GrindFace & The Therapist

Dimitrius and Saniyyah discussing parenting and the roles parents play in establishing and enforcing rules in the household. Is it a joint effort or is one parent solely responsible for discipline? Our hosts discuss their experiences and offer their perspectives. They agree that parenting is a conversation and that there is usually one parent who serves as the disciplinarian while the other may be more laid back. However, they also note that it depends on the dynamics of the relationship and that double jeopardy should be avoided. The hosts also discuss how education should always be a top priority and that it's a parent's job to check their children's homework and ensure they are doing what they are supposed to do. They also touch on the concept of the Disneyland parent and whether one parent should be forced into a disciplinarian role. Tune in to hear more about their thoughts and experiences on parenting.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius and Saniyyah discuss the topic of dating and choosing the right person to build a long-term relationship with. The conversation begins with Saniyyah and her husband discussing how looks can attract attention, but attraction alone isn't enough for a lasting relationship. Just like in a job interview, it's essential to ask questions that reveal a person's goals, values, and mindset to determine if they are a good fit for your life's purpose. Saniyyah shares her belief in group dating and getting to know a person's friends to understand their character and values better. She explains that people tend to flock together based on similar interests and values, and surrounding yourself with positive, like-minded individuals is essential for building a successful life. While some things may be hidden, spending enough time with someone will reveal their true character. Tune in to hear Saniyyah's insights into finding the right partner for your life's journey.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius & Saniyyah discuss the meaning of appreciation and how it can be expressed differently in various contexts, such as personal relationships and the workplace. They break down the idea of appreciation as valuing others for what they do for you and expressing gratitude towards them. They also touch on the concept of love languages and how different people have different ways of receiving appreciation, whether it be through public recognition, monetary gifts, or other means. The hosts also discuss some of the potential issues that can arise in expressing appreciation, such as favoritism or discrimination, and share their personal views on giving and receiving gifts. Finally, they highlight the importance of being thankful for what others do for you, whether or not it involves material gifts.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius & Saniyyah delve into the topic of dreams. They share their personal experiences with dreaming, with one of the hosts recalling how they were not much of a dreamer as a child, while the other was always envisioning their future. They discuss the importance of having a vision and seeing the end result before putting in the work to achieve it. The conversation then shifts to the concept of dreams when sleeping, with some people believing they hold a deeper meaning or message from a higher power. The hosts explore different viewpoints on the subject, from dreams being pointless scenarios to being a form of communication from a divine force. Tune in to this insightful episode to discover more about the world of dreams.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius & Saniyyah discuss the concept of toxicity in different aspects of life. From toxic relationships, environments, and food to toxic friends, the hosts explore what it means to be toxic and how it can relate to dysfunction. They share personal experiences with toxic people and discuss the importance of respecting boundaries. They also touch on the idea of coexisting with people who have different views, beliefs, and morals while still communicating effectively. The hosts emphasize the need to eliminate toxic elements from our lives and focus on positive relationships and environments.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius & Saniyyah discuss the concept of love languages. To express your love to someone, it's important to understand their love language. So, what exactly is a love language? In simple terms, it's how an individual receives love. There are different types of love languages, including acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, physical touch, and communication.In this episode, we explore each of these love languages and explain what they mean. Acts of service refer to when someone does things for you, such as taking out the trash, cleaning up, or making dinner. Words of affirmation are when someone compliments you or tells you how much they love you. Quality time involves spending time with a person, while gifts are physical objects that show appreciation. Physical touch refers to showing affection through things like hugging, kissing, or holding hands. Finally, communication involves listening to and understanding your partner.Our hosts discuss their own love languages and share personal experiences that help illustrate how each love language is unique. For example, one host values quality time over anything else, while the other prefers acts of service. They also discuss the idea of having multiple love languages and how some may be more important than others.Overall, understanding your partner's love language is a key part of any healthy relationship. By recognizing how your partner best receives love, you can better express your own feelings and build a stronger connection with them. So, tune in to this episode to learn more about love languages and how they can help strengthen your relationships.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius & Saniyyah discuss the concept of entitlement and why some people feel like they're entitled to the fruits of someone else's labor. They explore the idea that some people believe that family members owe them something, and how this mindset can be detrimental to relationships. The hosts share personal experiences of teaching their children to be self-sufficient and not to rely on their parents for financial assistance. They also discuss the difference between helping someone who is working hard and genuinely needs assistance versus someone who expects others to give them something for nothing. Ultimately, the hosts argue that the mindset of entitlement can be toxic and unproductive, and that success is the result of hard work and determination, not handouts.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Dimitrius and Saniyyah explore the topic of "Blocking Out the Noise." The conversation starts with one person sharing how they admire their friend for not caring about what others think and being able to pursue his goals despite criticism. The discussion then turns to how seeking approval from others can block one's success and detour them from their destination. The conversation uses examples from successful people like Disney and Steve Jobs to highlight the importance of mastering the craft of not caring about others' opinions to be successful in life. The discussion ends with the person reflecting on how they too have learned to not care about others' approval and how it has contributed to their personal success.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah and Dimitrius discuss managing stress. Saniyyah (The Therapist) talks about how God is the thing that keeps her mind at peace. She describes how a 60-day jail sentence wasn’t stressful but instead was a place where she was able to grab peace and increase her prayer life. Is God the popular vote? Is what she poses as a rhetorical question and statement. This turns the conversation into an in-depth dialogue about God and what it means to fully walk in faith. Dimitrius aka Grindface discusses how he takes a more worldly approach to relieving his stress. Both parties discuss how stress when transitioned into codependency becomes unhealthy. Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah (The Therapist) starts off the conversation explaining how building on a firm foundation is important both in relationships and business. Saniyyah emphasizes on how important it is to watch people's character before entering in a relationship by stating the obvious, "pay attention to red flags".  Dimitrius (GrindFace) comes in with a comedic, yet realistic view on building a business. His comical timing lightens up the discussion but that doesn't stop him from dropping gems and giving up valuable information. Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

