Family Brand: Take Back Your Family

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and I couldn’t be more excited to introduce you to my guest, Angus Nelson. Angus is an executive coach who helps entrepreneurs and high achievers break through their blockers and become their best selves. In today’s episode, we dive into why confidence isn’t the secret to success—and why the journey to real self-belief starts with action, not achievements. If you’ve ever felt stuck, doubted yourself, or let fear hold you back, this conversation is for you. Angus shares why many of us misunderstand confidence, treating it as something we need before taking action. He flips this idea on its head, explaining that confidence is always a result of doing, not a prerequisite. With humor and deep insight, Angus discusses how fear of failure and even fear of success are blockers that can paralyze us. By rethinking our stories and beliefs, we can take the first step toward growth—without waiting to feel “ready.” We also explore how these concepts apply to family life and relationships. Angus opens up about his own journey of personal transformation, including lessons from his role as a parent and his career as an entrepreneur. His vulnerability and wisdom remind us that building resilience, courage, and self-permission can transform not just our professional lives but our family dynamics as well. Angus also shares an incredible story of moving his family to Portugal, embracing resistance, and finding courage through big life changes. His takeaway? Resistance isn’t a sign to quit; it’s an opportunity to grow stronger and prove to yourself what you’re capable of. Lastly, Angus gives us a sneak peek into his upcoming book, Confidence Comes Later. He reveals why chasing confidence keeps us stuck and how shifting our mindset can unlock incredible potential. It’s a must-read for anyone ready to shatter limiting beliefs and step into the life they were meant to live.   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand   Links For This Episode: Book: https://www.angusnelson.com/book Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angusnelson   Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Meet Angus Nelson: Executive Coach and Author 2:00 – Why Confidence Isn’t What You Think It Is 5:00 – Breaking Down the Biggest Blockers: Fear of Failure and Success 10:00 – Why Resistance Is an Opportunity for Growth 15:00 – Redefining Confidence Through Action 20:00 – Angus’ Personal Transformation and Lessons from Family Life 27:00 – Moving to Portugal: The Courage to Follow Your Dreams 31:00 – How to Connect with Angus and Learn More About His Work    

Hey Family Brand! It’s Chris and Melissa here, and today we’re talking about something that has brought clarity and connection to our family: our one family “rule.” Now, we’re not talking about a strict rule you have to follow, but more like a guiding principle—something simple that keeps us grounded, connected, and focused on what matters most. In this episode, we’ll walk you through how we discovered ours, why it’s been so impactful, and how you can find your own one family rule. We started this concept through our work with The Psblty Co, where we help businesses simplify their growth by focusing on one core principle. That got us thinking: Why not apply the same idea to our family? So, we gathered our kids, reflected on our family’s mission, vision, and values, and asked, “If we could only remember one thing, what would make the biggest impact?” The answer for us was clear: Elevate and Inspire. These three words capture how we want to treat each other and show up as a family. They remind us to lift each other up, speak possibility into each other’s lives, and strive for connection. Since adopting this rule, it’s become a touchstone for all of us. Even the kids use it as a gentle check-in, asking, “Was that elevate and inspire?” It’s been a game-changer for how we approach our relationships at home. If you’re wondering how to create your own one family rule, we recommend starting with your existing family mission or values. Is there a phrase or principle that stands out as the cornerstone? If you don’t have a mission or values yet, that’s okay! Just ask yourself: How do we want to treat each other? What’s most important in how we show up as a family? Keep it simple—five words or less—and make it memorable. The beauty of this concept is its simplicity. In the busyness of life, it’s easy to forget the grand mission statements or big goals. But a short, actionable rule is something you can come back to daily. It’s a lens for making decisions, a reminder to align your actions with your values, and a foundation for building strong, lasting relationships. If you’re inspired to find your family’s one rule, let us know! We’d love to hear what you come up with and how it transforms your family dynamic. LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Reflecting on 20 years of marriage and family life 2:00 – What is the “one rule” concept? 4:00 – How we discovered our one rule: Elevate and Inspire 7:00 – Why simplicity matters in creating family values 10:00 – Steps to finding your family’s guiding principle 13:00 – How one rule can transform your family culture We hope this episode inspires you to explore what matters most to your family. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about intention. Let us know your one family rule, and let’s continue growing together as families!  

