Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

Five years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don’t Know My Life. They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You’ll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along!  This episode features: Erin Tillman https://erintillman.com IG: @datingadvicegrl Makenzie Mizell https://www.makenziemizell.com IG: @makenziemizell Rayne Parvis https://rayneparvis.com IG: @RayneParvis Vanessa McGrady http://vanessamcgrady.com IG: @art_and_intrigue  You Don’t Know My Life ttps://www.youdontknowmylife.com IG: @ydkmlgame Support August’s work and help fund her new laptop: https://www.patreon.com/girlboner or https://account.venmo.com/u/august-gb Do your holiday shopping at thepleasurechest.com! A few fun picks: Evolved Our Gyro Vibe   Je Joue ILY Wand Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator   Oxyballs Willy Rings   Strap-On Unique Harness   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

What if jealousy isn’t a monster after all? Dr. Joli Hamilton had built a career studying and helping others navigate jealousy when her own “green eyes” impacted her sexuality in ways she’d never imagined.  You’ll also hear about Joli’s sexual self-discovery journey, an epiphany during her first marriage that changed everything, and her top advice for anyone struggling with jealousy -- whether you're in a polyamorous, open, or monogamous relationship. Learn more from Joli at openeasier.com or jealousyroadmap.com.  Do your holiday shopping at thepleasurechest.com! A few fun picks: Evolved Our Gyro Vibe   Je Joue ILY Wand Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator   Oxyballs Willy Rings   Strap-On Unique Harness   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Both Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things.   Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at https://www.sexvangelicals.com Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com!    Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Somatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them.   Hear Charlotte Mia Rose’s story in the previous episode.    Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of pleasuremechanics.com. Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, here!   Access your FREE Listening to Your Pleasure worksheet: https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen    Check out Kinktober specials at thepleasurechest.com!    Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Charlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte’s world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect.    Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the process, and practical ways to benefit from pleasure when you’re feeling spent. Stay tuned for Chris’s story in the next episode.   Charlotte is a somatic sex educator and co-founder of pleasuremechanics.com.    Access your FREE Listening to Your Pleasure worksheet: https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen    Check out Kinktober specials at thepleasurechest.com!    Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Ginelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was “very sexualized” in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman.   Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle’s with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo’s with online dating. And they both have a lot to say about self-acceptance, cultivating healthy relationships and pleasure - in and outside of the bedroom.   Nancy Jo’s story was originally released in a 2021 episode.   This episode touches on sensitive topics, such as abuse and eating disorders. Please take care of yourself while listening.    Explore the Awaken Your Senses collection at thepleasurechest.com! Free shipping on orders through September. Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin

When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better.    In addition to Rena’s story, you’ll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that’s especially helpful for women, parents, long-term partners and anyone with a busy lifestyle.    This episode also touches on:   What can happen when you have early exposure to sex, without context or education The impact of 9/11 on Rena and her relationship A threesome gone wonky Rena’s first experience at a sexy Skirt Club party Desires styles (and why you aren’t “broken” if you aren’t turned on in a snap)   Follow Rena on Instagram and check out her book: @_rena.martine_   Explore the Awaken Your Senses collection at thepleasurechest.com! Free shipping on orders through September. Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Mattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships.    This episode touches on:   Childhood trauma Masturbation and self-pleasure Ways purity culture harms women, men and LGBTQIA+ folks A common female sexuality stereotype Spicy exploration Benefits of trauma therapy and affirming faith communities in dark times   Learn more from this episode’s storytellers: mattiejocowsert.com/godsexandrichpeople https://www.ambercantornawylde.com Explore the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Suzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center.    Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off to her. She also shares her top related advice for leading a fulfilling life, in and outside of the bedroom.   Learn more about writer, feminist, and resident sexologist for Biird Suzannah Weiss at suzannahweiss.com. Find her new book, Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, most anywhere books are sold.   Explore AnalAugust specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story.    The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories!   Explore the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

When Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they’d have a great time. But she didn’t expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she’d later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their true stories, plus related advice. More from Alicia Davon: 415.308.9580 Love Life ConsultationWhat People are Saying- Mastery of Relationship More from Magda Kay: https://magdakay.comhttps://youtube.com/@MagdaKay https://www.facebook.com/MagdaKayOfficial Explore the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Carol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity.   Get The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone at goodvibes.com. Read or listen to Real, Live, Nude Girl via Amazon or Audible. And visit the Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco.    Explore the Pride Collection at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Discovering squirting, a misplaced squirt, a misplaced condom and some trippy mind games… This “OMG” round of Girl Boner sex and relationship stories features:   Lala, of Lala’s Bedtime Tales Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, of Sluts and Scholars Makenzie Mizell, media producer Carly, of Aurore And August   Check out Afternoon Delight: https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/offers/ESbAz2o5/checkout   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Jean Franzblau was enjoying a loving relationship and her intimacy and platonic touch-based career when she noticed a dramatic change in her libido. Where had her robust desire gone? Her journey to finding the answers – and solutions – took her to surprising places.   Learn more about Jean and My Mother Doesn’t Know I’m Kinky: mymotherdoesntknow.com jeanfranzblau.com youtube.com/@CuddleSanctuary cuddlesanctuary.com   Erotic Blueprints (episode): https://augustmclaughlin.com/erotic-blueprints/   Celebrate mindful masturbation at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

Carly Pifer’s creative field research about sex and dating surprised her by becoming super sizzling for herself. Her intimate interviews overseas led to steamy romps, including sex with two very different Frenchmen in one day.   Once Carly’s study was over, current events prompted her to want to celebrate positive sexual experiences. She’s been on a mission ever since. Check out Aurore at readaurore.com and @readaurore on Instagram.   Celebrate mindful masturbation at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin. The interview featured in this episode was engineered by Makenzie Mizell.  

Dr. Talal Alsaleem is an award-winning infidelity recovery expert who’s on a mission to teach clients and counselors how to use the trauma of affairs to establish, rediscover and maintain healthy relationships. In this bonus for Jennifer’s story (parts one and two), August talks to Dr. Talal. You’ll hear his thoughts about working with Jennifer and Adam, risk factors for cheating and betrayal, pillars for healing after infidelity, the notion of “once a cheater, always a cheater,” and more.   Dr. Talal’s books   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Continuing Jennifer’s story from the last Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear how Adam reacted when she returned from her intensive therapy program, what happened in their relationship post infidelity and how they’ve both found healing.    This episode touches on childhood trauma and abuse. Please take care while listening.   ACE childhood trauma quiz   Dr. Talal’s books   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Jennifer had built a successful career and a happy family life when she became deeply involved in infidelity. While the first affair ended rather quickly, the second led down a path she couldn’t have imagined.   This episode touches on childhood trauma, abuse and cheating. Please take care while listening.   ACE childhood trauma quiz   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

What “kind of woman” gets into threesomes and gang bangs? Do “good girls” even grow up to enjoy sex? These questions once lived in Casey Donatello’s mind. Little could she have imagined she'd one day delve into the swinger's community and hotwifing. Today the sex-positivity advocate is passionate about play she once considered taboo and "dirty." Casey is equally passionate about busting related stereotypes and sharing related wisdom.   You’ll hear about:   Casey’s friend’s sexual experience that put her off of sex early on How that very thing later became her fetish What she’s learned about threesome, gang bangs and her desires How she met her husband (and why she was so hesitant at first) Hotwifing basics Tips for delving into hotwifing, swinging or any fantasy  More!   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Pamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her “nutrition,” as she calls it.  Some of the topics you’ll hear about: Sexological bodywork and massage Erotic self-pleasure trans states Incongruent desire in a relationship Sexual self-embracement for eating disorder healing Female sexuality Sexual empowerment D/S dominance/submission and sensation play   Learn more about Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women.   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin