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Tired of the same old marital struggles? Join us as we explore the secrets to a thriving marriage, straight from couples who have weathered the storms and found lasting joy. This episode dives into powerful insights from a panel of experienced couples who emphasize that the key to a successful marriage isn't about changing your spouse but about surrendering to God and focusing on your own spiritual growth. We'll unpack the often misunderstood concepts of headship, submission, respect, and love, moving beyond transactional love to embracing the unconditional love that strengthens and sustains. Discover the importance of mutual surrender, where both partners prioritize serving one another. We'll also discuss balancing career and family, avoiding neglecting your spouse, and reigniting the spark of playfulness that keeps joy alive. Learn how faith can be the foundation of your marriage and how trusting the Holy Spirit to work in your partner can bring about transformative change. Show Notes and Resources Reserve your spot for the 2026 Love Like You Mean It Cruise  Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Do you remember the excitement of early dating, the eagerness to welcome your new love into your life? Trent and Andrea Griffith remind us how easily that fades in marriage, but how crucial it is to reignite that spirit of welcome. In this episode, we explore Romans 15:7 and discover four powerful ways to welcome your spouse as Christ welcomed us, starting with joy. We discuss "The Prodigal Son" story, C.S. Lewis's insights on the eternal nature of individuals, and the powerful example of Jesus welcoming the "sinful woman" while being rejected by his host. Join us as we uncover the transformative power of seeing ourselves as welcomed by Christ, learn to extend that same grace to our spouses, and understand how true welcoming goes beyond mere politeness to recognizing the inherent value of every person. It's not about condoning sin but about offering forgiveness, believing in potential, and ultimately glorifying God through our relationships.   Show Notes and Resources Reserve your spot for the 2026 Love Like You Mean It Cruise  Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

We all bring baggage into our relationships, but some baggage is heavier than others. Ron and Nan Deal explore the often unspoken burdens couples carry, including pride, the scars of abuse, and even the profound grief of losing a child. We'll examine common but ineffective approaches to dealing with this baggage, such as expecting your partner to fix you or trying to eliminate their issues. Discover the power of humility, the importance of submitting to God, and how trusting Him with our pain can lead to guidance, direction, and healing within your marriage.   Show Notes and Resources Reserve your spot for the 2026 Love Like You Mean It Cruise  Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Ever feel like your past, or even your family's past, is holding you back? Author Dr. Lee Warren discusses the incredible power of the mind to heal from trauma and reshape your future. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full FamilyLife Blended Podcast, episode 144 "Hope is What the Doctor Ordered" Find Ron Deal's book, "The Mindful Marriage" in our shop  Learn more about Dr. Lee Warren at his website . Listen to Dr. Warren's podcast, "The Self-Brain Surgery Podcast"  Sign up for FamilyLife's Blended and Blessed Event at blendedandblessed.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Neurosurgeon and Iraq War veteran Dr. Lee Warren explores the powerful connection between neuroscience, faith, and healing from trauma. Discover how grief, loss, and past relationship pain can impact your brain, creating negative patterns that affect your present and future. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full FamilyLife Blended Podcast, episode 144 "Hope is What the Doctor Ordered" Find Ron Deal's book, "The Mindful Marriage" in our shop  Learn more about Dr. Lee Warren at his website . Listen to Dr. Warren's podcast, "The Self-Brain Surgery Podcast"  Sign up for FamilyLife's Blended and Blessed Event at blendedandblessed.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Where are the young men we need today? Author Brant Hansen offers a vision for healthy masculinity, emphasizing purpose, responsibility, and the importance of being "keepers of the garden." Show Notes and Resources Follow Brant on Instagram, YouTube, or check out his website.  Brant's book, "The (Young) Men We Need" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Masculinity doesn't need a rebrand; it needs to be redefined. Author Brant Hansen explores how traditional ideas of manhood often fall short, especially for young men, and unpacks a powerful alternative: the concept of men as "keepers of the garden"—protectors, providers, and cultivators of security. Show Notes and Resources Follow Brant on Instagram, YouTube, or check out his website.  Brant's book, "The (Young) Men We Need" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

