High Level Husband

Host Tommy McCollister is an Industry leading Marriage Coach who takes a unique approach using personal development and faith. This podcast will cover all aspects of being and becoming a High Level Husband and Wife. No topic is off limits!!!

How To Finish The Year Strong!

The year isn’t over yet—there’s still time to finish strong and set the tone for your faith, family, and future. In this video, How to Finish the Year Strong, we’ll walk through the biblical principles and practical habits that every Christian husband and wife need to close the year with focus, gratitude, and discipline.If you’re a man who wants to grow your marriage, deepen your faith, and lead your home well, this message is for you. Too many people coast into the end of the year distracted, frustrated, and burned out. But God calls His followers to finish strong, not fade out.You’ll learn how to evaluate your year through a biblical lens—celebrating what worked, confessing what didn’t, and committing to the spiritual, relational, and physical growth that creates lasting change. This is your opportunity to reset your priorities, strengthen your marriage, and step into the next season prepared and on fire for God.Don’t end weak, end strong, disciplined, and devoted.Interested in Becoming a High Level Husband who is on Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

10-10
35:12

How To Protect Your Marriage!

Protecting your marriage from outside influences is one of the most important responsibilities of a Christian husband and wife. In this video, How to Protect Your Marriage from Outside Influences, we break down how to build spiritual, emotional, and relational boundaries that keep your relationship strong, faithful, and focused on God.If you’re a Christian husband who wants to lead your home with strength and wisdom, this message will help you identify how subtle distractions—friends, family opinions, social media, or even church culture—can infiltrate your marriage and destroy intimacy. True leadership means guarding your home like a fortress and creating a safe environment where your wife feels loved, prioritized, and protected.We’ll discuss biblical marriage principles, spiritual warfare, and practical strategies to safeguard your relationship from temptation, gossip, division, and compromise. A strong man protects his marriage not through control, but through spiritual covering, discernment, and daily obedience to God.If you want a marriage that thrives, honors God, and stands unshaken by outside noise—this message is for you. Watch now and learn how to truly protect what God joined together.https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

10-04
47:57

The Honeymoon Phase Is A Myth!

In this episode of the High Level Husband podcast, Tommy McCollister discusses the importance of being proactive in life and relationships. He emphasizes the need to plant seeds for future growth, both in marriage and personal development. Through personal anecdotes and real-life examples, he illustrates how intentional living and faith can lead to meaningful moments and connections. The conversation also touches on the significance of prayer, gratitude, and continuous growth in relationships, ultimately encouraging listeners to take action and cultivate a fruitful life.Interested in becoming a High Level Husband who is on Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the link below!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

10-01
41:51

How To Always Be Unshakable!

Every Christian husband and wife longs for stability in life and marriage, but too many crumble when trials, conflict, or unexpected challenges come. In this video, How to Be Stable and Unshakable in All Situations, we uncover the biblical foundation and practical steps you need to stand firm no matter what life throws at you.If you want to grow as a Christian husband, lead your family with strength, and build a marriage rooted in faith, stability isn’t optional, it’s essential. A shaky man produces a shaky marriage. An unshakable man produces trust, peace, and intimacy.We’ll dive into faith, discipline, and consistency, the key traits that keep you grounded in storms. You’ll learn how to control emotions, fight temptation, and show your wife through action, not just words, that she can trust you fully.Whether you’re a husband, wife, or believer desiring to live boldly for God, this message will challenge and equip you to stop being tossed by life and start walking with immovable strength. Watch now and become the man your wife can follow and your family can depend on.Want to become a High Level Husband who is on FIRE, FREE, and FOLLOWED? Click the link. https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

09-26
27:50

How To Fall Back In Deep Love!

Do you feel like your marriage has lost its spark? The truth is, most Christian husbands and wives over complicate love when the answer is simple, get back to the basics. In this video, Fall Back in Love by Getting Back to the Basics, we break down practical and biblical principles every husband and wife need to rebuild intimacy, strengthen connection, and restore joy in their relationship.As a Christian husband, you are called to lead your marriage with love, humility, and consistency. That doesn’t mean you need flashy tricks or complicated strategies. It means returning to the foundations God designed: serving one another, intentional communication, prayer, forgiveness, and choosing daily to love. When you do the basics right, the fruit follows, emotional closeness, trust, respect, and a marriage that honors Christ.Whether you’re a husband trying to reconnect with your wife, a wife who feels distant, or a Christian couple wanting to grow deeper together, this message will equip you with the tools to fall back in love the way God intended. Stop chasing distractions and start focusing on what matters most, your covenant and commitment.Desire to become a High Level Husband who is On Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the Link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

09-22
51:06

The Turning Point For Men!

Authentic character is the foundation of being a true follower of Jesus, and it directly impacts your marriage, leadership, and legacy. In this episode, Authentic Character as a Jesus Follower, we dive into what it really means to walk in integrity, humility, and strength as a Christian husband and leader.Too many men and women claim faith but live with a watered-down version of Christianity, lukewarm, inconsistent, and built on appearances rather than authenticity. But when you commit to authentic character, rooted in Christ, your marriage changes. Your wife begins to trust you deeply. Your children see a father worth following. And your life becomes a testimony that points others back to God.We’ll cover why authentic character matters more than charisma, how it builds trust and intimacy in marriage, and how it equips you to lead in faith without hypocrisy. Following Jesus isn’t about perfection, it’s about authenticity, repentance, and growth that produces fruit in every area of life.If you want to be a husband who leads well, a wife who honors God, and a family that thrives in faith, this message will challenge and equip you to step into true Christ-like living.Desire to be a High Level Husband who is On Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

09-17
36:41

Your Best Is Better Than Comparison!

Comparing yourself to others will destroy your confidence, your leadership, and your marriage. In this episode, Comparing Kills but Your Best Builds, we unpack why comparison is poison for Christian husbands and wives, and how it keeps you from building a marriage rooted in trust, faith, and true intimacy.As a husband, your wife doesn’t need you to be like someone else—she needs you to show up as the man God created you to be. Comparison leads to insecurity, resentment, and distance. But when you focus on giving your best every day, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and relationally, you begin to build a strong foundation that your marriage and family can thrive on.This video will challenge you to stop looking sideways and start looking upward, toward God and His calling on your life. When you surrender the trap of comparison and commit to giving your best, you’ll see growth in your faith, renewed connection in your marriage, and fruit in every area of your life.Husbands, this is the shift that will make you irresistible to your wife and unstoppable in your purpose.If you want to become a High Level Husband who is On Fire, Free, and Followed, click the link!!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

09-13
39:25

The Ripple Effect of Unforgiveness!

Unforgiveness is poison—and it doesn’t just stay inside of you. It creates a ripple effect that destroys marriages, families, and even your walk with God. In this powerful episode, we dive into the dangerous consequences of holding onto bitterness, resentment, and grudges. If you’re a husband, wife, or Christian striving for a Christ-centered marriage, you cannot afford to overlook this truth.The Bible is clear—unforgiveness blocks intimacy, steals peace, and breeds division. Many marriages fail not because of lack of love, but because forgiveness was never given. When you refuse to forgive, it infects every area of life: your words become harsh, your leadership weakens, your intimacy suffers, and your children inherit your unresolved pain.But there is hope. In this teaching, we show you how to break free from the cycle of unforgiveness, release the poison, and invite God’s healing power into your home. When you choose forgiveness, you choose life, restoration, and freedom.If you want a thriving Christian marriage, stronger faith, and a deeper connection with your spouse, watch this video until the end—you’ll never see forgiveness the same way again.Want to become a High Level Husband who is on Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the link below!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

