Get Naked... With Yourself

What if the woman running your business was formed long before you ever had something to sell? I explore why women entrepreneurs who know the business strategy still can't get themselves to execute it. I go back to where your subconscious mind began forming, from the womb to around age seven, and look at how subconscious programming from the people raising you became the beliefs behind your prices and your posts. In the last episode, I talked about why two women can follow the same sales scripts and get different results, and this week I go backwards to where the version of you using those scripts came from. I share why hyper independence was my pattern and still shows up sometimes, why people-pleasing, perfectionism, and conflict avoidance all worked, and the question I ask my clients and speaking audiences, one that might make you a little mad. Here's what I walk you through: How to notice the conclusions you drew at five that still make your decisions What to recognize before you call your protective behaviors proof that something's wrong with you How an early rejection can turn being visible into something your body treats as unsafe Why you were learning how to handle rejection long before your first sales calls Why your childhood wounds come to work with you every morning How to hear the pit in your stomach as information without taking it as an instruction Why you don't need to heal every old pattern before you take action What to ask yourself when an old version of you tries to make today's decisions If you've been searching for inner work that reaches your pricing, your follow-ups, and your content, this episode is your invitation to notice who's been making your decisions and choose who gets to make them now. Here's to choosing who you are now when an old pattern shows up. Gina   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginamarie_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wickedwealthywoman Website: http://www.wickedwealthywoman.com/   Try The Naked Truth GPT™ for FREE: https://freebie.wickedwealthywoman.com/the-naked-truth-gpt-8306   Break free from burnout. Grab your copy of Fck the Hustle!: Freedom Is in the Healing! today. https://a.co/d/09SBELrG

Do you know exactly how to sell and still hesitate to say your price, delete the follow up you already wrote, or whisper the second someone might notice you want the sale? In this episode, I explore why female entrepreneurs and service providers can learn the exact same sales strategy and get different results, and why the version of you executing that strategy was built long before you started the business. I walk you through the conditioning, beliefs, and protection you brought with you, and why awareness gives you a choice instead of one more thing to fix about yourself. Three years ago, I left a 25 year relationship and started the deepest healing journey of my life, and somewhere in it I paused my business without deciding to. Now that I'm building again, my coach challenged me to sign a new private client, and the immediate no I heard in my own head exposed a belief I'd never seen: asking for what I want is selfish. I talk about what that taught me as a business coach who teaches sales, and why the inner work underneath your pricing strategy decides how you say your number and what you make a no mean. You'll walk away knowing: How to notice the “shh” that shows up right before you ask for the sale What to recognize when you hide that you want clients Why two women can run the same strategy and tell themselves two different stories about it How to spot the limiting beliefs hiding inside how you say your price What to ask when following up starts to sound like being annoying Why hearing no can turn into a story about your offer or your worth How to separate the information money gives you from the authority you hand it What to notice when a slow stretch sends you into planning or panic Why curious questions get you further than asking what's wrong with you What to remember about your self worth when your results change If you've been searching for personal growth, self trust, and support for women in sales and service, this episode is your invitation to stop obeying the story that built you and choose who runs your business now. Here’s to staying present when something good arrives. Gina   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginamarie_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wickedwealthywoman Website: http://www.wickedwealthywoman.com/   Try The Naked Truth GPT™ for FREE: https://freebie.wickedwealthywoman.com/the-naked-truth-gpt-8306   Break free from burnout. Grab your copy of Fck the Hustle!: Freedom Is in the Healing! today. https://a.co/d/09SBELrG

