Her Revision Podcast

In this episode, Jasmine Lashae unpacks money wounds—those emotional flashbacks that make us panic after spending, obsess over getting it back, or feel guilty for wanting nice things. She breaks down how scarcity shapes our habits, the difference between discipline and distress, and how to build financial peace without losing faith.If you’ve ever said “I’ll make it back” after spending or felt shame just for swiping your card, this one’s for you.💡 Topics:The “make it back” mentality and money traumaDiscipline vs. distress in financial habitsThe link between faith, fear, and financesPractical ways to rebuild trust with money💸 Free Resources Mentioned:Credit HelpCredit Karma – free credit trackingExperian Boost – add bills to build creditAnnualCreditReport.com – official free credit reportsSelf Financial – beginner credit builder loansBudgeting & PlanningYNAB – budget philosophy that teaches clarityMint – free tracking appGoogle Sheets Templates – quick-start budget optionMindset & Money EducationGet Good with Money by Tiffany AlicheYou Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen SinceroThe Psychology of Money by Morgan HouselPodcasts: Journey to Launch, Brown Ambition, Earn Your LeisureFaith & Financial PeaceProverbs 21:5 — “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance.”Keep a “Provision Journal” to record unexpected blessings.Daily affirmation: “Money flows to me with purpose, not panic.”Support & GuidanceNFCC.org – free credit counselingOperation HOPE – free financial coachingSavvy Ladies – free advice for womenConnect with Jasmine Lashae:🎧 Her Revision Podcast — a space for women rewriting the stories they tell themselves.📰 Rewritten on Substack📲 @jasmine.lashae_🎶 Her Revision PlaylistWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Her Revision, Jasmine Lashae gets all the way real about the quiet things we avoid — the decisions, the boundaries, the truths — and how avoidance often disguises itself as peace, rest, or even loyalty. From untangling your worth from being the “teacher,” to naming the emotional clutter that keeps you stuck, this episode is a spiritual gut check. No fluff. No performative softness. Just truth, reflection, and that loving push you’ve been avoiding.🔹 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:Why cultivating doesn’t always mean keepingHow to recognize when you’re staying out of fear, not loveThe difference between rest and avoidanceWhy tying your worth to “being helpful” is silently burning you outSigns that you’re emotionally cluttered, not confusedA reminder that you’re not broken — but you are responsible📝 Journal Prompts from the Episode:What’s the hard thing I keep putting off — and what am I afraid it will change if I finally do it?What’s something I’ve been calling “rest” that’s actually avoidance?What identity am I still tied to that no longer reflects who I am becoming?🎧 Listen + Subscribe:Available on all streaming platforms — make sure to follow, rate, and share📬 Stay Connected:Subscribe to the Substack: 📨 rewrittenthoughts.substack.com Get deeper reflections, prompts, and behind-the-scenes.Follow me on Socials: TikTok: @jasminelashae0105 Instagram: @jasmine.lashae_Tag me if you’re listening! Screenshot the episode, post your favorite moment, and tag me for a shoutout.💿 Vibe with the Playlist:Pair this episode with the curated Her Revision Spotify playlist — soul, R&B, and real ones only:🎶 Listen to the playlist🔁 Share the Love:If this episode hit home, don’t keep it to yourself:Text it to your bestiePost it in your group chatShare it on your story and tag me!Rate & leave a review to help the podcast growWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode is personal. Lately, it’s felt like everything around me has been trying to teach me something. Instead of rushing through the month, I decided to slow down and study myself. I created my own September Curriculum. And in this episode, I’m breaking it all down.I’m reflecting on a powerful passage from Blues People by LeRoi Jones. I talk about the beauty of Black expression, how signs have been showing up in my life, and why I’m leaning into this moment as a student of my own growth.This is a diary-style episode. Honest, reflective, layered. Just me and the mic.