Feminist Inc Pod

Description: In this candid episode, Ayo goes in on the fashion industry's perpetuation of a singular, unrealistic beauty standard - the exaggerated hourglass figure. She breaks down how even brands attempting to be "inclusive" still fail to represent the full range of body shapes and proportions that exist beyond just "straight-size" and "plus-size" categories.Ayo doesn't hold back on calling out the psychological impacts of this lack of diversity on self-perception, confidence, and the ability to visualize what clothing would look like on your own body. Through both sarcastic humour and moments of vulnerability, she makes an impassioned call for greater body neutrality across fashion marketing and media. Thanks for reading Feminist Inc! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.Don’t forget to leave a rating and or a review. It helps me out. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Episode Summary:In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the complex world of systemic oppression and misogyny. We break down the concepts of oppression and systemic oppression, shedding light on how these notions affect different facets of life. Systemic oppression is explored in its various forms, highlighting its historical roots and how it has become ingrained in societal structures.The episode particularly focuses on misogyny as a form of systemic oppression. Beyond mere insults, misogyny impacts women's autonomy, rights, and dignity. We uncover how misogyny is deeply embedded in history, traditions, and institutions, affecting women regardless of their background.Throughout the episode, we dive into different areas where systemic misogyny is apparent. From politics to the economic system, from cultural norms to legal structures, we analyze how these systems perpetuate gender-based oppression. The recent rejection of constitutional amendments that would have promoted gender equality serves as a stark reminder of the challenges women face in achieving equitable representation and rights.Join us as we challenge the norms, uncover the truth about systemic oppression, and advocate for a world where women are not just equal, but empowered. It's time to confront the systemic misogyny that exists around us and take steps towards creating a more just and equitable society.Misogyny as Systemic Oppression:* Defining misogyny and its manifestations across various spheres.* Emphasizing that misogyny goes beyond insults and harassment, impacting rights and autonomy.* Systemic Misogyny in Politics:* Addressing the underrepresentation of women in political positions.* Highlighting barriers like lack of funding, party support, and media coverage.* Discussing negative stereotypes and sexist treatment faced by women leaders.* Economic System's Oppression of Women:* Exploring economic disparities and limited opportunities for women.* Sharing statistics about female entrepreneurship and barriers faced.* Cultural Systems and Their Impact:* Describing how cultural norms can perpetuate gender-based oppression.* Examples of patriarchy, beauty standards, and honor culture affecting women.* Legal Systems' Role in Oppression:* Detailing how legal structures can discriminate against women.* Examples of personal status laws, criminal laws, and labor laws.* Rejection of Constitutional Amendments:* Highlighting recent legislative decisions reflecting discrimination against women.* Concluding the episode with a call to challenge and confront systemic misogyny.According to this source, the literacy rate for women aged 15 and above was 49.6% in 2019, while the literacy rate for men was 72%. as of 2019, only 40.8% of women participated in the labor force, compared to 73.3% of men.According to the World Bank, as of 2019, only 17.2% of women owned land, compared to 48.7% of men.According to the World Economic Forum's Global Gender Gap Report 2020, Nigeria ranked 128th out of 153 countries in terms of economic participation and opportunity for women.According to UN Women's Progress of the World's Women Report 2019-2020, Nigerian women earned on average 75% of what men earned for similar work in 2018. This means that for every N100 that men earned, women earned only N75.In December 2020, a report by the World Bank revealed that Nigeria has one of the lowest rates of female entrepreneurship in sub-Saharan Africa. The report found that only 15 percent of Nigerian women own or run a business, compared to 31 percent of men. In February 2021, a Nigerian woman named Maimuna Abdullahi was sentenced to 20 years in prison for killing her husband in self-defense after he allegedly tried to rape her. She had been married off at the age of 13 and had suffered years of abuse and violence from her husband. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

