đď¸ Fertile-ish â Season 2, Episode 7âLetâs Talk IUI - Because TikTok Isnât Explaining It RightâIn this episode, Laura & Brandis break down everything you actually need to know about IUI â minus the TikTok oversimplification. From how the process works, to whoâs a good candidate, to real success rates based on age and diagnosis, this is your go-to episode if youâre trying to decide whether to keep trying IUI or move on to IVF. đâ¨We keep it real, compassionate, and judgment-free⌠just like always. đđĄ What We Cover in This EpisodeWhat IUI really is (in normal-people language)Step-by-step: meds, monitoring, timing, and the insemination itselfSuccess rates by age â and why TikTok leaves this part outWhen IUI is worth trying⌠and when IVF may be a better investmentThe emotional side of âHow many IUIs should I do?âTikTok myths vs. actual medical realityWhen âone more IUIâ becomes more expensive than IVFListener-asked questions about timing, prepping, and expectations𧏠Key TakeawaysIUI can be a great option â for the right candidate.Success rates vary widely depending on age, diagnosis, and history.Social media often makes IUI sound simpler and more universal than it is.Itâs okay if you feel confused or overwhelmed â thatâs why this episode exists.Whatever path you choose, you deserve clear information and real support.â¤ď¸ Listener Q&A HighlightsWe answer real questions from the Fertile-ish community, including:âHow many IUIs should I try before switching to IVF?ââDoes timing have to be perfect?ââWhy do success rates drop so much after age 35?ââIf my friend got pregnant on IUI #1, why isnât it happening for me?ââCan I do IUI without meds?âđ Episode MoodInformative, compassionate, myth-busting, and full of those âOhhh⌠THAT makes sense now!â moments. đ¤Żâ¨đą Resources MentionedVisit CNY Fertility to learn more about IUI, IVF, costs, and timelinesFollow along on Instagram & TikTok for more Fertile-ish updatesCheck out past episodes:Season 2, Episode 5 â âAm I the Fertility A-hole?âSeason 2, Episode 6 â âThe Birth of CNY Fertility: How One Doctor Changed Fertility Foreverâđ Final ThoughtsIf youâre navigating the IUI vs. IVF decision, we hope this episode gives you clarity, confidence, and the reassurance that youâre not alone in this process. We see you. Weâre rooting for you. And your journey is valid â no matter how many steps it takes.
Fertile-ish â Season 2, Episode 6âThe Birth of CNY Fertility: How One Doctor Changed Fertility ForeverâEpisode SummaryIn this milestone episode, Laura and Brandis welcome their very first guest: Dr. Robert Kiltz, founder and owner of CNY Fertility. Recorded live at ASRM in San Antonio đ¤â¨, this conversation dives into the origins of CNY, Dr. Kiltzâs philosophy on healing, accessibility, and the mission that has guided him for nearly four decades in reproductive medicine. If youâve ever wondered what makes CNY so different, this episode tells the full story.In This Episodeđą The Birth of CNY FertilityDr. Kiltz shares how early suffering, witnessing illness, and even losing a job at 41 became the catalyst for creating a clinic rooted in compassion. Borrowing $150,000, he launched CNY with one purpose: help people build families, regardless of circumstance.đ¸ Making Fertility AffordableHe explains why CNY chose a different path when IVF costs skyrocketed nationwide. From low-cost IVF to financing and inclusive packages, affordability remains a core pillar of CNYâs mission.đ§ââď¸ MindâBodyâSpirit MedicineOnce a numbers-only surgeon, Dr. Kiltz describes how his personal journey led him to embrace acupuncture, meditation, visualization, carnivore/keto nutrition, and fasting. Today, these practices are integrated into CNYâs holistic approach.đ The Power of ListeningFertility is more than lab workâit's emotional, personal, and deeply human. Dr. Kiltz discusses why he prioritizes patient stories and even shares his real cell phone number so patients never feel alone.đ Building a CommunityFrom CNY Healing Arts to Molecular Fertility, Kiltz Health, and the Mighty Tribe, Dr. Kiltz highlights how these programs grew from a desire to provide accessible education, supplements, coaching, and community support.đ¤ The Heart of CNYâs CultureLaura and Brandis reflect on the unique teamwork and compassion within the CNY family. Dr. Kiltz credits the staff, partners, and worldwide community, emphasizing that CNYâs success is about peopleânot profit.đŹ What He Wants Every Patient to KnowAbove all: âWe care about you.â And if it ever doesnât feel that way, he encourages patients to text him directly.Key TakeawaysCNY was created to make fertility care accessible to everyone đMindset, faith, nutrition, and holistic tools matter on this journeyCommunity and connection are central to CNYâs mission đ¤Every patient deserves to be heard, supported, and cared forđ Resources MentionedFavorites from Dr. Kiltz: Think and Grow Rich, The Power of Positive Thinking, The Alchemist, Jesus Calling, and The Fertile Secret, among others.