🔑 Topics We Get Into:How African creativity shaped how I see myselfWhy 111 and 11:11 keep showing upWhat it means when your life starts to feel like schoolThe books and documentaries teaching me right nowLearning to let go of being everything to everybody📚 Books I Mention:Blues People by LeRoi JonesThe Jasmine by Larry TyeBlack Futures by Kimberly Drew and Jenna WorthamBut Beautiful by Geoff DyerWhat Is This Thing Called JazzDuke: A Life of Duke EllingtonThe Black Experience in America by Norman Combs🎧 This episode is for you if:You’ve been feeling signs but can’t make sense of them yetYou’re in a season that feels slow but sacredYou’re unlearning and relearning who you areYou want to study yourself without pressure to performYou’re looking for permission to move at your own pace💌 Subscribe to the Substack:For essays, updates, and deeper thoughts I couldn’t fit in the episode→ rewrittenthoughts.substack.comWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Summary:This episode is for the woman who’s tired of performing peace but not actually feeling it in her body. For the one who keeps asking God for change but knows deep down it’s time to change how she shows up too.In this raw and reflective episode, I’m walking you through the very real shift I’ve been making lately — not just in what I say I want, but in how I actually live. We’re talking:Praying differently (and not just when everything’s falling apart)Hearing God in the quiet instead of waiting on the thunderReacting without letting ego run the roomRedefining femininity outside of being the “easy” womanWaiting with purpose, not panicAnd learning how to let myself dream without putting pressure on the outcomeIt’s layered. It’s honest. It’s not me trying to be “soft life” or perfect — it’s me becoming my own safe space in real time.Why This Episode Matters:We say we want different, but keep doing the same thing. This episode is your nudge to switch it up — in your prayer life, in your patience, in your posture, in how you imagine the next version of yourself.Segments Include:✨ God check-in: Praying with honesty, not performance🧠 Self-work: Pausing before you let offense or ego spiral you💘 Dating files: Letting your femininity be full, not palatable⏳ Timing talk: Choosing preparation over panic while you wait🎨 Imagination Station: Dreaming without controlTakeaway Quote:“One different decision really can change your direction. Don’t wait for permission to live a life that actually feels good to your body.”Listen Now On:Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Substack | Wherever you tune in🎧 Plus: Tap the latest Her Revision Radio playlist to carry this episode’s energy into your day.📝 Subscribe to rewrittenthoughts.substack.com for weekly letters from me — raw, grounding, and always honest.We’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode:This is not a pep talk. This is a full on spiritual read. If you’ve ever caught yourself shutting down when someone gives you feedback, isolating yourself when you feel misunderstood, or calling everything “disrespect” just because it rubbed your ego wrong, this one is for you.We’re talking about how ego creeps into your friendships, your goals, your purpose, and your growth. And more importantly, how to kill it before it kills everything good God is trying to do in your life.Topics include:The spirit of offense and why it’s louder than you thinkHow pride shows up in quiet waysThe difference between being guarded and being unavailableWhy real growth requires real accountabilityWhat it takes to truly kill your ego and walk in peaceThis is your reminder that you can’t evolve if you flinch every time someone challenges your behavior. You’re not being attacked. You’re being invited into alignment.Take what you need. Leave what you don’t. And let this one sit in your spirit a while.Connect with me:TikTok: @jasminelashae0105Instagram: @jasmine.lashae_Substack: rewrittenthoughts.substack.comWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So boom… I had to call myself out.In this Season 3 premiere, we’re unpacking what I like to call “Lazy Hoe Energy.” Not in the hot girl, city girl way—but in the I’ve got a dream but no discipline, I know better but I’m not doing better, I keep waiting on God but I’m not even showing up for myself way.If you’ve ever felt:– Motivated at 9am, spiraling by 3pm– Inspired by the vision, but allergic to the work– Stuck in a loop of “I’ll start next week” energy…Then yeah. This episode is for you.We’re talking self-sabotage, soft life illusions, inconsistent effort, and why I had to stop romanticizing the breakthrough and start actually building it.This ain’t a call-out. This is a call-in—to your routine, your purpose, and your grown woman version of consistency.Let’s revise, for real this time.