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You don’t have to hit rock bottom. You don’t need to call yourself an alcoholic. And you definitely don’t have to commit to never drinking again if that feels too scary.
How to Drink Less is for anyone who’s ready for a healthier, more intentional relationship with alcohol—whether you’re just starting on your sober-curious journey, trying to cut back on drinking, or looking for a new way to control alcohol cravings without relying only on willpower.
Hosted by sobriety coach and hypnotist Adriana Cloud, this podcast combines practical neuroscience, psychology, and mindset coaching to help you:
—understand why you drink (and sometimes overdrink);
—retrain your brain’s reward system and habit loops;
—stop drinking on autopilot;
—manage cravings without feeling deprived;
—build confidence and emotional resilience as you drink less;
—feel more in control around alcohol.
No judgment, no scare tactics, and no pressure to be perfect—just practical tools and compassionate support from someone who’s been there.
As a former daily drinker, Adriana knows firsthand how challenging it can be to break a habit that's been decades in the making. Now, as a certified Gray Area Drinking coach and hypnotist, she uses her training and personal experience to help others take the leap and build the beautiful sober (or sober-ish) life they truly want.
Ready to change your drinking habits and feel better—for good? Start listening today.
Learn more at www.adrianacloud.com.
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This episode is personal. Today, I want to tell you how I went from feeling trapped in a cycle of overdrinking, shame, and self-hatred to helping others break up with alcohol. I became a sobriety coach not because I studied it in a textbook, but because I lived it. I know what it’s like to feel stuck—knowing you're drinking too much but terrified of what life would be like without alcohol. I know the anxiety, the self-judgment, the exhaustion of promising yourself you’ll cut back and going ba...
Have you ever tried to cut back on drinking because your partner or a friend said you should? Maybe you were determined to prove them wrong, or to show them you could change. But if that external pressure was your only motivation… it probably didn’t last. In this episode of How to Drink Less, I’m diving into why change that’s rooted in guilt, shame, or the desire to win someone else’s approval is rarely sustainable—and what works instead. You’ll learn: why motivation from fear and shame keeps...
So many people believe that if they just felt bad enough about their drinking, they’d finally stop. But shame isn’t a good motivator for change—it’s a trap. In this episode, I break down why shame keeps you stuck in the drinking cycle and what actually works instead. You’ll learn: why shame fuels avoidance, not awareness;how it triggers the stress response and sets you up to drink again;the difference between guilt and shame (and why that matters);why it's important to build emotional resilie...
When you reach for a drink, do you know why? And more importantly… do you like your reason? In this episode, we’re setting aside the unhelpful “good” vs. “bad” drinking binary and getting curious instead. I’ll walk you through one of the most powerful questions I use in coaching: "Why am I drinking right now—and do I like my reasons?" We’ll talk about: how to uncover your real motivations for drinking;why judgment doesn’t lead to lasting change—but self-awareness does;what it looks like to ma...
If you’ve ever said, “I need a drink to unwind,” this episode is for you. Whether it's after a long day at work, a chaotic evening with the kids, or a moment of emotional overwhelm, many of us turn to alcohol as a quick fix for stress. But while drinking might feel like it helps in the moment, the long-term impact on your nervous system, sleep, and overall stress levels tells a different story. In this episode, I break down: why alcohol mimics relaxation but actually adds to your stress and i...
Is it even possible to have fun without alcohol? In today’s episode, I’m breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from clients: that life without drinking will feel boring, flat, or lonely. For years, I believed that too—I thought alcohol was what made things fun. But here’s what I’ve learned: alcohol doesn’t actually create fun. It just numbs the things that are standing in the way of fun. If you’re relying on alcohol to make people more tolerable, events more exciting, or awkwardne...
“I don’t want to feel restricted.” It’s one of the most common reasons people resist taking a break from alcohol or cutting back. But what if the restriction isn’t in saying no to alcohol? What if the restriction is everything you’re missing out on because you’re relying on alcohol to help you relax, feel confident, have fun, connect? In this episode, we explore: the hidden ways alcohol limits your freedom;why if you feel like you need a drink to be OK, then it's not actually a choice y...
Mindset matters. But sometimes, you just want to know what to do. In this episode, I’m sharing 5 practical, doable tips to help you drink less—without needing more willpower or motivation. These are simple habit tweaks you can try right away, whether you’re working on cutting back or just being more mindful. You’ll learn: • why proximity matters more than you think; • how to interrupt the "have a craving = reach for a drink" autopilot loop; • easy drink swaps that help you ...
