From Caving In To Crushing It

Hello and welcome to From Caving In To Crushing It Podcast. I’m Drew Deraney. I'm passionate about helping men overcome adversity. I've been through a lot. I’ve got the uncanny knack of encountering multiple top life stressors simultaneously. If you want to find out more about me, my story and what my work is about, go to ProfitCompassion.com. Come along to one of our Open House calls and see what our Men Supporting Men Collaboration Tribe is all about. In this podcast, I interview men who’ve been through so much in their lives and have come through stronger. They share their story about how they have overcome adversity and learned to know their worth and stand their ground. So, relax, breathe, and welcome to the show. Enjoy.

Episode 118 - Andrew Beaulieu - From Blind Spots to Breakthroughs: Andrew Beaulieu on Family, Self-Awareness, and Building an Authentic Life.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Meeting Introduction and Initial Context (0:00) Guest Andrew Beaulieu discusses the tough guy persona associated with the name "Drew." Host Drew explains the naming convention for his sons, choosing Andrew as a middle name to avoid confusion in doctor's offices. Drew thanks the networking group "Shared Connections" for introducing him to Andrew. Drew introduces the concept of life being non-linear and the importance of self-awareness in navigating external circumstances. Types of Men and Self-Awareness (1:41) Drew describes three types of men: one with blind spots, one who sees external circumstances as barriers, and one who sees them as opportunities for growth. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in becoming a better person. Drew invites Andrew to share a defining moment that helped him transition from one type of man to another. Andrew reflects on his childhood and the unique position he had within his family, observing and learning from his siblings' interactions. Influence of Spouse and Family Dynamics (4:36) Andrew talks about meeting his wife, who brought awareness to his blind spots and helped him see different perspectives. He describes the power struggle with his parents and how it led to setting boundaries and building healthy relationships outside the family. Andrew shares his experience of being the "black sheep" of the family and setting trends that were judged by his family. Drew and Andrew discuss the importance of boundaries and the impact of living in fear versus living in trust. Transition from Dating to Marriage (9:15) Andrew recounts the evolution of his relationship with his wife, from high school sweethearts to a mature marriage. He describes how his grandfather's passing helped him find his voice and build a respectful communication dynamic with his wife. Andrew emphasizes the importance of communication in their relationship and how it has evolved over the years. He reflects on the transition from dating to building a home and family together. Professional Journey and Family Business (11:59) Andrew shares his experience of working in the family business for 16 years and the traditional expectations set by his father. He describes the relationship with his father and the importance of earning respect and proving oneself in the family business.

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Episode 117 - Rob Wentz - Redefining Paths: Rob Wentz on Overcoming Challenges, Embracing Growth, and Inspiring Leadership

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Defining Moments and Linear Paths (0:00) Host Drew asks Guest Rob Wentz to reflect on defining moments in his life that led to significant changes. Rob Wentz discusses the linear path set by the school system and how it stifles creativity and possibilities. Rob shares his inspiration to provide a different educational experience for his son to foster creativity. He emphasizes the importance of adventure in life and how it was sparked by his son's birth. Personal Growth and Parenting (2:04) Rob recounts his personal growth journey, including overcoming drug addiction and becoming self-aware. He reflects on the impact of his son's birth on his life and how it led to a shift in his priorities. Rob shares his initial misunderstanding of the value of service and how it evolved over time. He discusses the role of becoming a parent in sparking personal growth and opening the heart to new experiences. Embracing the Unknown (3:51) Drew asks Rob to describe the moment he saw his son for the first time. Rob describes the controlled chaos of the hospital and the overwhelming feeling of responsibility. He reflects on the fear of the unknown and how he had to learn to embrace it. Rob emphasizes the importance of gratitude and resilience in life's journey. New Beginnings and Personal Development (5:30) Drew notes that it has been 10 years since Rob's son was born, and he is now going to be a big brother. Rob shares his mixed feelings about having another child and how it has lit a fire under him to grow. He reflects on his career journey from radio broadcasting to digital marketing and coaching. Rob discusses the importance of starting small and handling what you get well in order to grow. Leadership Communication Coaching (14:08) Drew asks Rob to explain his current profession as a leadership communication coach. Rob explains that he helps individuals and organizations improve their communication skills to become better leaders. He emphasizes the importance of effective communication in personal and professional growth. Rob shares his background in radio and how it shaped his communication skills and leadership abilities. The Unstuck Movement Podcast (16:19)...

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Episode 116 - Michael Roderick - From Giver's Burnout to Entrepreneurial Breakthroughs: Michael Roderick on Self-Care, Myths, and Referability.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Entrepreneurship, mistakes, and the "givers fix" chemical reaction. (0:00) Michael Roderick shares a personal story of making a mistake in his business, fueled by a desire to help others. The importance of self-care for entrepreneurs who prioritize helping others. (2:19) Michael struggles with self-care and prioritizing own needs. Financial crises and lack of support lead to feelings of failure. Network responds with offers of help and new opportunities. Realization that givers often neglect their own needs and well-being. Common myths that hinder entrepreneurs' success. (8:22) Michael discusses four myths that can hinder entrepreneurs' mindset, including the myth of competition and the myth of discovery. He emphasizes the importance of communication and self-promotion in reaching success, rather than relying on a single "deus ex machina" solution. Michael discusses the importance of multiple factors contributing to success, rather than relying on a single angle or approach. He emphasizes the need to think critically and try new approaches when faced with obstacles or lack of progress. Pivoting from networking to referability as a business offering. (14:38) Michael shifted from theater to thought leadership, focusing on referability and subject matter experts. His strengths lie in innovation, and he found a better offering in the world of thought leadership. Referability is key, as people often expect others to know their stories and make decisions without realizing they have control. The importance of self-acceptance and not seeking validation from others. (19:52) Michael Roderick advises young Michael to not prioritize external validation.   To learn more about Michael’s mission, go to his LinkedIn profile at https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-roderick-1161571/ or his website http://smallpondenterprises.com/    Michael’s Bio: Michael Roderick Michael Roderick is the CEO of Small Pond Enterprises which helps thoughtful givers become thought leaders by making their brands referable, their messaging memorable, and their ideas unforgettable. He is also the host of the podcast Access to Anyone which shows how you can get to know anyone you want in business and in life using time-tested relationship-building principles. Michael's unique methodology comes from his own experience of going from being a Highschool English teacher to a Br...

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Episode 115 - Marlene Shaw - The Courage to Be You: Marléne Shaw on Self-Love, Confidence, and Transforming Relationships

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Defining Moments and Early Influences (0:00) Host Drew encourages Guest Marléne Shaw to reflect on defining moments that shaped her into a relationship and confidence therapist. Marléne discusses the natural evolution of becoming a therapist and the joy of helping others through various mediums like podcasts, books, and YouTube. She recalls her early interest in therapy courses during university and her challenging childhood as defining moments. Marléne shares a pivotal moment at night school in her 20s, where a tutor encouraged her to pursue a degree, which changed her life. The Influence of a Mentor (4:05) Marléne recounts tracking down and thanking the mentor who inspired her to pursue higher education. Drew appreciates the story and emphasizes the importance of acknowledging mentors before it's too late. Marléne describes her journey of continuous learning and practice in various organizations, leading to her current work with couples and supervising therapists. She believes in the concept of evolving and growing from life's challenges, both personally and professionally. Combining Relationship and Confidence Building (5:14) Marléne highlights the importance of combining relationship and confidence building in therapy. She explains that confidence and relationship health are interconnected and emphasizes the importance of self-confidence in relationships. Marléne is writing a book titled "Courage to be you," which focuses on the natural tendency to be a people pleaser in childhood and the need to reframe relationships as adults. She discusses the importance of soothing the inner child and setting boundaries to achieve balanced relationships. Understanding People Pleasing (6:36) Drew and Marléne discuss the concept of people pleasing and its impact on relationships. Marléne describes behaviors associated with people pleasing, such as prioritizing others' needs over one's own and avoiding conflict. She emphasizes the need for balanced relationships and the importance of not compromising one's own needs. Drew suggests replacing the word "compromise" with "collaborate" to achieve a common goal without losing anything. The Importance of Self-Love and Vulnerability (12:51) Marléne explains that people pleasing often stems from a fear of rejection and the need for validation. Drew and Marléne discuss the vulnerability of both men and women and th...

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Episode 114 - Chris Kenny - Living with Purpose: Chris Kenny on Authenticity, Self-Love, and Life’s Three Big Questions

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Chris Kenny's Journey and Defining Moments (0:00) Host Drew asks Chris Kenny to share defining moments that led him to become who he is today and how he has changed his personal life. Chris describes his journey as an evolution rather than a single defining moment, emphasizing self-awareness and living as "man number three." Chris shares his upbringing in an upper-middle-class environment in Monmouth County, New Jersey, and his move to the Midwest due to his father's job. He attended a Jesuit High School and read a book called "On Death and Dying," which influenced his life significantly. Professional and Personal Evolution (3:59) Chris discusses his career path, including working for international law firms, leaving the practice of law, and moving to New Mexico to run a family business. He started a company as an entrepreneur but later shifted to business strategic planning, coaching, and consulting. Chris reflects on a quote by Thomas Merton about living a life that feels wrong, which resonated with his own feelings of dissatisfaction. He mentions his 31-year marriage and the happiness of his two adult children. The Three Life Questions (6:33) Chris introduces the three life questions derived from the book "On Death and Dying": Did I live my authentic self? Did I give and receive unconditional love? Did I leave the world a little better? He references another quote by Victor Frankl about life asking essential questions, which he calls the three life questions. Chris explains that these questions are about putting life into context and living intentionally to answer them positively every day. He emphasizes the importance of addressing these questions early in life to guide decisions and avoid regret. Defining Moments and Finding Purpose (12:08) Chris shares his experience of meeting Dr. Gary Sanchez, who helped him find his "why," "how," and "what" based on Simon Sinek's Golden Circle. He explains that his "why" is to create clarity, "how" is to make sense, and "what" is mastery. Chris decided to focus on his three life questions after his business partner retired, feeling called to share his journey and lessons with others. He discusses his struggle with depression and how finding his authentic self has been a significant part of his healing process. The Importance of Self-Love and Authenticity (15:55) Drew and Chris agree that addressing the three life questions early in life can guide decisions and lead to a m...