09-06
26:51

Lead Like The Real Jesus! Ft. Shane Pruitt

Christian husbands today are called to lead like Jesus—but not the soft, watered-down version our Western culture has created. In this video, “Lead Like the Real Jesus. Not the Western Watered-Down Version,” we break down what it means to lead your marriage and family with boldness, sacrifice, and truth.Too many men have been taught a counterfeit version of Jesus—passive, people-pleasing, and weak. But the real Jesus was strong, courageous, and unshakable. He was compassionate, yet confrontational with sin. He laid down His life, but He never compromised His mission. Husbands are called to reflect that example in their homes.If your wife doesn’t trust your leadership, if your family feels out of order, or if you’ve been leading from insecurity or fear, this teaching will show you how to reset. Learn how to lead with authority rooted in Christ, set standards in your home, love your wife like Christ loves the church, and build a marriage that honors God.This is not about domination—it’s about biblical order. When husbands follow the real Jesus, wives and families flourish.Desire to become a High Level Husband who is on Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprintShane Pruitt is an absolute amazing man of God. We endorse all that he is doing to connect with him look him up @shanepruitt78 on Instagram. His books are amazing as well. Here are links to check them out.https://www.lifeway.com/en/product/not-my-jesus-bible-study-book-with-video-access-P005852055

09-02
51:36

Effectively Lead Your Wife Without Pressure!

Every Christian husband wants to know how to effectively lead his wife without force, pressure, or manipulation. In this video, “Effectively Lead Your Wife Without Pressure,” we dive into God’s design for leadership in marriage and how husbands can step into their role with strength, love, and confidence.Too many men either shrink back in passivity or try to control their wives through pressure—and both destroy intimacy, trust, and connection. The truth is, biblical leadership is never about domination, but about modeling Christ’s sacrificial love. When you lead with faith, courage, and consistency, your wife will willingly follow your lead—not because she’s forced to, but because she feels secure, cherished, and covered.We’ll break down practical steps every husband can take to lead effectively: anchoring your priorities, making Spirit-led decisions, serving without keeping score, and setting the tone in your home without fear or insecurity. This message is for Christian husbands who want to grow in faith, build a Christ-centered marriage, and experience the peace and unity that comes when order is restored in the home.If you’re serious about becoming the husband your wife can trust, this is your next step.Interested In Becoming a High Level Husband who is On Fire. Free, and Followed? Click the link. https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

08-27
28:55

Do This To Make Her Feel Emotionally Safe!

Husbands, if you want a marriage that thrives with intimacy, connection, and peace—this one’s for you. Too many men overlook one of the most powerful keys to a strong marriage: making their wife feel safe. When your wife feels emotionally safe, she opens up, trusts you deeper, respects your leadership, and desires more intimacy. But when she doesn’t, she will shut down, pull back, and create distance in the relationship.In this video, Do This to Make Her Feel Safe, we dive into the exact steps Christian husbands can take to build emotional safety in their marriage. From leading with confidence, being stable under pressure, covering her spiritually, and communicating without fear or ego, you’ll learn how to become the husband your wife can fully trust.This is not about being passive, people-pleasing, or just doing what she wants. It’s about walking in godly strength, setting the tone in your home, and becoming the immovable man of God that your wife can lean on. When you do this, your marriage will grow in intimacy, respect, and joy.Your wife doesn’t need perfection, she needs your presence, leadership, and emotional strength. Do this, and she will follow.Desire to become a High Level Husband who is On Fire, Free, and Followed? Then Click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

08-23
43:18

Don't Let Kids Kill Connection!

Marriage thrives on connection, but too many Christian husbands and wives unknowingly let their kids take the center stage—and their marriage suffers because of it. In this video, Don’t Let Kids Ruin Connection, we’ll expose one of the biggest mistakes couples make: allowing children’s schedules, activities, and needs to completely replace time for each other.If you are a Christian husband who wants deeper intimacy, respect, and unity with your wife, you must learn how to prioritize your marriage without neglecting your kids. God designed marriage to be the foundation of the home—kids will leave one day, but your covenant remains. When you and your wife stay connected, your children actually grow up stronger, healthier, and more secure in their faith.We’ll cover practical ways to protect your marriage from busyness, set boundaries with kids, and reclaim the passion and connection God intended. This is not about ignoring your children—it’s about showing them what real love, leadership, and biblical marriage looks like.If you want to grow in faith, strengthen your relationship, and build a family legacy that lasts, this message is for you.Interested in becoming a High Level Husband who is On Fire, Free, and Followed? Click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