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and this week, we’re diving into a topic that’s on everyone’s mind as we head into a new year: getting organized! My guest, Shawn Lemon of The Digital Organizer, is here to share practical strategies to help families streamline their digital lives and create more peace at home. If your goal for 2025 is to finally tackle that messy inbox, set up a family calendar, or organize your files, Shawn has the tools and mindset shifts you need to make it happen. Shawn shares how his journey into digital organization began with a tech-savvy dad who made him read manuals and fix the family computer. This early experience sparked a lifelong passion for simplifying tech and teaching others to master their digital tools. Over the past 11 years, Shawn has helped families and businesses alike transform their chaotic digital setups into systems that work seamlessly. One of the biggest challenges families face, Shawn explains, is managing multiple platforms and tools. From calendars to file storage, he emphasizes the importance of choosing one shared system that everyone can access easily. Whether it’s Google Drive or iCloud, the key is finding what works best for your family and committing to it. Shawn’s advice? Start small and keep it simple—it’s about progress, not perfection. Shawn also highlights the mental side of organization. Often, we get overwhelmed by the sheer amount of “stuff” and don’t know where to start. He encourages families to focus on small wins, like unsubscribing from unnecessary emails or consolidating files into one location. These simple steps build momentum and help you stay motivated as you tackle bigger projects. Lastly, we discuss the life skills that come with digital organization, especially for kids. Shawn shares how setting up shared calendars or folders can teach responsibility, time management, and teamwork. These lessons go beyond the digital realm, preparing kids for success in school, work, and life. If you’re ready to take control of your digital life, Shawn’s Digital Organization Guide is a must-have resource. Head over to: thedigitalorganizer.com/lp/familybrand to download it and start your journey toward a more organized 2025! LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: https://thedigitalorganizer.com/lp/familybrand Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Meet Shawn Lemon: The Digital Organizer 3:00 – Why digital organization starts with mindset 7:30 – Choosing a shared calendar platform for your family 12:00 – Streamlining file storage across devices 17:00 – Tips for tackling email clutter and subscriptions 23:00 – Teaching kids the life skills of organization 28:00 – Final thoughts: Small wins lead to big progress    

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa and Chris here, and we’re so excited to share one of our favorite annual traditions: our “Best Year Yet” family framework. Whether you’re looking for a fun and meaningful way to close out the year or want to start the new year with intention, this episode is packed with ideas to help your family reflect, connect, and dream big for 2024. And the best part? It’s all free! Head over to familybrand.com/best to download everything you need to get started. We created this framework to replace the rushed, chaotic energy we often felt during the holidays with something more meaningful and intentional. Instead of just showing up to New Year’s Eve parties and coasting into January, we wanted to reflect on the past year, celebrate our wins, and create a vision for the year ahead. Over time, this tradition has become one of the most impactful things we do as a family. This framework includes three parts: reflecting on the past year, celebrating New Year’s Eve with a fun family tradition, and setting goals for the year ahead. It’s designed to include everyone, from young kids to teens, making it a unique way for families to grow together. Chris and I love how it allows us to pause, have meaningful conversations, and learn new things about our kids and each other. One of the most exciting aspects is how much fun families have reported having with the New Year’s Eve activities. From award ceremonies to family games, this tradition has become a favorite for many of you. And we’ve seen the impact it’s had—bringing families closer, encouraging intentional growth, and helping everyone feel more connected and supported as they step into a new year. Lastly, we shared how businesses often use end-of-year reflections and strategic planning to set up for success. We’ve taken some of these principles and applied them to family life, creating an approach that’s accessible, practical, and, most importantly, fun for the whole family. Let’s make this your best year yet as a family! We’d love to see how you use the framework—tag us in your photos and stories, and let’s inspire each other to make 2024 amazing. Happy New Year!   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: http://familybrand.com/best   Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! 2:00 – Why we created the “Best Year Yet” framework 5:00 – Reflecting on the past year: Finding the gold in 2024 7:30 – Making New Year’s Eve meaningful and fun as a family 10:00 – Setting intentional goals for the year ahead 11:30 – How this framework has impacted our family and others 12:30 – Where to download your free kit: familybrand.com/best    

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, joined by Chris, and today we’re celebrating a huge milestone: four years of the Family Brand Podcast! We can hardly believe it ourselves, and we couldn’t have done it without YOU—our incredible listeners. In this episode, we’re looking back at the conversations that have shaped us, the lessons we’ve learned, and why consistency has been our secret sauce. Plus, we’re giving you a sneak peek at an exciting New Year’s resource we’ve created just for you and your family! We kicked things off with some behind-the-scenes fun—recording this episode on a school bus! Yes, you heard that right. Chris pulled up in the bus after coaching our daughter’s basketball team, and it felt fitting to mark this adventure-filled journey with a little spontaneity. Reflecting on these past four years, we’re amazed at how the podcast has grown and the impact it’s had on families worldwide. Your support, shares, and reviews keep us going, so thank you for being part of this mission! Melissa shared her “why” behind the podcast—what keeps her showing up every week (almost without fail!). It started as a personal challenge to find her voice and has since transformed into a platform for meaningful conversations that uplift families. For Chris, one key takeaway has been the power of consistency. Whether it’s a podcast, a family tradition, or building a strong marriage, consistency trumps everything. We also revisited some of our favorite episodes, like Thomas McConkie’s conversation on navigating faith crises within families and our deeply personal episode on why your marriage is worth fighting for. Each one reminded us of the transformative power of honest, vulnerable conversations. And here’s the big news: We’re launching a free New Year’s resource to help you close out this year intentionally and start the next one with purpose. It’s designed for families to reflect together, celebrate your wins, and set meaningful goals as a team. Head over to familybrand.com/best to grab your copy and get a head start on making 2024 your most intentional year yet!   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: familybrand.com/best https://familybrand.com/finding-identity-through-navigating-a-faith-crisis-with-thomas-mcconkie https://familybrand.libsyn.com/17-why-your-marriage-is-worth-fighting-for   Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Celebrating four years of the Family Brand Podcast 2:00 – Recording on a school bus (because why not?) 5:00 – Melissa’s motivation to keep showing up weekly 8:00 – The lessons consistency has taught us 10:00 – Favorite episodes and unforgettable conversations 14:00 – Sneak peek: Our free New Year’s download for families Thank you for being part of this journey with us. Here’s to building strong families, creating intentional traditions, and making the next year our best one yet! We love you, Family Brand!    