What does it mean to be a man in today's world? Author Brant Hansen talks about the crisis of masculinity and how to reclaim a biblical vision for manhood. Brant challenges both toxic masculinity and passive stereotypes, offering a refreshing perspective rooted in security and protection. Show Notes and Resources Follow Brant on Instagram, YouTube, or check out his website.  Brant's book, "The (Young) Men We Need" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

What makes a great dad? Jerrad Lopes, founder of "Dad Tired," shares five traits and practical steps to become the father you want to be. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jerrad Lopes at dadtired.com or follow him on Instagram @JaredLopes We'll send his book "Did You Know My Daddy is a Superhero?"  at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Simple yet meaningful activities can quickly turn fatherhood from a struggle to an overnight success. Jerrad Lopes and Bobby Markham give practical advice for parents seeking to reconnect with their children through repentance, presence, and consistent effort. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jerrad Lopes at dadtired.com or follow him on Instagram @JaredLopes We'll send his book "Did You Know My Daddy is a Superhero?"  at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Jerrad Lopes, founder of "Dad Tired," is exhausted. There's a silent struggle of fatherhood marked with feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. Jared shares how vulnerability, community, and faith can have a profound impact on dads who need help. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jerrad Lopes at dadtired.com or follow him on Instagram @JaredLopes We'll send his book "Did You Know My Daddy is a Superhero?"  at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Wondering how to find peace—for real? Scholar and author Jeremiah Johnston shares practical ways to choose and implement the shalom you crave. Show Notes and Resources The mission from Jeremiah Johnston with creating Christian Thinkers Society is to teach Christians to become Thinkers and Thinkers to Become Christians. Get his book, "Unleashing Peace" in our FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app!Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Are you hungering for peace from God but have no idea how to get there? Scholar and author Jeremiah Johnston points the way to uncovering shalom in every area of life. Show Notes and Resources The mission from Jeremiah Johnston with creating Christian Thinkers Society is to teach Christians to become Thinkers and Thinkers to Become Christians. Get his book, "Unleashing Peace" in our FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Pastors and adoptive parents Chris and Yodit Brooks share how patience, love, and unexpected blessings can transform lives and build stronger families. Show Notes and Resources Hear the entire episode, 121: Lessons from Adoptive Parents on the FamilyLife Blended YouTube channel Learn more about Family Life Blended. Purchase "Mindful Marriage" in the FamilyLife online store Take the Mindful Marriage Assessment [] Register for our Blended and Blessed event happening April 5th, 2025 at blendedandblessed.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

What could your legacy be to your family? Artists Blair and Shai Linne offer you-can-do-this ways to hand Jesus to the next generation. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Shai Linne at shailinnemusic.com Get Blair Linne's book "Finding My Father" in the FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Artists Blair and Shai Linne know the yawning gaps of living without a dad. Author of "Finding My Father," Blair tells her story of fatherlessness. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Shai Linne at shailinnemusic.com Get Blair Linne's book "Finding My Father" in the FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Are the teenage years truly something to dread? Author Kristen Hatton challenges the notion by exploring the surprising joys and undeniable challenges of parenting in this season of life. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kristen Hatton at kristenhatton.com Her book, "Parenting Ahead: Preparing Now for the Teen Years." We'll send it at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Raising teens in today's world can feel overwhelming and impossible. Author Kristen Hatton shares wisdom on how to overcome fear, let go of control, and build a foundation of faith and resilience in your children. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kristen Hatton at kristenhatton.com Her book, "Parenting Ahead: Preparing Now for the Teen Years." We'll send it at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Are unrealistic expectations killing your marriage? Marriage fantasies can lead to unmet expectations and disappointment. Today's guests discuss replacing those fantasies with grace and understanding, which can create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full episode, "Boss Your Emotions Around" on YouTube  and be sure to checkout all four seasons of "Married with Benefits" Purchase "The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages" at the FamilyLife store. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Should you keep score in your marriage? Today's guests challenge the idea by shifting focus from tallying wins and losses to recognizing and celebrating contributions, helping to show how to move from resentment to appreciation even during challenging times. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full episode, "On Keeping Score" on YouTube [ ] and be sure to checkout all four seasons of "Married with Benefits" Purchase "The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages" at the FamilyLife store. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy