High & Low

Explaining the allegations against Sean Combs, a.k.a. Diddy, that began in November 2023 with a shocking lawsuit filed by Cassie Ventura, and ended with a Federal investigation and eventual indictment by the Southern District of New York. Part 1 details Cassie's filing, as well as ones made by several other individuals who came forward after her, all of which describe a world of predatory behavior, rampant abuse, and a network of people enabling its existence.TRIGGER WARNING: SA, DV, suicidal ideation, and disturbing content. Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)National Human Trafficking Hotline 1-888-373-7888 National Suicide and Crisis Hotline: call or text 988All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Specific information shared is sourced via public articles, legal documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity.Wanna support this pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The focus of this episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County is a tumultuous taco party that ends with Emily cursing Alexis out and me feeling alive. Leading up to that glorious moment, we see Emily preparing to talk to Heather about how she felt singled out at the recent charity fashion show, Shannon on tour, Tamra and Katie socializing with their daughters, Jen dealing with her teenage son, and Gina stealing lemons. Bonus: Pixar, a hair mask, a sad pumpkin, body image pressures thrust upon women to hold us down, and why I love hormone talk. All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via public articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No-spoiler reviews of five and a half new Romantasy books including both the "Godkissed Bride" and "Castles of the Eyrie" trilogies from Evie Marceau, as well as the initial premise of "A Court of Thorns and Roses". Then we delve into another heroine's challenge as we continue to watch Shannon be emotionally terrorized at the hands of her ex and his pick-me minion- but this time in a beautiful Sonoma spa setting! The ladies support Heather as she launches a champagne line with proceeds going to the organization, Family Equality, and rally around Shannon as she learns of the video threat hanging over her head. Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Take my hand and come on a side quest into a stream of consciousness about Bravo News of the week and two new movie releases. This pod answers questions like: What's the latest about Jax and Brittany? Who were the SLC newbies again and what are cast members fighting about online? Are any new movies worth watching? In anti-spoiler fashion, overarching themes and intro details of movies are shared, but major plotlines are spared. You'll get an idea of why I liked Dinner In America without knowing everything that makes this indie movie about a punk rock band and a young woman struggling to be herself, a cult classic in the making. Likewise, you'll get a snapshot of the characters and direction of Netflix's Rebel Ridge without feeling like you've already seen it. BONUS: background on "civil asset forfeiture", a rant on child marriage laws in this country, and why I love the History Channel show, ALONE. 24/7 National Maternal Mental Health Hotline: 1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262) Institute for Justice: IJ.org All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via public articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBOpt out of ads on this podcast via a $5 Patreon membership: Patreon.com/BBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Utah ladies come into their 5th season with a bang. We see them gather, swathed in furs and PVC, at Lisa's "besos" party. Meant to celebrate these dearest of friendships, the event quickly devolves into unbridled grievances from last season. We learn about new cast members and watch them navigate the chaos, walking the tight rope of being memorable without establishing a feud - a challenge one newbie fails right out of the gate. At the dinner portion of the evening, Whitney finds herself battling several of the women as they carrying grudges and receipts but goes head to head Lisa, resulting in a face-off for the ages. All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In what is hopefully the last and final dive into exes Luis and Vanessa, we wrap up their contentious 2020 legal battle that dissolved their engagement and pivot to newer allegations of undercover patients, secretly recorded therapy sessions, hacking, and spyware from separate cases filed in 2023 and 2024. Per the last season of Real Housewives of New Jersey, Vanessa's 2023 request for a Permanent Restraining Order is reviewed as well as a 2024 case that introduced allegations of hacking and wiretapping.All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via publicly available court documents, articles, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Back to Sonoma we go! The ladies forest bathe, make biscuits, drink wine, and Tamra puts her finger in Emily's butt. They all participate in Heather's fashion show to support Family Equality but Emily takes issue with comments and treatment that feels different from the other women. The group bears witness to further evidence that nothing Shannon does will allow her to be released from her ex's crosshairs. Alexis