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Episode 113 - Andrew Deutsch - From Struggles to Strategy: Andrew Deutsch’s Journey of Global Impact and Entrepreneurial Success

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Defining Moments and Early Life (0:00) Host Drew asks Guest Andrew Deutsch to share defining moments that shaped his life and career. Andrew recounts his grandfather's journey from sweeping floors to owning a large printing company, which inspired him to pursue education. He initially struggled academically but turned things around, eventually earning a scholarship. Andrew became an exchange student in Sweden and later studied international business, despite a tough job market. Early Career and Entrepreneurial Spirit (1:02) Andrew took a job at a nonprofit in Orlando, Florida, where he learned valuable sales skills. He decided to study psychology to enhance his resume and eventually worked as a therapist. Andrew also got involved with the exchange student program, which led to projects in various countries. In 1993, he moved to Brazil to work on a project related to the country's economic reform, where he met his wife and started his business. Life in Brazil and Business Growth (6:23) Andrew lived in Brazil for about 10 years, building his business and raising his family. He emphasizes the risk he took by moving to a foreign country and not speaking the language initially. His experience in Brazil included working with high-level executives and successfully completing projects. Andrew returned to the U.S. and continued his career in global trade, eventually working for a packaging company. Career Transition and Personal Growth (8:15) Andrew worked for a packaging company, growing their international business significantly. He faced challenges with a difficult boss and decided to leave, losing 160 pounds and focusing on strategic business development. Andrew has since worked on multiple business turnarounds, leveraging his diverse experience. His career has spanned over 120 countries, and he emphasizes the importance of strategy over tactics. Founding the Fangled Group (9:34) Andrew explains the origin of his company, initially called the Deutsch Group, but later changed to the Fangled Group. The name change was due to legal issues and a creative brainstorming session with a college friend. The Fangled Group focuses on disruptive technology and strategy, with a name that encourages conversation and challenges perceptions.

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Episode 112 - Phil Reid - Embracing Impermanence: Phil Reid on Loss, Resilience, and Purposeful Living

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Defining Moments in Life (0:00) Host Drew asks Phil Reid to share defining moments that shaped his life and career. Phil thanks Drew for the invitation and mentions two major turning points. Phil recalls his father's death at age seven or eight, which made him question life's permanency and led him to seek spiritual answers. He explains that understanding life's non-permanence shifted his priorities and made him seek purpose. Impact of Father's Death and Divorce (2:39) Phil discusses how his father's death made him realize the impermanence of life and led him to seek God and life's purpose. He describes his divorce as another major turning point, comparing it to a death and questioning his life's direction. Phil reflects on the impact of his divorce on his son and family, leading him to examine who he is now and what he wants to achieve. He emphasizes the importance of learning from these experiences and not staying bitter. Understanding Mindset and Emotional Awareness (4:59) Phil talks about the importance of mindset in determining one's direction and how it affects the world. He explains that focusing on personal growth in spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical aspects is crucial. Drew adds that awareness of subconscious thoughts is essential, as humans have about 70,000 thoughts a day, with only a small percentage becoming conscious. They discuss the interplay between thoughts and emotions, with subconscious thoughts often stirring emotions. Living in the Present Moment (8:24) Drew emphasizes the importance of living in the present moment to be aware of thoughts and impact them. Phil agrees, noting that many people prefer not to think about their thoughts and live in a state of oblivion. They joke about men often saying they are thinking of nothing when asked, while women are always thinking. Drew and Phil discuss the importance of being comfortable in one's own skin and the impact of subconscious thoughts on emotions. Current Personal and Professional State (10:06) Drew asks Phil about his current state, particularly regarding his children and professional life. Phil describes feeling a sense of peace and focusing on what he can control and change within himself. He mentions the concept of the "joy factor" and the importance of waking up with an attitude of gratitu...

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Episode 111 - Erik Seversen - From Struggles to Success: Erik Seversen on Resilience, Adventure, and Thriving Through Change