08-20
31:35

The Power Of A Praying Husband! Ft. Petia Burns

A husband who prays is a husband who leads. In this episode, Tommy is joined by powerhouse Petia Burns. They dive deep into the power of a praying husband and how it can radically transform your marriage, strengthen your faith, and align your home with God’s will. Prayer is not a backup plan—it’s a husband’s primary weapon for protection, provision, and leadership in the family.We’ll cover how consistent prayer over your wife and marriage invites God’s presence, breaks spiritual strongholds, and builds unity that nothing can shake. Many Christian husbands underestimate how their spiritual authority is strengthened when they seek God daily—not just for their own needs, but for their wife’s heart, their children’s future, and their marriage mission.Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, the way you pray as a husband can change everything. You’ll learn practical ways to pray with confidence, scriptures to declare over your family, and how to use prayer as an act of leadership—not passivity.If you want a marriage that honors God, blesses your wife, and leaves a lasting Kingdom impact, it starts on your knees.Desire to become a High Level Husband who is on Fire, Free, and Followed? Then click the linkhttps://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprintHelping Christian women clarify their calling, share their testimony, and build purpose-driven businesses without hustle.Petia Kolibova (Burns) is a faith-led business and visibility mentor. podcast host. and speaker who helps Christian women turn their God-given stories into impactful platforms through podcasting, speaking, and mentorship. A former New Age entrepreneur transformed by faith. Petia now equips women to grow aligned businesses rooted in peace. purpose, and biblical truth. Through her podcast Made to Impact. she empowers women to rise in visibility, clarify their message, and multiply their legacy for God's glory.Instagram https://www.instagram.com/petiakolibova?igsh=MTQ2cmZwazFxY2V6bg==

08-16
01:10:38

If Your Wife Resists Your Growth... Keep Going!

Husbands, if you’re serious about building a strong Christian marriage and becoming the man God has called you to be, you must learn how to keep going when your wife pushes back against your growth. In this video, we reveal why resistance from your wife is often a sign that you’re breaking old patterns, stepping into true masculine leadership, and restoring biblical order in your home.Many Christian men quit too early because they misinterpret pushback as failure—when in reality, it’s proof that change is happening.You’ll discover how to stand firm in your faith, lead with love and conviction, and inspire lasting transformation in your marriage by showing—not telling—your wife who you are becoming. We’ll dive into practical steps for husbands to stay consistent, lead spiritually, and grow in character even when it’s uncomfortable.If you’re ready to stop waiting for your wife to change and start being the change, this teaching will equip you to lead your marriage to honor God, build intimacy, and set a standard your wife and family can follow.Want to become a High Level Husband who is Fire, Free, and Followed? Then click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

08-13
33:36

Show Your Wife - Do Not Tell Her!

Husbands, stop telling your wife you’ve changed— start showing her. In this powerful episode, we break down why your transformation means nothing without visible fruit. Words are cheap. Your wife has heard the apologies, the promises, and the plans. But what she’s waiting for is proof. Real change is proven through consistent action, not emotional speeches.If you’re a Christian husband trying to rebuild trust, restore intimacy, or reestablish leadership in your marriage, this video is your blueprint. We’ll teach you how to lead with action, not explanation, how to live out your faith in a way your wife can follow, and how to become the man God designed you to be.This isn’t about manipulating your wife into noticing you. This is about becoming a man who lives with purpose, discipline, and Holy Spirit conviction—a man who leads from identity in Christ, not insecurity or desperation. Stop trying to convince her. Start showing her.Watch now to begin the transformation your wife can actually feel.Want to become a High Level Husband Who is on Fire, Free, and Followed? Then click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

08-07
29:06

Lukewarm Will Not Cut It! Ft. Anthony Luca

Husbands, your marriage will never thrive if your faith stays lukewarm. In this episode, we reveal the hard truth: there are levels to being a godly husband, and lukewarm living is a guaranteed way to lose intimacy, connection, and leadership in your home. This is for Christian men who are serious about building a Christ-centered marriage, leading with strength, and becoming the man their wife and kids can follow.If you’re just going through the motions—spiritually flat, emotionally checked out, and wondering why your wife feels distant—this is your call to rise. We break down the levels of faith, how they directly impact your marriage, and why partial surrender leads to spiritual and relational frustration.This message will challenge you to stop playing it safe, stop pointing fingers, and start walking in real obedience and power. Your wife doesn’t need a churchgoer—she needs a man who is on fire for God, full of courage, discipline, and love.Watch now to discover what separates passive husbands from High Level Husbands.Click the link to become a High Level Husband who is On Fire, Free, and Followed!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

08-02
01:07:40

Lead Your Wife or Lose Your Wife!

