Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

In this quick but powerful episode, Lisa Shield shares four down-and-dirty tips every woman should know about what makes her unforgettable in the eyes of a man. With her signature warmth and insight, Lisa breaks down the essential traits that men are secretly craving in their dream woman. If you're ready to stop guessing and start attracting a high-quality man, this episode is your wake-up call.Key Highlights:PlayfulnessA light-hearted, spontaneous attitude is incredibly attractive.Playful teasing, laughter, and having fun together deepen the connection.You don’t need to be a flirt—just be open to having fun and being in the moment.SensualityEmbrace your senses—sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell.It’s not about being overtly sexual—it’s about being grounded and fully alive.Let yourself be present and expressive, and men will be drawn to your feminine energy.WarmthGenuine warmth makes a man feel safe, seen, and emotionally connected.Show empathy and emotional availability—especially when he's vulnerable.Small gestures, like a gentle touch or holding space for him, go a long way.Self-SufficiencyMen want women who are whole and happy on their own.Self-sufficiency means you can enjoy your life even when he's not around.Avoid appearing overly needy—be secure and confident in yourself.Memorable Quote:"Be the woman who makes him laugh, dream, and admire—not because you need him, but because you choose him."Want More?Ready to dive deeper into your romantic journey? Visit LisaShield.com to watch the free presentation and apply for Lisa’s Emotionally Naked Dating Course—a life-changing 4-month experience that teaches you how to attract the Guardian of Your Soul. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/#LisaShield #FindingTheGuardianOfYourSoul #DatingAdvice #SmartSuccessfulWomen #FeminineEnergy #ModernDating #PodcastEpisode #WomenEmpowerment #RelationshipCoach Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Finding the Guardian of Your Soul with Lisa ShieldEpisode Title: “Is Your Success Intimidating Men… or Is It Something Else?”Welcome to Finding the Guardian of Your Soul! I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and I’m thrilled to have you here. Please share this episode with your single girlfriends, guy friends, and anyone navigating the dating world. What we discuss here is something you won’t hear from other coaches—I bring a unique lens to the challenges smart, successful women face in modern dating.In this episode, we’re diving deep into a common and frustrating narrative: “Men find me too intimidating.”You’ve worked hard, climbed the ladder, built a life you’re proud of—so why does it feel like your success is working against you in dating?I’ll share powerful insights from nearly 25 years of experience, including:Why it’s not your success that’s turning men away—but how you're presenting itThe difference between being confident vs. coming across as masculineHow to embrace your femininity without “dumbing yourself down”Why men do want strong, successful women—and how to let them inThe importance of learning to receive, not reject, a man's gesturesYou don’t need to be less of who you are—you just need to learn how to show up in your full, feminine power.Whether you're getting lots of first dates but no meaningful connections—or you're just tired of hearing that you're “too much”—this episode is for YOU. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/#LisaShield #FindingTheGuardianOfYourSoul #DatingAdvice #SmartSuccessfulWomen #FeminineEnergy #ModernDating #PodcastEpisode #WomenEmpowerment #RelationshipCoach Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

The SPECIFIC Dating Challenges Successful Women Face (and how to overcome them) In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield, a love coach for over two decades, discusses the unique dating challenges successful women face and provides practical solutions to overcome them. Lisa covers key topics, including time management, dealing with intimidating men, and emotional availability. She shares actionable steps to fit dating into a busy schedule, the importance of embracing feminine energy, and becoming emotionally open with potential partners. Tune in for valuable insights and tips on finding your guardian of your soul.Highlights:Time Management ChallengesIntimidating MenEmotional AvailabilitySolutions and Closing**Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin Shields discuss the complex emotions and pitfalls surrounding the question, 'Can we still be friends?' after a romantic relationship ends. They delve into the reasons why people might hold on to these 'friendships,' the emotional distress and false hopes it creates, and offer advice on how to move forward in a healthy manner.Highlights:The Real Reasons Behind 'Can We Still Be Friends?'Consequences of Staying 'Friends'Personal Anecdotes and ObservationsThe False Hope CycleWhen to Cut TiesCase Study: A Year-Long ObsessionCompartmentalization and Friends With BenefitsImpact on Self-Esteem and Mental Health **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Lisa