Today on Healing the Broken Marriage with Brian and Elisha, they open up about one of the toughest—but most transformative—turning points in their marriage: learning to own their part.It’s easy to blame your spouse when everything feels like it’s falling apart, but real healing begins when we look in the mirror and let God work in our own hearts first.Brian and Elisha share raw, honest moments from their journey of humility, repentance, and inner transformation—what it looked like to stop trying to fix each other and start allowing God to do the deeper work.If you’ve ever thought, “If only my spouse would change, everything would be better,” this conversation will challenge, inspire, and remind you: true marital healing starts with you. ❤️👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
💔 Today on Healing the Broken Marriage with Brian and Elisha: Trust is one of the most sensitive topics in any marriage—and today, it’s more complicated than ever. In this episode, Brian and Elisha tackle the tough question: Should husbands and wives have full access to each other’s phones and online accounts?They share honest perspectives, personal boundaries, and lessons learned from both transparency and privacy in their own marriage. This isn’t about control—it’s about rebuilding trust, setting healthy expectations, and creating a foundation of honesty that deepens true intimacy.Whether you believe in full access or think privacy still has its place, this conversation with Brian and Elisha will help you and your spouse talk openly about digital trust—with grace, respect, and wisdom.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
On this episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, we’re diving into God’s heart for restoration and renewal. When a marriage feels broken, it’s easy to believe the lie that things will never get better. The problems can feel stacked so high that hope seems out of reach—but God has a plan. His plan is not to abandon you in the ruins but to redeem, restore, and rebuild what has been lost. God specializes in taking ashes and making something beautiful. In this episode, we’ll share encouragement, biblical truths, and practical steps to help you invite God into the broken places of your marriage and watch Him bring beauty from the ashes.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
💔 Why Hurt People Hurt PeopleOn today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha unpack the painful reality that many of us have experienced: hurt people often end up hurting the ones they love most. Wounds from the past—whether rejection, betrayal, or unhealed trauma—don’t just disappear. They leak into our marriages through words, reactions, and patterns we don’t always recognize.But here’s the good news: the cycle can be broken. In this conversation, we’ll explore how to identify the root of your pain, invite God’s healing into those places, and choose forgiveness and grace over repeating the same destructive cycles. You don’t have to pass on the pain—you can start a new legacy of love, wholeness, and freedom.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
Today on Healing the Broken Marriage: We’re unpacking what happens when silence speaks louder than words. Emotional distance in marriage can feel more painful than arguments—it creates walls, loneliness, and a sense of being unseen. Brian and Elisha open up about how they’ve navigated these silent seasons in their own marriage and the ways God taught them to reconnect.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why silence is often a symptom of deeper pain, avoidance of conflict, or being distracted by life, busyness, or past hurtsWhat Scripture says about God’s design for intimacy and communication in marriageHow shutting down affects both spouses—and how to lovingly break the cyclePractical, faith-based advice for rebuilding connection: from small conversations to intentional time togetherTools for restoring trust, creating emotional safety, and inviting God’s presence into the quiet spacesIf you’ve ever felt the ache of distance in your marriage, this conversation will help you find hope, healing, and practical ways to move toward each other again—with God leading the way.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
Pornography is one of the greatest threats to intimacy in marriage. It promises excitement but delivers destruction, creating emotional distance, unrealistic expectations, and spiritual detachment between husband and wife. In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha unpack what the Bible says about pornography, why it’s so damaging, and how couples can begin walking the path of healing and restoration. With scripture, real talk, and hope-filled encouragement, this episode will help you recognize the danger, break free from shame, and rebuild intimacy God’s way.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
When Forgiveness Feels Impossible! What do you do when the wound is still raw, the betrayal cuts deep, or the apology never comes? 💔 In this vulnerable episode, we open up about the hardest seasons in our own journey—times when forgiveness felt out of reach. We’ll unpack what forgiveness really means (and what it doesn’t), the surprising turning points that softened our hearts, and why letting go is more about your healing than their apology.If you’re caught in the tension—longing for peace but feeling chained to the pain—this conversation will meet you right where you are.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
Have you ever poured your heart out to God, only to feel like heaven stayed silent? We’ve been there. In this episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, we open up about the seasons when we prayed for change and saw nothing—at least on the surface. We share the frustration, the doubts, and the lies we had to confront, as well as the small, hidden ways God was actually moving all along. If you’ve been praying for your marriage and wondering if God even hears you, this conversation is a reminder: He’s listening, He’s working, and your prayers are never in vain.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
Why is it so easy to show love and patience to a friend—but so hard to respond gently to your spouse? Today, Brian and Elisha dive into the heart of our reactions and what they reveal about our character.In marriage, the people closest to us often get the most unfiltered version of who we really are. This episode unpacks why that is and how we can grow in emotional maturity, self-awareness, and spiritual transformation—so our reactions start to reflect the character of Christ, not just our frustrations.If you've ever felt confused or guilty about your emotional responses in your marriage, you're not alone. Let’s explore how our reactions can become opportunities for growth, healing, and deeper connection.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
Can I trust this person again? It’s one of the hardest questions to answer after betrayal strikes a relationship. Today, Brian and Elisha unpack the difference between wise trust and blind trust, and how rebuilding trust requires more than time—it requires truth, safety, and discernment.They discuss how grace plays a role in healing, but not the kind of sloppy grace that enables deception or dysfunction. Instead, they explore what it looks like to extend grace with boundaries, and how to discern whether someone is truly safe to trust again—or not.If you’ve been hurt and you’re wrestling with whether to give someone another chance, this conversation is for you.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
