Help is Here - Beyond Porn Addiction

Subscribe to Joe's YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@joeybeyondcompulsionLearn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comJoin the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academyListen to Joe's journey through addiction recovery, focusing on his experiences with various programs, including the Beyond Compulsion Academy.We explore the limitations of traditional approaches to addiction, the concept of full-time addiction, and the importance of changing neural pathways.Joe shares insights on how the Beyond Compulsion method has transformed his life, emphasizing the significance of education and community support in overcoming compulsive behaviors. The conversation concludes with reflections on the journey towards recovery and the potential for personal growth.00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guests03:15 Joe's Journey with Beyond Compulsion Academy05:28 Critique of Previous Programs10:15 The Limitations of Traditional Approaches15:16 Understanding Full-Time Addiction24:44 The Impact of Addiction on Life28:56 Navigating Unanswerable Questions in Addiction29:46 Understanding the Addictive Mind30:16 Exploring Recovery Programs34:03 The Impact of Comparison in Recovery39:55 Life Beyond Compulsion44:19 Building Confidence Through Experience50:04 The Power of Community and Sharing Experiences

Book a 1-1 Discovery Call with me at https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughCompulsion Test: https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardIn this episode of the Help is Here podcast, Tom and Mari delve into the complex world of junkie thoughts and unanswerable questions.They emphasize that having these thoughts is a natural part of the recovery process and discuss how awareness and understanding can empower individuals to regain control over their compulsive behaviors. Through client experiences, they explore the impact of denial, the importance of present moment awareness, and dealing with the addicted part of the mind directly.The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding addiction, including survivorship bias, and concludes with a message of hope for those wishing for permanent mental freedom.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Junkie Thoughts03:04 Understanding Junkie Thoughts and Unanswerable Questions05:54 Client Experiences with Junkie Thoughts08:58 The Impact of Denial and Rationalisation11:55 Empowerment Through Awareness14:54 Addressing Unanswerable Questions17:46 Understanding Addiction and Unanswerable Questions20:46 The Role of Compulsive Behaviour in Addiction23:38 Junkie Thoughts and Their Impact on Recovery27:28 Survivorship Bias and Misconceptions about Addiction30:46 Managing Addictive Thinking36:49 Rewiring Neural Pathways for Recovery#junkythoughts, #unanswerablequestions, #addictionrecovery #compulsivebehaviour, #mindfulness #neuralpathways, #empowerment #denial #rationalisation #BeyondCompulsionAcademy #pornaddiction #addicted #nofap

Book in a 1-1 discovery call to explore joining the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughDownload the free remember letter booklet -https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/rememberlettersI share a client’s remember letter.

I share how different approaches can impact your chances of success in overcoming porn addiction.Book a free 1-1 discovery call with me - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough#pornaddiction #freedom #addictionrecovery

Book in a 1-1 discovery call to explore joining the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughDownload the free remember letter booklet -https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/rememberlettersI share one of my remember letters.

Your strategy will either empower you to make rational choices or keep you stuck in a cycle of helplessness.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comBook a free 1-1 discovery call with me - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough#pornaddiction #freedom #addictionrecovery

If you think you may be struggling with a porn addiction, take the compulsion test at https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardMany people who struggle with porn addiction eventually develop a tolerance to vanilla content.We explain what is going on here.#femdom #sissy #findomaddiction

Learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comUrologist talks about changes in semen volume and quality when discussing No Nut November.#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #nonutnovember #nnn

Do wet dreams count as a relapse?Can you avoid them?What do they mean for your porn addiction recovery?I share my experience of wet dreams and provide clarity on how to move on if you have one.If you wish to stop watching porn and feel good about doing so, head over to www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com to see if we can help you.

Scandinavian Bob who runs the Dopamine Focused Warriors YouTube channel seems like a nice, direct guy who wants to help people.No doubt there will be many who feel supported by him and that is great.We are also confident his videos are created with the purpose of helping others.However, the problem is that the content created uses information from other sources which are also ineffective for actually overcoming porn addiction.Sources such as Dopamine Nation and Your Brain on Porn are cited. And as we have explained in other videos, such books are filled with helpless, disempowering language and provide no real solution. These are the kinds of books that regurgitated the same information and kept me (Tom) stuck in a porn addiction for 10 years. Now that I am out of that mess, I want to share with the world what doesn’t work and provide those who wish for serious change  an alternative solution. A solution built with Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy at its foundations.If you feel like you keep relapsing, even after learning more and more about porn addiction, we are here to share that it’s not your fault. There is nothing wrong with you. You just haven’t been taught how to stop yet!#pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery

Take the compulsion test to receive a score out of 100 = www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardIn this episode, we dive deep into the difference between avoiding compulsive desires and learning how to directly deal with them.NoFap, self-improvement, and streaks often focus on behavior — but real transformation comes from building a consistent, repeatable skill: dealing with desire itself.We talk about how to:Stop relying on streaks as your measure of progressDevelop the inner skill of thinking through urges instead of fighting themCreate a non-changing, repeatable approach to working with compulsive desiresUnderstand why this practice is separate from “self-improvement” or external motivationBook a 1-1 Discovery Call with Tom at: https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough

Most people are stuck getting bullied by the addicted part of the mind.I share how to identify this bullying so you can stop wasting time going round in circles trying to answer unanswerable questions. And instead, focus on what really matters - learning to deal with the addicted part of the mind correctly.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com

Explore Joining The Beyond Compulsion Academy on a 1-1 discovery call: https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughI share my experience of living life without porn and without removing any triggers.Learn to deal with compulsive desires, and go enjoy your life.

Learn more about changing the way you think so you can overcome porn addiction at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com“Slipping up” when trying to stop watching porn has become the normalised language that people use.I know because I used to minimise and fail to take responsibility by calling my choices to engage a “slip up” in the past too.This kind of language needs to be called out if we are to have any chance of empowering  people to take back control from the addicted part of their mind.

If you think you may also have a problem with porn, take the compulsion test to get a score out of 100 - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardA lot of people have the misconception that they can overcome porn addiction through self-improvement. Dylan McKnight’s porn addiction is a great example of how this approach can go wrong.We share some examples of what sort of thing the addicted part of the mind will say when someone is struggling with porn addiction.

Are you addicted to porn? Find out by getting a score out of 100 by taking the compulsion test - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardPeople think that going on a long streak is success… but is this true?Well, do you actually feel in control of yourself? Do you completely trust yourself?Have you truly changed the way you think so that you feel empowered and can make rational choices, with regards to porn use, 100% of the time?Are you able to talk openly about this problem as if it were a thing of the past?Whilst doing NoFap is of course very different to having a Duolingo streak, I hope this video can illustrate my point of how ineffective NoFap streaks really are in changing the way we think and therefore feel.

Channel 4 recently shared a documentary on YouTube about Findom. The documentary glamourised the women involved and did not explore the darker side of how this behaviour is often intertwined with porn addiction.If you are struggling with Findom and would like to learn to take back control, you can learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/bcacademy

2-Fact Rewiring - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/2fact-rewiringThis Halloween I feel more in control than ever and it is a great time to reflect on where I went wrong in previous years.You can take the concepts I share here and apply to many other thought patterns which come from the addicted part of the mind (APOTM).#pornaddiction

I underestimated porn addiction and I was incorrect about relapses.We dissect where I went wrong.Learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com

A lot of advice on porn addiction trivialises the issue and people wonder why they keep relapsing.It is not that there is anything wrong with you. Absolutely not. But, the misinformation online may well be making your problem worse.We share our take on Jak Piggott’s No Nut November advice. If you would like to learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method, head over to www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com