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Overcoming adversity to achieve academic success. (0:00) Erik Seversen shares his journey from poor student to college professor, highlighting his determination and resilience. Overcoming rejection from UCLA and finding success in community college. (1:53) Erik was rejected from UCLA and persevered to eventually graduate with highest honors from Green River Community College. He reflects on how their first-grade teacher's negative comment influenced their self-perception and path in life. Imposter syndrome and overcoming self-doubt in academic setting. (5:32) Erik struggles with imposter syndrome in honors college course, professor's support helps overcome self-doubt and achieve success. Mentorship, cultural immersion, and personal growth. (6:33) Erik shared his transformative experience in Nigeria, where he learned to be vulnerable and connect with people. He hitchhiked and walked across Europe and Africa, facing challenges and learning to adapt. Erik’s experiences in Nigeria taught him that being vulnerable is a strength when used correctly. He emphasized the importance of mentorship and having someone who believes in you. Overcoming fear and turning it into excitement through mindfulness and breathing techniques. (11:49) Erik shares a harrowing experience of being held at gunpoint in Nigeria. He learned to harness fear and turn it into excitement. Erik anchors a feeling of safety and success in his mind. He now uses this technique in business negotiations to succeed. Finding inner confidence through self-discovery. (17:02) Erik shares his experience of giving a speech in Japan with mixed results. He recounts the story of a keynote speaker who impressed him with his fluency in Japanese. The audience's reaction to his speech, including people looking like they fell asleep, is discussed. Overcoming fear, building rapport, and embracing AI with a life coach. (20:58) Eric Severson shares his unique story of becoming a professional speaker, starting with bright red pants to stand out. Erik's speaking topics include overcoming fear, drawing from his experience living with Amazon indigenous tribe, the Wayana. He discusses overcoming fear and creating super fans in business.

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Episode 110 - Barnsley Brown - Rising Strong: Dr. Barnsley Brown on Turning Adversity into Empowerment and Entrepreneurial Success.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Personal growth and adversity with a focus on overcoming challenges. (0:00) Dr. Barnsley Brown reflects on defining moments of adversity and growth. Family dynamics, loss, and personal growth. (2:29) Barnsley reflects on tumultuous childhood, losing father and brother. Childhood trauma, writing as therapy, and personal growth. (4:42) Barnsley reflects on childhood trauma and how it shaped her passion for helping others through writing and coaching. She shares how she found her purpose in life by helping others overcome their own traumas and become leaders The impact of parental comments on a child's self-esteem. (8:08) Barnsley reflects on how her parents' negative comments about her body shaped her self-esteem and relationships. How negative experiences can be turned into positive ones through self-reflection and support from others. (10:32) Barnsley reflects on how positive experiences, such as being introduced to great books and starting a theater career, helped her find her voice and choose a positive path in life. Embracing life's challenges and developing empathy through personal growth. (12:58) Barnsley reflects on her personal growth and empathy development through life experiences. Alternative pain relief methods and Reiki training. (14:24) Barnsley shares her experiences with Reiki, including a story about a friend who was healed of chronic pain through the practice. Blending coaching and energy work to overcome mindset issues and attract clients. (16:43) Coach Barnsley helps a client overcome mindset issues to enroll first paid coaching client. Being a "badass" entrepreneur with Dr. Bonnie Barnsley Brown. (18:58) Dr. Barnsley Brown is a badass entrepreneur coach who helps clients overcome overwhelm and build profitable businesses. Life advice and business growth with a mentor. (21:18) Doctor Barnsley advises young Barnsley on life: be precious, kind, smart, and pursue passions. Doctor Barnsley offers business advice to young entrepreneur: start small, set standards, and find a badass coach.   To learn more about Barnsley’s mission, go to her LinkedIn profile at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kickasscoachingandreiki/    or her website at:  http://www.spirited-solutions.com/   

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Episode 109 - Oliver Herrmann - From Fatigue to Fulfillment: Oliver Herrmann’s Journey of Growth, Balance, and Purpose.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Defining Moments and Early Life Reflections (0:00) Host Drew Deraney emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and a growth mindset in overcoming adversity. Oliver Herrmann reflects on a lifetime of feeling like life happened to him rather than designing it, with many small moments adding up to a sense of dissatisfaction. Oliver shares his early aspirations to be an entrepreneur but was influenced by societal expectations to pursue a traditional career path. He describes feeling increasingly fatigued and disconnected from his family, leading to a pivotal moment when he couldn't play with his kids due to exhaustion. Discovering Personal Growth and Fulfillment (3:25) Oliver began exploring personal growth through books and documentaries, starting with Tony Robbins' "I'm Not Your Guru." A quote from Tony Robbins, "Success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure," resonated deeply with Oliver, highlighting the disconnect between his success and personal fulfillment. He started implementing changes in his life, focusing on personal growth in various aspects like physical health, mental health, finances, and relationships. Oliver felt overwhelmed by the pyramid of growth and needed guidance to prioritize effectively, eventually focusing on health, relationships, and mission. Balancing Priorities and Overcoming Setbacks (5:45) Oliver explains the metaphor of a table holding different glasses representing life aspects, emphasizing the importance of health as the foundation. He discusses the challenges of balancing physical health with mental health and the importance of moving the body to improve both. Oliver shares his struggle with self-criticism and the realization that setbacks are part of the journey, learning to be more forgiving of himself. He reflects on the importance of progress, even if it's small, and the need to be grateful for the journey. Transition to Entrepreneurship and Family Travel (10:25) Oliver describes his professional journey, including working in corporate, startups, and eventually taking a year off to travel with his family. The family traveled to various countries, including Canada, New Zealand, and Australia, exploring potential new living environments. Despite initial excitement, the travel became stressful, leading the family to enroll their children in a school in Bali. The family's time in Bali ended in separation, but the experience brought them closer and helped them understand that their relationship was not sustainable. Return to Stability and New Ventur...