🎙️ Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha Magill tackle a question that hits close to home for so many: "Do You Quit When Things Get Hard?"In this raw and relatable episode, they explore the patterns of quitting that often show up in our daily lives—whether it's dieting, saving money, working out, or avoiding conflict. The truth is, how we handle pressure in the small things often mirrors how we respond in our relationships.💭 Do you find yourself running from hard conversations? 💔 Is quitting your default when things get uncomfortable? 💡 Could this pattern be undermining your marriage, your goals, or your growth?Brian and Elisha get honest about their own struggles with this, how it played out in their marriage, and the pivotal moment when they chose to stop running and start rebuilding.Whether you're married, dating, or single—this episode will challenge you to reflect on how you respond to hardship and what God wants to heal in those areas.🛠️ You’ll walk away with:Insight on recognizing quitting patternsEncouragement to face conflict with faithBiblical wisdom for building endurance and resilience🔥 Don’t miss this one—it’s time to stop quitting and start healing.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
Welcome to Season 4 of Healing the Broken Marriage with Brian and Elisha. 💔➡️❤️ Today’s episode dives deep into a question many couples quietly ask: “How did we fall out of love?” We explore the slow drift that can happen in any relationship, and how everyday stress, unmet expectations, and emotional disconnection can quietly erode intimacy.But it’s not all heavy—this week is also full of hope and practical steps. We revisit the beginning: What made you fall in love and get married in the first place? And more importantly—how can you rekindle that spark again?Whether you’re in a tough season or just want to strengthen your connection, this conversation is real, raw, and filled with grace.Subscribe & share if this speaks to you—we’re walking this journey with you.👉 Learn more at www.makingbeautywiththeashes.com📺 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured🎵 TikTok: https://bit.ly/4lWazl4🧢 Midwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.com📬 Contact Us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.com
On today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha dive into the topic of drama and its impact on our lives. Elisha shares her personal journey of living in chaos, confusion, and constant drama for so long that peace felt foreign and drama felt like the norm.For many, extended periods of drama can feel strangely comfortable—almost like it’s what keeps you going. But the truth is, drama isn’t meant to be your normal. Peace is.If you’ve struggled to let go of drama and step into the peace God has for you, we’re here to help. Let’s explore how to break free and say yes to a life of true peace.Tune in now!https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
Have you ever found it hard to "move on" from something? In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha dive into the challenges of overcoming issues that seem to linger longer than expected. Elisha vulnerably shares her journey through extended seasons of heartache and how those struggles began to shape her identity. Sometimes, we resist healing because we fear losing who we are. If this resonates with you, don’t miss this episode!https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha dive into the challenges of rushing through the healing journey. They share personal stories of how speeding up the process can often lead you back to square one, delaying true restoration.Together, they discuss the importance of patience, self-love, and allowing God to work in His timing. Healing takes time, but the journey is worth it. Tune in for heartfelt insights and encouragement to embrace the process and give yourself the grace you deserve.https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha dive into the powerful truth that everything broken doesn’t have to be completely fixed for us to live with peace and joy. They explore the idea that we can be scared and brave, frail and strong—all at the same time—as we take leaps of faith toward healing.They remind us that while we may have been hurt, we don’t have to live hurt. God invites us to believe in His epic goodness and trust Him to surprise us with breathtakingly beautiful possibilities.Brokenness is a part of being human, but beauty is what God creates out of it. Today, Brian and Elisha share how we don’t have to remain stuck in our past. Healing is a choice we can make right now.Tune in for an inspiring and hope-filled conversation about trusting God, embracing healing, and discovering beauty in the midst of brokenness.https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha discuss the challenge of aligning our desires with God’s will. Sometimes, what we want isn’t what God has planned, which can lead to confusion or disappointment. Brian and Elisha share insights on navigating these moments and finding peace when our dreams and God’s plans don’t align. Tune in for guidance on embracing trust and resilience in faith.https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha explore the moments when you find yourself thinking, “I don’t want this to be my story.” They share personal insights on facing heartbreaking realities and the importance of holding "little funerals" for the life you once imagined. Sometimes, to reclaim your life, you must let go of past expectations to embrace what God has in store. Letting go isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of something new and unexpected. Join us as we discuss how to release old plans and trust that God’s design, though different, is always good.https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
Have you ever felt the deep sting of betrayal from someone close to you? This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha Magill discuss facing betrayal trauma and share steps they’ve taken to heal and rebuild trust. They open up about their own experiences, showing that while betrayal and pain are real, you don’t have to stay trapped in them. It’s time to reclaim your strength and find a path forward. Tune in for an empowering conversation on taking back your story!https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured
In today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Elisha and Brian dive into the tough reality of dealing with rumors. We’ve all felt the sting of gossip or false accusations, and in marriage, these can be especially damaging. Join them as they share personal experiences and offer practical advice on how to handle rumors in a healthy way. Learn how to stay grounded in truth, protect your relationship from the harm of gossip, and navigate the emotional toll that rumors can take. Tune in for an honest conversation on overcoming the lies and finding strength in your marriage.https://makingbeautywiththeashes.comCheck out our Instagram page: https://bit.ly/46NwkgqMidwest Homesteading Merch: https://7154de-cc.myshopify.comContact us: info@makingbeautywiththeashes.comYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@midwesthomesteading/featured