Find Your Feminine Podcast

Welcome to the "Find Your Feminine" podcast, where host Carlie Jade—a Tantric Hypnotherapist—guides women on a journey to heal from lifelong trauma, embrace embodiment, and awaken to true sensual liberation. Through candid conversations and expert insights, we explore the artistry of life, empowering you to co-create a reality you're in love with.

#81: How to Ask Your Way to an Orgasmic Reality

Can the life of your dreams, full of pleasure, aliveness, and fulfillment... Really begin with the questions you ask yourself? The answer is yes. In this episode, I dive into the power of high-quality, introspective questions and how they can literally rewire your brain, shift your energy, and help you manifest your most orgasmic reality. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why the quality of your questions determines the quality of your life. How to use simple questioning techniques to transform painful or triggering memories into growth and empowerment. The difference between a climactic life (always chasing highs) and an orgasmic life (intimate, nourishing, present, and deeply pleasurable). + SO MUCH MORE!   Resources & Links: Download my Free Workbook of Transformational Questions: Download here  Learn more about VIP – Very Important Pussy, my signature program for embodying pleasure, self-love, and feminine magnetism: https://carliejade.com/ Social Media:  Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com

09-04
37:19

The MOST important question you need to ask yourself before you end your relationship…

If you've ever found yourself wondering whether your relationship has run its course, this episode is for you. Whether you're in a tough season with your partner or just questioning whether they’re “the one,” Carlie dives deep into the real reason you might be feeling disconnected — and the one powerful mindset shift that could change everything.   What we dive into: The life-altering impact of the questions you ask yourself Why your subconscious mind might be working against your relationship The truth about comparison, resentment, and relationship tunnel vision How your mindset in love reflects your mindset in life and business + SO much more!    ✨ Submit your questions or episode requests via Conversations with Carlie ✨ Follow along on Instagram: @Carliejade ✨ Loved this episode? Share it with a friend or leave a review — it means the world to me!

07-09
46:09

The Healing Trap: When “Doing the Work” Becomes a Form of Self-Sabotage

What if the very thing you’ve been doing to free yourself… is the thing keeping you stuck? In this episode, Carlie dives into the shadow side of the healing journey. The subtle yet powerful trap so many women fall into without even realizing: becoming addicted to healing. You’ll hear why constantly “doing the work” can quietly reinforce your identity as the woman who’s never fully ready, never quite enough, and always almost there… And how this keeps you from embodying the orgasmic, liberated version of you that already exists.   Carlie unpacks: The unspoken cost of over-identifying with your pain story How trauma healing without a clear vision of your future can become its own loop Why pleasure and freedom can feel unsafe to a nervous system wired for struggle How the body becomes chemically addicted to suffering Why therapy alone might be keeping you anchored in the past The Tantric shift from healing to feeling — and how to rise from love, not lack And the 8-step pleasure-based process she teaches inside her VIP program   This episode is a gentle (but fiery) wake-up call for the woman who’s done so much work — but still isn’t living the reality she’s been manifesting. It’s time to break the healing loop, reclaim your joy, and become the version of you who no longer needs to be fixed — only felt, seen, and set free.   🔥 Resources & Links: ✨ Free Gift: Download the Orgasmic Reality Meditation   💋 Join the Waitlist for VIP: Very Important Pussy A 3-month pleasure awakening experience for the woman ready to finally live her desires.

06-25
42:03

5 Steps to Transform Your Life in 90 days and Enter 2025 as a High Value Woman

Hello beautiful souls, Todays a little different! We're basically doing a mini course in a podcast episode, and she's gonna get juicy and deep! As mentioned, there is a workbook that goes along with this episode, you can download the workbook below.DOWNLOAD HEREMake sure you leave a review or send me a DM @carliejade if you loved todays episode! Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

09-27
57:47

Pain during sex & Vaginismus | Common reasons + How to heal it

Hello beautiful souls, I've been having so many calls lately with women who are experiencing pain during sex & vaginismus so I thought it would be really beautiful to have a resource where women can refer back to for help.It is really common & 100% curable. And the pathway to healing your vaginismus usually involves embarking on the sexual reclamation journey of a lifetime.If you know of anyone who is currently healing from this, make sure you send this episode! OPEN FOR ENROLMENT Very Important Pussy - VIP 3 Month Container + 1:1 CoachingSend us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