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Episode 108 - Jared Fracker - Defying the Odds: Jared Fracker's Journey of Resilience, Gratitude, and Growth.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Defining Moment of Change (0:00) Host Drew Deraney asks Guest Jared Fracker about the defining moment that led to a change in lifestyle and mindset. Jared shares that the change was gradual, not a single defining moment. He mentions a client who realized they were "sick and tired of being sick and tired" as a turning point. Jared emphasizes that gradual awareness often leads to significant changes. Jared's Personal Story (1:31) Jared recounts a massive stroke at 25, which occurred while eating wings at a restaurant. The stroke led to a life-saving intervention by two doctors from the Cleveland Clinic. He was put on ECMO and was in a coma for 10 days, followed by a long recovery process. The experience taught Jared to prove people wrong and became a driving force for personal growth. Childhood Health Challenges (3:38) Jared discusses having a rare heart disease at three months old, which required medication instead of a heart-lung transplant. The medication allowed him to live a relatively normal life, despite frequent checkups in New York. Jared emphasizes the importance of not letting health issues define one's life and inspiring others. Host Drew praises Jared 's resilience and inspiring story. Attitude and Gratitude (6:02) Jared shares a client's perspective on being grateful for having a glass, which he finds inspiring. Drew and Jared discuss the importance of gratitude and shifting one's mindset. Jared emphasizes the power of belief and focusing on solutions rather than problems. He highlights the importance of accepting what is beyond our individual control. Impact on Personal and Professional Life (8:11) Drew asks how Jared's newfound appreciation for life has influenced personal and professional growth. Jared explains that empathy and understanding barriers help in sales and leadership coaching. He shares that early life challenges allowed for proactive changes and personal growth. Drew praises Jared's ability to discern and impact others positively. Entrepreneurial Journey (8:35) Jared talks about being an entrepreneur and running multiple businesses, including a coac...

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Episode 107 - Chris Catania - From Adversity to Empowerment: Chris Catania’s Journey as a Single Father, Mentor, and Growth Advocate.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Chris Catania's Introduction and Purpose of the Show (0:11) Host Drew Deraney introduces Chris Catania, emphasizing the three criteria for guests: being a good human being, overcoming significant life challenges, and sharing their story to help others. Drew explains the unique way they met through Instagram, with his son sharing a post about Chris's daughter. Drew discusses the linear nature of life and how external circumstances can derail it, leading to self-awareness and personal growth. He categorizes men into three types based on their self-awareness and response to adversity, with Chris exemplifying the third type who sees adversity as an opportunity for growth. Chris Catania's Early Life and Father's Influence (4:06) Chris Catania shares a pivotal moment in his life when his father had a heart attack and was diagnosed with an inoperable tumor. Despite the dire prognosis, Chris' father refused to accept it and found a heart surgeon who successfully removed the tumor, extending his life by 25 years. Chris reflects on his father's attitude of facing challenges head-on and how it influenced his own approach to life. Host Drew acknowledges Chris' father as a role model for the growth mindset and praises Chris for carrying on his legacy. Chris Catania's Career and Family Dynamics (8:02) Chris discusses his career path, starting in the family real estate business, then moving into construction, and his ongoing involvement in the industry. Host and Guest talk about the stressful nature of the construction industry and the importance of self-care and support from family. Chris emphasizes the value of having a supportive family and the importance of sharing emotions to avoid internal stress leading to physical ailments. Host Drew shares data on the link between unaddressed internal stress and physical health, highlighting the need for emotional support and self-care. Chris Catania's Journey as a Single Father (11:44) Chris opens up about his divorce and the challenges of raising his daughter alone, including moving to a smaller home and dealing with his ex-wife's mental health issues. He shares how his daughter adapted well to the changes and his pride in her resilience. Chris talks about starting an online business to provide a new source of income during the COVID-19 pandemic. He expresses his desire to retire and do volunteer work, such as with Habitat for Humanity, to give back to the community. Chris Catania's Instagram Presence and Mentorship Program (18:14)

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Episode 106 - Michael Padurano - From Estrangement to Empowerment: Michael Padurano on Self-Love, Healing, and Unlocking Inner Peace