This episode will be a bit different from the others because I decided to make it an ASMR episode. ASMR stands for autonomous sensory meridian response, it’s a tingling sensation that some people feel when they listen to certain sounds, such as whispering, tapping, or brushing. ASMR can help you relax, focus, and enjoy the podcast more. So, for this episode, I recommend using your earphones and finding a comfortable and quiet place to listen. Trust me, it’s going to be an amazing experience. Are you ready? Let’s go.Hello, hello, hello, my lovely listeners! Welcome to the last episode of Feminist Inc Podcast for this season. I can't believe it's been (a number of months) since I started this podcast journey with you. It's been such an amazing and rewarding experience, and I'm so grateful for all of you who have been listening, sharing, commenting, and supporting me along the way. You are the reason why I do this podcast, and I couldn't have done it without you.> In this season, we covered a lot of ground on feminism and what it means to be a Nigerian woman in today's world. We talked about topics such as (mention some of the topics), and we had some incredible guests who shared their stories, insights, and opinions with us. We also had some fun and laughter along the way, because feminism doesn't have to be serious all the time. We learned a lot from each other, and we challenged ourselves to think critically and creatively about feminism and how it affects our lives.> I hope you enjoyed this season as much as I did, and I hope you learned something new or gained a new perspective on feminism. I know I did. I want to thank all of my guests who joined me on this podcast and shared their wisdom and expertise with us. They are all amazing feminists who are doing great things in their fields and communities, and I'm honored to have them on my show. I also want to thank all of you who sent me feedback, comments, questions, or suggestions for the podcast. I appreciate every single one of them, and I always try to respond to them as best as I can. Your feedback helps me improve the podcast and make it better for you.> Now, I know you're probably wondering what's next for Feminist Inc Podcast. Well, don't worry, because I'm not going anywhere. I'm already working on season two of the podcast, which will be coming soon. I have some exciting topics lined up for you, as well as some amazing guests who will blow your mind with their feminist insights. Season two will also have some changes in the format and style of the podcast, which I think you'll love. I don't want to give too much away right now but trust me, it's going to be awesome.> So stay tuned for season two of Feminist Inc Podcast, coming soon to your favorite podcast platform. In the meantime, you can catch up on any episodes you missed from season one on my website or on any podcast app. You can also follow me on social media. I'd love to hear from you and get your thoughts on this season and what you'd like to hear in the next one.> And that's it for this episode and this season of Feminist Inc Podcast. Thank you so much for listening and being part of this feminist community. You are all awesome and powerful feminists who are making a difference in the world. Don't ever forget that. Until next time, this is Ayo, signing off from Feminist Inc Podcast, the podcast where I tell it like it is. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

In this episode, I delved into the dismissive phrase "not all men" that often arises in discussions about gender inequality. Drawing from personal experiences and compelling arguments, I challenged this rhetoric head-on. Here's a brief overview of what we covered:- Introduction: Exploring the impact of the "not all men" phrase on conversations about gender inequality.- Understanding the Bigger Picture: Recognizing the collective responsibility in addressing systematic sexism and misogyny.- Acknowledging Indirect Benefits: Reflecting on how men can benefit from unfair treatment faced by women, even without engaging in overtly sexist behavior.- Shifting the Conversation: Highlighting the importance of men's contributions to fighting systematic sexism in all its forms.- The Power of Silence and Complicity: Examining the damaging effects of staying silent in the face of sexism and perpetuating harmful gender norms.- Unlearning Sexism and Misogyny: Affirming that men can actively challenge and unlearn harmful attitudes to promote gender equality.- Taking Action: Encouraging men to be allies and actively participate in dismantling systems that perpetuate gender inequality.Join me in this thought-provoking episode as we challenge the "not all men" rhetoric and explore how all men can play a crucial role in the fight against gender inequality. Together, we can create a more equitable and inclusive future for everyone. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Get ready for a sizzling story that will spice up your day! Join us as we explore Hilda Bacci's amazing cookathon and its feminist twist. We'll dig into the important role cooking plays in Nigeria and how it's used to judge a woman's worth. Discover how Hilda's cooking journey challenges the status quo and sparks conversations about change and equality. Tune in for a captivating discussion that will leave you hungry for more!I didn’t really dive deep into the topic on this episode, but I have a blog post that goes deeper you can check it out here. Thank you, Hilda Bacci, Yemisi Odusanya , Diary of a Kitchen lover and every other woman out there that has the privilege to use cooking to make cool cash. Thank you for being an inspiration to women everywhere. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Summary:In this episode, we discuss the movie War Room from a feminist perspective. We argue that the movie promotes harmful stereotypes about women and relationships. We also discuss the ways in which the movie can be seen as a justification for domestic abuse.Key Points:* The movie War Room promotes harmful stereotypes about women and relationships.* The movie can be seen as a justification for abuse.* There is no need to be submissive to a man that does not love you.* It is toxic to think you can absolve a bad man of all responsibility and call it the devil.The movie can be harmful to women and girls by reinforcing the idea that they are subordinate to men and that their only purpose in life is to serve their husbands and families.We hope you enjoyed this episode of our podcast! Please subscribe to our show and leave us a review. We would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and on War Room from a feminist perspective.. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Episode summary:We talked about harmful, stereotypes in literature and why it’s important to address them.We talked about different movies and books, from “twilight” to “After.” And why they may be harmful to the younger generation.Episodes I mentioned in today’s episode.This is the transcript of the episode👇Don’t forget to leave a review and rate the show. Byeeeeeee This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