realizes the group is not enjoying the constant barrage against Shannon, and quickly switches tactics, while Gina once again must weather accusations of plotting to set up Katie in what would be the Bravosphere's most boring and nonsensical hit job. BONUS: More romantasy books, copper wire grounding talk, and you better vote. Go to Vote.gov to check your registration.All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No-spoiler reviews of five and a half new Romantasy books including both the "Godkissed Bride" and "Castles of the Eyrie" trilogies from Evie Marceau, as well as the initial premise of "A Court of Thorns and Roses". Then we delve into another beloved heroine's quest as we continue to watch Shannon be emotionally terrorized at the hands of her ex and his pick-me minion, but this time in a beautiful Sonoma spa setting! The episode is full of surprises as the ladies support Heather's launch of a champagne line with proceeds going to Family Equality, and rally around Shannon as she learns of the video threat hanging over her head and makes a final decision about her ex's demand for $75k. Book reviews last 18min, RHOC recap begins after that. Bonus: Black Mirror episode recommendation, LV luggage info, and a look into accommodations and spa services at Dawn Ranch. https://familyequality.org/ All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A rant about high-stakes games we're forced to play when dealing with American healthcare, reading two hyped romantasy books in two days, and a recap of Real Housewives of Orange County/The Shannon Show. Shannon gets a car fitted with a breathalyzer, Emily reflects on her anger with Jen, and a lackluster, off-off-off Broadway performance of The Traitors. Bonus: An exciting trip is in my future, and why I hate the movie "Passengers". All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The second part of the dive into a lengthy court case that resulted from a dramatic breakup between Luis Ruelas and Vanessa Reiser in 2020, a relationship that has continued to produce legal issues well into 2024. Court documents detail allegations of missing engagement rings, mistreatment, money transfers, and outbursts at charity events involving Seth Meyers, Jake Gyllenhaal, and the foundation of beloved actor/Veteran's advocate Gary Sinise. Ex-husbands and ex-fiancée's are brought up, as well as allegations of Catfishing and ex's in cahoots. All opinions presented in this podcast are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via legal documents filed in court, articles, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A brief update on Tom Girardi being found guilty and what court cases are next. Then, a discussion of JDJ and Alexis announcing their engagement (perfectly timed just before the reunion taping) before a rapid recap of episodes 6 and 7 that cover rival girl's trips, several heart to hearts, an apple pie being violated, and a sit-down meeting for ex-BFF's, and current frenemies, Tamra and Shannon. All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

An audio version of my 2021 Instagram dive where a cursory search to learn more about Teresa's new man, Luis Ruelas, led to a lengthy court case with his ex-fiancée, Vanessa Reiser. The winding tale and transcripts seemed to be the source for multiple news articles about his character. A thorough review of the case painted a picture of a dysfunctional relationship, one that both parties should be thrilled to be free of, yet their legal drama has continued into 2024. We start with a story about a bitter breakup, where it all began. Future parts will follow the journey that led it to became fodder and weaponry between cast members on The Real Housewives of New Jersey. All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via public articles, legal documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be summarized or paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Looking into Blake Lively's now defunct Preserve.us website, plantation wedding, mea culpa for plantation wedding, but finding so much more, including examples of Preserve's products, blogs, and top-tier marketing that helped launch it. A review of how Blake and Ryan met, a discussion on her hair care line, and more details about the "little bump" interview heard 'round the internet. It Ends With Us partnered with www.nomore.org, an organization dedicated to ending domestic and sexual violence by increasing awareness, inspiring action, and fueling culture change.All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The last part of the IEWU dive that focuses on theories about how this all could have been handled better, the importance of true intentions and purpose when dealing with sensitive subject matter, and what Justin Baldoni has been seen doing during this drama. It also outlines Blake's acting family, Ryan and Blake's philanthropic efforts, Ryan's investment in Mint Mobile, and interesting details from Blake's 2010 Interview Magazine Q&A with Ben Affleck.It Ends With Us partnered with www.nomore.org, an organization dedicated to ending domestic and sexual violence by increasing awareness, inspiring action, and fueling culture change.All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity.Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB*Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024* Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A random side quest to explain the layered drama surrounding the premier of the Colleen Hoover adaptation of "It Ends With Us" that has people wondering why the cast seems so divided and why the Director/Lead, Justin Baldoni, and Producer/Lead, Blake Lively, have such differing views on what the movie is about and how it's being marketed to viewers.Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBOpinions shared are personal and not a reflection of any outside organization, person, or agenda. Content is pulled from news articles, video clips, and/or direct quotes, all of which may be paraphrased for brevity.*Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024* Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A rundown of two RHOC episodes that focus on Katie's desire to expose what she believes is a lie from Heather about setting up paparazzi pictures, with a text from L.A.'s Pap Czar as proof. Gina stresses over Katie talking about Heather because nothing says true friendship like fear of repercussions. Tamra and Emily can't resist getting all up in the mess as Tamra also manages to maintain solid footing atop a very high horse about her ex-amiga Shannon, piling on Alexis' relentless pursuit of camera time, justice for her two-bit boyfriend, and the $75k he allegedly gave to Shannon during their relationship. Gina and Emily maintain their critiques of Jen living well despite financial ruin and the Dubrow's shameless name dropping continues to serve as a solid replacement for ipecac, handy in an emergency but unwelcome in daily life. (Ep 5 begins at the 25m25s mark)BONUS: Tailoring "A Little Bit Alexis" from Schitt's Creek for the exit song.Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBAll opinions are personal and not a reflection of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is pulled from news articles, Bravo shows, legal documents, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased.*Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024* Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Describing the Montreal OSHEAGA festival experience, basking in the warm glow of talent that is Chappell Roan, before providing a summary of her rise to fame. Then, a quick synopsis of ten "romantasy" adventure novels, including common themes as well as how they differ. These books include: The Stone Circle Series by Ophelia Wells Langley, The Dark Halos Trilogy and A Fated Vow by Amanda Aggie, and The Villains and Virtues Trilogy and Bound to Fall by A.K. Caggiano. Bonus Content: Why I avoid flying on Boeing's 737 Max and the Girardi embezzlement trial that is now in progress.Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBAll opinions stated are my own and not a reflection of any other persons, companies, or agendas. Information shared is pulled from news articles, legal documents, and/or quotes and may be paraphrased.*Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024*  Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dolores' dream of healing the great divides by facilitating an airing of the grievances goes sideways as insults fly and rivalries intensify. The last supper's official co-host, Jen Fessler, exits stage left at the first sign of discord and Dolores is left to handle the group on her own. As old vendettas are rekindled and a new shocking discovery is revealed, the group confirms the level of dysfunction and side plotting that has taken over the show. We witness a bittersweet, mostly bitter, potential end to what has been a pillar franchise of the RH world.Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBAll opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. *Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024* Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As the women prepare for their sit-down Festivus event, they meet up in small groups to discuss the meeting with Teresa's lawyer/friend, Margaret's alleged pre-reunion plotting session from last season where Dolores' Patterson side comes out, and Margaret alludes to having a bomb to drop about Jackie...Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBAll opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, documents, videos, and/or direct quotes and may be paraphrased for brevity. *Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024*  Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Promises of a healing retreat, rumors of a meeting to reveal treachery, and rival boyzz nights are the highlights of this episode. As Dolores continues her soon to be pointless search for a grand retreat, Joe Gorga and Luis have rival boyzz nights with very different agendas, but the main focus is a sit-down with Teresa's lawyer/friend who will share groundbreaking information about Marge's involvement with Luis' ongoing court case with his ex-fiancée. A meeting that may have been overhyped, just a bit.Wanna support the pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDBAll opinions shared are my own and not a reflection of any outside company, organization, or persons. Information shared is sourced from news articles, legal documents, and/or quotes and may be paraphrased.*Ads were retroactively added to this once ad-free pod in September 2024*  Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.