How Can I Help? - with Dr. Gail Saltz

It’s safe to say 2020 was one of the most difficult years, ever, for so many…and these remain very challenging times. That’s why I’m here to ask you… How Can I Help? My name is Dr. Gail Saltz, I’m a clinical associate professor of psychiatry at the New York Presbyterian Hospital, a psychoanalyst, best-selling author, and I’m here to help. Join me every Friday on this podcast where you can ask your most pressing questions and get helpful guidance on topics ranging from coping with anxiety and mood, relationships, to family and parenting issues, to workplace dynamics, to dealing with Covid fatigue, and everything in-between. While it has been a tough time, you don’t have to navigate it alone. So… How Can I Help? You can send your questions anonymously to me at HowCanIHelp@senecawomen.com, and I will answer with specific advice and understanding.

Friends With Money: How Not to Resent Them

When a wealth gap opens between you and a friend, it's hard not to be envious or try frantically to keep up. Dr. Saltz tells how to tame those feelings, and keep the relationship intact.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

04-19
16:19

How Can I Persuade My Daughter Not to Be a Teen-Age Bride?

A mother whose daughter wants to marry young knows that love doesn’t conquer all. Dr. Saltz tells her how to get the message across while still being supportive.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

04-05
15:35

When the Pain is Real, But the Disease Isn’t

Make no mistake: hypochondriacs are definitely suffering—especially from the constant worry about the conditions they think they might have. Negative test results won't necessarily banish the anxiety, but Dr. Saltz reveals what does work.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

03-22
21:23

Just Because We’re Ex-Spouses, Does That Mean We Can’t Be Friends?

Co-parenting is one thing, but what are the consequences when you develop a deep friendship with your ex? Dr. Saltz helps a listener navigate this tricky and often uncomfortable territory.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

03-08
20:02

The Case for Having More Sex

Too many couples are having too little sex, says Dr. Saltz. She tells how to restart your sex life--because it’s good for your physical  health, your mental health, and the health of your relationship.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

02-23
23:57

The Single-Parent’s Guide to Guilt-Free Dating

Yes, it’s hard to juggle time-restricted schedules, and you may worry that you’re shortchanging your child, but you, and your kids, will benefit when you enjoy a strong, adult relationship, says Dr. Saltz.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

02-09
14:28

Single on Valentine’s Day? What Not to Do

Don’t believe the Valentine's hype, says Dr. Saltz. Don’t fall back into old, bad relationship habits. And do remember that love doesn’t come only in heart-shaped red packagesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

01-26
15:38

A New Year’s Resolution That Will Never, Ever Work

A listener’s boyfriend wanted her to make a joint resolution with him: They would each vow to lose 10 pounds in 2024. Dr. Saltz reveals why that type of resolution is doomed to failure—and tells what does work when you’re plotting new goals for the new year.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

01-12
15:30

Dealing With Family Gaslighting Around the Holidays

When a woman suffers from a family member's regular gaslighting at the holidays Dr. Saltz advises how to halt that behavior in its tracks and get the holiday back on a better footing.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

12-29
19:27

When Friends Betray Friends

Few things are as hurtful as learning that someone you thought was your friend has betrayed your trust—whether it’s bad-mouthing you, sharing your private info with the world or cutting you off socially. Dr. Saltz tells how to get past the resulting self-doubt and determine whether this is a relationship worth saving. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

12-15
19:04

How to Get Control of Your Emotions

Overwhelmed? Consumed by Negativity? Saying Hurtful Things When You Don’t Mean To? Dr. Saltz Reveals How to Stop Those Runaway Feelings and Return to Being Your Nice, Normal Self.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

11-17
19:53

When All the News Seems to Be Bad News

Social media and 24/7 coverage of current world events is stressing people out—making them anxious, angry and sleepless. Dr. Saltz tells how some simple habit changes can bring relief.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

11-03
19:26

A Holiday Guide to Mothers-In-Law

How to cope—and keep your sanity—when your spouse’s mom tries to take over Thanksgiving, Christmas or any other festivity.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-20
16:07

Caregiver Burnout? Why You Must Put Yourself First

Caregiver burnout is a real thing and can result in depression as well as physical health issues. Dr. Saltz tells how to get past the guilt, resentment and fatigue, and make the situation better for you and the loved one you’re caring for.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-06
19:12

Crying in the Office? How to Stop It Before It Starts

Expressing emotion is not a sign of weakness, says Dr. Saltz. But if crying is hurting you professionally, there are some easy, effective techniques you can use to contain it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

09-22
29:21

How to Love Your Body Again

Everyone has a body part they’re dissatisfied with, but worrying about thigh jiggle and tummy flab is more than just annoying—it can get in the way of a fulfilling sex life. Dr. Saltz advises a listener whose unhappiness over her post-baby weight gain is coming between her and her husband.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

09-08
16:02

Pick Up Your Knitting Needles or Crochet Hooks: Crafting Is Great for Mental Health

And it’s not just the yarn arts. Science shows that crafting hobbies in general can boost mood, reduce stress, increase self-esteem, and improve motor skills. Dr. Saltz tells why these pastimes are so good for mind and body. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-25
15:40

Banishing Back-To-School Stress

Mean girls and boys, active shooter drills, social media—the thought of these and more can create anxiety as students head back to the classroom. Dr. Saltz tells how parents can set children up for success and happiness in the year ahead.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-11
24:18

How to Do What You Don’t Want to Do

Self-discipline is hard for some people: Meeting deadlines, doing unpleasant chores or eating heathy food is a challenge for them. Dr. Saltz tells how to “flip the script” on a lifetime of delay and avoidanceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-14
22:53

When Ordinary Sounds Set You Off

For some people, the typical human sounds that other people make—eating, chewing or even breathing—can trigger extreme anger, rage and disgust. It’s an actual condition, called “misophonia,” and Dr. Saltz tells how to deal with it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-30
23:00

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