Extraordinarily Normal

Part of the problem when it comes to self care is that you are too scattered and when you have some time to yourself your brain is still going a million miles an hour and then you never actually get to rest, relax and recharge because you spent the whole time thinking about what you could do for self care and then your time was over. But don't worry! I’m actually going to walk you through how to create your own self care menu. JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

It sounds simple, but here are some practical (and not so obvious) tips to really start enjoying your life more! JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

Most of the time the things we say that we’re frustrated about and are picking fights about isn’t even the real issue. It’s usually something else that we didn’t deal with, that then piles up and then we snap over the most ridiculous things which had nothing to do with what we were actually frustrated or upset about in the first place. When you find yourself in these moments, where one frustration leads to another, and to another: When you have big emotions that feel like they’re taking over and you’re spinning out of control - remind yourself that you have a choice. JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

Let’s talk about overwhelm. I’m choosing this is because it’s something I have been struggling with this week. And what I have found is that if I’m struggling with something in my personal life chances are there’s a lot of other people who are struggling with this too. I keep it real, I keep it authentic and I’m never going to come on here and pretend like I have my life all together because I don’t. BUT I have learned how to manage stress, overwhelm, and big emotions so they don’t take over my life. The first thing and I think this can be the hardest sometimes is realizing that overwhelm is a choice... If I'm stepping on your toes by saying that then this is exactly what you need to hear. JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

Today we are going to travel back in time and revisit some things from childhood. When we bring awareness to our past we can heal, and then thrive in our future. I’m gonna be honest with you guys, I’ve been sitting on this episode for a few weeks now, constantly making tweaks to my notes and I kept postponing it because it made me nervous to record it. So I want us to take a deep breath together and let's dive in! JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

I think we’ve all heard the Tim McGraw song, Live like you dying. No one is guaranteed tomorrow. Every single day is a gift, but do we actually live that way? When we take tomorrow for granted we tend to fight against the current blessings that we have, but when we live like today is a gift, we will fight FOR our current blessings. So this week I want you to evaluate some things in your life, and if there’s something that you feel like you would regret doing or regret not doing, make a note of that and start to change. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

You might not be aware of how incredibly damaging your current thought life is. I want you to think about something…. Your self talk is a reflection of who you want to become in the future! So what are you saying about yourself?? What is the conversation like when no one is around? What thoughts are flooding your head?? Let’s redirect the negative thoughts. Let’s flip the script and let’s have our self talk reflect a future of joy, peace, and abundance. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

The same water that softens a potato hardens the egg... but what if there is a third option? When we have challenges and hardships we want to take those lessons that we’re learning and we want to take it a step farther, so we can influence those around us for good. So we can help bring others UP with our positivity and not drag them down with our negativity. Are you choosing to see the bad, and focus on the negative. Or are you choosing to grow, are you choosing to see the positive. Are you choosing to look for the good that’s there. Let's find out which one you might be... FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

You can’t go back and change the past BUT You can change what happens next. We are called to take every thought captive and combat the lies we were telling ourselves with truth and then actually believe the truth! Let’s see what that looks like in a real life situation and combat real life toxic thoughts with whats true. Mistakes will happen, but it's up to us to learn from them. Remember friend, the goal is growth not perfection! FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

Maybe you’re like me and you’re obsessed with personal growth , you love it, you listen to all the podcasts, you’re reading all the books but here’s the thing, when the rubber meets the road, when the situations aren’t going the way you wanted to, how you handle those difficult situations is everything. That shows the true inner work that you're doing. But I would venture to guess that most of the time there is some kind of hiccup that comes along the way. And we have a choice to pivot. You can have all of these “aha” moments when you’re reading a book and you can be like “oh that is so good” or you listen to a podcast and you’re like “oh wow that was amazing” but if you’re not doing the inner work and you aren’t applying those things that you are learning then you aren’t truly doing the personal growth you’re just consuming, and being what we like to a personal growth junkie, but nothing is changing. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

