Gaydars for Gaysians

Join two queer asians as they talk about relationships, holes [and sex], daddies (or the lack thereof), intersection and identities, and the tops and bottoms of their lives. You better be ready for one hell of a ride. Hosted by Aster Hwang and Kenneth Kang.

30. Gay Military Horror Stories

Apologies for the late update, but we're back with our 30th episode with no other but our own host, Kenneth! He spills all the tea about gay men in the military, straight fuckboy-wanna-be's, & his No Nut November. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

02-20
01:01:35

10. Yaoi & Boys Love

We are already at our 10th episode!! And what better way to celebrate it than with an exclusive episode about all stuff yaoi and BL featuring a special guest? With the help of our former Yaoi manga translator, we talk about the different types of bl involving bears and twinks, obviously some anal sex involving pregnancy, and try to understand what the f*ck a cake-verse entails. Our primary goal, as it always has been, is to ~educate~ our audience so by the end of this week’s episode, you’ll k...

02-20
01:03:56

8. How to Finesse K-Pop Fuckboys & Movie Stars

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some blowjob tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eating disorders. And then as if nothing had happened, we fuck, marry, and kill bananas, eggplants, a...

02-20
01:01:31

5. Our Coming Out Story (the ~trauma~ never ends pt.2)

Surprise! The T pot isn’t fully empty yet. this episode we talk about something that all gays have to do (unless you are a homophobic politician) -- yes, we are talking about coming out. We start with some very early sexual awakening (involving THREE guys) and then move onto some more traumatic story. Prepare some tissue because you definitely will be crying (either from laughing too hard or empathizing). And as always, stay around as we try to fuck, marry, and kill some more bodily fluids. F...

02-20
46:28

47. Ex-GF Speaks: Straight Person Going into a Queer Relationship (ft. Bella)

The long wait brings the most special guest ever...the ex. Aster brings on his ex-girlfriend (cis and straight) to spill the whole tea about their past relationship: how they met, why they were attracted to each other how they broke up, what challenges they faced, ~technical difficulties~, yadayadayada. You never wanna miss this one. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @g...

05-17
49:00

46. Trans Sex Liberation: How Trans People Enjoy Sex While Feeling Dysphoria

Aster's back with a steamy topic that cis people have been craving about for decades: how do trans people have sex? Joined by our first trans femme guest, Vera, the two trans hotties talk about how they navigated their gender journeys, how their relationships with their bodies and sex have changed over time, and how they enjoy sex while dealing with body dysphoria. The ultimate trans sex liberation has come! Tune in till the end to listen to Vera's hookup stories, which are the wildest ones t...

03-29
56:50

45. Interviewing Robert Steele: The Author of Banned From California

Aster's back from his long break (I promise I'll be back next week) with a steamy interview with Robert Steele, the author of Banned from California, a biography of Jim Foshee, a gay runaway—and later, gay rights activist—who, after a childhood spent first in an orphanage and then a mental hospital, found himself in the underground world of the early queer scene of 1950s Los Angeles. Robert explains why he chose Jim as the subject of his book, how Jim endured his abusive childhood and h...

03-04
41:03

44. How to Deal with Rejections (Or Not) (ft. Karen)

Who has been showered with rejections before? I know I have. Aster is back with our favorite Single Since Birth Karen (ep 14,15,29) to talk about rejections. Join us in our verbal diarrhea of healing from rejections from career opportunities, relationships, and family, as we bare all of our most embarrassing stories of rejections. Sharp right, we give fashion tips because we be fashionable like dat. Cheers! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a D...

02-02
59:44

43. What Do We Talk about in Therapy? (ft. Dr. Pepper)

And we're back! Aster has been taking some time off because he was vacationing in therapy. In this episode, he sits down with a psychiatrist-to-be Dr. Velma Pepper to talk about everything therpy: why we started therapy, what we talk about in therapy, what kind of therapists we love & hate, why people don't go to therapy, and why therapy can be questionable at times. Tune in to learn about our deepest darkest secrets, and answers to our listener questions collected through instagram relat...

01-11
01:17:46

42. Eating Disorder, Body Dysmorphia & Fitness Culture (Jackie pt.2)

Hi, pretty bitches Jackie and Aster are back talking about everything related to our lewks and bodies, this time specifically about eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and fitness culture. Jackie goes deep into her history with various eating disorders, while Aster rants about how his OCD facilitates his body dysmorphia, separate from his body dysphoria. They discuss fitness culture as well, which they have distinct experiences regarding fitness trainers. You won't expect what Aster had to go ...

11-01
47:19

EP 41. Drag Anime She-ro: Maxxie LaWow

Aster has his first legit interview with Anthony Hand, the creator of Maxxie LaWow: Drag Super-Shero, a feature-length animated film anticipated to be released in Spring 2024. Introducing pop culture's very first drag heroine, our super-shero’s first silver screen adventure pits her against her archnemesis Dana Bolical. With a nefarious scheme tucked-up and ready for every situation, Dana will quickly become the villain audiences love to hate. Maxxie LaWow will feature a strong LGBTQ+ and BIP...

10-12
42:06

40. Pretty Bitches: Lookism & Trans Beauty Standards (Jackie pt.1)

TW: Eating disorder, Suicidality, Transphobia, Transmisogyny I'm late because I moved across the ocean, but here's another insightful episode. This week, we're back with another straight girl, Jackie, to talk about how rough her life has been being the "objectively beautiful" one. Can you imagine having every single guy fall for you the moment he lays eyes on you? Every gay man's dream! No but seriously, we talk about the pervasion of lookism in our contemporary society through the lens of ...

08-29
48:01

39. Bipolar Chad Teaches How to Get a Brad

TW: Extremely dark humor regarding mental health and disorders, self-harm, & self-worth This episode, we're with aromantic heterosexual Haidy who opens up everything about being bipolar and having ADHD. Currently in her manic stage, she owes up to her God complex and irresponsible sexual decisions. BTW, we're using very dark humor in this episode, so don't take us so seriously. But please, practice safe sex and take your meds! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in t...

08-18
01:02:04

38. What the Gays Think About Marriage (ft. Rowan & Aiden)

Pride Month Event is over, but the studio is ever more flowing with the gays. Your fav gay guests, Rowan (ep 17, 22) & Aiden (ep 35), are back to discuss all about marriage. What do we think about marriage? Do we even wanna get married? Do we want kids, if we can ever have them? What about our ideal honeymoon? Tune in to hear about Rowan's nude cliff wedding fantasy and Aiden's Zoom wedding & love story with Sangwoo. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the milit...

08-11
01:08:11

37. Transphobia & Radical Feminism in Korea (ft. polypan dolphin)

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08-04
01:11:07

36. Self-Image & Plastic Surgery: The Double-Eyelid-Dilemma (ft. Irene)

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! Have you ever considered having plastic surgery? Fear...

07-28
48:39

35. GS Stands for Gay & Sad (also gay sex) (ft. Aiden)

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! If you thought last week's episod...

07-14
01:12:19

34. Have You Heard of the Queer Fraternity?

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! Pray to God, because sexual depra...

07-08
01:05:30

33. Why the White Girl Was So Late to the Homo Game

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! This week, we finally have a quee...

07-01
42:24

32. When Your Multi-Cultural Background Gives You ~trauma~

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! We're welcoming our five-week Pri...

06-22
01:04:09

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