post-Divorce12:39 Historical Context and Modern Dynamics14:41 Advice and Solutions for Default Parents17:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this insightful discussion, Cameron, the Marketing and Business Development Manager at New Direction Family Law, and Elizabeth Stevenson, a partner at the firm, dive deep into the intricate intersection of estate planning and family law with Hampton Crumpler, an attorney at NC Planning. They explore the complexities of generational wealth, trusts, wills, and how these elements play crucial roles in divorce, custody battles, and property division. Key topics include the impact of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, protecting assets for children from previous marriages, the importance of regularly updating estate plans, and understanding the differences between revocable and irrevocable trusts. Tune in to gain valuable insights into how smart estate planning can save time, money, and stress for your family.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:57 Intersection of Estate Planning and Family Law01:34 Prenups, Postnups, and Estate Planning07:15 Trusts for Minor Children10:15 Revocable vs. Irrevocable Trusts12:26 Blended Families and Q-Tip Trusts15:12 Importance of Having a Will18:32 Inherited Property and Marital Assets21:06 Tax Consequences of Inherited Money21:30 Trusts and Taxation22:22 Real Estate and Inheritance23:47 Estate Planning and Separation Agreements25:44 Gifts and Marital Property27:09 Handling Property in Divorce28:58 Importance of Estate Planning31:53 Updating Estate Plans33:02 Legal Representation in Divorce34:49 Getting in Touch with an Estate Planning Attorney37:17 Final Thoughts on Estate Planning

In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Ashley Oldham of New Direction Family Law discuss the crucial process of selecting the right divorce attorney. They cover essential steps such as the importance of initial consultations, building a trust-based relationship, understanding retainer fees, and ensuring transparent communication. They also emphasize the value of honesty and document organization in achieving the best legal outcomes. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:31 Choosing the Right Attorney01:30 Initial Consultation Importance01:51 Client Intake Process04:33 Confidentiality and Trust09:40 Financial Considerations11:16 Document Organization15:37 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Join Elizabeth Stevenson from New Direction Family Law and her colleague Ashley Oldham as they discuss the unique challenges of military divorces. In this episode, they delve into the nuances of divorce for military families, covering topics such as pension division, custody arrangements, and the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and Visitation Act. Ashley, a board-certified family law specialist with extensive experience in military divorces, provides valuable insights on jurisdiction, survivor benefits, and child support. Whether you're a service member or a spouse, this episode is packed with essential information to help navigate the complexities of military divorces.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:38 Military Divorce Overview02:33 Jurisdiction in Military Divorces03:54 Custody Issues in Military Divorces09:49 Division of Military Pensions15:55 Domestic Violence and Military Personnel17:25 Military Support Programs and Conclusion

Join Sarah Hink and Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they chat with guest attorney Matt McGonagle about crucial aspects of business creation, estate planning, and protecting your business in the event of divorce or death. They discuss the importance of having proper legal agreements like operating agreements and shareholders' agreements, and dive into the complexities of trusts, estate planning, and marital protections. Learn how to safeguard your business and assets against unforeseen life events in this insightful podcast episode.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:54 Matt McGonigal's Legal Expertise01:15 Business Creation and Protection03:43 Divorce and Business Ownership06:27 Trusts and Estate Planning15:22 Final Thoughts and Contact InformationLearn more about Matt McGonagle, a board certified specialist with the North Carolina State Bar – Estate Planning and Probate LawLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

In this episode, Sarah J. Hink and Ava K. Jennette from New Direction Family Law discuss the procedural steps involved in obtaining a domestic violence protective order (DVPO) in North Carolina. They offer advice on resources such as local domestic violence resource centers and highlight the essential details needed in the complaint form, including specific allegations and dates. The discussion includes what to expect during the ex parte hearing, service of the abuser, and the return hearing. They also cover the potential consequences of violating a DVPO, the importance of including all relevant incidents in the complaint, and the role of Legal Aid in assisting victims. The episode provides comprehensive guidance for those looking to pursue or defend against a DVPO, emphasizing the importance of legal representation.00:00 Introduction to the Episode00:30 Understanding Domestic Violence Protective Orders01:39 Filing for a Protective Order02:25 Details and Allegations in the Complaint06:30 The Ex Parte Order Process08:47 Preparing for the Return Hearing09:57 Defending Against False Allegations13:17 Consequences of Violating a Protective Order17:56 Renewing a Protective Order19:56 Final Advice and ResourcesLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