đď¸ Fertile-ishSeason 2, Episode 5 â âAm I the Fertility A-hole?âDescription:This week, Laura and Brandis are tackling one of the most relatable questions in the fertility world: Am I the fertility a-hole? From skipping baby showers and dodging pregnancy announcements to setting boundaries with family and friends, the hosts weigh in on real listener-submitted scenarios that hit way too close to home.Itâs a mix of humor, honesty, and heartfelt truth-telling â because sometimes protecting your peace makes you feel like the a-hole, when really, it just makes you human.đŹ What We DiscussWhen to share (or not share) your fertility journeySaying ânoâ without guilt â from baby showers to Motherâs Day brunchNavigating awkward family comments (âscience babies,â anyone?)Dealing with comparison, jealousy, and emotional burnoutPartner disconnect after loss or failed cyclesThe art of muting, unfollowing, and boundary-setting for your sanity⨠Favorite Momentsđ âYou donât owe anyone your fertility story â not your mom, not your in-laws, not your best friend.âđ âSometimes youâre not the fertility a-hole⌠youâre just trying to survive something impossibly hard.âđ âBoundaries arenât mean â theyâre maintenance.âđ TakeawayThis episode is your permission slip to honor your emotions, guard your energy, and do whatâs best for you â even if others donât get it. Because in the messy, emotional world of fertility⌠youâre allowed to put yourself first.đ§ Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.đŹ Got your own âAm I the Fertility A-hole?â moment? DM us on Instagram @FertileishPodcast or submit at cnyfertility.com/fertileish â we might feature it in a future episode!
đď¸ Episode Title:SoâŚMy AMH Is Low. Now What?đŹ Episode Description:You got your labs back⌠and your AMH is low. Now what does that actually mean? In this episode, Laura & Brandis break down AMH (anti-MĂźllerian hormone) in plain English â what it measures, what it doesnât predict, and how it fits into the bigger picture of your fertility journey.They unpack:The science behind AMH and ovarian reserve đ§ŹWhy a âlowâ result isnât the same as âinfertileâ đ ââď¸The difference between quantity vs quality of eggsWhat to know about diminished ovarian reserve (DOR)Why many OBGYNs donât routinely test AMH âand why maybe they shouldCNY Fertilityâs inclusive philosophy of giving everyone a chance, regardless of AMH, age, or BMIEmotional realities of hearing âlow AMHâ and finding hope through knowledge, support, and next stepsIf youâve ever felt defeated by a number on a lab report, this episode will remind you: AMH is information â not a verdict. đ𩺠Key Takeaways:AMH measures how many eggs youâre likely releasing monthly â not how good those eggs are.Your AMH can fluctuate ~30 % from month to month.Age remains the #1 predictor of fertility and IVF success.Even with low AMH, pregnancy is possible â it may just take more cycles.Advocate for yourself: ask for your AMH to be checked and get proper counseling.You deserve full information and autonomy in your fertility journey.đ§ Bonus Insights:Why AMH isnât checked routinely during annual physicalsWhat can cause low AMH (genetics, environment, surgery, endocrine disruptors, etc.)How birth control can temporarily suppress AMH resultsWhen to explore genetic screening or autoimmune workupsHow emotional burnout â not biology â is the #1 reason people stop IVFEmotional Support:Hearing âlow AMHâ can be scary â but you are not alone. Seek out fertility-informed therapists, peer support groups, or virtual communities to process grief and find hope.Fertile-ish Tip:âKnowledge is power â not pressure. Checking your AMH isnât about panic; itâs about planning.âđ Listen & Connect:đ§ Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream.đť Learn more at CNYFertility.com/Fertileishđ¸ Follow along @FertileishPodcast for clips and community conversations.
