Himeros Backstage

Hosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!

Episode 305: Full Moon Ritual + Prom Night

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about sugar-free drink mixes and their unintended digestive consequences, how Davey might make his stance on monogamy more flexible, and their high school and prom experiences.  

04-26
01:01:27

Episode 304: The Stripper + Phoenix

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coaches Finn Deerhart and Court Vox in a conversation about embracing our middle-aged bodies, Finn's brief experience as a go-go dancer, and threesome advice for beginners. Plus: a bonus astronomy lesson from Davey!

04-12
57:27

Episode 303: The Release + Close Shave

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about tight holes, how authentic OnlyFans really is, and how to relate to someone else's kinks.

03-29
01:00:25

Episode 302: The Gift + Masked Man Tag Team

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about dressing authentically, gang b*ngs vs c*m dumps, and how to practice compersion in a non-monogamous relationship.

03-15
59:17

Episode 301: What's Wrong With My Dick

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about popper storage, rim seats, soft cocks, and how we might change the toxic relationship we have with our erections. Plus: a surprise guest appearance by Davey's mom!

03-01
01:00:12

Episode 300: Ancestral Echoes + Aphrodite

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.

02-16
55:36

Episode 299: Attention Whore

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.

02-02
52:20

Episode 298: Bully Pulpit

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate. 

01-26
57:15

Episode 297: Bonking Bonobos

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.

01-19
53:52

Episode 296: Thrall

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.

01-13
58:40

Episode 295: Digital Divide

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers. 

01-05
53:33

Episode 294: Black and White

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Taylor Swift's relevance, how our mothers are connected to our sexuality, finding the balance between artistic freedom and popular appeal, and the highs and lows of 2023. 

12-29
59:15

Episode 293: Sensation Play

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unexpected kindness in rural Rhode Island, whether humankind is learning from its past mistakes, and how to tune in to your body by experimenting with new sensations.

12-22
58:53

Episode 292: Clownin' Around

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about solstice rituals, why a mumu might be the perfect clothing item, how to feel comfortable taking up space in the world, and eroticizing our fears.

12-15
59:12

Episode 291: Edge Me

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss advent calendars, Himeros.tv's 12 Days Of Pleasure, how to get started with poppers, and to answer questions about casting for porn shoots.

12-08
59:52

Episode 290: F*** Like Bunnies

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about getting comfortable with being alone, public nudity, and how to feel less shame about our naked bodies.

12-01
01:00:50

Episode 289: Open Me

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how much bad news humans can actually handle, why seeing real couples in porn is sexy, and why Davey keeps being banned from dating apps.

11-24
56:38

Episode 288: Stable Hand

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about foreskin regeneration, horse fairs, how our society cultivates shame in children, and why we might want to avoid the terms "open" or "closed" when defining a relationship. 

11-17
58:24

Episode 287: Teaching The Tutor

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the Rhode Island swinger scene, what to do if you're getting attention from someone you don't find attractive, and what advice they would give to older gay men and college boys. 

11-10
01:00:02

Episode 286: The Breakdown

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss weed butter recipes, milking, exercising control or surrendering during sex, and why sex parties and slings can be freeing. 

11-03
58:51

Darkmann

Insightful and inspiring!

12-01 Reply

Darkmann

RE body odour: I would rather someone smell like they smell as just a natural human, rather than plaster a whole bunch of synthetic crap over themselves that you can smell from several metres away. *That* is forcing your odour on someone.

09-21 Reply

Darkmann

Fuuuck... Duane's voice 🥰

05-07 Reply

Darkmann

I love Duane's voice soo much 🥰

03-05 Reply

Darkmann

Yo! I was just binging some of these! Looking forward to this one!

12-11 Reply

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