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and today, I’m so excited to welcome back two incredible guests, Wayne and Mae Wagner. If you’ve been feeling like you want to start 2025 with intention and purpose, this episode is for you. We dive deep into practical ways to close out this year strong, reflect on what worked (and what didn’t), and set up your family for success in the new year. Wayne and Mae share how their family has evolved their year-end planning rituals over time. From reflection exercises to setting meaningful goals, they emphasize the importance of being intentional and involving the whole family. Mae highlights their tradition of evaluating relationships within the family, using a scale of 1 to 10 to foster honest conversations. While these moments can feel vulnerable, they’ve found that it strengthens their family bonds and builds resilience. We also dive into the power of vision boards—one of our family’s favorite traditions. Whether you use it to reflect personal goals, family goals, or a mix of both, vision boarding can be a tactile and fun way to create a shared sense of purpose. Mae and Wayne shared how they’ve adapted this process over the years, even incorporating financial planning for their adult children to help them feel empowered and prepared. One of the highlights of our conversation was discussing the value of creating a family narrative. As Mae beautifully explains, families thrive when they can reflect on their shared stories—the ups and downs, challenges, and victories. This narrative not only helps create identity but also instills confidence and grit in kids. It’s a reminder that as families, we’re all in this together. Lastly, we shared some practical resources to help you start your own planning traditions. Whether you’re creating a family mission statement, planning a vision board night, or setting up year-end reflections, the most important thing is to start. And remember, you don’t have to do it perfectly—it’s the effort and intentionality that matter most. Let us know how you plan to make 2025 your best year yet! And don’t forget to grab the free family planning resources mentioned in this episode at familybrand.com/best. We can’t wait to hear how these ideas help your family thrive! LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Welcome Wayne and Mae Wagner 3:00 – Evolving your family’s year-end planning 7:30 – Building resilience through family narratives 10:00 – Vision boards: Fun and purposeful tradition 15:00 – Family planning for adult kids and future goals 20:00 – How to start 2025 with intention and success

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and today’s episode is extra personal as I reflect on turning 40. Hitting this milestone has been such a meaningful moment for me—an opportunity to look back on my 30s, decide what I’m leaving behind, and think about what I want to embrace moving forward. I’m also excited to share some big changes I’ve been making, including a shift in how I’m showing up online. If you’re navigating a season of transition, this one’s for you! I started this decade feeling surprisingly at peace. Turning 40 wasn’t scary for me—it felt like a gift. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that growing older is truly a privilege, one not everyone gets to experience. That said, this birthday brought up some unexpected reflections, particularly around friendships and how I want to show up in my relationships moving forward. It was a reminder to celebrate the connections that mean the most and to be intentional about fostering those bonds. One of the biggest shifts I want to make in my 40s is caring less about what others think and living more authentically. During a recent breathwork session, I had a powerful realization about wanting to live with an open heart. For me, this means trusting my instincts, being more courageous, and leaning into the things that bring me joy—even when they feel a little scary, like launching a new masterclass or changing my Instagram handle. (By the way, you can now find me at @heyMelissaSmith!) Another thing I’m embracing in this new season is the idea of wholehearted living, inspired by Brené Brown’s work in The Gifts of Imperfection. I’m letting go of perfectionism, fear, and comparison, and choosing to cultivate gratitude, creativity, and meaningful work instead. It’s a process, but it’s one I’m excited to lean into because it feels like the path to truly living life to the fullest. As I wrap up this reflection, I want to say thank you for being part of my journey. Family Brand has been such a beautiful evolution over the past four years, and I’m so grateful for this community. Whether you’re entering a new decade or just looking to make small, meaningful changes, I hope this episode inspires you to embrace the things that light you up and let go of what no longer serves you. LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: Follow my new instagram! Click here: https://www.instagram.com/heymelissasmith/  Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Welcome and my big Instagram change 1:30 – Reflecting on turning 40 and celebrating life’s milestones 3:00 – Lessons on friendship and connection 7:00 – Living openheartedly and trusting your instincts 10:00 – Embracing creativity and authenticity in your 40s 13:00 – Letting go of fear and comparison 15:00 – The beauty of wholehearted living I’d love to hear what you’re leaving behind and embracing in your own season of life. Share your reflections with me on Instagram—I’m here to cheer you on! 💛

