We’re live inside Tabatha’s new group, Build Bold Branding Co Marketplace Revival, and this one’s for the women ready to chart new territory. Stacey and Tabatha talk about the adventure of finding your voice in business, the evolution of that voice, and why your voice is your authority.This isn’t about playing it safe—it’s about stepping onto solid ground, not shaky footing, and daring to blaze a trail with confidence, expertise, and Spirit-led creativity. We’ll explore how branding can launch you, the crossover between marketplace and mental health, and the freedom, faith, and fun of being Confidently Original.
In this live conversation from the Release the Runners Crusade closed group, we talk about the beauty—and the challenge—of dreaming the same dream as friends and ministry partners. How do you stay united when you each carry different perspectives? What keeps you running together instead of pulling apart?Here’s the truth: when God’s hand is on it, you don’t have to struggle or strain. He goes before us, and we get to ask, Where is the burden light? That’s where the fun, faith, and freedom are found—the space to push the envelope, follow the fire of the Lord, and run farther and faster together.And at the heart of it all is friendship—the reminder that you do have freedom, joy, and connection, even in ways everyday life as women doesn’t always allow.
This week on Hey, Var! we’re letting you in on our live conversation from the Release the Runners Crusade Facebook group as we get ready for our New Hampshire crusade this November. We’re talking about why the middle of a mission matters more than the ending—and how real success is measured in the way we work together, not just how perfect the event turns out.In the Havar way, leadership isn’t about one person giving orders—it’s about moving as a circle, pulling in the same direction, and keeping connection strong long after the crusade ends. It’s all about we over me.
We did it! FriendTrip 2025—our first-ever getaway with two other friend duos—is officially in the books, and today’s guests are living proof that you can roll with us and live to tell about it (mud, meltdowns, and all).From deflated inner tubes in murky waters to soul-soaking conversations in the hot tub, we unpack what it looked like to let go, lean in, and laugh a lot. There were definitely moments we thought we’d lost them—but spoiler alert: both women said they’d do it again. That, friends, is a certified Var Land victory.This episode is full of humor, heart, and holy moments. If you’ve ever craved adventure with meaning, deep connection, or a trip that changes more than just your scenery—this one’s for you.Listen in. Get inspired. And maybe start packing for the next one.
We’re gearing up for our first official Friend Trip Getaway! We’ve dreamed about this for years—and now it’s finally happening. Four women, two duos, have said yes to the call (and somehow trusted us with their friendship, their time, and possibly their lives for 24 hours). In this episode, we unpack what these Spirit-led adventures mean to us, how they’ve become altars of becoming, and why we believe they’re worth everything. These aren’t just getaways—they’re where friendship is forged in fire, laughter sounds like worship, and the Holy Spirit meets us in the wild. We wouldn’t trade them for anything.
It’s easy to say we trust our friends—until they ask us to prove it in ways that don’t make sense! If you’re someone who needs the full picture before you move, this one’s for you.What happens when we freefall? When you trust a God-given friend before you fully understand, it doesn’t just build the relationship—it builds something inside them too. Your trust becomes fuel, and the confidence you show in her becomes the confidence she carries into the world.We’re not talking about blind trust or ignoring red flags—we’re talking about the kind of faith that moves before it all makes sense. Let’s talk about what it really means to trust, to move with faith, and to walk the wild adventure of God-ordained friendship.
We’re breaking alone.But shame and abandonment run deeper—convincing us connection isn’t safe, needing others is weakness, and hiding is survival.We call it strength. God calls it stolen communion.This episode uncovers the spirit of abandon—the lie that says you’re on your own—and how shame turns it into a lifestyle of silence and mistrust.💥 In this episode:– We name wounds that shaped your independence– We break shame’s agreement that you must be okay alone– We explore how God uses friendship to rebuild what trauma guarded– And we remind you: you’re still worthy of being heldHealing isn’t just personal—it’s relational.The rubble in your heart is real.But so is the friend who won’t quit.Who shows up.Who stays to help you rebuild.That’s covenant. That’s Kingdom friendship.And that’s how you rebuild.