You’ve probably heard the advice to take it "one day at a time," and in early recovery, that can be incredibly helpful. But what if it’s also what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode, I’m exploring why the one-day-at-a-time mindset can slow down your progress, drain your willpower, and keep you in negotiation mode with alcohol. We’ll talk about: how “one day at a time” keeps you reacting instead of deciding;why identity, not willpower, is the foundation of real change;how decision fatigue ma...
When you find yourself thinking “I need a drink” or “A drink would feel so good right now,” this one powerful question can help you pause, shift your perspective, and choose what actually serves you. In this episode, you’ll learn: • why cravings narrow your attention—and how to widen the frame; • how to recognize that wanting a drink is only one part of the truth; • how asking yourself “What else is true?” or “What else do I want?” helps you to make more intentional choices....
Whether you meant to take a night off and didn’t… Whether you planned to stop at one glass of wine and didn’t… Whether were doing so well with your dry streak and then that night happened… I’ve got you. This episode is for the morning after, when you’re dealing with the hangover, the fog, the regret, the “Ugh, why did I do that?” spiral. I’ll walk you through what to do when you’ve had too much to drink—without beating yourself up or trying to shame yourself into discipline. You’ll learn: how...
Cravings are one of the most misunderstood parts of changing your drinking habit. Recently, I was a guest on Rachel Hart’s Take a Break podcast, and last week I shared part 1 of that conversation as a bonus episode. This is part 2, where Rachel and I are back together for a deep-dive into cravings. We talk about: what most people get wrong about cravings;why having an urge to drink isn’t a problem (and doesn’t require willpower to resist);how humor and curiosity can help you feel more empower...
Ever had one of those days when you’re overwhelmed or exhausted and think, “A drink will make me feel better”? You're not alone—and you're not wrong that it feels like it helps. That first drink brings a rush of dopamine and a temporary sense of relief. But here’s the truth: alcohol can’t actually fix what’s wrong. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: why your brain turns to alcohol when you’re stressed, sad, or burned out;what alcohol can do (temporary sedation) vs. what it can’t do (solv...
This bonus episode is a special one. A few months ago, I was a guest on Take a Break, the podcast hosted by master coach Rachel Hart—creator of the Drink Archetypes and author of The Ultimate Guide to Drinking Less. Rachel has been a mentor and an inspiration to me, and I’ve been lucky to work with her inside her membership. In this conversation, we talk about: why focusing only on “how much” you drink often backfires (as I found out when I myself quit drinking);the power of identifying and s...
Many people assume they struggle to cut back on drinking because they like it too much. But what if you don’t actually like drinking as much as you think you do? In this episode of How to Drink Less, we unpack the difference between wanting alcohol and liking the experience of drinking it. What you discover might surprise you—and it could change everything about how you approach habit change. You’ll learn: the difference between wanting something and liking it in the moment;why we mistake fam...
Most drinking happens on autopilot. One minute you’re thinking about wine… and the next, the glass is in your hand. In this short but powerful episode, I’ll teach you one simple practice that can help you interrupt that cycle and start making more intentional choices about drinking. Inside, you’ll learn: why most drinking happens automatically (and how to interrupt it);how to use a 30-second pause to regain control of your drinking;what questions to ask yourself before you pour a drink;why re...
You’ve decided you want to cut back. Maybe even stop drinking altogether. But how do you actually say no to a drink—especially when everyone else is drinking? In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical steps that help you follow through on your intentions, even when it’s hard. You’ll learn: why relying on willpower alone doesn’t work (and what to do instead);how to plan ahead for situations where alcohol will be present;ways to respond when someone offers or pressures you to drink;two p...
You’ve probably heard the phrase “We’re powerless over alcohol.” It’s one of the most common beliefs in AA and traditional recovery circles. But what if it’s not true? In this episode, I’m challenging how the very idea of powerlessness can keep us stuck in unhelpful drinking patterns. We’ll talk about: why the language you use—especially with yourself—matters more than you think;how habits that feel automatic can create the illusion of powerlessness;the difference between responsibility and b...
We often talk about alcohol as a way to take the edge off—but what if it's also taking the shine off? In this episode, we explore how alcohol doesn’t just dull pain, stress, or anxiety—it also numbs your ability to feel joy, connection, and real pleasure. I’ll walk you through the neuroscience behind this, explain how alcohol rewires your brain’s reward system, and share how numbing the bad inevitably means numbing the good, too. You’ll learn: why alcohol affects your capacity to feel joy in ...
We say we want to drink less. But do we really want to change—or do we just want to avoid the consequences of overdrinking? In this episode, I invite you to look beneath the surface and get radically honest with yourself. We explore what it actually means to change your relationship with alcohol—not just how much you drink, but who you are around alcohol, and why you turn to it in the first place. Tune in to explore: why simply avoiding the negative effects of alcohol isn’t the same as real c...
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