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Personal growth and mindset shift. (0:08) Michael Padurano shares his personal growth journey, from blind spots to a growth mindset. Host Drew Deraney seeks a defining moment that sparked change, such as a tap on the shoulder or a two-by-four upside the head. Personal healing journey after estrangement from children. (3:20) Michael Padurano fought for custody of children after proof of abuse, despite estrangement for 20 months. Michael healed through 19 months of self-discovery, working with 40-50 coaches and 7 spiritual leaders. His journey of self-awareness led to deconstruction of himself, ignoring flaws and weaknesses while focusing on strengths. Self-love journey from insecurity to unconditional acceptance. (7:47) Transitioning from self-love to unconditional love leads to healing and self-acceptance. Manifestation, vibration, and self-love. (9:31) Michael discusses the importance of being authentic and growing forward every day. He shares his personal journey of healing and connecting with their true self. Personal development, intuition, and self-empowerment. (12:17) Michael shares personal experience of healing from stroke through meditation and intuition. He emphasizes the importance of listening to inner voice and intuition over external noise. Detaching from external sources and embracing all aspects of self is key to personal growth. Michael encourages others to inspire and empower themselves, rather than relying on external sources. Personal growth and self-awareness through coaching and programs. (17:31) Michael shares his personal journey of self-discovery and healing through “coaching” practice. He creates programs for individuals and corporations to help them move into alignment with their mission statements. The importance of self-awareness and valuing all roles in an organization. (20:41) Organizations must prioritize self-awareness and empathy to succeed. Happiness, success, and inner peace with a former C-suite executive. (22:19) Michael Padurano shares insights on happiness and success, citing his conversations with 15-20 billionaires. He emphasizes the importance of inner peace and self-love, rather than external validation. Michael offers advice to young...

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Episode 105 - Joel Salomon - From Adversity to Abundance: Joel Salomon on Gratitude, Prosperity, and the Nine Money Rules for Success

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Introduction and Gratitude (0:14) Host Drew Deraney expresses gratitude for the introduction by John Phelan, a mutual acquaintance from Fairfield University. Drew thanks Guest Joel Salomon for supporting his son with autism, highlighting Joel's kindness and integrity. Joel reciprocates the gratitude, praising the son and expressing pleasure in working with him. Drew Deraney sets the stage for the conversation, discussing the concept of self-awareness and the three types of men: one with blind spots, one who sees adversity as victimhood, and one who sees opportunities in adversity. Defining Moments and Personal Growth (1:55) Drew asks Joel Salomon to share defining moments that shaped his perspective on life and personal growth. Joel recounts his second divorce in December 2007, emphasizing the importance of taking full responsibility for his life and relationships. Joel shares his experience of worrying about not seeing his children after the divorce and how it led to negative future planning. He explains how he learned to shift from negative to positive thinking, which positively impacted his relationship with his daughters. Gratitude and Its Impact (5:40) Joel discusses the importance of gratitude in maintaining a positive outlook and being present. He shares a story about his daughter Morgan's illness and how it taught him the value of gratitude and positive thinking. Joel explains how he teaches gratitude to his clients and the scientific backing for its benefits, citing a study by Dr. Seligman. He emphasizes the power of writing down what one is grateful for and the impact it has on brain synapses and overall happiness. Transition to Prosperity Coaching (12:41) Drew transitions the conversation to Joel's journey from the financial industry to becoming a prosperity coach. Joel explains his background in managing a hedge fund and the challenges he faced, including the 2008 financial crisis. He shares how a personal development course in 2015 led him to realize his true purpose: to help people become financially free and educate them about money and mindset. Joel discusses the importance of belief and mindset in achieving financial success and prosperity. The Nine Money Rules for Millionaires (17:57) Joel delves into the nine money rules for millionaires, which Joel has written about in his book. He explains the first rule, belief, and its i...

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Episode 104 - Tim Croll - Redefining Success: Tim Croll on Overcoming Setbacks, Emotional Intelligence, and Building Purpose-Driven Connections.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Personal growth and self-awareness. (0:10) Host Drew Deraney thanks Jeff Lord, Drew Casaccio, and Christopher Pry for introducing him to Tim, citing their role in connecting them as a reason why they met. Drew identifies three types of men, with the third type being self-aware individuals who notice adversity and take control of their lives. Defining moments and societal changes. (2:47) Tim Croll reflects on his parents' expectations and how they were shaped by societal norms and the lack of flexibility in their definition of success. Tim acknowledges that society has changed and that traditional parameters for success no longer apply, leading to a need for adaptability and new definitions of success. He recounts entrepreneurial spirit from youth, despite societal expectations of college and corporate work. Tim's business ventures failed, leading to financial struggles and a move to Rochester with family resistance. Despite challenges, the move to Rochester expanded the speaker's perspective and brought the family closer together. Personal identity and resilience after experiencing setbacks in career and business. (7:45) Tim lost his job and identity after a corporate sale and subsequent job loss. He built a successful ecom company but faced financial struggles and identity crises. Tim had to look internally to recover his identity and sense of self after experiencing success and failure. He had a mentor who helped them see his strengths and weaknesses and provided valuable insights and guidance. Tim credits his mentor with helping him recognize the importance of tapping into an expert mind outside of their own experience. Emotional intelligence, gender differences, and its importance in personal and professional growth. (13:29) Tim discusses emotional intelligence (EQ) and its importance in personal and professional growth, highlighting the tendency to ignore EQ in favor of intellectual intelligence (IQ). Tim shares insights on gender differences in emotional intelligence, citing research that suggests females are more adept at communication and connection, while males are better at compartmentalization and logical thinking. Personal growth through self-awareness and rewriting negative beliefs. (16:03) Tim discussed how experiences shape beliefs and behaviors, and how some people are taught not to take risks, which can limit growth as an adult. He shared his personal experience of struggling with beliefs and behaviors formed by limited understanding and experiences, and how he had to...