Join Sarah Hink and attorney Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they delve into the intricate process of filing for absolute divorce in North Carolina. Learn about the requirements such as the mandatory one year and one day physical separation, the importance of resolving property and alimony issues beforehand, and the nuances related to service and court filings. They also discuss unique scenarios involving military service and incompetency. Whether you're doing it yourself or seeking professional help, this episode provides essential insights to guide you through the divorce proceedings.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:39 Understanding Absolute Divorce01:33 Filing for Divorce in North Carolina04:06 Checklist Before Filing for Divorce05:17 The Divorce Filing Process06:18 Service Issues in Divorce07:53 Court Procedures and Attorney Involvement14:02 Special Cases and Unique Scenarios16:27 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

Understanding Prenuptial Agreements: Protecting Your Future and AssetsIn this episode of New Direction Family Law, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink discuss the importance of prenuptial agreements, especially for individuals entering second marriages or who have children from previous relationships. They explain how prenups can protect personal assets, manage debts, and anticipate changes in circumstances, such as starting a business. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions about prenups, the emotional and financial implications, and the necessity of discussing finances openly before marriage. Tune in for real talk on romance, prenups, and safeguarding your future.00:00 Introduction and Importance of Prenups01:01 Meet the Team01:37 Discussing Prenups and Common Misconceptions03:05 Debt and Financial Transparency in Marriage06:16 Prenups and Business Ownership10:31 Changing Prenups: Legal Advice10:41 Prenups and Children: Legal Limitations11:11 Prenups and Infidelity Clauses11:25 Public Policy and Prenups12:22 Prenups and Coercion12:55 Timing and Prenups13:29 Prenups for Second Marriages14:10 Strange Prenup Clauses15:11 Postnups: Similarities and Differences15:58 Prenups and Business Ownership17:03 Prenups: Personal Decisions and Legal AdviceLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the complexities and emotional challenges of separation and divorce. They share practical advice on handling separation, especially in cases of domestic violence, financial complications, and child custody. They also introduce Cam Heinsohn, their new marketing and business development manager. The conversation touches on real-life scenarios, legal strategies, and the emotional toll of ending a marriage, aiming to provide guidance and support for those going through such a difficult time.00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member02:04 Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation05:43 Handling Separation Conversations11:39 Navigating Separation: Initial Steps12:08 Living Arrangements and Legal Implications13:27 Financial Responsibilities During Separation15:44 Court Orders and Legal Actions18:39 Consulting an Attorney: When and Why20:48 Emotional and Practical Support21:28 Finding Strength and Moving ForwardLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullshit Guide to Divorce,' experienced attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the vital role of parenting coordinators in high-conflict divorce situations. Learn how parenting coordinators, either attorneys or mental health professionals, are appointed to assist co-parents in making decisions and improving communication. Discover how this essential service can help avoid prolonged court battles, reduce legal fees, and ensure the best interests of the children are prioritized. Tune in for expert insights on how to navigate co-parenting challenges effectively.00:00 Introduction to the Exit Strategy00:18 Meet the Attorneys00:42 Understanding Parenting Coordinators01:05 Role and Appointment of Parenting Coordinators01:51 Challenges in Co-Parenting03:53 Legal Implications and Court Involvement05:03 Benefits of Parenting Coordinators07:22 Practical Advice for Co-Parents17:16 Final Thoughts and Contact InformationLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullsh$t Guide to Divorce,' hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law are joined by Jason Deshayes, CEO of Cook Wealth. They discuss the crucial role of financial planning and tax preparation in the context of divorce. Topics include tax liabilities, the importance of transparency in joint tax filings, handling separate and joint accounts, and the significance of consulting with CPAs and financial advisors. The episode aims to educate listeners on making informed financial decisions during and after a divorce, ensuring a smoother transition from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.00:00 Spotting Financial Red Flags in Relationships00:21 Introduction to the Exit Strategy Podcast00:53 Meet the Expert: Jason Dehe from Cook Wealth01:34 The Role of Spouses in Tax Preparation02:38 Understanding Joint Tax Returns and Liabilities03:37 The Importance of Financial Transparency in Marriage04:08 Navigating Financial Conflicts During Divorce05:22 The Benefits of Filing Taxes Separately07:31 Managing Separate and Joint Bank Accounts10:08 Handling CPA Conflicts During Divorce13:59 Dividing Assets: Brokerage vs. Retirement Accounts16:08 Navigating Financial Confusion17:21 The Role of Financial Advisors17:58 Tax and Wealth Management18:30 Cash vs. Retirement Funds19:26 Alimony and Tax Implications21:16 Pre-Planning for Divorce23:52 Financial Planning for Smaller Budgets29:10 Services Offered by Wealth Management Firms31:43 Conclusion and Contact InformationLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on some complex cases they’ve encountered and provide insights into legal protections and agreements that can safeguard your future. Whether you're considering an annulment or a divorce after the holidays, this informative discussion will help you understand your options.00:00 Holiday Wishes and Legal Choices00:04 Understanding Annulments01:09 Legal Grounds for Annulments in North Carolina01:48 Bigamy Cases and Legal Implications04:00 Age and Mental Capacity in Marriage06:49 Impotence and Annulment09:51 Consent and Manipulation in Marriage11:14 Hallmark Movies and Mistaken Beliefs11:40 Fraud in Marriage: Proving the Case14:14 Annulment vs. Divorce: Legal Differences15:23 Cohabitation Agreements and Property Rights17:12 Prenups and Postnups: Protecting Your Assets19:36 Final Thoughts and Holiday WishesLearn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