đď¸ Fertile-ish â Season 2, Episode 3: âLining Check: Not Thick EnoughâEpisode OverviewIn this weekâs episode of Fertile-ish, Laura and Brandis dive deep into one of the most common â and frustrating â fertility concerns: a thin endometrial lining. Whether youâve had a cancelled transfer, are anxiously waiting for that âtrilaminarâ ultrasound report, or just trying to understand why your lining wonât thicken â this episode breaks down the science, the causes, and the real-life stories behind the numbers.Theyâll answer questions like:What is a healthy lining thickness?Why does âtrilaminarâ matter more than just the millimeters?Can you still get pregnant with a thin lining?And what can you actually do to help thicken it?What Youâll LearnđĄ Anatomy Refresher:Laura and Brandis explain the layers of the uterus â the serosa, myometrium, and endometrium â and why only the innermost layer (the one that sheds each month) really matters for implantation.𩺠Lining Goals & Measurements:For frozen transfers: ideal lining ⼠7mm and trilaminarFor fresh cycles: ⼠8mm and trilaminarWhy measurement consistency (same sonographer, same technique) is keyAnd why organization (that three-layer trilaminar look) can matter more than pure thicknessđ Common Causes of Thin Lining:Hormonal birth control and prolonged progesterone exposure (like Depo-Provera or Mirena)Scar tissue and Ashermanâs syndrome from D&C, C-section, or retained placentaUterine abnormalities (polyps, fibroids, septum)Long-term suppression of ovulation or endometrial regeneration issues𧏠Solutions & Treatment Options:Estrogen therapy (oral, vaginal, patch, or injectable)Sildenafil (Viagra) to boost blood flowPRP or Neupogen washesVitamin E supplementationSwitching to a natural or modified natural protocol if your body responds better to its own estrogenReal Talk: Why Every Case Is Different:From Facebook group myths to âwhat worked for herâ advice, Laura and Brandis explain why fertility protocols canât be copy-pasted. Even patients with identical labs may respond completely differently. Your baseline lining, hormone response, and surgical history all shape your protocol â and no single âmagic numberâ applies to everyone.Patient-to-Patient Tips:⨠Advocate for Yourself: Ask why your provider recommends certain meds, protocols, or tests.𩻠Donât Skip the SHG or Hysteroscopy: Itâs quick, simple, and can reveal polyps, fibroids, or scar tissue that may be silently affecting implantation.đ Remember: Thickness isnât everything. A 6mm trilaminar lining might be more promising than an 8mm thatâs disorganized.The Fertile-ish Takeaway:A thin lining doesnât mean itâs the end of your fertility journey â itâs just another piece of the puzzle. The key is understanding your baseline, working closely with your team, and staying proactive about testing and timing.Join the Conversation:If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow fertility warrior or leave a review to help more listeners find Fertile-ish.đŹ Have a topic youâd love Laura and Brandis to tackle next? DM them on Instagram or drop a comment on Spotify!đ§ Listen on: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Amazon Musicđą Follow: @fertileishpodcast
đď¸ Episode TitleEgg Donation: Inside EditionSeason 2, Episode 2đŹ Episode SummaryIn this weekâs episode, Laura and Brandis pull back the curtain on egg donationâwhat it is, who can donate, and how the process really works at CNY Fertility. Whether youâve thought about donating eggs yourself, are curious about using a donor, or just want to understand what âopen IDâ means, this episode offers a transparent, compassionate, and empowering look inside the world of egg donation.They break down the qualifications, medical steps, compensation, and emotional considerations of becoming an egg donorâplus, they share personal experiences from their own egg retrievals to help listeners know what to expect.𧏠Key Topics CoveredCNYâs In-House Donor Program: How it works and what makes it unique.Qualifications for Egg Donors:Ages 21â32BMI between 18â35Non-smoker/non-drug userAMH level of 1.5 or greaterOpen ID Policy Explained: What âopen IDâ means, how donor privacy is maintained, and how donor-conceived individuals can access medical information at age 18.The Donation Process:Medical screening and genetic testingThe IVF cycle timeline (injections, monitoring, egg retrieval)Recovery tips and aftercare (yesâbring sweatpants!)Compensation & Split Cycles:Donors earn $4,000 per cycleOption to split cyclesâfreeze or use half of your eggs while donating the restKnown vs. Anonymous Donors:How it works if youâre donating to someone you knowWhy âanonymousâ donation is evolving with DNA testing and transparencyEthical and Emotional Aspects:The selflessness behind donationHow donors give families the chance to growPersonal reflections from Laura and Brandis on their own fertility experiencesđĄ TakeawaysEgg donation is an incredibly generous and life-changing act that helps individuals and couples create families.The process is safe, structured, and supportedâwith donor privacy, medical safety, and emotional care at the forefront.If youâre considering becoming an egg donor, CNY Fertility makes the process accessible with options that can also support your own fertility goals.Resources & LinksLearn more or apply: cnyfertility.com/become-an-egg-donorAsk a question or share your story: Submit anonymously at cnyfertility.com/fertileishConnect with Laura & Brandis: DM @fertileish_podcast on Instagramđ§ Listen NowAvailable on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts.