In this powerful episode, Lead or Lose Her: Stop Pointing Fingers, we confront one of the biggest traps Christian husbands fall into—blaming their wives instead of stepping into godly leadership. If your marriage feels stuck, disconnected, or frustrating, it may not be because your wife needs to change—it’s because you’re being called to lead.Inside this video, we break down biblical marriage leadership, the danger of passivity, and how spiritual authority begins with ownership, responsibility, and repentance. God designed you to be the head of your household, not to dominate—but to serve, love, protect, and guide with strength and humility.You’ll discover why waiting for your wife to change is a guaranteed path to resentment, how your transformation sparks hers, and the exact mindset shift required to create peace, passion, and purpose in your home.This is for Christian men, husbands, and fathers who want to grow in faith, rebuild trust, and lead a marriage that honors God and inspires their wife to follow.It starts with you.https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

07-30
39:17

Build A Marriage That Shakes Hell!

Want a marriage that honors God and makes hell tremble? This episode unpacks how to build a Christ-centered marriage that doesn’t just survive—but dominates spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. In a world full of passive husbands, distracted wives, and lukewarm faith, it’s time to reclaim your Kingdom authority and establish a marriage that reflects God’s design.Whether you’re a Christian husband looking to lead better, a wife longing for alignment and peace, or a couple desperate to experience unity, power, and divine purpose—this message is your roadmap. We reveal the biblical principles and battle-tested strategies to restore order, ignite passion, walk in purpose, and shake the gates of hell with the strength of your covenant.This isn’t fluffy marriage advice. This is a call to warfare, worship, and leadership. It’s time to step into your God-given roles and co-labor in a marriage that destroys darkness and reflects heaven.Interested In Coaching? Click the link!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

07-26
43:38

2 Steps To have Fruit In Your Life and Marriage!

Want lasting transformation in your life, marriage, and faith? It all starts with these two biblical steps: confession and repentance. In this powerful video, we break down the exact process that leads to real, lasting fruit—not just behavior change, but deep spiritual growth.Too many Christians struggle with the same patterns over and over, wondering why breakthrough never comes. The truth is: without honest confession and true repentance, there can be no freedom. If you’re tired of fake apologies, surface-level change, or cycles of guilt and shame, this teaching is for you.Whether you’re a Christian husband trying to rebuild your marriage, a man seeking purpose and healing, or a believer wanting to finally see the fruit of the Spirit in your life—this message is a game-changer. We don’t just talk theory—we give you practical, Holy Spirit-led steps to walk in the fullness God has for you.No more lukewarm living. No more bondage. Just bold, biblical truth that leads to transformation.Confess. Repent. Bear fruit.Interested In Coaching? Click the link below!https://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

07-19
48:17

You’re Right… It Is Your Wife’s Fault! Ft. Paul Hansen

You’re right… it is your wife’s fault. But not the way you think. In this bold and eye-opening episode, we flip the narrative and reveal how your wife’s pain, pressure, and even push back might be the very thing God is using to forge you into the man—and husband—you were always meant to be.If you’re a Christian husband frustrated, misunderstood, or stuck in a marriage that feels cold or disconnected, this video will hit home. We dive deep into how the trials in your marriage aren’t punishment—they’re preparation. Her emotional storms are exposing the gaps in your leadership, identity, and spiritual foundation, so you can rise into a man who is strong, stable, and Spirit-led.What if her brokenness is God’s way of breaking you open, too? What if her pain is producing your purposeThis isn’t about blame, it’s about building. And in the end, you’ll thank her for the fire that helped refine youWatch now and become the husband she can finally feel safe to follow.Interested In Coaching? Click the link belowhttps://www.highlevelhusband.com/bmr-blueprint

07-12
49:39

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