08-08
22:40

5 ways to majorly improve your sex life

Hello my love, If you know me, you know I love a good actionable list. And today I've shared with you 5 simple (and free) ways to majorly improve your sex life! You're in for a juicy episode today with lots of examples and actionable steps!, so enjoy xx MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE The Erotic Blueprint VIP - Very Important Pussy Enrolment Energetic Glow Up - FREE Masterclass Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

08-01
51:04

The Reason your holding onto Energetic Weight {The truth your PT won't tell you}

Hello my loves, Okay so I wish MORE people knew this but there is always an energetic reason why your body is holding onto excess weight. You can do all the dieting and exercise you want but if you're never getting to the root cause - no change will ever occur.If you want to learn the "HOW" than join me in my FREE upcoming Masterclass ENERGETIC GLOW UP - 12th of August - 8pm PDT VIP OPEN FOR ENROLMENT - Receive $100 off Enrolment if you sign up before the 5th of August Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

07-29
42:23

How to Manifest Your Dream {Conscious} Relationship

Welcome my loves, Ok so I get asked all the time "How I can manifest my dream relationship!". It's the tea that we all seem to want. So I thought I'd give you the resource that I wish someone had for me all those years ago! Inside this episode you will learn not only how to manifest your dream relationship but also but blocks you from getting on in the first place! Plus so much more.MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE: Astrology Cafe Human Design Specific or Nonspecific manifestor VIP - Open for Enrollment www.carliejade.com/vip Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

07-19
53:45

How to become an orgasmic woman {Solo Episode}

Hello beautiful soul, The number 1 question I get in this work is HOW do you become orgasmic?!And I'm so excited to finally unpack this for you today, and it may surprise you in the best of ways....What to expect: How to create an orgasmic realityThe keys to becoming an orgasmic womanThe key characteristics of becoming orgasmic + much more! VIP - Waitlist OPEN NOW MY BEFORE AND AFTER PHOTO Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

07-16
47:28

Pelvic Floor Health & Your Pleasure with Dr Brittney Ellers

Hello beautiful souls!You are in for a TREAT today! Brittney is a wealth of knowledge on all things Pelvic Floor health and I'm so beyond grateful to have her on the podcast to pick  her brain and to deliver you this potent wisdom. This episode is jam packed, but some of the beautiful things you can expect from today's talk include...How to know if you need to see a Pelvic Floor Specialist How to heal your yoni / pelvic floor with yoni wands What to do if you are experiencing a tight pelvic floor + pain during penetration Healing from sexual trauma How our throat is connected to Pelvic Floor energetically and anatomically How the medical industry got the female body SO wrong What you need to know before you try kegels! + SO much moreMENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE Women's anatomy of Arousal Come as you are by Emily Nagoski Dr Brittney Ellers Ted X Talk CONTACT BRITTNEY Brittney's latests offerings Dr Brittney Ellers Instagram Pelvic Health Podcast Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

07-08
01:00:15

Becoming an Unapologetic Woman with Amy Rushworth

Hello my loves, WOW! What a special podcast we have for you today. And such an important topic that I feel every woman will be faced with in their life at least once. And that is being unapologetic. Having the capacity to truly shine your light, even in times where the world is trying to dim it. A world where women are unapologetic and being their true radiant selves, is a world where everyone thrives! WHAT WE DIVE INTO....What to do when life stretches you to your capacity The modern day (online) witch hunt on women + Cancel Culture The lessons of being cyber bullied What it takes for a woman to truly stand in her powerInternalised perfectionism Why we choose suffering as a society Grief - The light and the dark sides Why women seek approval What is an unapologetic woman+ SO much more! AMY RUSHWORTH DETAILS Website Instagram Burn The Rules - Program Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

11-27
01:02:14

The science of pleasure with Dr. Isabela Bottura

Hello beautiful souls, You are in for a TREAT today. We have the incredible Dr. Isabela Bottura on the podcast, OBGYN + Pleasure expert. Today we dive deeper into debunking some common myths around your pleasure. What to expect in todays episode: How Dr. Isabela found tantra & her own orgasm Energetic blueprints Numbness & your pleasure The 101 on anal play Can everyone squirt? Or is it only a percentage of people? Orgasm & meditation Gourmet sex vs junk sexDebunking pleasure myths with scienceTips to find your own pleasure & so much more!! Dr Isabela Bottura DetailsInstagram The Science of Pleasure Website ** If you work in the field of sex, you can join Isabelas masterclass next week, DM her to gain access. Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