"Perception is based on one's experience" Saniyyah (The Therapist) expands on how experiences help shape your view of others. The two have a thought-provoking conversation where Dimitrius (GrindFace) speaks on how the internet can distort people’s views of others. The two of them dive into what it means to value people for who they are and not the title they hold.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah (The Therapist) explains what it means to have healthy people around you. Dimitrius (GrindFace) openly admits he's a work in progress and speaks on the importance of having people around with your best interest at heart. As usual this leads to a thought-provoking conversation as the two bounce scenarios and situations off one another. Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah and Dimitrius both discuss how traveling can give you a different perspective and expand your mind. Dimitrius discusses how traveling has helped him appreciate the life he lives. While Saniyyah discusses how traveling helps her reset to get back to the grind.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah (The Therapist) wastes no time giving her expertise on how we should have the same expectations for ourselves that we have for others. Dimitrius (GrindFace) joins in and begins to speak on how people of influence are held to a higher standard. The two discuss whether it's fair to do so.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Is time more valuable than money? Dimitrius (GrindFace) starts off the conversation with an in-depth discussion of how people sell their time. Saniyyah (The Therapist) expands on the phrase killing time and what that means to her. The two have a discussion on how they value their time and Dimitrius challenges listeners to break down their 24-hour day. Are you using your time wisely? Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah (The Therapist) has an open discussion about how overindulging in anything can be unhealthy.  Dimitrius (GrindFace) sheds light on how harmful it could be to overindulge on the things that you perceive as positive. The two discuss how life is about having a healthy balance Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

What's the difference between compromising and being passive. Saniyyah (The Therapist) helps us understand the difference between the two. Dimitrius (GrindFace) expands on how lack of compromise can be harmful to your relationship and how willingness to compromise can broaden your horizons.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

 Is it okay to wear the things you like or is it flexing. Saniyyah and Dimitrius have a serious conversation about people being robbed for things they've worked for post the EDD scam era. Dimitrius (GrindFace) gives an interesting perspective on why this may happen. Do people feel entitled to the things that others have works hard for, or is it just greed, jealousy or laziness?Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

The two discuss the difference between a hustler and an entrepreneur.  Saniyyah (The Therapist) lets us know that in order to build a business you must be consistent.  Dimitrius (GrindFace) gives us a valuable piece of advice "the building doesn't make the business, the skill set does.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo

Saniyyah and Dimitrius both discuss the intricacies of blended families. Both hosts were raised in blended households and discuss their experiences with different treatment of children. They delve into the various dynamics that go into blended families, such as culture, beliefs, discipline methods, and rules. They share personal experiences of differences in treatment from their own upbringing and discuss how such treatment affected them. They also reflect on how parents can ensure that their partners have their children's best interests at heart. The hosts also explore the impact of rules on blended families and share anecdotes about how they were taught to share with their siblings. They discuss how parents can better navigate the complexities of blended families to ensure that their children feel loved and valued.Dimitrius: www.instagram.com/iamgrindfaceSaniyyah: www.instagram.com/saniyyahmayo