Have you been crying?

Life is hard. People smell. And all we want is more sleep. Join two friends as they catch up and discuss topics that make them cry tears of joy, rage, and sadness.

Swiping with the stars and bucket lists (Raya, Matthew Perry, Ben Affleck, aging, wellness)

We learn about the humbling experiences of the rich and famous on the celebrity dating app Raya. Spoiler alert: OMG they're just like us! Then we fully moisturize to discuss our strategies for staying asians-that-don't-raisin. Dermatologists hate them for this one secret.

02-07
01:16:54

Going bro-less and DMs on the DL (Reddit, OnlyFans, Instagram, Camgirls)

We fantasize about 24 hours without men on Earth. The bras are being burnttt! Then we bring to the court of public opinion accusations of microcheating. No kink-shaming allowed!

01-09
01:12:54

Hot dirty jungle Asians seeking churros (Avatar, Ali Wong, Tinder, Grindr)

We swing into a conversation about Jungle Asians and Fancy Asians. Is it ok to call someone by either term? Then we take a stroll to remember 2 of Harjot's worst dates of 2022. Where are the churros, Simon?

12-25
01:09:25

Dr. Phil-thy and the flaky fence riders (Oprah, Bhad Bhabie, Jerry Springer, LGBTQ+)

We burst onto the podcast to officially cancel the Southern fried fake therapist, Dr. Phil. Then, we examine the frustrating people who lack a POV on anything too "political". Are you a fence rider?

12-20
01:13:18

Unmarvelous Mr. Maisel and un-virgin Mary (Marvel, Christina Aguilera, slut shaming)

We snatch the crowns off the mild men that mainstream society celebrates as "hot". We demand more inclusivity in a sea of Chrises! Then we get down to numbers in our discussion about body count and the confusing label of virginity, because "eventually, we're all somebody’s slut."

12-15
01:01:26

Ruining Christmas and the comments section (TikTok, Instagram, Drew Afualo)

We dive into the secretive and surprisingly controversial glitter industry. Is there a shortage? And where is it all going? Then we roll up our sleeves and defend BIPOC creators in the comments section. Harjot has time for this!

11-28
51:10

Time wasters and TikTok realness (Psychology Today, Julia Fox)

We make time to discuss the minds of the chronically late and anxiously on-time. Then we talk about our fave place for queer content, bipoc POVs, drama, and trends: TikTok. #IYKYK #finnabeinthepit #bffr

11-21
52:23

Coffee creamers and creepy cooks (Dane Cook, Billie Eilish)

We slang our big dick energy all over Episode 3. First Harjot shares another funny personal story from his past, when office chitchat over coffee turned too hot to handle. Then we discuss gross Dane Cook's predatory games night and other disgusting celebrity groomers. 

11-14
48:47

Real Linewives and horrible Hilton (Tiktok, Kathy Hilton, Real Housewives)

We scroll through TikTok drama and uncover the messy lives of linemen and the linewives that love them. Stay away bucket bunnies! We also take the time to callout another gay-icon-gone-wrong: Kathy Hilton. We try to figure out why she gets a pass for so many problematic things?

11-07
35:56

Lonely men and Liza Minelli (Psychology Today, Tinder, Judy Garland)

We come back from our sab-BADDIE-cal spent tackling a year of creative projects (@sailormoonparody) to jump back into pod-ing. We first unpack the trending Psychology Today article “The Rise of The Lonely, Single Man” and then discuss how exclusionary gay pop culture can be. Sailor Moon Parody Linktree: https://linktr.ee/sailormoonparody

10-30
53:15

Meowternity leave and unfunny men (LinkedIn, Netflix, Dave Chapelle)

We discuss the companies considering pawrental/meowternity leave policies for their growing population of Millennial pet owner/fur parent employees. Then we tell stand up comedian Dave Chapelle to sit down because of his lazy transphobic comedy special.  

10-12
43:50

Spilled juice, breastmilk, and buttery leggings (LulaRoe, LulaRich)

We clean up the misogynist mess that is known as 'Strategic Incompetence', where partners (mainly cis men) pretend they lack the know-how to perform traditionally women tasks (cleaning, cooking, childcare). And then we discuss  'LulaRich', the Amazon Prime documentary that exposes the multi-level marketing company LulaRoe and their cult-like practices and problematic teachings. 

10-06
41:32

Drag Racism and Super Soakers (RuPaul, Toderick Hall, cupcakKe)

We pull out a seat and take them as we LEARNT from Silky Nutmeg Ganache's (@silkyganache) discussion about RuPaul and Todrick Hall's POV as QPOC expressing themselves in the queer community. Then we talk about the 'soaking' loophole that religious youth are using to avoid the sin of premarital sex.  And if you have time, please support our passion project Sailor Moon Parody Linktree: https://linktr.ee/sailormoonparody

09-29
54:56

Teenage dreams and dying (Sailor Moon, LinkedIn)

We pull out our teen diaries to gossip and compare our pubescent dreams and ambitions. Then we discuss how people of colour and children of immigrants can experience grief, and the racial and cultural gap in bereavement policies.  Sailor Moon Parody Linktree: https://linktr.ee/sailormoonparody Link to trailer of Sailor Moon: Promise of his Rosebud - https://youtu.be/jBIOqjLM518

09-21
53:54

Cams and culture vultures (Zoom, BTS, Rachel Dolezal)

We stay off-cam to discuss the expectations and impact of going on-camera during work meetings. Then we talk about two problematic/controversial figures who claim to have 'transitioned' races. 

09-14
58:28

Teacher's pets, puppets, and false prophets (Sesame Street, Covid-19 vaccine)

We get into the back-to-school spirit and remember our favourite teachers from our childhood, and have storytime about a past chance to be on Sesame Street. Then, we discuss problematic wellness/spiritual influencers who are spreading misinformation about covid and the vaccine. 

08-31
01:00:51

A shot of cheugy (Tila Tequila, MTV, TikTok)

We re-live the rise and fall of early 2000s iconic MySpace/AsianAvenue social media celebrity, Tila Tequila. Then, we discuss the origin and discourse around the term 'cheugy', and its problematic connection to misogyny.  Video explaining Cheugy: https://youtu.be/AJb25SOjEjI

08-24
52:57

Muppet non-binary babies and teenage love sorry

We celebrate the new genre of children's television that embraces trans stories, then visit a memory of awkward teen regret and romance. 

08-17
55:20

Wherever, whenever, whoever

We're back for Season 5 to share relationship advice for staying together by keeping things very separate. And we plan the logistics of running away during a Millennial midlife crisis. 

08-10
43:16

Dr. Pepper and Missed Crush (Access Alliance, Rainbow Health Ontario)

We examine bias when choosing healthcare providers, and take a stroll down Sherway Gardens to reminisce about a cardigan-clad, customer service crush. Learn more about Access Alliance: www.AccessAlliance.ca Learn more about Rainbow Health Ontario: www.RainbowHealthOntario.ca

05-09
48:46

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