Goes Without Saying

somewhere between the Goblin and the Girlboss lie Podmothers sephy & wing: sleepy, spicy, and occasionally insightful, ‘Goes Without Saying’ turns up the volume on the conversations that are often left unsaid… from anxious spiraling to social media struggles, dating, exploration, and the tensions of your twenties: sephy & wing have entered the chat. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind @ instagram.com/sephyandwing

FEELING BEHIND & TOO LATE: the summer i turned expired

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on running out of time, expectations and high standards, graduation anxiety, and comparison. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

08-17
47:01

YOUR INNER CHILD IS DEAD: (your labubu won't love you back)

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on microtrends, nostalgia, consumerism, online fashion discourse, and the misconceptions around 'honouring' your inner child. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

08-04
42:48

lost & lonely: Overthinker in Crisis!

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on contagious negative spirals, eating disorders, and mindsets, struggling with identity and direction, and developing a sense of self. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

07-28
57:22

self-hatred & self-sabotage: to be a woman is to spiral

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on self-awareness v. self-criticism, the fear of failure v. fear of success, and being so smart it becomes stupid. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

07-20
47:51

social burnout & cancelling plans: (the call is coming from inside the house)

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on running on empty, saying 'no', guilt, pressure, being drained, and being draining. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

07-13
44:31

advice & dating in your 20s: the manchild keeps the score

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on bad decisions and bad advice, choosing chaos, life lessons, & navigating dating in your 20s. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

07-07
46:21

sexuality & sexual awakenings: off the record

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on hear-me-outs, childhood crushes, and ABLISA. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

06-29
43:36

the Myth of Funny (Ugly) Men: the hot man's redemption arc

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on hotness-gap relationships, entitled men, beauty standards, and the subjectivity of attraction. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

06-23
58:17

narcissists, 'saying no', & power dynamics: cult leader dupe!

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on exploitation & conformity, consent, reality tv culture, weaponised wellness and 'therapy speak'. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

06-15
51:05

can friends survive a political divide?: new enemy unlocked

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on opinions, morals, and political differences, managing expectations for yourself and others, failure, redirection, and knowing when to change course. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

05-19
54:21

trauma bonding & problematic lovers: what doesn't kill you makes you cheat?

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on transactional dynamics in relationships, trauma cycles & attachment styles, resentment, desire, & 'perfect harmony'. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

05-11
01:06:45

success & the myth of happiness: dreams found dead

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on doing what you're told, losing sight of your ambitions, finding fulfillment in the small things, and Hamilton. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

05-04
49:52

privilege blindness: a reality check? in this economy?

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on privilege, class, nepo babies, and the myth of 'raw talent'. ✷see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

04-27
55:04

dating types & turn-offs: off the record

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on intelligence, feeling unsupported, finding your life's purpose, and short men. ✷see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

04-20
45:23

toxic traits & coping mechanisms: self-awareness or die trying

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on jealousy, eating disorders, social media comparison, and anger. ✷see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

04-13
45:47

forgive or forget: confrontation is a love language

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on redemption, arguments, relationships, and the problem with forgiveness. ✷see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

04-06
55:48

red flags & low standards: microdosing hell by settling

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on situationships, single parents, and not settling for scraps.see more * youtube@sephyandwing * instagram@sephyandwing * tiktok @sephyandwing shop * www.sephyandwing.co.uk

03-30
59:03

unlocking self-acceptance: getting your personality back

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on authenticity, confidence, and finding your personality. ✷see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

03-24
01:05:23

"pregnant & he's watching porn": off the record

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on porn and the patriarchy, boundaries and communication in relationships, and the normalisation of sexual exploitation.see more * youtube@sephyandwing * instagram@sephyandwing * tiktok @sephyandwing shop * www.sephyandwing.co.uk

03-17
53:58

confidence or the comfort zone: choose your fighter

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on stagnating and holding yourself back. ✷see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

03-10
01:00:54

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