HEY VAR PODCAST – SEASON 3.0 EPISODE 85Welcome back to HEY, VAR!- Outfitting Women for Kingdom Friendship since 2011.This is Season 3.0, and we’re pressing deeper into the power of friendship forged in fire and anchored in purpose.On this episode, we’re diving into how we’re exploring friendship through the Havar anointing—being joined together in friendship for a heavenly task.We’re talking covenant, calling, and company.And this season? We’re not just recording—we’re building.🔥 Launching our new shop: Friendship Outfitters — gear + goods for the ones you’d ride into battle with. 🔥 Rolling out Friendship Adventure Getaways — because some friendships are meant to be formed in the wild. 🔥 And every episode is stirring up courage, connection, and the kind of friendships that carry Kingdom weight.So grab your bestie, hit play, and pull up a seat at the fire. Let’s break alone, link arms, and run this trail together.
It was time for a check-in! We've missed you, we've missed our mics, and even more than that, we think HAVAR is growing into a lot more than what we thought it was (what's new?!). Now we're at 82 and New. It definitely feels like a new day! We had an amazing weekend last weekend of seeing the start of something we've wanted to see for so long. Tabatha set a powerful table for local leaders and Stacey almost didn't show up. But in the end, friendship set the table, and we think it just might be friendship that keeps us there. Follow Tabatha @TabTalksLive on FB & IG Follow Stacey @RestoreFamily, LLC on FB & Restore_Family_Culpeper on IG
High Stakes: Where Do I Put My Stake in the Ground?Every woman comes to a moment where she has to pause, lean in, and decide: Where will I put my stake in the ground?In this episode, we explore what it means to choose your ground—the places where your pain and passion intersect, and where God might be inviting you to build something lasting.Like the pioneers who rode into new land and marked it as their own, there’s something powerful about saying, “This is where I stand. This is what I’m called to.”We’re revisiting a moment from Episode 87: Trust Fall, thanks to a listener who asked us to go deeper.Sometimes, putting your stake in the ground is simply about saying yes—even when the next steps are still unfolding.
How do you know when you're running with the right people? It's time to take an assessment and learn 3 markers of health. Join us as we upgrade into Havar 3.0 where two besties are learning to navigate the in's and out's of true Kingdom community and connection the healthy way!
Is Leadership what we think it is? Is there a healthier way? Can we turn the tide? We think we can! Stacey puts Tabatha on the reporter's hot seat to discuss how Tabatha is doing Leadership the New Wineskin Way. Whether you've been a leader for years or just getting started, we invite you to join the conversation!
Well, we didn't see this one coming. A passion to follow God and a calling to do it together sometimes doesn't look like what we imagined. In those times, we cling to Him and let go of what He asks us so that the greater things can come. Now we've come full circle to how we began: Sometimes friendship looks like staying, other times it looks like going, and always it looks like celebrating! Listen in today for how to separate your paths without separating your hearts. Together means together, even when it doesn't, and it's all going to be okay when it's God who holds you both. Ways to stay connected with us: https://www.havarinternational.com Facebook @HavarInternational IG @heyvarpodcast IG @tabtalkslive IG @restore_family_culpeper
When we come to relationships only wanting to receive, it ends up being a pretty lonely feeling on both sides. The root of "I" is isolation, though it may not feel like it in the moment. But when we come in the posture of service, it is life-giving to everyone. The root of "We" is community, and this is where we will always find our greatest fulfillment and purpose. Join us this week as we turn our Receiving Stations into Service Stations so that we all get full! We were excited to be joined by author, fellow podcaster, and our good friend Denise Pass, who shared biblical ways to change our mindset about relationships as well as her new book, "Make Up Your Mind: Unlock Your Thoughts, Transform Your Life." It just launched and we are so happy for you, Denise! Check it out here:https://www.amazon.com/Make-Up-Your-Mind-Transform/dp/1614841268/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3UG18F7KAMTQS&keywords=Denise+pass&qid=1649850572&sprefix=denise+pass%2Caps%2C89&sr=8-1
Have you ever felt the pain of disconnection and with it all the painful emotions it brings? When those moments come, it may seem like it's easier to check out than to check back in. But we know in HAVAR Land that we are called to never stay gone long and to always meet back at the table because that is what God-designed Friendship does. Here's how we did it this week and WHY.