This is an older episode that I decided to re-run. Mostly because I’ve been very busy. But also, because truly Chimamanda rocks. Besides, I’ve come a long way since this episode.So enjoyyyy. P.S don’t mind the low sound quality. If you have any suggestions or corrections, you can reach us at feministincsays@gmail.com.You can also send me a voice mail.Don’t forget to leave a review and like this episode if you enjoyed it. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

In this episode of Feminist Inc, Lyra and I talk about how women fighting over men is outdated and how important it is to prioritize oneself as a woman. Lyra talks about how women are always sacrificing for others, from parents to siblings, friends, and husbands, and how the patriarchy is teaching women to fight over men. We emphasize the need for women to prioritize their health and well-being and not lose themselves in the process of trying to please everybody.* Take time for yourself, set boundaries, and do things that make you happy.* Support other women: Instead of fighting each other over men, women should support each other and work together to break down patriarchal structures.* Challenge societal norms: The hosts encourage listeners to challenge societal norms that pit women against each other and perpetuate gender stereotypes. Speak up and challenge these norms when you see them.* Share your story: If you have a story to share about prioritizing yourself as a woman or challenging societal norms, share it with your friends, family, or on social media using the hashtag #PrioritizeYourself. Let's inspire each other to break free from outdated norms and live life on our own terms.Don’t forget to like and leave a review. Please that is so important. byeeeeeeeee This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

I discussed Women Don’t Owe You Pretty by Florence Given. Email your suggestions at feministincsays@gmail.com What book should I talk about next?byeeee(●'◡'●)(❁´◡`❁)☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

How I went from thinking women are too emotional to lead, to becoming a feminist activist and podcast host.Listen for my journey. And sorry no book review. That will be next week. I promise.Thanks for reading and listening to Feminist Inc! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.Throwback to my very first episode. It has been 21 other episodes since then. Though there have been struggles, I’ve enjoyed every step of the way.I remember my very first book review, it has really been one hell of a journey. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Yes, I am sex positive. It doesn't mean I am having sex, or I am a slut. It just means I have dissociated myself with any guilt or shame that comes with sex. Pleasure is my f*****g birthright!!!What Oluwemimo Precious said:I just feel women should be sex positive. We should replace shame with fear and judgement with freedom. Women are not sexual objects, but society tricks us into believing we are. I feel like we should be able to decide what our sexual life should be like.All they ask us to do is pledge our virginity to our non-virgin husbands (I'm not saying keeping your virginity till marriage is bad). All I am saying is pleasure is our birthright too. Personally, I don't believe my virginity is for anybody. My virginity is for me!! And when I want to have sex, imma do it because I want it.Most girls feel guilty when they get dis-virgined or ashamed. It becomes worse when they break up with the guy.I don't know if I am making sense, but I don't know how to say what I am feeling.Something happened and I had to move out of my hostel. In the process of looking for a hostel, I asked my dad if I could stay alone, and he said "No". Not because I am he doesn't have the money but because "Wemimo is a girl, she can't live alone". African parents are sometimes not comfortable with giving their female children freedom because of the fear of them having pre-marital sex. However, the boys are given freedom because "they are guys".I don't know how you see this but all I am saying is "Your sex life is your sex life, own it!!!"Yes, I am sex positive. It doesn't mean I am having sex or I am a slut. It just means I have dissociated myself with any guilt or shame that comes with sex. Pleasure is my f*****g birthright!!!This was a passioned rant from a listener. Take this as your sign to send me a mail about what’s bothering you. This is the orgasm gap i talked about in this week’s episode. Can you imagine a 30% gap. Thats a lot. Women deserve pleasure too.Don’t forget to subscribe if you haven’t!I’ll see y’all next week with a book review. Byeeeeee😘💕❤️ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