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and today, I want to dive into a topic that feels especially timely as we head into the holidays: family traditions. Traditions can be beautiful and meaningful, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself if all of your traditions are still serving you and your family? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode—how to evaluate your traditions, let go of the ones that no longer work, and intentionally create new rituals that bring your family closer together. When we think of traditions, our minds often jump to the big ones—holiday celebrations, birthdays, or annual events. But family traditions are so much more than that. They’re also the small, consistent rituals we build into our daily and weekly lives, like family dinners, bedtime routines, or even Sunday night check-ins. Research shows that the strongest families have the highest frequency of these rituals, not just around special occasions, but woven into everyday life. I share some examples from our family, like how we’ve reevaluated traditions over the years. For instance, we decided to stop making gingerbread houses with extended family after moving further away, even though it was hard for the kids at first. The key is to make space for what works best for your unique family, while still honoring the core purpose of traditions: building identity, belonging, and strength. If you’re ready to shake things up, I suggest starting with a family discussion. Bring everyone together, explain your thoughts about why you’d like to adapt or change certain traditions, and invite their feedback. One resource I recommend for this process is the book The Intentional Family by William Dougherty, which offers practical advice on how to make these shifts thoughtfully and collaboratively. Lastly, I encourage you to double down on traditions that truly bring connection to your family. For us, family meetings and shared mealtimes have been game-changers. If you’re curious about starting family meetings, I have a free resource to guide you through the process, complete with a mini-course to make it super simple. Check it out at familybrand.com/meetings. As you step into this holiday season and prepare for the new year, take some time to reflect: What traditions are worth keeping, and what new ones can you create to align with the family culture you want to build? LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: Book- 'The Intentional Family' by William Doherty: https://amzn.to/3AJ14Up Get the Family Meeting Playbook: https://familybrand.com/meeting Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Why it’s time to rethink family traditions 2:00 – The importance of small, consistent rituals 5:00 – Evaluating traditions: What serves your family? 7:30 – Tips for adapting or letting go of old traditions 10:00 – The power of family meetings and shared meals 12:00 – How intentional traditions create strong families I hope this episode inspires you to embrace traditions that truly bring joy and connection to your family. Let me know what changes you decide to make—I’d love to hear your story!    

Hey Family Brand! It’s Chris and Melissa here, and we’re thrilled to bring you this week’s conversation, inspired by a special experience we had as a family. Over the weekend, we attended church with some dear friends, and the pastor shared a powerful message about Jonah and what it means to have a calling. That message sparked an amazing family discussion, and today, we’re diving into what it means to listen for your calling, why it’s so important, and how to act on it, even when it feels scary. We kicked off the episode sharing our weekend in Phoenix, where we enjoyed great company, community events, and some meaningful time with our kids. A highlight was attending a non-denominational church service, which was a first for most of our family. The pastor’s message about Jonah running from his calling really hit home and prompted a big question: What does it mean to feel called to something? Together, we explored the idea that callings can look different for everyone. Sometimes, they’re about pursuing something that excites you. Other times, they involve stepping into something uncomfortable or unknown. Either way, callings often require courage. We reflected on how fear of failure, judgment from others, or simply the busyness of life can drown out those inner nudges. But here’s the truth—when you listen and act on what’s calling to you, amazing things can happen. Melissa shared a personal story about stepping away from her career as a nurse, despite the resistance and questions she faced from others. Chris talked about how their family’s move to Hawaii, driven by nothing more than a feeling, taught them to trust their intuition. These experiences reminded us that callings don’t always make sense to others—and they don’t have to. We wrapped up by encouraging you to get quiet, reflect, and listen. What’s calling to you right now? Maybe it’s something big, like a career change, or something small, like dedicating more time to a passion. Whatever it is, don’t let judgment or fear hold you back. As Melissa beautifully put it, “Time is going to pass anyway, so you might as well spend it on the path to where you want to go.”   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand   Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Weekend in Phoenix and connecting with friends 2:12 – Attending a new church and lessons from Jonah 4:30 – What does it mean to feel called to something? 7:00 – Overcoming resistance to your calling 9:45 – Facing external opinions about your decisions 11:20 – Quiet reflection: Listening to what’s calling you 12:17 – Final thoughts: Time is going to pass—heed the calling!