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Episode 103 - Rob Fenstermaker - Rooted in Resilience: Rob Fenstermaker on Overcoming Anger, Building Stronger Connections, and Finding Purpose.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Personal growth and overcoming anger through support from other men. (0:09) Host Drew Deraney praises Guest Rob Fenstermaker for being a "strong man" and discusses the importance of building stronger men in society. Rob Fenstermaker has experienced different stages of self-awareness, from blindness to taking control of life. Rob 's defining moment came when he realized he had to let go of anger in his marriage. He shares his personal journey of overcoming anger and loneliness by connecting with other men through support groups and deepening relationships. Rob emphasizes the importance of intertwining roots with other men to support each other and stand tall, just like giant redwood trees. Men's personal growth through connections and listening. (6:31) Men often isolate themselves due to societal expectations, but finding others who share similar experiences can lead to personal growth and connection. Building trust and respect in marriage through open communication and shared experiences. (8:36) Rob shares his personal story of overcoming anger in marriage. He noticed improvement in respect and fulfillment after addressing anger. Building trust and knowing personal truths are essential for a strong marriage. Corporate burnout and identity crisis in the workplace. (12:33) Rob discusses corporate burnout, feeling disengaged and struggling with identity crisis. He shares his epiphany moment, realizing significance comes before success. Entrepreneurship offers freedom, but also new challenges, such as maintaining identity and avoiding corporate mindset. Entrepreneurship, time management, and personal growth. (16:53) Rob realized the importance of owning their calendar and making time for themselves. He emphasized the value of appreciation and living in the present moment. Finding clarity and purpose in life despite challenges and obstacles. (19:34) Rob discusses the comparison game and understanding wants vs needs. He helps people get out of ruts and build solid foundations for their goals.   To learn more about Rob’s mission, go to his LinkedIn profile at https://www.linkedin.com/in/robfenstermaker/   Or his website at

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Episode 102 - Cece Shatz - From Laundry to Legacy: Cece Shatz on Transforming Adversity into a Thriving Media Empire.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Introduction and Initial Greetings (0:09) Host Drew Deraney and Guest Cece Sgatz exchange greetings and express mutual appreciation for each other's presence. Drew thanks the person who introduced them and mentions being on Rosalind Sadaka's podcast. He discusses the linear view of life taught by family and how life often takes a non-linear path due to external factors. Drew introduces the concept of three types of women: those with low self-awareness, those who blame others for their adversity, and those who use adversity as an opportunity for growth. Cece's Journey and Defining Moments (3:26) Cece Shatz shares her experiences with relationships and the realization that there must be more to life. Cece recalls her grandmother's encouragement and how it influenced her belief in her potential. She describes the abusive relationship with her ex-husband and the turning point when he called her "only good enough to do his dirty laundry." Cece talks about a reading by Karen Rosenberg that predicted her future success in media, which she initially doubted but later found to be true. Transition and Personal Growth (6:09) Cece emphasizes the importance of recognizing and seizing opportunities when they arise. She discusses her involvement in a divorce support group and how it led her to help others and start her own media platform. Cece shares her experience of being invited to a talk show and how it led to her first radio show on Life Improvement Radio. She explains the growth of her media network, including moving from radio to TV and starting the New Streaming Network. Building the Media Platform (10:24) Cece talks about the challenges of marketing her show and the decision to help friends with their shows as well. She mentions the support from friends and professionals who helped set up the radio station and TV studio. Cece describes the New Streaming Network, which includes TV, podcasting, and radio, and its goal of making it economical for people to share their stories. She highlights the success of the network, including over 6 million views on Roku and the addition of Roku audio. Advice and Reflections (15:22) Drew and Cece discuss the importance of kindness and how it can overcome challenges. Cece shares her philosophy of not letting doors close and allowing oneself to be who they are.

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Episode 101 - Ania Hulsman & Dion-Rene - From Adversity to Empowerment: Ania and Dion-Rene on Redefining Life, Love, and Growth Through Challenges.