11-08
53:26

The truth behind becoming a multi - orgasmic woman

Hello my loves, Welcome back to Find your Feminine Podcast. It has been a damn hot minute since our last episodes but we're back and I'm so excited. Today I'm bringing in the conversation around the deeper side to pleasure and embodiment. And the truth of what is actually required to become a highly orgasmic woman. I can't wait for you to listen to this conversation! If you enjoyed this episode feel free to leave me a good review I'd be ever so grateful! Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

10-19
29:12

Inside our Ethical Non-Monogamous Relationship & What we've learnt along the way

Hello beautiful souls, What a crazy, beautiful, emotional and truly transformational few months it has been for me. I haven't uploaded podcasts since earlier this year. As I felt since the start of my saturn return in March 2023, I've just been so in my life. It's been hard to focus on anything else. Today, I have my beautiful long term fiance and partner here with me. We've been together for 7 years and counting and this relationship continues to be a portal to my empowerment and liberation as a woman.We share our own person story with ethical non-monogomy for the past 3 years. What we've learnt, felt and transitioned through. And also how our relationship has changed, shifted and evolved with the seasons of our own exploration. I understand that this type of relationship isn't for everyone. But I truly believe as long as you're happy, than that's all that matters. We wanted to share our stories to take some of the shame away for seeking a relationship outside of the 'norms' from what we we're modeled as children. Relationships come in all shapes and colours, as each person is totally unique. And I hope this episodes empowers you to take a build a bear approach to your love life and question what it is that you really want. Not what you we're told to expect or receive. My emails or DM's are always open if you want to chat / share any key takeaway / ask questions. @carliejade or hello@carliejade.comSending so much love and thank you for the support.Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

08-01
01:07:19

How to Create Deep and Intimate Connections with Lovers and Friends

Hello my love, Today I'm sharing with you the very thing that TRANSFORMED my relationships (romantically and friendships) and that is, radical honesty...Whatever we hold within, rotts inside of us. And I'll be sharing with you ways to open your heart so you can create the deep and intimate connections you really desire. NEW INSTAGRAM: @itscarliejadeEMAIL LIST: Sign up for the latest news hereSend us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

04-12
25:49

Surrendering to all of life through the feminine

Sure, you may be alive..... But are you living? As a society we tend to put so much pressure on how much one can achieve in their lifetime. Only to end the life depleted and completely drained....Through accessing the feminine we can become plugged into life again, and truly see the meaning of life once and for all.Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

04-05
26:58

The Embodied Woman & Why you're struggling to become her {Solo Episode}

Hello beautiful souls, Welcome to today's episode all about the sacred art of embodiment. This is more of a foundational episode sharing why a lot of us feeling disembodied in the first place. Why it's so important that as women we do become embodied. And so much more! This is a great place to start if you're like, "What does embodiment even mean?!" You'll have all your questions answered inside + more! Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

03-29
42:56

Introducing The Wanderess {w. Studio Jetaime}

Hello beautiful souls, I have a very special episode today with Jessica Paige {Studio Jetaime} and we are sharing with you all our new and exciting creations "The Wanderess".If you're feeling the pull to join us on this incredible journey together, we have such a fun offer for you below!MONTHLY MEMBERSHIPYEARLY MEMBERSHIP Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

03-25
24:22

Becoming your own source of unconditional love with Renee Joy

It's no surprise that as humans we crave love, we crave to be seen. Because usually it's the one thing we didn't receive as children. Unconditional love.No self love - true, raw, no matter what, unconditional love. Renee and I dive deep into this and more. We chat....The Dark night of the soul and the depression that comes with burning everything to the ground to make way for your rebirth! Learning to love yourself, even in moments when the world doesn't love you.Staying in integrity with your truth and divine mission despite receiving backlash from the people you love in your lifeLiving unapologeticallyThe addiction we have for seeking external validation  + so much moreI know you are going to relate so deeply so Renee's story. Thank you for joining us inside this very vulnerable chat. RENEE'S INSTAGRAMRENEE'S WEBSITE Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

03-14
01:11:38

The Key to Unlocking more Intimacy with your Partner {Feminine Friday}

Hello my loves, Todays Feminine Friday tip is something really close to my heart, and in this episode I don't hold back. I get real, raw and honest with you all, because vulnerability is the key ingredient to unlocking true Intimacy. I give you a glimpse inside my own romantic relationship and how we use vulnerability and honesty as a core principle in our partnership to unlock deeper pleasure in the body.If you enjoyed todays episode, please reach out to me! I LOVE to hear from you all, send me a message on insta xxSend us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP

02-17
25:35

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