Hey, Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and today, I have a very special guest on the podcast—Brittany Richman of The American Moms. Brittany’s story is inspiring, from working on President Bush’s speechwriting team to founding The American Moms blog with her twin sister. She’s here to share her insights on teaching our kids about civics, showing up in our communities, and the power we each have to create positive change. If you’ve ever wondered how to get your family more involved in civic life or felt unsure about where to start, this episode is packed with ideas to help you make a difference, right where you are! Brittany talks about her journey into politics and public service, starting with her job in the White House. Her passion for civic engagement is something she and her sister carry forward today through The American Moms, where they help families raise civically aware kids. Brittany shares how simple activities like watching the news as a family or attending local meetings can create a lasting impact. She believes these small, everyday actions build a foundation of awareness and involvement, showing kids that they, too, have a voice. One of the biggest takeaways Brittany shares is the importance of teaching kids to understand and appreciate differing viewpoints. In today’s world, disagreement often feels like division, but Brittany emphasizes that “disagreement and hatred are not the same thing.” She encourages families to foster open conversations, teaching kids to approach others with respect, even when opinions differ. This lesson, Brittany says, helps raise citizens who are engaged, empathetic, and empowered to make a difference. Brittany also talks about the importance of getting involved at the local level. From advocating for better sidewalks to improving school grading systems, she shares real-life examples of how showing up can lead to meaningful change. This isn’t about grand gestures—it’s about addressing what matters in your own backyard. Brittany reminds us that “sometimes change is as simple as gathering a group of moms, writing letters, or attending a school board meeting.” If you’re interested in finding unbiased news or want to know where to start with civic education, Brittany has some fantastic advice. She recommends local news, podcasts like Civics 101, and educational websites that help both kids and parents learn about government and civics without the bias we often see today. By seeking a variety of sources, we can foster an open-minded approach to news and help our kids build a well-rounded understanding of the world.   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: https://www.instagram.com/theamericanmoms   Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Welcome Brittany Richman of The American Moms 2:00 – How Brittany’s Political Journey Began 5:00 – Why Civics Matters for Families 10:00 – Involving Kids in Local Issues 15:00 – The Importance of Respecting Different Views 20:00 – Getting Started with Civic Education at Home 25:00 – Raising Good Citizens Over Partisan Leanings 30:00 – Finding Unbiased News Sources and Civic Resources

Hey Family Brand community! Melissa here, and I’m thrilled to welcome Amy Jordan to our podcast today. Several of you have reached out requesting us to have Amy on the show, and she does not disappoint!  Amy is not just a pioneer in the Pilates world but also a passionate mom who embodies the spirit of healthy living and resilience. Today, she shares her journey from a high-stakes career in Hollywood to creating WundaBar Pilates and how her role as a mother has deeply influenced her entrepreneurial path. Amy opens up about the challenges of balancing motherhood with her career, emphasizing the importance of modeling success, health, and resilience for our children. She believes that by showing our kids how we tackle challenges and pursue our passions, we teach them invaluable lessons about determination and living on purpose! We also dive into Amy’s innovative approach to Pilates, her invention of the Wunda Core Resistance Ring, and how she’s making fitness accessible and fun for everyone. Amy’s story is not just about overcoming obstacles but also about the transformative power of following one's passion and the impact it can have on our children’s perception of what is possible. Interested in learning more about Amy’s philosophy on fitness and motherhood? Hit play now for this inspiring conversation!  If Amy’s journey inspires you, or if you have your own experiences with integrating fitness and family life, we’d love to hear from you. Reach out, share your story, and let’s keep building strong, vibrant families together. P.S.  Registration is now open for our couples retreat in Hawaii!  Join us and Family Brand for transformational retreats designed to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your relationship. Sign Up Now: https://familybrand.com/retreats   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand   Links For This Episode: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyjordanofficial Connect with Amy: https://linktr.ee/amyjordan Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and welcoming Amy Jordan. 01:11 - Amy shares her journey from a high-stakes Hollywood career to becoming a Pilates entrepreneur. 02:18 - Discussion on the transition from the entertainment industry, dealing with personal challenges including a divorce. 04:34 - Amy talks about the creation of WundaBar Pilates and the invention of the WundaFormer. 06:29 - How the challenges of the pandemic led Amy to invent the Wunda Core Resistance Ring. 08:18 - Amy explains her passion for Pilates and its benefits, emphasizing the power of movement. 10:19 - Details on Amy's battle with cancer, her recovery, and how it transformed her perspective on health and business. 13:01 - Insights on co-parenting, maintaining a good relationship with an ex, and prioritizing children's needs. 17:40 - Final thoughts from Amy on the importance of resilience and adapting to change in both personal and professional life.

Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and today, I’m beyond excited to introduce you to Brad Nelson, also known as the Debt Free Dad. Brad has an incredible story about going from the weight of debt to a life of financial freedom, and he’s here to share how he did it and how you can too. If you’ve ever felt alone in your financial struggles, this episode is for you! Brad breaks down simple, practical steps to help families like ours get out of debt and start building the future we want. Brad opens up about his early financial journey and the challenges he faced, from living paycheck-to-paycheck to ultimately losing his home. He shares how this wake-up call led him to completely transform his mindset and make debt freedom a reality. Brad’s story is one so many of us can relate to—thinking we’ll manage “someday” while trying to keep up with life’s demands. But he shows us that, with the right mindset and some determination, financial freedom is possible. One thing Brad emphasizes is the importance of mindset. Getting out of debt isn’t easy, but it starts with a vision and a commitment to change. He talks about how having a clear vision for his future helped him make tough choices, like cutting back on unnecessary spending. This vision was a game-changer, motivating him to stay on track when things got hard. Brad encourages all of us to sit down and get honest about what we want our financial lives to look like—and to start taking small steps to get there. We also dive into the topic of family finances and how to involve our kids in positive, age-appropriate ways. Brad suggests bringing children into simple budgeting conversations, teaching them that “no” doesn’t mean “never,” and that financial responsibility is about intentional choices. It’s about giving them the tools to build a healthy relationship with money that will last a lifetime. Lastly, Brad shares how he’s now helping others on their financial journeys through his Debt Free Dad podcast and membership community, Roots of Personal Finance. By providing accountability and support, Brad has created a space where people don’t have to feel alone in their financial struggles. This community is all about giving families the tools and support to reach their goals, one step at a time. P.S.  Registration is now open for our couples retreat in Hawaii!  Join us and Family Brand for transformational retreats designed to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your relationship. Sign Up Now: https://familybrand.com/retreats   LINKS: stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: Free Gift from Brad: https://www.debtfreedad.com/payoff-debt-in-60-to-90-days Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 – Welcome Brad Nelson! Aka The Debt Free Dad 3:00 – How Brad Got into Debt with Bad Money Habits 7:00 – Brad’s Journey to Helping Others Get Out of Debt and Live Free 10:30 – How Normal People with Normal Jobs Can Become Debt-Free 14:00 – Shifting Your Mindset Around Debt and Money 18:30 – What to Do if Your Spouse Isn’t Ready for Financial Changes 21:45 – Defining Your Family’s “Why” and Creating a Shared Vision    

Hey there, Family Brand community! Chris and Melissa here. As the leaves change and the crisp autumn air sets in, we're gearing up for one of our cherished family traditions. It's a heartwarming ritual that has deepened our connection to our roots and given us a beautiful way to honor and celebrate our lineage. For our long-time listeners, you might recall us diving into this topic around the same time last year. But if you're just joining our Family Brand journey, you're in for a treat! We're excited to share this tradition with you and hope it sparks joy and lasting memories for your family as it has for ours. Our introduction to this beautiful tradition came through a dear friend in Arizona. We were fortunate to be invited to their celebration, where we not only learned about their family's rich history but also delved deeper into our own. If you've been with us for a while, you know how passionately we believe in the importance of belonging and identity. Research has consistently shown the profound impact of knowing one's ancestors and the strength and resilience we can draw from their stories. In this episode, we'll walk you through how we celebrate our lineage, the joy of uncovering family stories, and the ways we honor our ancestors throughout the year. We'll share our top tips on diving into your family's past and how to host a “Dia De Los Muertos” gathering that will have your kids eagerly exploring their heritage. This tradition has not only connected us to distant relatives but has also brought us closer to the stories of our parents and grandparents, reinforcing our family bonds. We truly hope this episode ignites a curiosity in you to explore your family's history and embrace the pride that comes with knowing your roots. And if you're inspired to start this tradition in your own family, do share your celebrations with us on Instagram @ourfamilybrand. We'd love to join in the festivities with you!   P.S.  Registration is now open for our couples retreat in Hawaii!  Join us and Family Brand for transformational retreats designed to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your relationship. Sign Up Now: https://familybrand.com/retreats   LINKS: Website: familybrand.com   Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 Introduction to the show and the importance of Dia de los Muertos for our family  03:14 The power of researching and finding your family heritage  04:33 The ancient history of Dia De Los Muertos and how our family celebrates it  06:58 The example of Disney’s movie, CoCo and what we can learn from it  08:41 Why this is more than just another party and inviting your kids into the process  10:53 Party inspiration and tips that you can replicate!  11:50 A few recipes we made and the inspirations behind them  12:46 The importance of sharing photos and memories  14:05 How you can start learning more about your history today 15:09 Closing thoughts and tips for your Dia de los Muertos party! 

Hey Family Brand community, Chris and Melissa here, diving into a topic that's been transformational for us: the power of our thoughts. In today's episode, we're sharing how shifting our thinking has reshaped our experiences and can change your life too. Chris shares a profound nugget of wisdom from his recent support group sessions he was a speaker at, that gets to the root of many challenges. For most of us, it’s not the situations themselves that make us overwhelmed or plague us with negative thoughts…but how we perceive them—maybe we just have a  "thinking problem."  Our thoughts have the ability to change everything. By changing our thoughts, we tap into the power to change our entire outlook and approach to life's challenges.  Learn the practical steps to cultivate healthier thinking patterns, and how you can start to editify which thoughts are yours, when to identify with your thoughts, and most importantly when to stop and reframe your thoughts. These strategies have personally transformed our family dynamics and individual wellbeing!  Curious to learn more about harnessing the power of your thoughts to create a positive change in your life? Press play now and join us for a deep dive into mindset set and how to overcome everything that comes your way. If today's episode sparks any thoughts or if you've experienced changes from shifting your mindset, we’d love to hear your stories! Reach out to us on IG or follow the links below. :)  P.S.  Registration is now open for our couples retreat in Hawaii!  Join us and Family Brand for transformational retreats designed to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your relationship. Sign Up Now: https://familybrand.com/retreats   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 - Introduction and overview of the episode's focus on the impact of our thoughts. 01:15 - Chris shares insights on the power of mindset and its influence on daily life. 03:40 - Discussion on specific strategies to harness and shift one's thinking patterns. 07:00 - Exploration of how thoughts can impact relationships and personal growth. 09:20 - Chris and Melissa delve into examples from their personal lives where changing their thoughts significantly altered outcomes. 12:50 - Tips on how listeners can start implementing small changes to improve their thought processes. 15:30 - Reflections on the long-term benefits of maintaining a positive and growth-oriented mindset. 18:00 - Closing thoughts and encouragement for listeners to engage actively with their thoughts to foster change.