Here’s what you’ll learn about: Meeting Introductions and Purpose (0:16) Host Drew Deraney explains the purpose of having Ania and Dion-Rene on the podcast, emphasizing their growth mindset and overcoming adversity. Drew outlines the three types of people: those who live life with blind spots, those who play the victim card, and those who adopt a growth mindset. Ania’s Defining Moments (23:09) Ania shares that she lived a victim mindset until she was 25, identifying herself by her past experiences. A turning point for Ania was when someone pointed out that she often shared the story of her father's death to make herself interesting. Ania describes a significant health issue in her late 20s, where she had severe skin problems that led her to discover a dairy allergy. This realization empowered Ania to take control of her health and led her to study nutrition and coaching. Ania's Realization of Neurodiversity (23:32) Ania discusses her struggle with self-doubt and low confidence throughout her education and professional life. She realized her son was diagnosed with autism and ADHD, leading her to understand that she too was neurodiverse. This understanding was a healing and empowering moment for Ania, boosting her confidence and self-awareness. Ania reflects on how this realization has changed her perspective and approach to life. Dion's Health Crisis and Personal Growth (23:57) Dion shares a defining moment when he was diagnosed with cancer and heart issues shortly after meeting Ania. He describes the shock of being diagnosed and the realization that he needed to take control of his health. Dion recounts the surgeries and health challenges he faced, including multiple heart attacks and a near-death experience. This crisis led Dion to reevaluate his life, prioritizing family and health over work and status. Dion's Life Changes and Family Focus (24:18) Dion explains how his health crisis made him more mindful of his health and the importance of spending time with his family. He mentions turning down job opportunities that would have taken him away from his family. Dion emphasizes the importance of creating memories and a legacy with his family rather than focusing on material success. Ania adds that Dion 's changed priorities have led to a more balanced and fulfilling life for their family. How Ania and Dion Met (27:15)...

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Episode 100 - Dwight Heck - From Helpless to Purposeful: Dwight Heck on Personal Growth, Financial Empowerment, and Living Life with Intention.

This episode: From Helpless to Purposeful: Dwight Heck on Personal Growth, Financial Empowerment, and Living Life with Intention.    Here’s what you’ll learn about: Introduction and Gratitude (0:05) Host Drew Deraney expresses gratitude to Ryan Dunphy for introducing him to the guest, Dwight Heck. Drew reflects on the linear teaching of life and how it often deviates from reality. He introduces the concept of three types of men: one with blind spots, one with a victim mindset, and a third with a growth mindset. Drew identifies Dwight as the third type of man and invites him to share his transformative moment. Dwight's Personal Development Journey (3:19) Dwight Heck recounts starting personal development in 1993, feeling helpless and lacking confidence. Dwight describes meeting a mentor who encouraged him to pursue electronics engineering and personal development. He shares how the mentor introduced him to personal development books and cassette tapes, leading to a significant change in his self-worth. Dwight explains how personal development helped him attract different people and improve his business relationships. Impact of Personal Development on Relationships (10:13) Dwight discusses how personal development affected his marriage and other relationships. He mentions the challenges of being in a marriage where one partner is involved in personal development and the other is not. Dwight shares his experience with counseling and how it did not work due to the differences in personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of gratitude and prayer in overcoming personal challenges. Professional Transition and Give a Heck Brand (13:21) Dwight talks about transitioning to the finance industry and helping others improve their financial lives. He created the Give a Heck brand during the pandemic to focus on living life on purpose. Dwight explains the significance of the phrase "Give a Heck" and how it influences his financial career. He highlights the importance of emotional coaching and creating a financial roadmap for clients. Advice for Younger Self (17:40) Drew asks Dwight what advice he would give to his younger self. Dwight advises his younger self to embrace uniqueness and understand that it's okay to be different.

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Episode 99 - Jeff Griffin - Falling 40 Feet, Rising to New Heights: Jeff Griffin’s Journey of Resilience, Purpose, and Defying the Impossible.

This episode: Falling 40 Feet, Rising to New Heights: Jeff Griffin’s Journey of Resilience, Purpose, and Defying the Impossible.    Here’s what you’ll learn about: Overcoming adversity and making choices in life. (0:09) Jeff shares his inspiring life story with Drew and the audience. Jeff reflects on defining moments in his life, including a pivotal moment when he was 21 years old. Jeff emphasizes the importance of preparation and decision-making in life. Identity loss after a fall. (4:32) Jeff Griffin describes how he fell 40 feet from scaffolding and broke his back, leading to the loss of his identity as a football player. Jeff recounts his initial reaction to the news, including feeling angry at himself and entering a state of self-pity. Overcoming self-pity through unexpected encounter with paralyzed prisoner. (7:10) Jeff's encounter with a paralyzed prisoner changed his perspective on life. Overcoming disabilities and finding purpose through speaking and leadership. (9:38) Jeff was asked why he was crying and the question helped him gain clarity and focus on what he could do, rather than what he couldn't. He dreams of walking again and climbing mountains, despite being told by a doctor that it's impossible due to his injury. Jeff shares his inspiring story of overcoming obstacles and believing in himself. Jeff created a peer-to-peer leadership program for individuals in wheelchairs, which has been recognized by the UN. He believes that the problem is not the individual, but rather the solution, and offers three Ds (desire, dream, and do) as a framework for solving problems. Overcoming disability and achieving dreams through determination and support. (16:55) Jeff shares personal story of overcoming disability and achieving goals. He motivates others by showing improvements and reframing negative messages. Books and DVDs are being written to inspire others with disabilities. Overcoming obstacles to achieve dreams with motivational speaker Jeff Griffin. (21:56) Jeff Griffin shares his inspiring story of overcoming obstacles to achieve his dreams. He emphasizes the importance of believing in oneself and taking action. Griffin encourages young people to pursue their passions and never give up. Self-confidence and trust in oneself and God's potential. (26:28) <...

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