Waiting isn’t passive. It’s clearing space, setting things right, building peace one choice at a time. Oftentimes, it’s by virtue of being exactly who we’ve been created to be that we shape the landscape, create “home” in the wilderness, and make room for joy, peace, hope, and love to show up in their own time.
What are you waiting for? Justice, healing, peace, belonging? Waiting in the dark can feel like nothing is happening or ever could, but it’s also where longing and hope often exist together; where everything begins.
Delayed grief is far more common than we talk about—and yet nearly invisible when you’re in the middle of it. In this deeply moving conversation, Ian sits down with Jacqueline Werket— retired board-certified adult nurse practitioner, grief recovery specialist, co-author of The Book on Love, and author of the forthcoming memoir A Grief Postponed. Jackie shares her own story of losing her young son, the decade she spent unknowingly carrying unprocessed grief, and the moment everything finally surfaced. Together, Ian and Jackie explore what delayed grief is, why it happens, how our bodies hold onto loss, and the signs that unresolved grief may be shaping our lives far more than we realize. Jackie also offers practical steps for healing, from therapy and professionally-led grief groups to journaling, ritual, and honest self-expression, and reminds us that grief work is never something we’re meant to do alone. This tender, courageous conversation (an extension of Fabric's "Beyond Platitudes" series about grief) invites listeners to look at their own stories with compassion, curiosity, and hope. Whether your grief is fresh or years old, you are not alone— and it is never too late to begin healing. Learn more about Jacqueline Werket: Website: https://jacquelinewerket.com/ A Grief Postponed (releasing January 2026) To learn more about Fabric, please visit FabricMpls.com or find us on most social media platforms at @FabricMpls You can support Fabric's ministry directly by donating at FabricMpls.com/give
Real care isn’t sentimental; it’s radical. It grows our networks and keeps us healthy enough to show up for one another. To close the series, Carley Kammerer from Wildflyer Coffee helps us practice widening the circle and keeping ourselves healthy so that care can ripple outward into our world.
Healing takes time, shared rituals, and support. In this episode, you'll hear Chris Lillehei and Lydia Gajdel talk about what it looks like to bring spirituality into focus in care situations.
Have you ever noticed that it’s often easier to offer care than to accept it? This episode encourages us to remember to set and communicate our boundaries and honor our own needs, learning that letting others care for us isn’t weakness, but a vital part of community and love.
When someone is hurting, our words often fall short. Instead of trying to fix things, we can listen deeply. This episode explores how simple presence and compassionate attention can mean more than any explanation ever could.
In this episode, Ian McConnell and Jay Bakker engage in a thought-provoking conversation about the challenges and opportunities within modern Christianity. They explore themes of grace, community, and the importance of dialogue in bridging divides. Jay shares his personal journey and insights on how grace has shaped his life and ministry, while Ian reflects on the role of the church in today's world. CHAPTERS: 00:00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:00:18 Jay's Personal Journey 00:00:43 The Role of Grace in Christianity 00:01:43 Community and Belonging 00:01:59 Conclusion and Reflections LINKS: Jay Bakker | Facebook and Instagram Revolution Church | Facebook and Instagram Fabric - Mpls ("church, for the rest of us") | Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok Ian McConnell | Instagram and TikTok Paul Tillich's "You Are Accepted" sermon, read by Peter Rollins on the Revolution Podcast SUPPORT: To support the mission and ministry of Fabric - Mpls, please visit their giving website. To learn more about Fabric, or to get further connected, please visit FabricMpls.com.
When words fall short, care can still hold. This series invites us to face grief honestly, and practice the kind of care that goes deeper than clichés. Using our CareIQ toolkit, we’ll learn how to show up with empathy, courage, and love that truly connects.
The first followers of Jesus were accused of “turning the world upside down”— and they kind of were. Telling the truth, crossing lines, breaking illusions, loving foolishly. What if being similarly “untamed” is what our world needs from us, too?
People wanted a superhero God, but Jesus told baffling little stories instead: “The kingdom of God is like…” Over and over, he shattered their expectations— sometimes even their hopes. What if Jesus was dangerous to how we pictured God, and even how we pictured him?
Jesus turned “business as usual” into a punchline. In the vision he cast for the world as it could be, the last are first, the overlooked get the spotlight, and everybody gets more than they deserve. Could “normal” be the very thing holding us back?
Everywhere people drew lines, Jesus crossed them. He touched the untouchable, talked with outsiders, and made holiness look suspiciously human. What if love is most alive on the other side of our divisions?
Jesus didn’t play nice with the powerful; he told the truth that exposed injustice and flipped hierarchies upside down. His words were so bold, people tried to run him out of town. What might that kind of dangerous honesty unravel in our world today?
Fabric "Inspiring Experience Curator" and Minneapolis singer-songwriter Chris Tripolino shared some of the music lovingly crafted for our Fabric gatherings and sat down with Ian McConnell to talk more about himself and the art he creates. learn more about Chris at ChrisTripolino.com DEEPER is an ongoing artist series hosted by Fabric, featuring artists whose art engages the holistic spiritual, personal, and communal threads of life. Learn more at FabricMpls.com/deeper or suggest an artist on our contact page!
Join us in this episode of "Flourishing Forward" as we explore the inspiring journey of Wildflyer Coffee, a social enterprise dedicated to empowering youth who have experienced homelessness. You might remember them from our partnership during Fabric's annual Chili Cook-off last year! Discover how Carley Kammerer and her team are creating opportunities for growth and dignity through employment, breaking the cycle of homelessness, and fostering a sense of community. Don't miss this heartwarming conversation about innovation, resilience, and the power of coffee to change lives. Links: Wildflyer Coffee "Make the Switch" to a Jolt subscription here Learn more about Fabric here Invest in "Church, for the rest of us" by making a financial gift today! #FlourishingForward #WildflyerCoffee #YouthEmpowerment #FabricMpls #ChurchForTheRestOfUs #community #support #podcast #reconstructingfaith #deconstructingchristianity #progressivechristianity
A vision for human flourishing is all fine and good, but how do we get there? We’re going to spend some time talking about “social innovation” as we imagine participating in what we often call “God’s big vision of love”-- what Jesus more often called the “Kingdom of God.” What is social innovation, and how might we apply those ideas to our own relationships, workplaces, neighborhoods, and families?
If we’re going to talk about flourishing, it only makes sense that we’d talk to our partners from Flourish Placemaking Collective, who owns the Center of Belonging (where Fabric’s offices are located!). Come be a part of the conversation with Tabitha Montgomery and Tim Anderson, whose vision for neighborhood flourishing is worth participating in! You can follow their work on Instagram or on their website. ********** To learn more about Fabric, check out our website, or you can find us on Instagram, Facebook, and sometimes even TikTok! Fabric is entirely sustained by community support. If you'd like to invest in Fabric, visit our giving page to find ways to invest in "church, for the rest of us."
Spirituality isn’t about mastering the right beliefs or achieving moral perfection. It’s about practicing love, justice, and humility in real time— over and over again. As we close this conversation, we’ll reflect on how imperfect practice can make us the kind of people this world needs.
In a divided world, too many of us avoid difficult conversations out of fear of “getting it wrong.” But growth happens in the tension. This episode explores how to show up for the hard conversations: with curiosity, courage, and compassion.