đď¸ Season 2: Episode 1Cannabis & Conception: The Science & Storiesđ§ Episode SummaryIn the Season 2 premiere, Laura and Brandis dive deep into one of the most frequently asked questions in fertility care â how does marijuana use affect fertility, conception, and pregnancy? From breaking down the science of how THC interacts with reproductive hormones to sharing real-life stories of patients whoâve seen the impact firsthand, this candid conversation gets to the truth about cannabis and conception, without judgment, stigma, or shame.The hosts discuss:How marijuana impacts both male and female fertilityThe effects of THC on ovulation, sperm production, and hormone regulationThe link between cannabis use and lower IVF success ratesWhat current research shows about THC exposure in pregnancy and child developmentWhy being honest with your fertility provider matters and how to have that conversationWhether youâre using cannabis medicinally, recreationally, or considering conception in the near future, this episode arms you with the knowledge to make informed choices and optimize your fertility health.đŹ Key Topics CoveredThe Science: How THC disrupts FSH, LH, and testosterone production and what that means for egg and sperm quality.Male Fertility: Why men who stop THC use 3 months before conception often see dramatic sperm improvements.Female Fertility: How marijuana can delay ovulation, affect menstrual regularity, and reduce egg quantity and quality.IVF Outcomes: Studies linking THC use to 25% fewer eggs retrieved and higher miscarriage risks.Pregnancy & Beyond: The risks of THC exposure to the placenta, fetal growth, and long-term child development.Real Talk: Why âmy friend smoked and got pregnant fineâ isnât the full story and how fertility outcomes are more complex than we think.Empowerment, Not Judgment: Creating an open dialogue between patients and providers to improve outcomes and support all fertility journeys.đŹ Memorable MomentsâThe sperm you see today actually started developing 90 days ago.ââEven short-term THC use can affect sperm count and egg quality.ââJust because you have regular cycles doesnât mean youâre ovulating normally.ââWeâre not asking to judge; weâre asking so we can help you optimize your chances.ââTHC doesnât just affect conception; it can affect a childâs development for years after birth.â𩺠Takeaway MessageFertility is complex, and while THC may be natural, its impact on reproductive health is very real. Knowledge and transparency are key. The goal isnât judgment â itâs empowerment, understanding, and helping you take the best possible steps toward your family-building goals.đ Episode ResourcesLearn more about CNY Fertility and our comprehensive fertility and reproductive immunology programs.Explore research on marijuana use and fertility via ASRM, NIH, and Fertility & Sterility Journal.Listen to past episodes of Fertile-ish for related topics like preconception testing, sperm health, and reproductive hormones.đ§ Listen & SubscribeListen to Fertile-ish on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.Follow along on Instagram @fertileishpodcast for behind-the-scenes clips, fertility tips, and TMI Tuesday stories.