Welcome back, Family Brand community! It’s Chris and Melissa, and in today’s episode, we're excited to dive into a powerful resource that's transformed our family life—the Family Systems Playbook. Melissa has crafted this incredible tool, which is now available for free, to help families like ours stay connected, aligned, and moving smoothly through the chaos of daily life. Melissa will walk us through what a family systems playbook is and why it's a game changer for fostering intentional family dynamics. We’ll discuss the benefits of establishing regular family meetings, individual check-ins, and how these systems have brought peace and direction to our family. Ready to transform your family interactions and create a more cohesive home environment? Hit play now to explore the practical steps and insights in the Family Systems Playbook. And if you're inspired to implement these tools, check out the full resource with additional video explanations at http://familybrand.com/meeting We'd love to hear how these strategies work for your family! P.S.  Registration is now open for our couples retreat in Hawaii!  Join us and Family Brand for transformational retreats designed to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your relationship. Sign Up Now: https://familybrand.com/retreats   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand   Links For This Episode: Download Now:  http://familybrand.com/meeting    Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 - Introduction: Chris and Melissa introduce the topic and share what’s coming up in the episode. 01:15 - Overview of the Family Systems Playbook: Melissa explains what it is and how it was developed. 03:30 - Benefits of Family Meetings: Discussing how regular family meetings have improved communication. 05:45 - Individual Check-ins: The importance of one-on-one time within the family structure. 09:00 - Real-life Examples: Chris and Melissa share stories of how the playbook has positively impacted their family life.

Hey Family Brand community! Chris and Melissa here. In today’s episode, we're unpacking a simple phrase that has made a huge difference in our conversations: "Tell me more about that." This little question has opened up doors in ways we never expected, both at home and in our work. Chris dives into how using this phrase has helped him understand deeper feelings and perspectives, making conversations richer and more meaningful.  It’s amazing what you can learn when you give someone the space to share more about their thoughts or feelings. Chris discovered the power of this phrase in sales, finding it invaluable for understanding clients better. It’s just as powerful at home, especially with our kids. Asking them to share more can transform a typical conversation into an opportunity to really listen and connect on a deeper level. Curious to learn how you can use these five words to change the dynamic in your own conversations? Press play now and join us as we explore the power of genuine curiosity and active listening. And we’re eager to hear from you! Have you used "Tell me more about that" in your talks? What changes have you noticed? If not, try it this week and let us know how it goes! Follow the links below to connect more.  P.S.  Registration is now open for our couples retreat in Hawaii!  Join us and Family Brand for transformational retreats designed to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your relationship. Sign Up Now: https://familybrand.com/retreats LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand   Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 - Welcome back! Chris and Melissa here to chat about the simple power of five words. 01:12 - Chris shares how "Tell me more about that" revolutionized his sales approach and everyday chats. 02:19 - We dive into why these words are a game changer in understanding others better. 03:39 - Some real-life stories where this phrase opened up meaningful conversations. 06:15 - Melissa talks about how reflecting on our own reactions helps us communicate better. 08:10 - Let’s talk about how you can use this in your family life or even in your work. 11:06 - We'll break down why digging deeper can help get to the heart of matters and resolve issues. 14:21 - Watch us role-play a scenario to show how effective this can be. 16:12 - Tips on staying open and not defensive when you’re on the receiving end of questions. 18:46 - Wrapping up with some final thoughts and a challenge for you to try it out.

Hey Family Brand community! It's just Chris here today. Melissa is off on an adventure with one of our kids, picking out some exciting new touches for the new home we're building. While they're out, I wanted to share some thoughts from a recent event I spoke at, which really resonated with me and I hope will resonate with you too. At this event in Austin, Texas, I had the privilege to speak to a room full of successful entrepreneurs about "authentic growth"—growing in a way that truly aligns with who you are. The night before my speech, I stumbled upon a story on Instagram about a man in Zimbabwe who teaches beekeeping to his community. This story, filled with passion and purpose, really struck a chord with me, and I decided to share it with the audience. Today, I want to dive deeper into what authentic growth means and why it's important to occasionally pause and reflect on why we pursue growth. Are we chasing goals that truly fulfill us, or are we just ticking boxes? If you’re curious to hear more about finding and following your authentic path, hit play now to join me in this exploration. Let’s open up this conversation and help each other stay true to our paths. If you have thoughts or stories about your own journeys of authentic growth, I'd love to hear them. Connect with me and Melissa via the links below!    LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 - Introduction by Chris, setting the theme of authentic growth. 1:30 - Chris shares insights from his recent speaking event in Austin, Texas. 3:00 - The story from Instagram that inspired Chris’s speech on beekeeping in Zimbabwe. 5:15 - Discussion on aligning personal goals with genuine passions. 8:00 - How to identify whether your growth is authentic. 10:30 - Chris’s personal experiences with growth and staying true to his values. 13:00 - Advice for listeners on how to pursue meaningful growth. 15:30 - Invitation for listener feedback and sharing of personal growth stories. 17:00 - Closing thoughts and encouragement to reflect on one’s growth journey.  

