Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships

In this episode, we dive into our first playdate post-engagement.💍 After weeks of build-up with a sexy couple, the other woman boldly texted Aiden, "You have my full permission to bang me”—and it was ON! Recording from the car just before our date, we chat through our nerves, excitement, and our ✨revolutionary✨ plan to "play first, THEN eat."As always, when expectations meet reality the result is hilarious, sometimes awkward, and always fun, like when their very interested dog gave Anna the death stare when she started making out with Superman!🤣Then, in the aftermath of a steamy night, we discuss how to handle the other couple’s post-play radio silence and how easy it is to overthink! We talk candidly about navigating complex emotions, jealousy, and the funny ways relationships grow and surprise us. Tune in to hear the juicy details and laugh along with our misadventures in ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode, we get candid about our quirks, kinks, and the challenges we face with jealousy and chemistry. From my "jealousy kink" that spices things up, to Aiden’s on-the-spot encounter with "Hot Girl" at a party, to our hilarious realization that we’re basically becoming each other's "secret sluts"—there’s no shortage of juicy moments. We share real stories about balancing spontaneity with trust, setting boundaries, and the surprising ways these experiences bring us closer. Join us as we laugh, learn, and open up about the unique journey we’re on together.

In this episode of Hacking Love, we revisit some of our early adventures in the lifestyle, focusing on our first visit to a real sex club, revealing our expectations versus reality. We also recount our initial play experiences.From dealing with unexpected challenges and performance issues to finding our rhythm in group dynamics, we discuss how these experiences have helped us learn and grow as individuals and as a couple. Throughout the episode, we highlight the importance of communication, connection, consent and mutual respect. Whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyle, join us as we explore the exciting and sometimes challenging world of swinging and open relationships.

In this episode, we kick things off with a shout-out to some of our new listeners all over the world. Listen for your city! Thank you all and feel free to reach out to us! 🫶In this episode, we dive into our recent lifestyle experiences and how we've learned to balance feelings of jealousy and freedom. One highlight anecdote of the episode revolves around our date to a concert with couple we like. We share our excitement and the series of funny and real moments, along with in-the-moment recordings before and after the date—one that led to a some sexual frustration!Enjoy! 💖Email us at: annaaiden@gmx.com

Ready to be your best, hottest and most sexy self? We'll show you exactly how!In this episode of Hacking Love, we explore the critical role health and hormones play in transforming your body and preparing you for active, fulfilling lifestyle experiences. Anna draws from her considerable experience in this area, discussing how to achieve hormonal balance and sexual wellness, how to overcome challenges like erectile dysfunction and body issues, and the importance of a functional medicine approach to overall health. Learn practical tips and expert insights to optimize your wellbeing and get lifestyle ready!The information in this episode is for educational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice; please consult your primary care provider before making any changes to your diet, lifestyle, supplements, or medications.We'd love to hear from you! Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode of “Hacking Love”, Anna grapples with deeply ingrained societal conditioning around sexuality, and her own sense of self-worth. From early-age teachings about the 'proper' roles for women, to confronting double standards, she shares her internal conflicts and evolving perspective shaped by her experiences in the lifestyle community.Listen as we unpack our battles with slut-shaming, hyper-selectivity, and societal expectations, all while navigating our relationship and discovering our authentic desires and quest for personal freedom and autonomy.. The episode reveals Anna's raw, honest exploration of challenging old beliefs, and ultimately seeking personal growth, self-acceptance, and empowerment.We'd love to hear from you! Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

As Aiden and Anna prepare for a lifestyle pool party, beginning the recording just before they head out. Anna candidly shares her feelings of self-consciousness and insecurity, particularly around an attractive single woman, which triggers her jealousy. Throughout the episode, the couple debate and discuss their expectations, anxieties, and dynamics, both before and after the party. As the night unfolds, Anna finds herself navigating her feelings, connecting with others, and ultimately discovering more about herself and her relationship with Aiden. The episode gets real as Anna opens up about her struggles, but they find resolutions and deeper understanding by the end of the night.This one is fun, as we lightheartedly "argue", and then get pretty serious, about feelings of jealousy and how the night might unfold. We come back after the party to compare notes.We'd love to hear from you! Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode, Anna and Aiden tackle the question of separate play in their open relationship. Anna proposes that, in order to deal with her own insecurities, Aiden hook up with a particularly attractive and adventurous single woman from their lifestyle group while she's away on work trips. The couple discusses feelings of jealousy, personal boundaries, and the tangled web of emotions that often come with ethical non-monogamy. Aiden recalls his previous experiences with separate play and its impact on his attraction to Anna.You'll hear about Anna's erotic dream involving multiple partners and how these fantasies shape her views on their relationship. They also discuss real-life scenarios, including potential dates, setting boundaries, and the humor and awkwardness that come with communicating our desires openly. Join us for a raw, insightful, and sometimes humorous conversation that captures the essence of navigating the complexities of a modern, open relationship.We'd love to hear from you! Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode, we dive into monogamous marriage conflict traps, advocating for the 'let them' philosophy of relinquishing control of others. We also update you on our journey getting to know the 'Smart-Amazon' couple as we brainstorm ways to build chemistry and ensure everyone feels comfortable. Anna gets excited for an upcoming playdate.Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

