Her Best Life

If you can’t get a man off your mind, then this episode is one for you! Jackie and Gemma break down how to break free of this approach to dating and why learning about the word “limerence” has been so eye opening. Plus, Gemma details her first big disagreement with boyfriend Scott and Jackie reveals her latest hobby… will this one last, though?   This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week’s pod covers everything from meeting the parents, a big relationship milestone and the rise of male escorts, including why more women are booking sex workers. Plus, Jackie gets emotional reflecting on her spiritual journey and thinking about the things she hopes daughter Kitty never struggles with.  Find out more about the Kundalini awakening Zoom classes here: https://peaceinside.me/kundalini-activation This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After Gemma’s recent trip to a local sex store was a little more vanilla than she’d have liked, Jackie arranged a surprise with Love Honey who have kindly gifted a selection of toys for her to spice things up! In this bonus episode, Jackie talks her through what each one does...   This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dead rats, signs from above and disastrous stories about meeting the parents, this week’s podcast is quite the rollercoaster as Gemma prepares to take her relationship with Scott to the next level! Plus, Jackie and Gemma dissect viral TV show The Summer I Turned Pretty and how women around the world are responding to the different male characters. Are you Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah?  This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To start our 50th episode Gemma shares a wild story about overcoming her unlikely fear of sex stores and Jackie introduces her to anal beads!  The ladies then answer your questions on red flag friendships, money versus happiness, addiction, making new friends as an adult and co-parenting. Thanks to all of you lovely listeners for joining us since the start of Her Best Life! This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Since last week’s episode Gemma has been bed bound with pneumonia and Jackie is back on the dating apps and went on a first date with someone she met with earlier this year... but will there be a second date with him? Plus, the pair talk high functioning anxiety in women and when manifesting coming true.  This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gemma’s been attending sex education classes at her son’s school and learned something new she couldn’t wait to share with Jackie! Plus, the Besties talk resentment in relationships, vibrating to complete gratefulness and questionable massage parlours. This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to empowering women and proving that patience and persistence pays off, nobody is doing it quite like influencer turned entrepreneur Brittney Saunders. The 32-year-old joins Jackie and Gemma this week to talk “winging it” to the top, how an unhappy childhood motivated her to make things happen and why she won’t gatekeep her secrets to success. Brittney is the founder of inclusive fashion brand, Fayt. Her first book, Just Getting Started, was released in May and she hosts the Big Business with Brittney Saunders podcast. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A surprising admission from Gwyneth Paltrow led to an unlikely conversation about oral sex, unfulfilling encounters and if an emotional connection guarantees sexual compatibility? Plus, Jackie’s recent trip to Fiji led to a bizarre realisation about the underwater world that Gemma was not expecting!  Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As Gemma’s relationship with Scott grows stronger, this week she reflects on how they’ve navigated blending their families together and shares some tips she’s learned. Meanwhile, Jackie is amazed by Gemma’s surprising psychic prediction! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Jackie and Gemma debate whether cruise ships the ultimate holiday, or just a floating nightmare? Then, the girls dive into something a little deeper: the surprising impact of micro-rejections in relationships. How much do the little things really matter—and are we even aware we’re doing them? Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Jackie takes her crystal obsession to a whole new level — literally halting her entire home build to bury them in the ground for “good energy.” Gemma then opens up about a recent breakdown, sharing the emotional toll of feeling completely overwhelmed. And then, Gemma reveals the truth behind Jackie’s mysterious “new man.” Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here:https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Has the spark fizzled out of your longterm relationship? This week Jackie and Gemma are talking about spicing up your sex life with a partner, little changes you can make to bring back the intimacy, overcoming feeling undesirable and (in Jackie’s case) what not to do! This episode is brought to you by Naked Sundays Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After completing the Big 5 run in South Africa, a very sore Gemma came straight to Jackie’s from the airport to unpack not just the run itself but what she’s learned about herself. The besties then talk determination, mental strength, and their battles with their bodies over the years. Plus, after an interesting weekend apart from Gem, Jackie is now a new woman with new hobbies, a new outlook on life and a newfound desire to… cook? Brought to you by our favourite sun care meets makeup brand, Naked Sundays. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jackie and Gemma were joined by 250 of you lovely listeners for their first live show last week, and it was a night to remember! Before everybody started partying too hard, the girls recorded a live episode featuring SOME icks from Gemma’s boyfriend Scott, questions from the audience and an emotional letter that had everybody crying. The evening was raising vital funds for brain cancer research ahead of Gemma’s Big 5 Run in South Africa, which you can donate to here: https://cb4bc.grassrootz.com/big-5-marathon/gemma-oneill?fbclid=IwY2xjawJrun5leHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHrfw54JMTItcqORUTvpO1hevmEQZQg6txfeOUzw6vVfZ7MUU9Kat3qdcS4Un_aem_aOv_8YLf5DcZb4DiEA3tYg Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Be warned, this week’s episode has quite the horny start as a fantasy came true in Adelaide! Plus, Jackie and Gemma discuss where men go wrong on dating apps and how to move on from bad relationships… no matter how much it may hurt to let go of the ‘what if’. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each Wednesday  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s been a while now since Gemma got back together with her boyfriend Scott, and Jackie wanted to see how things are going… and there has been some ups and downs! Meanwhile, Jackie shares the sign from the universe that reminded her she’s on the right track as conversation jumps from mum guilt and societal pressures to feeling proud of what you’ve worked so hard to achieve.  Get tickets to the Besties girls night on June 5, here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/besties-night-with-jackie-o-and-gemma-tickets-1373852863899?aff=oddtdtcreator  Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To our lovely Besties community, before Gemma heads to South Africa for her Big 5 run we’d love you all to join us for a drink at The Clovelly Hotel on Thursday, June 5 as a bit of a last minute girls night and fundraiser. Tickets are $50, you’ll get a free champagne upon arrival included with that and all proceeds go towards vital brain cancer research. We’ll be there meeting you all, you can connect with likeminded women from our community and maybe even make a new Bestie. Tickets are available here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/besties-night-with-jackie-o-and-gemma-tickets-1373852863899?aff=oddtdtcreator Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In the second part to this week’s podcast, Gemma discusses for the first time the emotional moment she thought her friendship with Jackie may be over as their lives started going in different directions, and how they both now choose themselves everyday. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After talking about manifesting and vision boards last week, today we want to really look into how you can vibrate at a higher level to help these things come through. Jackie and Gemma become emotional as they reflect on their own journeys, how they were able to move past their own grief and shame and how they now know they’re on the right track. The book Jackie references is Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender by David Hawkins. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses  Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.