đď¸ Episode 25: âPreconception Testing: Glow Up Starts HereâđĄ Episode SummaryBefore you jump into treatmentâor even start tryingâitâs time for your fertility glow-up. In this episode, Laura and Brandis walk listeners through preconception testing: what it is, why it matters, and how to make the most of it. From bloodwork and imaging to sperm health and hormone tracking, they unpack the essentials that can help you understand your fertility baseline and optimize your health for conception success.Whether youâre TTC, freezing your eggs, or just curious about your reproductive health, this episode is your roadmap for understanding your body before the first shot, scan, or supplement.𧏠What Youâll LearnThe Basics of Preconception Testing:Why testing before treatment can save time, money, and heartbreak later.Bloodwork Breakdown:Understanding AMH, FSH, thyroid, glucose, vitamin D, and moreâand what those numbers really mean.Imaging Insights:Whatâs the difference between an HSG, saline sonogram, and hysteroscopy (and when do you need them)?Semen 101:Why sperm health reflects the past three months, and how lifestyle factors can impact results.When to Test (and Retest):Ideal cycle days, how often to repeat labs, and when old results are still valid.Common Myths & Misconceptions:âIâve had kids before, so I donât need testingâ â and other fertility fallacies.Partner Participation:Why fertility is a team sport and both partners need a checkup.Bonus:How birth control, stress, and even your gym routine can affect your fertility numbers.𩺠Key TakeawaysPreconception testing isnât just for those struggling with infertilityâitâs for anyone who wants to know their fertility health.Bloodwork and imaging help providers customize your care and improve success rates.AMH and antral follicle count (AFC) give powerful insight into ovarian reserve.Even if youâre not ready to conceive, knowing your numbers early helps you plan your family on your terms.Male fertility matters tooâsperm health can fluctuate every 90 days.Avoid skipping baseline testingâitâs your foundation for smarter, faster treatment decisions.𧞠Mentioned in This EpisodePreconception Testing List: Fertility Testing Directory | CNY Fertilityđ§ Listen & SubscribeFollow Fertile-ish wherever you get your podcasts:đľ Spotify | đ Apple Podcasts | đ CNYFertility.com/Fertileishđ˛ Join the ConversationđŹ What preconception tests surprised you most?đ¸ Tag us @fertileishpodcast on Instagram and share your #FertilityGlowUp moments.𩷠Donât forget to rate & review; it helps more listeners find hope, humor, and help on their fertility journey.
đď¸ Episode 24: Affording Hope: Fertility & FinancesPaying for IVF can feel overwhelming, sometimes even impossible. In this episode of Fertile-ish, Laura and Brandis get real about the financial side of fertility treatment and share resources, strategies, and stories to help make hope more affordable. đFrom the shocking national averages to creative fundraising ideas and CNYâs unique approach to affordability, this episode covers everything you need to know about navigating fertility costs without losing your sanity (or your savings).What We Cover in This Episode:đ¸ The true cost of IVF: why $20â30K per cycle is the national averageâand why it often doesnât include meds.đˇď¸ Breaking down costs: medications, monitoring, anesthesia, and all those âsurpriseâ fees that can sneak up.𧊠Creative funding options: from IVF puzzle pieces and bake sales to crowdfunding and grants.đ CNYâs affordability model: transparent pricing, medication bundles, and packages designed to make treatment accessible worldwide.đł Financing & discounts: in-house 100% approval financing, gift card promos, military discounts, pay-in-full savings, and more.đ Grants & giveaways: how to apply for CNYâs monthly IVF grant and where to find other nationwide opportunities.đ Helpful tools: the online pricing calculator, insurance worksheets, and financial packets every patient should know about.đ Guarantee programs: how CNYâs Fertile Guarantee refund program offers peace of mind.Why This Episode Matters:Fertility treatment is more than a medical journey; itâs an emotional and financial one too. Understanding your options can help you feel empowered, prepared, and supported. Whether youâre just beginning your path or already deep in treatment, this conversation is packed with practical takeaways (and a little hope).Resources & Links:đ CNY Fertility â Pricing & Affordabilityđ Apply for the CNY IVF Grantđ§ Fertile Hope Yoga Membershipđ Financial Welcome Packet & Resourcesđ Donât forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review if this episode resonated with you. Your support helps us continue bringing real, raw, and hopeful conversations to the fertility community.
đď¸ Episode 23: Doing the Most: Immune Protocols EditionWhen it comes to IVF, add-ons and immune protocols can feel like a never-ending menu of âshould I or shouldnât I?â treatments. From PRP therapies and uterine washes to IV infusions and immune-modulating meds, thereâs a lot of science, a lot of opinions, and even more patient questions.In this episode, Laura and Brandis break it all down: what immune protocols actually are, why theyâre sometimes recommended, and which scenarios they can make a difference in. Weâre covering:⨠PRP (platelet-rich plasma) therapies: intra-ovarian, high-volume, and uterine washes⨠Infusions like IVIg, intralipids, and Omegaven⨠Add-ons including Neupogen, HCG washes, endometrial scratch, and more⨠The four levels of CNYâs immune protocols, and who might benefit from each⨠Real-life patient experiences and whatâs hype vs. whatâs helpfulWe also get real about the cost, the controversy, and the fact that *spoiler alert* sometimes itâs just about finding the right embryo.Whether youâre dealing with unexplained infertility, recurrent loss, autoimmune conditions, or just want to know what âimmune protocolâ even means, this episode is for you.đ Learn more at cnyfertility.com/fertileishđą Follow along on IG: @fertileishpodcastâ Donât forget to rate, review, and subscribe so you never miss an episode!