🔗 RESOURCES + LINKS: • Subscribe to my Substack: rewrittenthoughts.substack.com • Follow me on IG: @jasmine.lashae_ • TikTok: @jasminelashae0105We’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You ever just sit with yourself and whisper, “God… I’m doing my best. When is it gonna be my turn?”Yeah. Me too.This episode is for the women who’ve been clapping for everybody else while quietly wondering when it’ll be their moment—for love, for clarity, for ease, for that breakthrough you’ve been praying on. Whether it’s a wedding, a new job, a soft space to land… this one’s for the woman who’s been waiting and lowkey growing tired.We’re talking:What it feels like to float through life unsureHow to stop forcing open doors that were never meant for youAnd how to hold space for your feelings without folding under themIt’s soft. It’s real. It’s big sister talk for your in-between season.Let this episode be your reminder: just because it’s taking time doesn’t mean it’s not coming. And just because it’s available doesn’t mean it’s aligned.Your name is still on something beautiful.—Mentioned in this episode:Subscribe to my Substack, Rewritten, for deeper journal-style reflections and affirmations: https://rewrittenthoughts.substack.com—Let’s stay connected:IG: @herrevisionTikTok: @jasminelashae0105Substack: rewrittenthoughts.substack.comPodcast available on Spotify, Apple, and wherever you streamWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Her Revision, I’m talking about the relationships that look good on paper but feel empty in your spirit.This isn’t about toxic love. This isn’t about being mistreated. This is about the guilt you feel when someone is trying..but you’re still not moved.When the love starts to feel like obligation… when the desire isn’t matching the effort… when you’re sitting there trying to convince yourself to stay because they didn’t do anything THAT wrong.. that’s what this episode is for.It’s okay to walk away from something that feels kind of okay but not aligned.You don’t need chaos to call it quits. Sometimes your clarity is the only closure you get.Read more soft but honest reflections on love, clarity, and letting go at: rewrittenthoughts.substack.comWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

At some point, growth will make you unrecognizable to the people who only know your past. And while that might not be your fault, it is your responsibility to protect your evolution.In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional weight of outgrowing people. Friends, relationships, even familiar spaces that won’t allow room for who you’re becoming. You’re not fake. You’re not acting brand new. You’re just refusing to stay small. And that deserves to be honored, not questioned.If you’ve been feeling unseen, misunderstood, or guilted for changing, this one is for you.Let’s talk about it.Subscribe to my Substack for more reflections, journal entries, and heart work:rewrittenthoughts.substack.comConnect with Jasmine Lashae:TikTok: @jasminelashae0105Instagram: @jasmine.lashae_YouTube: Her Revision PodWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dear Diary,I got exactly what I asked for. And now? Whew.I don’t know why I thought receiving a blessing meant coasting. I thought that when God answered my prayers, everything would just flow, be smooth, feel light. But instead, I got resistance. Work. Discipline. And if I’m being real? I started side-eyeing the blessing itself—like maybe I wasn’t supposed to have this?But I had to check myself. Just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it’s not meant. Just because the weight is heavier than I expected doesn’t mean it’s not mine to carry.In this episode, I’m talking about:✔️ Why we second-guess what we once prayed for✔️ The real reason blessings don’t always feel like blessings✔️ How to stop running from the responsibility of answered prayers✔️ What it really means when things feel “too hard”If you’ve ever felt like giving up on the very thing you once begged God for… this one’s for you.📩 Want more? Subscribe to my Substack, Rewritten, for deeper reflections: rewritten thoughts.substack.comWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to another episode of the Her Revision Podcast with Jasmine Lashae. In this episode, we dive deep into the identities we’ve constructed to survive our past wounds. Have you ever wondered who you are beyond the roles you’ve adopted? It’s time to unlearn these patterns and embrace your authentic self.Connect with Me: • Instagram: @jasmine.lashae_ • TikTok: @jasminelashae0105 • Substack: Rewritten ThoughtsListen to the Full Episode on All Streaming Platforms: • Spotify/ Apple Podcasts/ Google Podcasts/ Pandora/ iHeart RadioJoin the Conversation:Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated on future episodes. Support the Podcast:If you found value in this episode, consider supporting the podcast by sharing it with friends or leaving a review on your preferred platform.#HerRevisionPodcast #SelfDiscovery #InnerChildHealing #AuthenticSelf #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #SelfLove #PodcastWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You think you’ve healed, but what if your inner child is still running the show? The patterns you can’t break, the fears you can’t shake, the relationships that keep repeating—it all connects back to wounds you may not even realize you have.In this episode, I’m breaking down:✨ The hidden signs your inner child is still in control✨ How unresolved childhood wounds show up in your adult life✨ Steps to start healing and reparenting yourselfThis is the conversation you didn’t know you needed, but trust me—it might just change the way you see yourself.📩 Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive self-growth content: https://rewrittenthoughts.substack.com?r=5b49gc&utm_medium=ios📲 Follow me on social media for daily insights:→ TikTok: @jasminelashae0105→ Instagram: @Jasmine.lashae_💬 Healing happens when we face the truth. Who’s ready? ⬇️We’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey fam, welcome back to Her Revision. Let’s talk about those days when you feel stuck—when life looks fine on the outside, but inside? You’re barely holding it together. In “Even on My Darkest Days: How to Rise When Nothing Feels Right,” I’m getting real about what it takes to keep pushing forward, even when everything in you wants to shut down.I’ll share how I acknowledge my feelings without letting them drown me, practice self-compassion, and take small but powerful steps toward feeling like myself again. Because even on your hardest days, you have more strength than you think.If this episode speaks to you, let’s keep the conversation going. Tag me on TikTok or Lemon8 (@jasminelashae0105) using #HerRevisionFeelings on any of my latest videos and let me know how you push through on tough days.We’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hi beautiful people, welcome back to Her Revision! In today’s raw and unapologetic video, I ask a hard-hitting question: Would the woman you want to be even recognize you right now? If you’re tired of praying for success while stuck in old habits that keep you from your breakthrough, this one’s for you.In this episode, you’ll discover: • The brutal truth about what unpreparedness looks like in your relationships, career, and finances. • How self-sabotaging habits are holding you back from the blessings you deserve. • Actionable, no-nonsense steps to shift from wishful waiting to intentional hustling. • A real-time challenge to help you start building the future you’ve been dreaming of.It’s time to stop making excuses and start stepping up. If you’re ready to become the woman you were meant to be, hit play and let’s get to work!Don’t Forget:✅ Like this episode if you’re ready to level up.✅ Subscribe for more unfiltered, real talk on personal growth and empowerment.Follow me for more daily inspiration:Instagram: jasmine.lashae_TikTok: jasminelashae0105Her Revision Newsletter: here.Let’s get it—your future self is counting on you!We’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right, but life still isn’t moving fast enough? Like you’re putting in the work, staying consistent, praying, manifesting, and yet… things still aren’t happening on your timeline?In this episode, I’m breaking down the lesson that keeps humbling me—learning to trust the process, surrender control, and actually enjoy life while things align. Inspired by a conversation with Scottie Beam on Therapy for Black Girls, we’re talking about why delays aren’t denials and how to stop stressing over the “when” and start believing in the “what’s already happening.”✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why waiting feels like punishment—but is actually preparation✔️ How to release control and trust that your work is working✔️ The mindset shift that helps you enjoy the journey, even when things feel slow✔️ Biblical wisdom & practical steps to surrender without giving upIf you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or like you’re behind in life—this episode is for you.🔔 Subscribe for more episodes on faith, growth, leveling up!📩 Join My Newsletter for Exclusive Content: https://mailchi.mp/f554f2c31b53/her-revision-podcast🎥 Watch the Podcast on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@herrevisionpodcast?si=J0UueHebQ7IR0m2jWe’re growing, and your voice matters. Take a minute to share your thoughts about Her Revision Podcast — what you love, what you want more of, and how we can keep evolving.💬 Take the quick listener survey here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.