There's nothing worse than having our own thoughts bombard us and not knowing where they come from or WHO's behind them! As Christian women, this can be a constant struggle since all of us have a deep desire to hear God but can't always be certain it's Him who is speaking to us. This week's podcast takes a few pointers from the Samaritan Woman at the Well on what it's like when Jesus starts talking to us, and how we have the right as daughters of God to take authority over our earthly thoughts so that they are are aligned with heavenly ones. *** Have you read Tabatha's mini e-book yet?! For many women the battle for our destinies is often fought on the frontline of our minds. The taunts and torment from the enemy can leave us feeling stagnant and disillusioned. When we are redeemed by the blood, walk in the light of God's truth, and are filled with His Spirit, His light shines upon the path to Freedom, Truth, and Enlightenment that paves the way to His purposes for our lives. In "Girl, Take Yourself Off the Shelf, You Were Made to Shine," Tabatha calls us to rise up as Daughters of God, filled with His Spirit and ready to shine the light of Heaven with power and authority to a world in need of what we carry. It's the perfect companion to this week's podcast! Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Take-Yourself-That-Shelf/dp/B09NR9PNZC/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1T0VN4CWEUGE1&keywords=Tabatha+haines&qid=1648640841&sprefix=tabatha+haines%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-1
Feeling an uptick in warfare lately? We know we are. But we are not helpless, alone, or without ways to fight! This week God is showing us how by calling us to cover one another through one powerful action word: honor. When we grasp what it truly is, an impenetrable shield of protection raises around and over us as we move together as one. This is a whole new level of Friendship in Motion that will keep us alive and advancing forward! Do you feel far from God or like you can't hear what He's saying? Stacey's new book, "Chosen: The fire of intimacy with the Lord of the harvest" takes you on an intimate, 44-day journey to rid yourself of the noises and distractions that keep you from hearing God's passionate voice in your life. Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Chosen-fire-intimacy-Lord-harvest/dp/B09SL32FJP/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2EKZ7W2U0S060&keywords=chosen+stacey+march&qid=1648035972&sprefix=chosen+stacey%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-1 "This is a sweet and beautiful devotional-style book that documents one woman’s journey of love with Jesus and, truly, in its essence, every woman’s journey of love with Him. I felt the ups and downs deeply as they mirror many of my own. So very relatable and effective in stirring the embers of love again."
How do you know if your life is "good soil" and if you've planted the right things? God took us through a little "gardening" exercise this week to show us what to plant and how to protect the sacredness of our gardens together or individually. You're going to leave this podcast with fresh vision, renewed purpose, and a new garden that springs to life. It's planting time, Vars! HAVAR LIFE IS THE NEW WOMEN'S MINISTRY OF THE 21ST CENTURY! Check our our website and contact us about our new The Well Life Workshop: The One and Only On-Site or Virtual Friendship-Building and Destiny-Discovering Intensive for your next women's gathering! https://www.havarinternational.com
Ok ladies, here we go! Do alcohol and the anointing of God mix? Can Havar Life at The Well include a little wine every now and then? What's the harm, right?? Well, it seems the world is asking a similar question with a phrase we heard recently: "sober curious." People have started to wonder if drinking is actually benefitting them the way they think it does and are testing it out by changing their social drinking lifestyle. This week we're pressing in, but we're not so much "sober curious" as much as we are "Holy Spirit curious"! What do you think? Does a little wine really matter at God's Well? We might ruffle some cocktail feathers this week, but we invite you to come in, grab a spritzer, and decide for yourself if you want the wine of the world that turns to water, or the water at the well that turns into wine. This round's on us, cheers!
"Jealousy is an ugly monster! So many of us have been isolated from having true friends because of work, home, and life responsibilities, not to mention having calls on our lives that no one understands. It's hard to watch others find friendship when you know you need it as desperately as the air you breathe!" These powerful words were written by our guest and dear friend Angie Naish, who came to us because she wanted to admit what she had been feeling - jealousy over our friendship! It was keeping her stuck and isolated, but more importantly, it was robbing her of destiny. So, we gave her a big ole hug and asked her to talk about it with all of us because she's not the only one who has brought this up recently! Let's rip the lid off of this topic today, ladies! The devil can't have our destinies anymore. HAVAR LIFE IS THE NEW WOMEN'S MINISTRY OF THE 21ST CENTURY! Check our our newly spruced up website and contact us about our new The Well Life Workshop: The One and Only On-Site or Virtual Friendship-Building and Destiny-Discovering Intensive for your next women's gathering! https://www.havarinternational.com