đď¸ Episode 22: Faith + Fertility (or not)Faith and fertility - itâs a conversation many avoid, but one that so many of us are living. đż Whether your beliefs shape how you pursue treatment, cause hesitation, or provide strength through the struggle, faith is deeply intertwined with fertility journeys.In this episode, Laura and Brandis open up about:Navigating the sometimes-controversial intersection of faith and fertility treatmentHow religious beliefs can influence decisions around IVF, IUI, sperm collection, embryo creation, genetic testing, and compassionate transferProvider perspectives on supporting patients without bias while honoring personal valuesCommon fears about judgment, shame, or conflict with family or faith communities; and how to find supportThe unique ways CNY Fertility accommodates religious preferences, from natural IVF to alternative sample collection to prayer and music during transfersThe importance of informed choice, respect, and knowing youâre not alone - whatever your beliefs may (or may not) be⨠Whether you find strength in faith, science, community, or all of the above, this episode is here to remind you: your journey is valid, your beliefs matter, and thereâs space for everyone at the table.đ Learn more: cnyfertility.com/fertileishđ˛ Follow along on Instagram: @fertileishpodcastđŹ If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and subscribe to Fertile-ish wherever you listen to podcasts.
đď¸Episode 21: Endo: Sheâs Expensive, Sheâs Exhausting, Sheâs ExtraEndometriosis isnât just âbad cramps.â Sheâs a whole personality-loud, dramatic, and unfortunately, way too common. In this episode, Laura and Brandis get real about the reality of endo: how it shows up, why it often takes 7+ years to diagnose, and what it means for fertility.What Youâll Hear in This Episode:đŠ Why painful, heavy periods shouldnât be brushed off as ânormalâđ Theories on what causes endometriosis (spoiler: itâs still misunderstood)𩸠How endo impacts ovarian reserve, egg quality, and implantationđ Birth control, Lupron, surgery, and other treatment options -what helps and whenđ The connection between endo and infertility, including what IVF outcomes really look likeđĄ When to push for a second (or third) opinion if you feel unheardEndo affects 1 in 10 women, but symptoms vary from none at all to completely debilitating.The stage of endo doesnât always match the level of pain; tiny lesions can equal massive impact.Early recognition and proactive treatment can protect fertility and improve quality of life.Your pain is valid. Donât let anyone minimize it-advocate for yourself.⨠Whether youâre managing endo, suspect you might have it, or just want to understand it better, this episode is packed with candid conversation, medical insight, and plenty of âsheâs doing the mostâ energy.đ§ Listen now at cnyfertility.com/fertileish and wherever you get your podcasts.đ Follow along on Instagram @fertileishpodcast for bonus clips, reels, and behind-the-scenes chaos.đ If you loved this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe-it helps more people find the pod and join the conversation.
Episode 20: TMI Tuesday: Unhinged Edition đ¤ŻđWe asked, you delivered. đ¨ TMI Tuesday spiraled out of control (in the best way possible), so we turned your submissions into a full episode.From Icy Hot mishaps and Disney meltdowns to Cardi B in the embryo transfer room, pineapple burn disasters, and semen sample parking lot fumbles, weâre reading the wildest, most unhinged fertility stories you shared with us. đIn this episode, Laura and Brandis cover:đĽ The infamous Icy Hot âscheduled intimacyâ incidentđ˘ Aunt Flo crashing Disneyland dreamsđś Manifesting a baby with Cardi B (oops)đ Pineapple core chemical burns & TTC mythsđĽ Progesterone oil leaks in public placesđ Moon water, womb affirmations, and fertility Etsy scams𧪠Pregnancy tests in the office bathroom (and awkward boss encounters)đ A surprise proposal mid-PIO shotđ Goat yoga gone wrongâŚand way more stories weâll never forgetThis one is chaotic, hilarious, and oh-so-relatable. Because sometimes the only way through this fertility journey is to laugh at the mess.⨠Got your own TMI Tuesday story? Submit it at cnyfertility.com/fertileish or DM us on Instagram @fertileishpodcast.đ§ Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Episode 19 â Beyond Biology: All the Ways to Baby đđśâ¨When most people picture fertility treatment, they imagine a heterosexual couple going through IVF together. But the truth is, family building comes in so many formsâand today, weâre diving into all the ways to baby.In this episode, Laura and Brandis break down the diverse paths to parenthoodâfrom single parents by choice to same-sex couples, from gestational carriers and surrogates to donor eggs, donor sperm, and embryo donation. We also talk about the role of reproductive attorneys, navigating sperm banks safely, and how epigenetics shows that motherhood is so much more than DNA.What Youâll Hear in This Episode:đĄ Options for single moms and dads by choiceđłď¸âđ Fertility pathways for LGBTQ+ couples (including reciprocal IVF!)đŠâđŠâđ§âđŚ The difference between surrogates vs. gestational carriers𧏠Why embryo donation can be such a beautiful optionđ The importance of legal protection in donor and carrier arrangementsđą How CNY Fertility supports inclusivity and accessibility for every familyWhether youâre just starting to explore your options or deep in the decision-making process, this episode is packed with insight, compassion, and real talk about building families beyond biology.đ Resources & Links:Learn more about CNYâs donor and surrogacy programs: cnyfertility.comSend us your thoughts or TMI Tuesday stories: cnyfertility.com/fertileishFollow along on Instagram: @fertileishpodcastđŹ Loved this episode? Share it with a friend, rate us âââââ on Spotify/Apple/Amazon/YouTube and help us break the stigma around fertility one story at a time.