Summary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From financial independence to emotional support, these tips aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of what to expect and how to handle various situations during a divorce.Key Points:Your Kids Will Be OkayEmphasize the importance of shielding children from conflict.Tips on co-parenting and maintaining a healthy relationship with your children.Love Your Kids More Than You Hate Your ExAvoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of your children.Focus on your children's well-being rather than on past grievances.There's Always a Way to Make It Work FinanciallyDiscuss strategies for financial independence.Importance of understanding your financial situation and planning accordingly.Don't Use Your Attorney for Emotional SupportSeek professional counseling for emotional needs.Focus on using your attorney for legal advice and strategy.Things Might Get Worse Before They Get BetterPrepare for potential escalation of conflict during the process.Stay focused on long-term outcomes and personal growth.Focus on Yourself and Set BoundariesPrioritize self-care and establish clear boundaries with your ex.Use tools like Our Family Wizard for communication.Unfriend or Block Your Ex on Social MediaAvoid the temptation to stalk or engage with your ex online.Protect your mental health by limiting exposure to potentially upsetting content.Treat Communications as Though They Will Be Read in CourtAlways maintain a respectful and factual tone in written communications.Understand that any communication could be used as evidence.Surround Yourself with Supportive PeopleLean on friends, family, or support groups for emotional support.Avoid people who encourage negative or aggressive behavior.Don't Rush into Dating After DivorceTake time to heal and reflect on your past relationship.Ensure you are emotionally ready before starting a new relationship.Resources Mentioned:Our Family Wizard and other co-parenting tools.Professional counselors and therapists.Support groups and online communities for divorced individuals.Call to Action:Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more tips and insights.Reach out to a professional counselor for emotional support.Consult with an attorney to understand your legal rights and options.Conclusion: Divorce can be a challenging and emotional journey, but by following these ten tips, you can navigate it more effectively. Focus on your well-being, seek appropriate support, and take one step at a time to ensure a better future for yourself and your children.

