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Myths, Mating, & Mindset: Redesigning Relationships From the Inside Out

Author: Devon Evans, Relationship Coach

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Blending a mixture of erotic short stories, expert advice, and private conversations with real people, Devon encourages you to think outside the box and design your relationships from the ground up. For private coaching, visit devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
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Let's talk about erotic blocks, why sexual fantasies are healthy, and the benefits of porn. Tasha and I continue our conversation of summarizing the key takeaways from Esther Perel's Sessions Live 2019 on 'In Search of Eros: A multidisciplinary approach to love, lust, and commitment'. To find a list of Esther's 10 Sexual Conversation Starters, go to my website at devonevans.com. We also cover: - how to get over heartbreak & what questions to ask yourself to squeeze as much growth out of a breakup as you can - being naked versus being nude - how to open up a dialogue with yourself or your partner about what you like erotically & why sexual fantasies are healthy - what are the upsides to porn, why is it so appealing to men in particular, and how can we be responsible in our consumption of it CO-HOSTS: Devon Evans, Relationship Coach + Sex Coach in Training and Tasha Jackson, MA, MFT, Psychotherapist and Author of Master Dater. Find us at devonevans.com and tashajackson.com.
Looking for more eroticism, vitality, and aliveness? Today we take a deep dive into lust and living orgasmicly by summarizing the key takeaways from Esther Perel's Sessions Live 2019 on 'In Search of Eros: A multidisciplinary approach to love, lust, and commitment'. We talk about: - what living with erotic intelligence means - the complexities of porn, including validating our sexual interests & as a tool for self-exploration - recovering from trauma and integrating pleasure - the burden men usually face as the sexual director - where/how do we begin to learn about sensual pleasure   CO-HOSTS: Devon Evans, Relationship Coach + Sex Coach in Training and Tasha Jackson, MA, MFT, Psychotherapist and Author of Master Dater. Find us at www.devonevans.com and www.tashajackson.com.
Today is the final Mental & Emotional Release work that I completed with Tamara Smith, Master Neuro-Linguistics Programming Practitioner who specializes in trauma and grief coaching. In order to keep it short, I'm only sharing 2 of the 5 major emotions I released during this personal coaching session: sadness and anger, among the others being fear, guilt, and worry. Find Tamara at www.thegrievingmind.com.
Little did I know going into this coaching session how much my anger and unworthiness from my childhood was affecting my ability to accept prosperity. During my private session with Tamara Smith, Master NLP Practitioner, who specializes in grief and trauma, you get to hear how these limiting beliefs surfaced as a drinking problem in my 20s and had me in AA before I even turned the legal drinking age, how it affected my marriage in a damaging way, and why I'm so adamant to not pass on my shortcomings for my child's sake. Watch the video by going to my YouTube channel at devonevans.com. Find out more about Tamara Smith and the Neuro-Linguistics Programming & Mental and Emotional Release sessions she offers clients at thegrievingmind.com
If you could change one area of your life which would make an immediate improvement on all other areas of your life, what area would that be? What is one self-sabotaging behavior that is preventing you from flourishing in love & relationships? Today, I'm talking with Master NLP Practioner, Tamara Smith, about Neuro-Linguistics Programming and Mental and Emotional Release therapy, which is a neuro-scientific approach that allows people to release their emotional baggage and create major breakthroughs to their subconscious mind without going to years of therapy.
Here are 50 date ideas that will get you outside your comfort zone and off the couch. If you want to challenge yourself to do more with your romantic life and have some interactive adventures while doing it, you're going to want to hear this list! Also, the name of the game I mention in the episode is actually called Couplicious Sex Game (find it on Amazon here).  
Today's short erotic story is about a sci-fi writer who gets flown out for an event in Japan, and meets a sexy patron of erotica novels on his departing flight. To listen to the full episode for just $1 per episode, go to www.patreon.com/devonevans.
In today’s erotic short story, Brian, a geeky nerd who doesn’t have an active social life, finds a sexy, digital reality game, and meets a woman named Jane who is drop dead gorgeous. In the game, they wind up having sex - lots of it. In fact, it’s the hottest fiery sex Brian has ever had. Over a period of months, he finds himself falling in love with Jane. One day, they decide to talk outside of the game so they exchange numbers and plan a time to talk. He finds himself enthralled by the idea of what they could do in real life if their digital sex is this hot. Listen to the full episode at www.patreon.com/devonevans.
On today's show, my partner and I are discussing at least 5 lessons we've learned so far in opening our relationship after our sexy trip to Desire Resorts Riviera Maya (you can listen to our experience there on Episode 32). We talk about privacy vs secrecy, autonomy & freedom, regulating our emotions, and differentiation from our partners. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. Become a Patreon member for just $2 per month at patreon.com/devonevans, allowing you access to 2 erotic short stories per month at $1 per episode!
Listen to this erotic love story about a man named Luke who reflects back on a distant memory of falling in love with a young woman at a pivotal time of growth and change in their lives. For access to the full episode, become a Patreon member for just $2 per month at patreon.com/devonevans, allowing you 2 stories per month at $1 per episode. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com.
Here are 10 ways you can revive your erotic spark in your current relationship. My partner, Aaron, and I each give 5 ways that you can revitalize the sexy energy for yourself and your beloved. Depending on if you're more vanilla or kinky, monogamous or not, you might find some inspiration in these playful ideas. Take my super short survey here so I can learn more about you as my audience - how kinky & monogamous are you? https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/JB3TRTH. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