Shield delves into the crucial distinction between love bombing and real love. She shares her own experiences and insights on how to identify a love bomber, highlighting red flags such as over-the-top affection, constant communication, lavish gifts, and pressing for quick commitment. Lisa contrasts this with the slow, steady development of real love, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, consistency, and mutual respect. She offers practical advice on protecting your heart, setting and reinforcing boundaries, and listening to your intuition. Lisa passionately encourages taking time to truly get to know a partner and underscores the value of emotional nakedness and vulnerability in fostering genuine connections. Tune in to learn how to safeguard yourself against love bombers and open the door to lasting, meaningful relationships.Highlights: Understanding Love Bombers  Love bombers overwhelm you with attention, affection, and gifts to quickly win your trust.  They often exhibit narcissistic traits and may have avoidant personality disorders.Characteristics of Love Bombers  Over-the-top affection too soon.  Constant attention and intense communication.  Lavishing gifts and grand gestures.  Putting pressure to commit quickly.Characteristics of Real Love  Develops gradually with mutual respect and understanding.  Establishing a foundation of friendship first.  Consistency, reliability, and genuine interest in each other's goals.  Willingness to have difficult conversations and respect for boundaries.Protecting Yourself from Love Bombers  Slow down and honor your own pace.  Set and reinforce clear boundaries.  Stay connected with friends and family who can offer objective perspectives.  Look for consistent actions over grand promises.  Listen to your intuition and trust your gut feelings.Key Takeaway  Authentic relationships build over time with open communication, mutual respect, and emotional vulnerability. Avoid rushing into commitments and prioritize finding a partner who truly values and respects you. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Unlock the Secret: How to Attract High-Quality Men In this episode, Lisa Shield delves into the intricacies of attracting high-quality men and the concept of Emotionally Naked Dating. She shares her personal journey, offers insights into shifting perspectives, and discusses the importance of genuine emotional vulnerability. Lisa provides practical advice on how women can embrace their femininity, build emotional connections, and approach dating with authenticity and confidence.HighlightsThe Struggle of Attracting High-Quality MenImportance of Shifting PerspectivesSteps to Real Confidence and AuthenticityWhat is Emotionally Naked Dating?Interactive Visualization ExerciseMeeting High-Quality MenSelf-Compassion and Emotional Vulnerability **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," host Lisa Shield delves into the often overlooked and taxing endeavor of trying to fix or change men in relationships. Lisa, a relationship expert, shares her personal journey and the important lessons she’s learned along the way about recognizing and overcoming codependency in relationships.  Highlights: 1. Personal Reflection on Past Relationships: Lisa discusses her first marriage and how persistent financial disagreements highlighted deeper issues of codependency and unmet expectations. 2. The Codependency Trap: Explains how codependency is a form of people addiction, where both partners rely on each other to fill emotional voids, leading to stagnation and mutual unhappiness.3. Impact on Men: Discusses how efforts to fix or change a man can feel emasculating and create an unhealthy power imbalance, ultimately damaging the relationship. 4. Steps to Break Free: Emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and taking personal responsibility as crucial steps towards attracting a partner who is a true equal and not a project. 5. Final Five Concept: Introduces the concept of the "Final Five," a list of non-negotiable attributes that one must look for in a partner to avoid settling for less than they deserve. Lisa concludes by inviting listeners to visit her website, join the Facebook group "Finding The Guardian of Your Soul," and consider her emotionally naked dating course for deeper relationship transformation.  **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2In this episode of 'Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield discuss the alarming rise of misogyny, its roots, and how it affects women and men today. They touch on historical and cultural factors contributing to misogyny, the impact on dating and relationships, and steps both genders can take to foster mutual respect and equality.Highlights: Impacts on Women's RightsHistorical Context and Current EventsMen's Perspective on Women's IssuesDeep Dive into MisogynySocietal Pressures on MenToxic Masculinity in CultureChallenges in DatingPersonal Growth and EmpathyHope for Future GenerationsThe episode concludes with a call to action for mutual respect and kindness, emphasizing the importance of programs like Lisa's in helping women find respectful, loving partners. They invite listeners to explore Lisa's program for creating fulfilling relationships and navigating the challenges posed by modern-day misogyny.**Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 1In this episode of 'Getting Inside the Right Male Mind,' hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield tackle the significant and distressing topic of misogyny and its rise in today's society. The discussion focuses on understanding the reasons behind this increase, the impact on women, and the urgent need for male allies to stand up for women's rights and freedoms. Highlights:Men's Fear of ChangeDouble Standards in Politics and SocietySubjugation and Fear of Women's PowerThreat of Obsolescence for MenSocietal Messages Reinforcing Masculine DominanceImpact on Women's Mental and Physical HealthRole of Social MediaAdvice for Men Struggling with Powerful WomenTherapy and Personal Growth **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield discusses how strong, smart, successful women can make every date more meaningful. She emphasizes the importance of spiritual growth, intentionality, and emotional vulnerability in dating. Lisa shares personal insights and experiences, offering practical tips and thought-provoking questions to help listeners connect on a deeper level with their dates and themselves.Key Highlights:Spiritual Approach to Dating:Encourages viewing dating as an opportunity for growth and learning.Stresses the importance of showing up intentionally on dates.Authenticity and Vulnerability:Discusses the importance of being emotionally naked and connecting from the heart.Emphasizes that genuine connections come from being unguarded and vulnerable.Confronting Dating Myths:Challenges common dating myths and highlights the need for women to discard the notion that the right relationship will just happen without effort.Encourages taking responsibility and doing the work required to attract a meaningful relationship.Practical Advice:Suggests setting an intention to make every date meaningful, even if the match doesn’t seem perfect at first glance.Offers practical tips such as connecting with the essence of the person across from you and focusing on their unique qualities.Personal Stories:Lisa shares her own dating journey and the growth that led her to meet her husband, Benjamin, whom she describes as the "guardian of her soul." **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this episode, Lisa Shield, a pioneering love coach with over two decades of experience, delves into the true reasons why many individuals struggle to connect on dates. She shares her philosophy that finding the right connection is more crucial than merely finding the right man. Lisa encourages personal growth alongside dating and teaches listeners how to uncover and address their blind spots that might be holding them back.Lisa also introduces her emotionally naked dating approach, which prioritizes authentic personal development over tactical dating strategies. She provides practical advice derived from Dale Carnegie’s classic book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People," tailored specifically for dating contexts. Listeners will learn how to engage in meaningful conversations, make their dates feel valued, and genuinely connect on a deeper level.Key Takeaways:Connecting, Not Impressing: Shift the focus from self-promotion to genuine interest in your date.Personal Growth: Work on yourself to be ready for a meaningful relationship.Active Listening: Engage fully and encourage your date to share more about themselves.Genuine Compliments: Sincerely acknowledge and appreciate your date’s unique qualities.Overcome Fears: Confront dating-related insecurities to build true self-worth and confidence.Highlights: Focus on Connection, Not Finding the Right ManAddressing Dating ChallengesHidden Agendas and ExpectationsSelf-Worth and ConfidenceEngaging Communication TechniquesPersonal Growth and Transformation**Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/Want more content like this? Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

The World Is Changing Fast… You Don’t Have to Face It AloneIn this poignant episode, Lisa Shield discusses the evolving landscape of our rapidly changing world and the importance of having a supportive partner by your side. Lisa reflects on the impact of the pandemic, the current state of global affairs, and emphasizes why now, more than ever, it is crucial for women to seek the 'Guardian of Your Soul.' She shares her insights on the emotional resilience offered by true partnership, recounting personal stories and client experiences that highlight the transformative power of unconditional love and support. Highlights you don't want to miss:The Importance of Emotional ResilienceWhy True Partnership Matters More Than EverClient Stories and Real-Life ExamplesConcluding Thoughts and Invitation  **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