đď¸ Episode 18: Secondary Infertility: The Sequel No One Asked ForHaving one baby doesnât always mean the road to baby #2 will be smooth. This week, weâre diving into the often-overlooked topic of secondary infertility - what it is, why it happens, and how it feels when the sequel isnât playing out the way you imagined. đâĄď¸đŞIn this episode, we talk about:⨠What secondary infertility actually means (and why itâs not just about big age gaps)𧏠Common causes - from sperm changes to diminished ovarian reserve to âunexplainedâ mysteriesđ The emotional toll: guilt, grief, and unsolicited âjust be gratefulâ commentsđĄ Coping strategies + advice if youâre just starting to wonder if somethingâs upâ¤ď¸ Why grief + gratitude can (and should) coexist in this journeyLaura also shares her personal story of facing secondary infertility - from surprise pregnancy in her twenties to IVF years later - and what sheâs learned along the way.đ§ Listen in ifâŚYouâre trying for another child after having one, supporting a friend through it, or just want to understand the nuances of infertility better.Because sometimes the sequel is harder, messier, and way more emotional than the original - but you donât have to go through it alone. đđ Share your story or questions with us at CNYFertility.com/fertile-ish or on Instagram @fertileishpodcast. We see and appreciate every message you send! đ
đ Episode 17 â PCOS Isnât Just Cysts, Babe đââď¸PCOS is way more than just cysts on your ovaries - and in this episode, weâre breaking down all the myths, facts, and real-life experiences that come with it.Weâre talking:⨠What PCOS actually is (spoiler: you can have it without cysts!)đ Why your menstrual cycle matters & what ânormalâ really meansđĽ The role of insulin resistance and why diet + movement are hugeđ Treatments that actually help - from metformin to myo-inositol to birth control𧏠How PCOS affects fertility (and why itâs still possible to conceive!)đĄ Practical tips whether youâre TTC or just want your body in balancePlus, Brandis gets personal about her own PCOS journey - the symptoms that get ignored, the advice we wish weâd gotten sooner, and the tools that make life so much easier now.If youâve ever been told âjust lose weightâ or âitâs just a cyst,â this oneâs for you, babe. đđŠ Got PCOS tips, questions, or stories? DM us on IG/TikTok or email us at CNYfertility.com/fertileish - we might share your story in a future episode!đ§ Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon, or wherever you get your pods!#PCOSAwareness #FertileishPodcast #PCOSIsntJustCysts #WomensHealth #TTCCommunity đŹ
đ Episode 15 - "The Transfer Didn't Take...Again"đ Recurrent Implantation Failure & What Comes NextIn this candid and deeply supportive episode, Laura and Brandis dive into the emotionally draining and often misunderstood experience of recurrent implantation failure (RIF) - when seemingly perfect embryo transfers just⌠donât work.They break down:The official definition of recurrent implantation failureCommon causes: embryo quality, uterine factors, endometriosis, adenomyosis, and moreWhat testing can uncover (ERA, ReceptivaDX, ALICE, EMMA, HSG, saline sonogram)Immune factors and inflammation that could be impacting implantationWhy some protocols (like Lupron suppression) are recommended even when tests come back normalThe risks of transferring multiple embryos without answersWhen to consider additional options like reproductive immunology consults, donor eggs, or gestational carriersWhy advocating for yourself and communicating with your provider is everythingđŻââď¸ Plus, Laura shares her own IVF experience and how she navigated treatment decisions, fear, and loss with honesty, humor, and hope.đ Whether you're in the thick of it or supporting someone who is, this episode offers validation, next steps, and a gentle reminder: youâre not alone-and your pain is real.đŠ Want to share your story, a question, or TMI Tuesday tale? Submit at â cnyfertility.com/fertileish