In today's erotic short story, Daniel, a 40-something year old man travels to London in the aftermath of his divorce to experience what it would be like to be a woman's sex slave, and he finds a bargain when Mistress Anna shares him with her colleagues for the night. Starting next month on September 4th, I will be releasing my erotic stories for Patreon members only. But don't worry! Membership starts at just $2 per month - so only $1 per episode! With that small contribution, you'll have access to my new stories every other week. If you appreciate the content that I'm putting out to enhance your erotic mind (and maybe your lover's), then please go to Patreon.com/devonevans and contribute starting with just $2/month. Thanks, lovers!  For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. 
Listen to this private conversation with a newly polyamorous couple about how they transitioned from traditional monogamy into polyamory, and what they've learned about this relationship style and love in general. We talk about the desire to cheat, how to establish boundaries, the uncertainty of relationship longevity, the importance of honesty, and the partner possessiveness a lot of us struggle with. They also give some tips for meeting and connecting with other like-minded individuals who are open to exploring polyamory and open relationships. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.  
Today’s episode of Myths, Mating, & Mindset is one of our sexy short stories. This time, it’s about a dancer on a cruise ship named Kim who falls for her boss, and winds up feeling the freedom of surrender. I would absolutely LOVE it if you would write me a review on iTunes to show some love and support for the show. Your enthusiasm for my work means a lot to me, and keeping the show alive with shares, likes, and reviews is what keeps my wheels turning! Thank you so much and enjoy the episode. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
Want to stop having painful sex, both anal and vaginal, and even use orgasms as pain relievers? Former vagina coach, Dr. Monika Stefanowicz, helps women and men who experience pelvic pain reclaim their sex lives. She teaches her patients how to improve bladder control (postpartum or otherwise), how to have tighter sex, and how to compassionately view ourselves in relation to chronic pain to enjoy sexual pleasure again. Dr. Monika is not your typical doctor who can often seem unapproachable and sterilized. Instead, she makes talking about sexual pain fun and lighthearted, adding in humor to the conversations about pee, poop, and sex! Visit her at liftlaughkegel.com. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
Today’s episode of Myths, Mating, and Mindset is an erotic short story about a woman named Laney who has always fantasized about having a room full of sexy men that she gets to use for her pleasure, making them wait in line to please her. And she finally gets her wish. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
BDSM, Kink, and Fetishes are the topics I have the pleasure of exploring on today’s episode of Myths, Mating, & Mindset with Sex Therapist, Dr. Melvin Phillips. We unpack some common misconceptions about the psychology of kink, the roles of dominance and submission, how pleasure and pain relate, and how to play safely and consensually. Dr. Phillips offers advice and guidance on how to introduce BDSM and kink into your relationships and where to find like-minded people near you. Visit Dr. Phillips at www.drleephillips.com. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
Let’s talk opening up relationships! Today's podcast is about our sexy vacation to Desire Resort & Spa Riviera Maya. We're talking about how to navigate the conversation of opening up your relationship, how to communicate your wants & wishes inside and outside the bedroom, your wandering desire for others, and how to invite another couple/single to play with you while staying at a sexy resort like Desire. For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
This is part 2 of our conversation on masculinity where we get real about the challenges men face with strict gender conformity and how it ties in with relationships. Today we’re focusing on sex - the myths, the misconceptions, and the reflections. We unpack some of the biases and challenges that men face in the bedroom. Here are a few of the ideas we discuss: Boys’ first experiences with porn and sexual excitement - who is teaching boys about sexual education? Exploring Erectile Dysfunction as a manifestation of a vulnerable internal state of mind: anxiety, self-esteem, body-image, depression, performance anxiety, etc. What are some ways that men would prefer to be treated in relationships? Keeping your partner current on what you want from the relationship sexually and emotionally The importance of sexual communication within relationships and during the heat of the moment The myth that men are “easy” and constantly “ready to go” sexually The patriarchal policing of men by using the term “gay” for a man who doesn’t follow the hetero-normative male code Sexual fluidity is not the same thing as sexual orientation, and the stereotypes of men who are more sexual fluid with the same sex For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
Today, I’m sitting down with a room full of diverse men to talk about the challenges of masculinity. The reason I wanted to facilitate this discussion is to bring to light some of the points and perspectives on what it means to be a man in modern day, told by men. Everyone, regardless of how they present or identify, should have a vested interest in loosening the tight grip of patriarchal masculinity because it not only hurts women and LGBTQ people, but it hurts men, too. Here are a few of the ideas we discuss: The overwhelming statistics of violence by men, not just to others, but to themselves (suicide), and the gaping void of close friends they can turn to in crisis within individualistic societies The myth of the “real man”... who is this mythical man?! The lack of vulnerability men are “allowed” to show, especially when it affects their physical and emotional wellbeing When the tough guise of manliness serves a purpose as an adaptive mechanism (combat zones, police force, etc) versus when it’s maladaptive (in family life, relationships, with our children, etc) The lack of healthy leadership for boys as they transition into adulthood, that directly impacts their ability to be good, present fathers and learn how to enjoy their sexuality in a healthy way The socialization of men into being autonomous and not asking for help, even when situations are dire For relationship or life coaching, you can book a private session with me at devonevans.com. You can support the Myths, Mating, & Mindset podcast at patreon.com/devonevans.
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Hildas Shoulder

This is a very good topic.Its worse in Africa where dating people with physical disabilities was almost taboo.Things are changing slowly.Good job.

Feb 14th
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