You are in for a treat today because I’m sharing with you a personal story, and this one is a little bit different because I’m sharing about a time when I didn’t have the best attitude, or response to a situation BUT I did learn from it, and the important thing. A few week ago in episode 11 I shared a story from our trip to Gatlinburg, and how I made a choice to pivot my attitude and not let it ruin the rest of my night or the rest of my trip. But with the story I'm going to share today it took me a little longer. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you

Happy New Years!! This episode is not going to be your typical new year crush all the goals episode (check out episode 8 + 9 for that!). On the days when you need someone to speak life over you because you just can’t seem to do it yourself. Let me be that person for you! We all need someone in our corner who will cheer us on, who will encourage us and who will see the very best in us when we can’t see it ourselves. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

Today I wanted to share with you a personal story so that you can see some practical application for a lot of the mindset topics that we’ve been talking about for the past few months. We have  choice in our thoughts. You have the ability to stop a negative thought from control your mind and ruining you day. Today's episode is a story time of when I had a choice to make in my thoughts and how a bad day became a great memory. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

In the most wonderful time of the year it is easy to become the most stressful time of the year. Whether is because of finances, family or somewhere in between the holiday season and stress seem to go hand in hand. But they don’t have to! I have come up with some tips and steps to help relieve some of the stress and enjoy this season. FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

I want to help you feel victorious in this area instead of defeated. Because how many times does a new year along and you think magically it's going to change all of your habits. News flash it doesn’t. But with reflection and intentionality  you can start to see progress, you can make those changes that you want and actually reach those goals. I have created a Step by Step guide, that walks you through my process of goal setting, what questions I ask, and how I do it, so that you can set your own goals and actually achieve them! FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING DOWNLOAD HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

We've done the reflection in Part 1, now it's time to set those goals! Let's set the tone for the new year BEFORE it starts. I'm going to help you determine how you want your next 6 months to look and how to actively work towards that every single day. I have created a step by step guide, that walks you through my process of goal setting, what questions I ask and how I do it, so that you can set your own goals and actually achieve them! So go download your FREE copy, grab a pen and let's set some goals! FREE STEP-BY-STEP GOAL SETTING GUIDE HERE: http://extraordinarilynormal.com/ JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

Are you distracting yourself from your most important work?  Last week we talked about how busy is not a badge of honor. This week we are talking about how busy can be a distraction for what we really need to be focusing on. When we are busy, we can get distracted from truly living. So why are you doing this? What are you running from your own thoughts? This root problem will not disappear if you don't face it. Let's get uncomfy, as we get comfortable being quiet. JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

"I'm busy"  "I'm good, just busy" "Can't! Too busy!" If you're like me you've probably said these phrases more often than not. Being busy has become an acceptable response to simple questions or tasks. Yet, with it comes stress and overwhelm. The reality is, YOU are in control of your calendar, and the things that are on there you have allowed in your life. So today let's talk about being "busy" and why we aren't going to say it anymore. JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/extraordinarilynormalpodcast/ CONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @MEGAN_MILAKOVIC https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week I give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

Our thoughts say a lot about us. Sometimes we have to ask ourselves the hard questions when our instant thought isn't something we'd say out loud. Maybe it's judging another mom or maybe it's insecurity in your own motherhood. No matter the case, today we are learning how to use these knee-jerk reactions to strengthen our beliefs about our own personal motherhood and self evaluate what our thoughts show us about ourselves. Connect with me on Instagram! @Megan_Milakovic https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every week i give away a free cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!

If you're like most moms, you probably haven't set an alarm in years because your kids are your alarm. Your mornings are chaos and you can't fathom getting up early in the mornings. In some seasons we need short and simple. Mama, I've been there! Join me and learn my 3 step morning routine for even the busiest of mamas! Mentioned in this episode: The Perfect Day Formula by Craig Ballantyne https://www.amazon.com/The-Perfect-Day-Formula-audiobook/dp/B06Y2DWSQP/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2K50MS98E6DTX&dchild=1&keywords=the+perfect+day+formula&qid=1604286616&sprefix=the+perfect+day%2Caps%2C509&sr=8-1 Connect with me on Instagram!  @Megan_Milakovic https://www.instagram.com/megan_milakovic/ Every Monday I give away a cup of coffee to one lucky mama who shares my new episode in their stories and tags me! It could be you!