Have you ever felt like you’re stuck, blocked, or somehow getting in your own way? In this episode, I’m sharing a realization that completely shifted the way I look at feeling stuck, self sabotage, and the patterns we keep repeating. What if the thing you’ve been trying to fix isn’t actually a problem at all? What if your body is simply doing what it learned to do to keep you safe? I’m taking you inside a personal experience from my own healing journey that helped me see one of my subconscious patterns in a completely different way. It brought me back to my childhood conditioning, the big dreams I had, the stories I picked up along the way, and the limiting beliefs I didn’t even realize I was still carrying. You’ll learn: Why feeling stuck may have more to do with safety than motivation. How your past experiences and childhood conditioning can quietly shape what feels normal to you today. Why you can consciously want something while your subconscious patterns keep pulling you toward what’s familiar. How an emotional addiction can develop around thoughts, feelings, and behaviors you’ve repeated for years. How limiting beliefs can influence the way you approach success, dreams, and following through. Why judging yourself can make inner work harder than it needs to be. How asking yourself what you actually need can uncover something deeper. Why reconnecting with your younger self can become an important part of your healing journey. How to begin making a new way of living, creating, and succeeding feel safer. If you’ve been telling yourself that you have a block, that you always self-sabotage, or that something must be wrong with you, this conversation may help you see yourself in a completely different way. Here's to coming back to your own truth, Gina Marie   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginamarie_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wickedwealthywoman Website: http://www.wickedwealthywoman.com/   Try The Naked Truth GPT™ for FREE: https://freebie.wickedwealthywoman.com/the-naked-truth-gpt-8306   Break free from burnout. Grab your copy of Fck the Hustle!: Freedom Is in the Healing! today. https://a.co/d/09SBELrG

What happens when the woman everyone counts on says I got it before anyone can reach for the bag? In this episode, I explore why successful women, coaches, and women entrepreneurs can find striving more comfortable than receiving, and why hyper independence can look like confidence while it keeps help at a distance.  I also share the question I ask every client, and why every woman laughs before she answers it, why accepting compliments can be harder than doing the work, and what changes once you start letting others help. Here's what we get into: How to notice what happens in your body when someone offers to help you What to recognize in the way you respond to a compliment Why striving can be more comfortable than receiving love, rest, or support How to tell the difference between confidence and being hyper independent What to ask yourself before you turn down an offer of help Why self worth can become attached to how much you produce How saying I got it can protect an old version of you who handled everything alone What to observe when rest arrives and guilt shows up alongside it Why independent women can push away the love, money, and clients they want most How to practice receiving in small everyday ways at home Why hyper independent women can build successful businesses and still turn down the support they want If you’re ready to start receiving all that’s available to you, this episode is your invitation to stop rejecting the thing you've been praying for and let it reach you. Here’s to staying present when something good arrives. Gina   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginamarie_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wickedwealthywoman Website: http://www.wickedwealthywoman.com/   Try The Naked Truth GPT™ for FREE: https://freebie.wickedwealthywoman.com/the-naked-truth-gpt-8306   Break free from burnout. Grab your copy of Fck the Hustle!: Freedom Is in the Healing! today. https://a.co/d/09SBELrG

Do you ever finally get the client or the raise you wanted, then catch yourself tightening instead of celebrating, exhausted not from the work itself but from a body that doesn't believe your next level is safe yet? In this episode, I explore why business owners, coaches and consultants often stall even when you know exactly what to do, and why this isn't a strategy problem but a safety problem inside the nervous system. I walk you through why your upper limit tends to show up when things are working rather than when they're falling apart, and why your body reads unfamiliar success as danger. I talk about why your body will pull the emergency brake to protect an old version of you, what identity death actually asks of you at each new level, and how you can teach your system that more money, more visibility, and more rest don't equal danger. In this episode, you'll learn: How to notice the moment your body contracts right as your life starts to expand What to recognize when you finally get the thing and immediately start overthinking it Why your upper limit problem can surface in success instead of failure How to tell the difference between knowing what to do and having the capacity to do it What to ask your body instead of asking what's wrong with you Why familiar can seem safe even when it keeps you stuck How fear of success can show up as procrastination, perfectionism, or going quiet What identity shift each new level asks of you as an old version of you disappears How nervous system regulation can teach your body that being seen doesn't equal rejection Why female business owners can earn more and still wait for the other shoe to drop How to practice feeling safe enough to stay where you're going If you've been searching for body safety, getting out of your own way, and support past your ceiling, this episode is your invitation to stop surviving your success and start living the life you've already built. Here’s to staying present when something good arrives. Gina   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginamarie_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wickedwealthywoman Website: http://www.wickedwealthywoman.com/   Try The Naked Truth GPT™ for FREE: https://freebie.wickedwealthywoman.com/the-naked-truth-gpt-8306   Break free from burnout. Grab your copy of Fck the Hustle!: Freedom Is in the Healing! today. https://a.co/d/09SBELrG