This is a picture of my copy of the book. I couldn't find anyone online. Summary of today's episode I talked about how the book is a zero over ten. Like please don't read it. It is toxic and sexist and extremely problematic. I definitely do not recommend. Listen to find out why. If you liked today's episode, consider sharing it. I’m sorry there was no episode last week. I was having a bad mental health day. But I’m much better now. So here take this one with plenty of love and please subscribe to get more of my work.Also, if you have read this book or knows someone who has let me know your thoughts in the comments.Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Hi guys, in today’s episode we discussed * colorism* Nigerian’s obsession with big ass * Madona’s look at the awards show,* plastic surgery: to do or not to do,* I also talked about my own experiences with body shaming and my journey to radical self-love, and so much more.LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE* body positivity influencer 2* body positivity influencer 3* colorism article* send me a voice mail* the body is not an apology courseDo follow me on Instagram to join the community. You won’t regret it.Don’t forget to like this episode and subscribe. I’ll see y’all next week with a book review. ByeeeeeeeeThanks for listening to Feminist Inc! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Episode summary: In this episode we discussed Caitlin’s book and her views on pubic hair, pornography and so much more. We answered the question of is pornography inherently sexist, are strip clubs and prostitution feminist and so much more. If you enjoyed today’s episode do like and shareif you have any other books you would like me to discuss, leave it in the comments.or send me a dm on Instagram at feministincsays. byeeeeeee This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Introduction: In this episode we talked about how the media perpetrates the hypersexuality of men. I give various examples from different movies and unpack each statement.This episode serves to educate listeners about the dangers of over sexualizing men. * unpacking the statement ‘‘a man needs sex, when a man doesn't get sex, he’s off his game’’.* The falsehood of this belief and how it reinforces harmful stereotypes.* The negative impacts that this belief can have on self-esteem and relationship.There is a need for a more nuanced and accurate understanding of male sexuality and desires.I encourage you dear listener to continue this conversation and challenge harmful beliefs in your own lives and communities. If you hear something, speak up.If you enjoyed this episode and learnt something, do like this post. You can also leave a comment about what I should talk about next.Don’t forget to subscribe. If you want to make sure you never miss an episode of this good stuff, then it’s time to hit that subscribe button. Trust me you won't regret it. Think of it as your all access pass to all the thought-provoking discussions, mind-blowing insights and of course a little bit of fun.And follow me on Instagram to get more feminist stories. I share additional insights, updates and behind the scenes content there. I look forward to connecting with you on Instagram!byeeeeeee This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Episode summary: * We talked about is BDSM oppressive and feminist?* We talked about how the men in the novel don't understand the concept of consent.* Ladies, you can't change a man. So, don't try.* Can we really trust the men that are close to us? What book should i analyse next. Tell me in the comments.Share this episode with all those your friends that are obsessed with fifty shades of grey.If you aren't following feminist Inc on Instagram, then I don’t know what you’re doing. Honestly. follow us here Lastly, don't forget to subscribe and like this post if you enjoyed it.Thanks for listening to Feminist Inc! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

asking someone out does not have a gender. Don't let propriety stop you from something beautiful.In this episode we discuss the results of the survey. We talk about guys responses to being asked out by girls. I really enjoyed making this episode, I hope you enjoy listening to it just as much.don't forget to subscribe.Please rate the show and leave a review. I really appreciate it. and don’t forget to follow me on Instagram. And if you have anything you'd like to share, you can send me a voicemail. BYEEEEEP.S read Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s for next week. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

In this episode we talk about an amazing book called The Visit written by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. We discuss the matriarchal society that operates in the book. We also talk about the sacrifices women make for men in today's society.if you enjoyed this episode don’t forget to subscribe.Important News: We are having a challenge in February, the challenge is gonna be hot hot. Follow me on Instagram to join the challenge when it starts and to get more information about it cause I’m not revealing what the challenge is about. Yet. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com

Merry Christmas and a happy holidays 💋💋Episode summary : basically just appreciate women this Christmas and help out in the kitchen. This is the last episode of the year. Till next year 8th of January. Follow us on Instagram and tiktok Feminist Inc, to keep seeing our content. Please don't forget to leave a review and or a rating if you enjoy Feminist Inc. If you have any questions or suggestions or if you just want to rant, you can send me a voice mail. Voice mail Byeeeeeeee💋💋 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit feministincsays.substack.com