Welcome back to the Family Brand Podcast, everyone! Chris and Melissa here, and we’re super excited to share something special with you all—our upcoming Couples Retreat! Held on the beautiful North Shore of Hawaii, this retreat is not just a getaway but an opportunity to connect, grow, and intentionally grow together.  This year, we are honored to co-host with Dan and Renee Martell. We've all felt the impact of dedicating time to our marriages, and we can't wait to explore this with you. From insightful workshops to fun beach activities, this retreat promises to be an unforgettable blend of learning, love, and tropical adventure. (No weird talks or airing first laundry with strangers haha)  Are you ready to invest in your relationship and create unforgettable memories? Hit play now to hear all about what we have planned for this transformative experience. And remember, spots are filling up fast, so if you’re thinking about joining us, don’t wait! Check out all the details and reserve your spot at familybrand.com/retreats. Let’s make magic happen together in Hawaii! https://familybrand.com/retreats   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Links For This Episode: https://familybrand.com/retreats https://familybrand.com/couples-retreat-takeaways-how-to-intentionally-grow-together   Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 - Introduction: Melissa welcomes listeners and introduces the theme of the episode. 1:15 - Overview of the Couple's Retreat: Location, goals, and what to expect. 2:30 - Guest introductions: Meet co-hosts Dan and Renee Martell. 3:45 - Key benefits of attending the retreat for couples. 5:00 - Detailed breakdown of activities and workshops planned. 6:30 - Stories from past retreats and testimonials. 8:00 - How to prepare for the retreat and what to bring. 9:15 - Booking information and special offers.    

Hey Family Brand community, it’s Chris and Melissa! Every year, we pick a word that guides our intentions and goals. This year, we chose "growth" and "connection," which we've been weaving into our daily lives, from how we interact as a family to the challenges we navigate together. Halfway through the year, it’s time for an "Honest Assessment" to reflect on how these words have truly shaped our journey. We're amazed at the transformation and want to dive deeper into how these intentional choices are playing out day-to-day. Join us today as we explore the significant changes, the lessons learned, and plan how we can continue to embody these powerful words for the rest of the year.  Hit play now to get into this empowering discussion. Whether you’ve set your own words this year or are just getting started, it’s never too late to join in and live more intentionally! We love sharing this journey with you and would love to hear how your intentions are unfolding too. Reach out, share your story, and let’s keep growing and connecting together! LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 - Welcome: Chris and Melissa kick off the episode with the theme of "Honest Assessment." 1:00 - Discussing the importance of selecting yearly guiding words and how they chose "Growth" and "Connection." 2:30 - Insights into how these words have impacted their family life so far this year. 5:00 - Reflecting on successes and challenges encountered in the first half of the year. 7:30 - Strategies for keeping family goals aligned with their guiding words. 10:00 - Sharing personal stories and lessons learned from implementing their intentions. 13:00 - Encouraging the audience to conduct their own "Honest Assessment" and tips for staying on track

Welcome back, Family Brand community! It’s Melissa here, and today, I’m excited to share an inspiring conversation with Kim Shapira, a renowned dietitian and author passionate about helping families forge a healthy relationship with food. In this episode, we dive deep into how our eating habits impact not just our health, but our family dynamics as well. Kim discusses her Six Simple Rules for eating, which revolutionize the way we think about food—from recognizing emotional triggers to making conscious choices that nourish our bodies and minds. We explore practical strategies for parents looking to nurture a positive food environment at home, touching on everything from managing screen time during meals to understanding and addressing food-related behaviors in children. Curious about transforming your family’s approach to food and wellness? Hit play now to absorb Kim’s invaluable advice and her journey towards making nutrition a joyful part of everyday life! If you’re moved by our discussion or have your own stories to share about navigating family nutrition, we’d love to hear from you. Your insights enrich our community and help us all grow together. LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand   Links For This Episode: Buy The Book: https://www.amazon.com/This-What-Youre-Really-Hungry www.kimshapiramethod.com Episode Minute By Minute: 0:00 - Introduction to Kim Shapira and her nutritional philosophy. 3:15 - Kim shares her journey and expertise in family nutrition. 8:00 - Discussion on the Six Simple Rules for a healthy relationship with food. 14:45 - Practical tips for parents to improve mealtime dynamics. 20:30 - How to address emotional eating and food triggers in children. 26:50 - Kim provides advice on integrating nutrition into daily family life. 33:15 - Audience Q&A with Kim, tackling common family nutrition challenges. 40:00 - Final thoughts and where to find more of Kim’s resources.