Summary: In this insightful episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law discuss essential tips and advice for anyone preparing to go to court. Drawing from their extensive experience, they provide practical do’s and don’ts to help listeners present themselves effectively and navigate the courtroom with confidence. The episode covers everything from appropriate attire and punctuality to emotional control and the importance of honesty.Key Points:Introduction and Overview (00:00:00)Hosts introduce themselves and the topic of the episode.Elizabeth and Sarah share their extensive courtroom experiences.Courtroom Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts (00:01:18)Importance of dressing appropriately for court.Avoiding casual attire such as running shorts, flip-flops, and tank tops.Respect and Behavior in Court (00:02:12)Respecting the judge and courtroom officials.Do not interrupt the judge or make inappropriate gestures.Punctuality is Key (00:06:00)Always arrive on time for court hearings.Plan your route and parking in advance to ensure timely arrival.Emotional Control (00:05:19)Importance of maintaining composure and controlling emotions in court.Avoid eye-rolling, sighing, and other negative expressions.Preparation and Honesty (00:12:12)Being prepared with all necessary documents well in advance.Always be honest with your attorney and in court to avoid damaging your case.Courtroom Procedures and Expectations (00:14:53)Understanding the flow of a court case and what to expect.The significance of hearing prep meetings and following your attorney’s guidance.Children in Court (00:10:41)Avoid bringing children to court unless absolutely necessary.Impact of childcare challenges for low-income families attending court.Community and Judicial Support (00:16:14)Appreciation for the judicial community and legal professionals.The importance of respecting the legal process and the roles of everyone involved.Conclusion and Final Thoughts (00:17:08)Encouragement to follow the discussed tips for a smoother court experience.Mention of New Direction Family Law's TikTok account for more insights.Resources Mentioned:New Direction Family Law TikTok account for additional tips and insights.Call to Action:Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more helpful content.Reach out to your attorney with any questions or for further guidance on preparing for court.

Summary: In this special Pride Month episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux discuss the intricacies of family law as it pertains to same-sex relationships. The episode delves into the legal challenges and considerations for LGBTQ+ couples, particularly in North Carolina. Topics include custody issues, child support, surrogacy, adoption, and the recent Court of Appeals case affecting same-sex couples. The hosts emphasize the importance of legal guidance and community support for LGBTQ+ families.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:49 Busy Times in Family Law01:16 Pride Month and Family Law01:56 Legal Nuances of Same-Sex Marriage03:22 Common Law Marriage Explained04:34 Recent Court Case on Same-Sex Custody11:55 Surrogacy and Adoption Considerations13:33 Community Support and Resources15:39 Conclusion and Call to ActionKey Points:Introduction to Pride Month Overview of the significance of Pride Month.Brief discussion on the recent uptick in divorce and separation cases.Legal Landscape for Same-Sex Couples Examination of the laws applying to same-sex marriages in North Carolina.Challenges faced by same-sex couples regarding asset division, spousal support, and custody.Recent Court of Appeals Case Analysis of a recent case involving custody and child support for a non-biological parent in a same-sex relationship.Discussion on the legal interpretation of “mother” and “father” in child support statutes.Common Law Marriage and Custody Explanation of common law marriage and its non-recognition in North Carolina.Legal nuances in custody and child support for same-sex couples.Adoption and Surrogacy Considerations (00:12:30)Importance of legal contracts in adoption and surrogacy.Steps involved in ensuring parental rights and responsibilities are protected.Community Support and Resources Highlighting local resources and support systems for LGBTQ+ families.Encouragement to engage with local community centers and legal professionals.Advocacy and Legal Reform Call to action for legal reforms to ensure equality and fairness for all families.Importance of voting and reaching out to legislative representatives.Resources Mentioned:Local LGBTQIA+ community centers and support groups.Legal professionals specializing in family law for same-sex couples.Mental health professionals with a focus on LGBTQ+ issues.Call to Action:Get involved in local advocacy for legal reforms.Reach out to community resources for support and guidance.Contact legal professionals for advice on family law matters.