Field Guide for Marriage- A 24/7 Marriage Podcast

In this episode of the 24/7 Marriage Podcast, hosts Shannan and Javier discuss the importance of planning for summer as a family while maintaining a strong marriage. They share personal anecdotes about memorable family vacations, the significance of intentionality in relationships, and the need for self-care. The conversation emphasizes the value of creating family traditions and respecting family dynamics as children grow older. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers Me...

In this video, we dive into a growing crisis facing men in America—especially fathers. Since the pandemic, there's been a noticeable rise in passivity, apathy, and fear of commitment among men, particularly when it comes to marriage and family. We discuss the spiritual and societal challenges men are facing today, the epidemic of fatherlessness, and the collapse of commitment to family. But there’s also hope—many voices are rising to call men back to purpose, leadership, and authentic mascul...

In this episode, we’re diving into the beauty of physical and emotional connection in marriage—the kind God lovingly designed. We're getting real about the challenges couples face, the ways we sometimes drift, and how to intentionally draw near to one another again. With biblical insight, practical encouragement, and just the right amount of humor, we’ll explore how to nurture closeness that’s not only enjoyable, but deeply honoring to the covenant you share. Support the show The "Orig...

What does it really mean for a man to lead his home biblically? In this episode, we break down the often misunderstood concept of spiritual leadership through the lens of Scripture—not culture. Biblical leadership is not about control, dominance, or making all the decisions. It’s about humility, servant-heartedness, sacrificial love, and walking in step with Christ. We’ll explore practical ways a husband can lead with grace and courage, how leadership impacts the emotional and spiritual clima...

In this powerful episode, we confront a growing issue in today’s culture: the Church’s silence on the biblical view of marriage. As culture loudly redefines love, gender, and covenant, far too many churches have taken a passive stance, leaving couples without truth, guidance, or support. We explore what happens when the Church steps back instead of stepping in—and why elevating marriage should be a central mission, not a side conversation. Join us as we challenge ministry leaders, couples, an...

Is your marriage surviving... but barely? Maybe you're showing up, doing the things, but it all feels numb—like roommates sharing a calendar, not a covenant. In this episode, we’re getting real about the seasons when marriage feels lifeless, disconnected, or just plain hard. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this! Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers Meet the Labradors—Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everything ...

Every strong structure begins with a solid foundation, and marriage is no different. In this episode of Shannan and Javi, dig deep and ask: What’s in the foundation of your marriage? Is it built on trust, faith, communication, or maybe... some cracks you’ve been ignoring? Join us as we explore the key components that hold a marriage together when life gets messy. We’ll share personal stories, practical tools, and encouragement to help you examine what’s truly supporting your relationship. Bec...

In this special anniversary episode, we invite you into a personal conversation as Javier and I reflect on 32 years of marriage—yes, 32! We’re sharing the highs, the lows, the lessons learned, and the laughter that’s carried us through more than three decades together. You’ll hear real talk about what’s helped us grow stronger, the rhythms we’ve developed, and how we've navigated seasons of challenge and change. Whether you're newly married or decades in, we hope this episode encourages you, ...

What do you do when the person you love most struggles—and you're left carrying the weight of it all? In this episode, we’re diving into the emotional toll that comes when your spouse isn’t okay, and life looks nothing like you expected. We’ll talk about the silent burden of unmet expectations, how to show up with grace (even when you’re tired), and what it looks like to stay connected when everything feels out of sync. Whether your spouse is facing burnout, depression, or just a heavy season...

In this episode, we’re diving into the dangers of avoiding hard conversations in marriage—how dodging topics like sex, money, boundaries, and unmet expectations can quietly erode your connection. We’ll unpack why avoidance feels easier in the moment but creates long-term damage, and (most importantly) how to start having those real, honest conversations without it turning into a disaster. If you want a marriage that thrives instead of just survives, this episode is for you. Let’s get uncomfor...

In this powerful episode, Javier sits down with Brad Valencia from Unrelenting Pursuit to dive into the importance of vulnerability in marriage. Brad shares his personal transformation journey, revealing how embracing openness and tenderness can strengthen the connection between husband and wife. Together, they discuss practical ways men can break down emotional barriers, lead with love, and create a marriage rooted in trust and intimacy. If you’ve ever struggled to express your emotions or s...

Hosts Shannan and Javier explore the profound ways marriage acts as a mirror, reflecting our true selves, from unmasking our vulnerabilities to fostering personal growth. Discover how understanding the reflective nature of marriage can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling partnership. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers Meet the Labradors—Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everything in between—and now their mis...

Got marriage questions? We’ve got answers! In this episode, we’re diving into YOUR biggest marriage concerns—communication struggles, leadership, and everything in between. Whether you're newlyweds or marriage veterans, this Q&A session is packed with practical advice, real talk, and a few laughs along the way. Tune in for insights, relatable stories, and actionable tips to strengthen your relationship. Don’t forget to send in your questions for future episodes! Hit play and let’s talk ma...

Marriage isn’t just a relationship—it’s a ministry. In this episode, we dive into what it means to see your marriage as a sacred calling and your spouse as your mission field. How can you serve, uplift, and love your partner with purpose? How does faith shape the way we navigate the highs and lows of marriage? Join us as we explore practical ways to build a marriage that reflects grace, commitment, and a deep sense of mission. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers Me...

We've all heard the advice: "Keep dating your spouse to keep the spark alive." But what if that's not enough? In this episode, we dive deep into the work that makes a marriage thrive—beyond date nights and romantic gestures. We'll explore why emotional connection, communication, and shared purpose matter more than just going out to dinner once a week. Join us as we dispel the myths of relationship maintenance, share personal stories, and offer practical advice on how to build a strong, lastin...