đď¸ Episode 14: Chronically Clocked â Age & Your Fertility TimelineAge ainât just a number - especially when it comes to fertility.In this episode, Laura and Brandis get real about one of the most asked (and misunderstood) topics in reproductive health: how age affects fertility. From egg quality and AMH to sperm fragmentation and the shady side of TikTok fertility scams, we break it all down.Whether you're 25, 35, or 45+âthis episode is your fertility reality check without the shame or scare tactics.đŹ In this episode, we discuss:Why your eggs are aging right along with you, even on birth controlThe truth about AMH, egg quantity vs. quality, and why it fluctuatesThe âvaultâ analogy + why IVF canât unlock itHow sperm quality declines with age too (yes, men have a clock)The importance of knowing your long-term family goals earlyEgg and embryo banking: who itâs for and when to consider itHow CNY approaches treatment without strict age cutoffsDonor eggs, combo cycles, and the epigenetic magic of pregnancyFertility scams, psychic predictions, and pineapple Band-Aids đ⨠Quote of the Week:"Fertility isn't a switchâitâs a dimmer."đŻââď¸ Relatable, real, and refreshingly honest, this episode is your friendly reminder that itâs okay to explore your options and ask the hard questions - no matter what age the calendar says.đŠ Questions? DMs open. Need support? Weâve got you.đ˛ Follow @fertileish.pod on Instagramđ Learn more: cnyfertility.com/fertile-ish
đ Episode 13: Embryo Red Flags? Letâs Talk PGTEmbryo testing can feel like decoding an alphabet soup-and in this episode, weâre finally breaking it all down. Laura and Brandis get real about preimplantation genetic testing (PGT), who itâs for, and how to decide if itâs right for you.𧏠What We Cover:What PGT-A, PGT-M, and PGT-SR actually meanThe difference between carrier screening, karyotypes, and embryo testingWhy some patients test every embryo-and others donât test at allHow PGT can impact embryo selection, miscarriage risk, and live birth ratesWhat âmosaic embryosâ are and why theyâre controversialCompassionate transfers, family balancing, and navigating clinic policiesThe ethics of emerging tech like polygenic testing (aka embryo red flag overload)đŹ This episode is packed with insights to help you have informed convos with your doctor-and make decisions that actually align with your values and goals.đŹ Want to weigh in?We want to hear your experience with PGT, carrier screening, mosaic embryos, or even your decision not to test. Submit your story (anonymous or not!) at CNYfertility.com/fertileishBecause letâs be honest: in fertility, there are no one-size-fits-all answersâonly informed choices.
đď¸ Episode 12: BRB. Being an Emotional Support Human- đĄ In This Episode:How not to say the wrong thing 101. This week, Laura and Brandis dive into the dos, donâts, and âpls stop talkingâ moments of supporting someone going through fertility struggles. Whether youâre a well-meaning mother-in-law, a confused bestie, or a pregnant sister trying to navigate this emotional tightrope-this episode is your crash course in being a great friend/family member through the throes of infertility.đĽ Hot Takes:How to actually show up for your friend or loved one TTC (trying to conceive)What not to say (looking at you, âJust relax!â and âWhy donât you just adopt?â)Navigating support when you're pregnant and your loved one is strugglingThoughtful ways to offer help-without being invasiveActs of love: from casseroles to baby dust bottlesThe power of asking: âHow can I support you?âPartner talk: checking in on each other through the chaosGuest voice: Fertility friend Krystal shares advice from the other sideToxic positivity â helpfulPlease donât ask âAre you pregnant yet?â 3 days after a transferSupport isnât always about fixing-itâs about being presentSmall gestures > unsolicited adviceđ Listener Love Assignment:Got a story about something helpful-or hilariously unhelpful-a loved one did during your fertility journey? Send it in! DM us on Instagram @fertileish or submit anonymously at â cnyfertility.com/fertileishâ đď¸ New episodes drop every Tuesday!đą Follow, rate, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon, iheartradio, or wherever you get your pods.