The Real Reason Men Pull Away & How to Handle It With GraceLisa Shield, founder and CEO of Emotionally Naked dating, explains why men sometimes pull away and how women can handle this situation with dignity and grace. She discusses the importance of self-reflection, maintaining personal boundaries, and not giving away one's power. Lisa also provides strategies to avoid common mistakes, embrace personal growth, and navigate dating with confidence.Highlights:Common Reasons for Pulling Away:Narcissistic, avoidant, or love-bombing men.Situation where you're too invested too soon, pushing the man away.Staying Grounded:Reflect on whether you're projecting qualities onto men prematurely.Understand the importance of giving a relationship time to develop naturally.Responding Gracefully:Maintain your boundaries and don’t chase after the man.Stay busy and continue dating other men until you're sure about one.Reflect on any repeating patterns in your dating history.Personal Growth through Dating:Use dating as an opportunity for personal growth and self-improvement.Learn to value yourself and walk away from relationships that don’t serve you.This episode is packed with insights on maintaining self-worth and composure when navigating modern relationships. Listen in for more wisdom from Lisa Shield! **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Lisa and Benjamin Shield discuss what it means for a man to be spiritually mature, exploring various traits and principles that exemplify true spiritual depth in a man's everyday behavior. From kindness and honesty to the values rooted in strong moral foundations, the episode delves into recognizing genuine spirituality beyond superficial acts. Key Highlights from "How to Recognize a Spiritually Mature Man" Podcast: Understanding Male Spirituality: - Discover how spirituality manifests in men's lives beyond traditional symbols like yoga mats and meditation cushions. Real-life Exemplars:- Learn from Benjamin Shield, a man who embodies spiritual principles without the external trappings. Authenticity and Depth: -Explore the qualities that make a man genuinely kind, compassionate, and principled. - Hear personal insights on how deep values and strong boundaries coexist beautifully.Dating and Spirituality- Insightful discussion on navigating spirituality in relationships and dating with integrity and compassion. - The significance of being present and generous in relationships. Practical Wisdom: - Tips for women on identifying men with true emotional and spiritual maturity. - The difference between kindness and niceness, and why it matters. Inspiration for Women: - Encouraging words for women searching for a soulful partnership. - The importance of looking beyond the surface to appreciate genuine character.   Join Lisa and Benjamin Shield as they delve into the heart of what makes a man spiritually mature and how you can recognize these profound qualities in your partner.  **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield explores the transformative power of ChatGPT and how it can revolutionize your dating life. Lisa explains how artificial intelligence can enhance personal growth and dating experiences by providing tailored responses and insights. She shares how she uses ChatGPT in her coaching to help women find soulful, meaningful connections. Listen in to discover the unique aspects that set Lisa's coaching approach apart from others. Here are just a few Highlights you won’t want to miss:- Encouraging authenticity over manipulative tactics.- Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness to build genuine connections.- Marrying spirituality with actionable, real-world advice.- Focusing on finding not just any relationship, but a Guardian of Your Soul. Here are just a few notes you won’t want to miss:Introducing ChatGPT  - Discussion on ChatGPT as one of the coolest tools and greatest inventions, entering the age of AI.Practical Uses of ChatGPT  - How ChatGPT can help with crafting text responses.  - Using ChatGPT for fun and engaging dating app opening lines and responses.Authenticity and Repetition  - Addressing concerns about authenticity when using AI to generate responses and emphasizing the efficiency of good opening lines.Personal Experience with ChatGPT  - Sharing personal experience of using ChatGPT for business and hiring processes.ChatGPT's Insights on Lisa's Coaching  - Lisa's interaction with ChatGPT regarding her coaching approach and its unique aspects.  - Detailed feedback from ChatGPT on the uniqueness of Lisa's emotionally naked dating approach.  **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this enlightening episode, Lisa Shield, a seasoned love coach with over two decades of experience, helps you determine if your relationship or the person you're dating is right for you. Drawing from her extensive experience and personal anecdotes, Lisa offers her expert insights and reveals five essential questions that can save you time and heartache in the dating world.   Here are just a few highlights you won’t want to miss: Five Key Questions to Assess Your Relationship   - Lisa discusses the importance of asking the right questions to determine if a relationship is worth your time and effort. Question 1: Do I Feel Seen and Valued?   - Recognize the significance of feeling seen and appreciated by your partner. Lisa emphasizes that a partner who dismisses your feelings isn't the right one.Question 2: Are We Building a Connection or Chasing a Fantasy?   - Understand the difference between building a real connection and projecting fantasies onto a person. Lisa advises against falling in love with potential rather than the actual person.Question 3: Am I Giving More Than I'm Getting?   - Evaluate whether you are over-investing in the relationship. Lisa highlights the importance of mutual effort and not compromising your self-worth by doing all the work.Question 4: Do I Feel Like My Best Self with This Person?   - Lisa explains that the right relationship should raise your self-esteem and make you feel confident, not doubtful or insecure.Question 5: Is This Person Emotionally and Practically Available for a Relationship?   - Assess the emotional and practical availability of your partner. Lisa talks about the need for both partners to be ready and open to building a future together. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Summary:In this episode, Lisa Shield addresses the fundamental fears that hold people back from finding true love. She emphasizes the importance of facing these fears head-on rather than running from them. Lisa draws from her own experiences and provides practical suggestions and tools, including her "emotionally naked dating" approach, to help listeners work through their fears and gain confidence in their dating lives. She also discusses how fear can manifest in various ways, such as fear of rejection, fear of intimacy, and not feeling good enough, and offers ways to reframe these fears as opportunities for growth.Highlights:Personal Reflection:Lisa shares a personal story about dealing with her anxiety and fears while her husband was away.Emphasizes the importance of sitting with one's feelings and working through them.Impact of Fear in Personal Lives:Discusses how fears like rejection, intimacy, and being truly seen can impact relationships.Stresses that running from fear keeps one stuck, while facing it moves one forward.Practical Steps to Face Fear:Lisa shares stories from her life, including her divorce, to illustrate how facing fears is essential for growth.Suggests the importance of naming one’s fears as the first step to take control.Emotionally Naked Dating Approach:Advocates for vulnerability and being real as foundations of connection.Discusses how fear in dating shows up as perfectionism, playing it cool, or hiding parts of oneself.Building Confidence:Lisa describes how addressing her weight helped her gain confidence and how small, brave steps can lead to significant changes.Encourages listeners to tackle one area of dissatisfaction in their lives to build confidence.Handling Fear of Rejection:Offers tips on navigating online dating and dealing with fear of rejection by engaging proactively.Reframes rejection as an opportunity for learning and growth.Final Advice:Lisa urges listeners to think about one fear they have been avoiding and take a brave step to face it.Highlights the importance of becoming ready for a genuine relationship through personal growth.Call to Action:Invites listeners to visit her website to watch a free presentation on emotionally naked dating.Encourages booking a call with her team for those ready to transform their love lives.Promotes her broadcast with her husband, "Getting Inside the Right Male Mind", for male perspectives on dating. Here are just a few highlights you won’t want to miss:What’s really on a man’s relationship checklist.Why kindness, empathy, and positivity matter more than you think.How respect can mean more to a man than love—and how to show it.The powerful role of femininity in attracting the right man.How to acknowledge a man’s efforts and create positive, lasting connections.This conversation is packed with insights that can transform how you approach dating and relationships. Whether you’re single and searching or looking to deepen your current relationship, this episode is full of valuable perspectives and actionable advice.  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

In this episode of 'Getting Inside the Right Male Mind,' hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield dive into the concept of checklists that both men and women have when looking for a partner. They explore why understanding a man's checklist is crucial for a successful relationship. Key topics include the importance of kindness, empathy, confidence, femininity, positivity, and respect in a woman. They also discuss how negative behaviors like drama, entitlement, and rudeness can be turn-offs. The Shields share personal anecdotes and offer actionable advice for women looking to find meaningful, lasting relationships.Here are just a few highlights you won’t want to miss:What’s really on a man’s relationship checklist.Why kindness, empathy, and positivity matter more than you think.How respect can mean more to a man than love—and how to show it.The powerful role of femininity in attracting the right man.How to acknowledge a man’s efforts and create positive, lasting connections.This conversation is packed with insights that can transform how you approach dating and relationships. Whether you’re single and searching or looking to deepen your current relationship, this episode is full of valuable perspectives and actionable advice. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Episode Notes:Title: Love Takes Flight: How Cindy, a Pilot, Soared to Happiness at 57Hosted by: Lisa ShieldGuest: Cindy Weichert (she/her) Synopsis:In this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul, I’m thrilled to welcome the amazing Cindy Weichert, who has an incredibly inspiring love story to share. Imagine finding the love of your life in your mid-50s—well, Cindy did just that! After overcoming her own doubts and taking a fresh approach to dating, she met and married Tom at 57. Cindy’s journey is a beautiful testament to what’s possible when you embrace structured dating, lean on a supportive community, and stay open to love. Her story is full of hope, transformation, and a few surprises along the way—you won’t want to miss it!Key Highlights:1. Cindy's Background:  - Divorced in 2014, Cindy was initially distrustful of men and focused on self-healing.  - Encountered Lisa Shield on YouTube, inspiring a major shift in perspective towards dating and openness.2. Transformation Through Coaching:  - Undertook a comprehensive dating program that included relationship inventory, learning online dating strategies, and community engagement.  - Cindy overcame her fear and financial concerns to commit fully to the process, resulting in a transformative personal journey.3. Importance of Community and Support:  - Valued the network of like-minded women and the camaraderie fostered through the dating course.  - Emphasized the significance of structured plans and guidance to achieve major life changes.4. Dating Journey:  - Created a specific online dating profile, refined with expert advice, to attract a compatible partner.  - Re-entered the dating scene post-breakup, leading to a meaningful connection with Tom through Elite Singles.  - Developed a long-distance relationship with Tom, who was still in the army, solidifying their bond before meeting in person.5. Successful Relationship:  - Cindy appreciated the practical dating tips such as choosing a photographer, dressing for dates, and enjoying the process.  - The program helped her realize that not all dating failures were her fault and encouraged her to keep multiple options open.  - Credits the dating course for her successful marriage and personal growth, which she believes would not have been achieved alone.6. Wedding Details:  - Cindy's wedding was a meaningful ceremony combined with Tom's retirement from the military, held at the National Infantry Museum's WWII chapel.  - This unique and perfect event signified the culmination of her journey towards finding her soulmate.7. **Final Thoughts:**  - Cindy emphasizes the value of full commitment to personal development and the direct, forward-looking nature of coaching over traditional therapy.  - Lisa and Cindy conclude with gratitude and personal greetings, highlighting Cindy’s happiness and alignment with Tom.This episode is a testament to the power of persistence, structured guidance, and the willingness to embrace change in the pursuit of love and fulfillment. Tune in to hear Cindy's inspiring journey and the profound impact of finding the Guardian of her Soul. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Don’t miss this inspiring episode with Cindy Weichert and learn how you can find the Guardian of your Soul! Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Introduction:Welcome to another enlightening episode of Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, hosted by Lisa Shield and Benjamin Shield. Today, we dive deep into the emotional quagmire of breadcrumbing in relationships—a toxic dynamic where one person gives minimal effort, keeping the other clinging to the hope of something more meaningful. In this episode titled "Why We Breadcrumb and How It’s Holding You Back from Real Love," Lisa and Benjamin explore the intricate power imbalances and emotional manipulation inherent in breadcrumbing, highlighting its damaging effects on both individuals involved.We'll discuss the pervasive patterns of mixed signals, avoidance of deep conversations, and last-minute plans, which often leave the breadcrumbed individual feeling undervalued and frustrated. Through personal anecdotes, client stories, and psychological insights, our hosts emphasize the critical importance of self-love, self-compassion, and the courage to walk away from unhealthy relational patterns.Tune in as Lisa and Benjamin guide you through recognizing these harmful behaviors, breaking the addictive cycle of false hope, and embarking on a journey toward genuine connections. Remember to visit lisashield.com for more resources and to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from this crucial conversation. This is your chance to learn, heal, and find the true guardian of your soul. Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com