Welcome back! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of lifestyle podcasts and apps, sharing our personal journey and experiences along the way. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride as we dip our toes into the waters of non-monogamy.We kick things off by reminiscing about our initial forays into lifestyle podcasts, recounting how they opened our eyes to new possibilities and helped us redefine our relationship. From reading influential books like 'Sex at Dawn,' 'Polywise,' and 'The Ethical Slut,' to discovering the swinger and polyamory scenes, we encounter a host of fascinating couples and learned valuable lessons about communication, trust, and self-growth.We share our thoughts on the importance of discussing fantasies, overcoming jealousy, and embracing compersion – that magical feeling of joy for your partner's happiness. We open up about some of the challenges we've faced, from discussing separate play to navigating the complexities of jealousy and insecurity. We discuss the highs and lows of dating apps like Kasadie, Feeld, and SDC, as well as Anna's preference for sober day dates. Join us!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this revealing episode, we dive deep into our journey of reconnecting after a significant breakup, highlighting the transformative power of humility and vulnerability, coupled with effective counseling. We describe the importance of finding a non-judgmental counselor experienced in ethical non-monogamy, recounting our challenging yet enlightening sessions. We share personal anecdotes about overcoming past relationship traumas, the healing process, and the profound realization of true love. This episode offers invaluable insights into building trust, the necessity of open communication, and the pivotal moments that strengthened our bond.Whether you're navigating a complex relationship or seeking inspiration for your own love journey, this episode provides a heartfelt and candid look at the steps we took to rebuild and enhance our connection.Email us, we'd love to hear from you!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode, we (Anna & Aiden) open the doors to our world, engaging in a heartfelt and unfiltered conversation about our journey within the lifestyle—non-monogamous relationships. We share raw, personal reflections on the intricate dance of trust, etiquette, and discretion within our community. We’ll share an account of our recent party, providing a window into our encounters with fellow lifestyle members and highlighting the dramatic shift from traditional monogamy to a more open, fulfilling love.Our aim is for you to feel as if you’re right there with us, diving into our candid discussions about intimate preferences, boundary-setting, and the transformative power of honest communication. These personal anecdotes offer a firsthand look at how engaging in the lifestyle has catalyzed our personal growth, enhanced self-awareness, and deepened our relational bond.For those curious about exploring non-monogamous relationships, this episode can be really helpful. We provide practical advice on building foundational trust, openly discussing fantasies, and carefully navigating new experiences. Our empathetic and respectful approach serves as a guiding light for anyone looking to transform their relationship dynamics and embark on a journey of mutual growth and connection.Enjoy and please drop us an email and let us know your thoughts!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this intimate episode, we dive into our thoughts and experiences from a recent lifestyle party we hosted. Recorded immediately after the event, we share our raw and unfiltered reflections, capturing our feelings and insights while still under the spell of the night's naughtiness.Join us as we discuss the dynamics of the party, our personal revelations, and the connections we made with some wonderful people. Please note, we are not in our normal frame of mind as we were still feeling the effects of the party—expect genuine and spontaneous conversations that provide a peek into our lifestyle journey.Enjoy and please drop us an email and let us know your thoughts!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode, Anna and Aiden recount their tumultuous breakup which was filled with misunderstandings, miscommunications, and hurt feelings. The story begins with a nostalgic reflection on a concert that brings up old wounds from their first year of dating, leading to discussions about trust issues and significant moments of miscommunication and misunderstanding. From their painful breakup to a surprising reunion at a Christmas party, they go deep into the emotional complexities of their relationship. Throughout the episode, they explore the importance of communication, trust, and understanding in overcoming relationship obstacles. They end on a note of hope and growth, setting the stage for future discussions on their journey toward reconciliation and healing.Enjoy and please drop us an email and let us know your thoughts!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode, we dive deep into our first adventurous steps into the world of non-monogamy. We reflect on our experiences at a festival sex tent and later, our surprising experience at the infamous Burning Man Orgy Dome. We discuss the significance of exploring our boundaries, dealing with emotions like jealousy and excitement, and the critical lessons we learned about consent, communication, and personal growth. Our conversation touches on how these encounters have influenced our relationship and individual growth, providing insights for anyone curious about or considering a non-monogamous lifestyle.Enjoy and please drop us an email and let us know your thoughts!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

In this episode of "Hacking Love," Anna and Aiden share their journey into redefining their relationship and leveraging aspects of ethical non-monogamy to enhance their individual and mutual growth after their difficult divorces. They explore topics such as relationships, honesty, and the flaws they discovered in traditional relationship models.The couple discusses:Their early conversations about avoiding traditional monogamySetting a foundation based on openness, transparency, and "no-bullshit" honestyUnpacking the complexities and challenges they've facedThe crucial role of communication in their journeyConfronting jealousy and setting boundariesAnna and Aiden share personal anecdotes, lessons learned, and offer tips for listeners curious about exploring non-monogamous relationships but unsure where to start. Join them as they reveal how they shed relationship baggage and embraced a more authentic connection through ethical non-monogamy.Enjoy and please drop us an email and let us know your thoughts!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

Welcome to the premiere episode of 'Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships.' Join hosts Aiden and Anna as they embark on a candid journey to explore the dynamics of open relationships and the tools to foster deeper connections through radical transparency and ethical non-monogamy. In this introductory episode, get to know Aiden and Anna, their experiences with love, heartbreak, and growth, and the motivations behind starting this podcast. They'll discuss their past relationships, the inspiration behind their current partnership, and the exciting topics they plan to cover in future episodes. Whether you’re new to the idea of ethical non-monogamy or an experienced participant in the lifestyle, this episode sets the stage for an honest, heartfelt conversation about transforming your relationships. Tune in and start hacking your love with Aiden and Anna!Enjoy and please drop us an email and let us know your thoughts!Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.comJoin the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